Ever caught your kids smoking bud?

You guys ever caught one of your kids smoking bud?

A few years ago my 16 year old son had his buddy stay the night and his buddy went outside at like 10pm. I look out the window and see him go behind the garage. I'm like what the fuck?

I sneek over there and I' walk right up behind him and say, "What the fuck you doing?"

"Well Mr. so and so, you said we couldn't smoke in the house so......"

I say give me that..........he hands it over and I proceed to take a huge hork off the doob he was smokin' it was some damn good hydro'.....

I say....."Cant believe you kids actually smoke this dirt weed." He looked at me reall strange and prolly thought to himself, damn they make better than this? and then I walked away laughing to myself.

Man did I have a glow from that shit man!!

Now my kid is 19 yrs old and we blaze together all the time....I'm actually surprised that the youngins actually get their hands on that sticky stuff.

I wish you were my dad

LOL.....I'm flattered but I have enough kids for the time being.

Ditto @ would you be my dad. :thumbsup:

uve got lucky kids

i grow with my mom and her and my dad are starting to tell me not to but my mom said were gonna grow it and smoke it and it will be our last joint together,im saying ok with a smile on my face and inside im saying ok,and then im gonna smoke more lol.

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Originally Posted by NextLineIsMine

I wish you were my dad

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^^:thumbsup: me four

my dad doesn't know how to use the internet well enough to post on boards...

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Originally Posted by Th3 sand m4n

^^:thumbsup: me four

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Me five! :thumbsup: :smokin:

my mom freaks out about me smoking weed, she says she is heart broken about it. She emailed the entire family directory and told them, and yesterday at the block party she had to announce it too.

Dont get me wrong, I went thru some seriously hard times with my son in his teen years...especially between 13 and 15. I absolutely forbidded him from smoking even though I knew he was doing it.

I preached to him so many times about the dangers of drugs, how I thought that weed was ok but going onto others things is not and smoking at the age of 14 simply would not be tolerated. I know this is when he started (14) and it was hard for me to handle because I knew I started at 16 and that I guess was what I thought to an acceptable age just because that was when I started, but again it would not be tolerated around me to see.

So many kids are starting too young in my mind, but my kid has turned out alright.

Now I cant be everyones dad here.....

Except for the girls over 21.....I'll be glad to "be your daddy"

just kiddin....happily married.

i go as low as 18...

I think a big mistake parents make is the assumption that your kid is actually going to listen to you.
There comes an age where they realize they'll do what they want to do. By punishing your kid for the descisions he/she makes at that age, they'll just not trust you with anything in the future.
IMO, the best approach is to educate them as best as you can, warn them of the truth, actually acknoledge the lies told in schools and on tv, and try to send them off with the protection of truth. Not the pain of blind consequence. It's sad how stubborn my parents were. Eventually, you create whole alternative lives for them to admire and leave you alone.
All becuase of the stubborn blind inability to actually question your own ideals and perspective.
Then there comes the day that the parent stops trying to fashion their child in their image, and see them for the person that they truly are, a completely unique human with it's own feelings and dreams and desires.

Yeah I use to smoke with my dad all the time but he always got dirt shit so I would always say fuck it and bring my shit out I think he did it on purpose to get out of paying because sometimes when i got home he would be smoking some crazy ass shit but never seemed to have it when we smoked. When I'm low and can't get my usual i just head to the nearest high school and get there shit wish I Really like those kids get some crazy ass weed its that or they have the worst shit ever. I wish i was still in school I could just walk to the smoking street find one of the 80 dealers who I knew only fucked with dank and bought. Then I realized that if i hung out with them I could smoke Dank for free so thats what I did

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Originally Posted by Inferius

I think a big mistake parents make is the assumption that your kid is actually going to listen to you.
There comes an age where they realize they'll do what they want to do. By punishing your kid for the descisions he/she makes at that age, they'll just not trust you with anything in the future.
IMO, the best approach is to educate them as best as you can, warn them of the truth, actually acknoledge the lies told in schools and on tv, and try to send them off with the protection of truth. Not the pain of blind consequence. It's sad how stubborn my parents were. Eventually, you create whole alternative lives for them to admire and leave you alone.
All becuase of the stubborn blind inability to actually question your own ideals and perspective.
Then there comes the day that the parent stops trying to fashion their child in their image, and see them for the person that they truly are, a completely unique human with it's own feelings and dreams and desires.

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i think this is one of the problems parents have.... understanding that their kids have a private life just like them selves... they always want the kid to tell them their secerets while at the same time see no reason they should tell the kids their secerets.... also like said they have their own desires and generally no wats going to make them happy and such.....


good post inferius

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Originally Posted by Damon32

You guys ever caught one of your kids smoking bud?

A few years ago my 16 year old son had his buddy stay the night and his buddy went outside at like 10pm. I look out the window and see him go behind the garage. I'm like what the fuck?

I sneek over there and I' walk right up behind him and say, "What the fuck you doing?"

"Well Mr. so and so, you said we couldn't smoke in the house so......"

I say give me that..........he hands it over and I proceed to take a huge hork off the doob he was smokin' it was some damn good hydro'.....

I say....."Cant believe you kids actually smoke this dirt weed." He looked at me reall strange and prolly thought to himself, damn they make better than this? and then I walked away laughing to myself.

Man did I have a glow from that shit man!!

Now my kid is 19 yrs old and we blaze together all the time....I'm actually surprised that the youngins actually get their hands on that sticky stuff.

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Where I live at, myself and others around my age (17) are the ones that are getting the old timers their smoke for them...we're just like you...we want to get high.

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Originally Posted by Inferius

I think a big mistake parents make is the assumption that your kid is actually going to listen to you.
There comes an age where they realize they'll do what they want to do. By punishing your kid for the descisions he/she makes at that age, they'll just not trust you with anything in the future.
IMO, the best approach is to educate them as best as you can, warn them of the truth, actually acknoledge the lies told in schools and on tv, and try to send them off with the protection of truth. Not the pain of blind consequence. It's sad how stubborn my parents were. Eventually, you create whole alternative lives for them to admire and leave you alone.
All becuase of the stubborn blind inability to actually question your own ideals and perspective.
Then there comes the day that the parent stops trying to fashion their child in their image, and see them for the person that they truly are, a completely unique human with it's own feelings and dreams and desires.

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All your posts are worthwhile and make snense.


Its true though. My parents know I dirnk and know I smoke but because I do it in a responsibole way they dont bother me about it.

Still wish my dad would toke with me though I knwo he did at my age for a fact and wish he would try it again with me.

My dad really doesnt care if I do weed i dont think, i think that he cares that my mom cares that i do weed. its messed up, so i just dont get caught by my parents, but damn would i like to toke with my dad....

Interesting subject... I have a 4yrs daughter and I sometimes wonder how I'm going to handle the whole drugs & sex issues when the times comes...

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Originally Posted by funky not a junky

My dad really doesnt care if I do weed i dont think, i think that he cares that my mom cares that i do weed. its messed up, so i just dont get caught by my parents, but damn would i like to toke with my dad....

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Same situation buddy.

And my dad makes fun of me for smoking "dirt weed" all the time. The only weed they've taken from me was some bc's so my dads pissed im paying 10$/g for "dirt weed".

Shit by the time my kid was 18 he was gettin' it for me......

man, i wish my dad was that sweet. i know my dad used to be a stoner back in the day but now he flushes mine down the toilet if he catches me with it. i reckon mums just got him real tight round her finger! haha

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Originally Posted by Tots

my mom freaks out about me smoking weed, she says she is heart broken about it. She emailed the entire family directory and told them, and yesterday at the block party she had to announce it too.

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haha my moms just liek that. fucking annoying

My parents believe the government propaganda. I would take them to the REAL sites with the REAL facts and the REAL proof of weed, but I think they would be very stubborn and lose all trust in me. I'm thinking about doing it when I'm a little older though.

I am 26 and I will never, ever tell any of my family or any of my friends. I would take a lot of shit from everyone.

My parents would freak out. They also don't know about my navel piercing and my tattoo. Remember - I've been living on my own for 8 years now. They are THAT crazy.

Damn Damon, wish I had a dad like you, hell..I wish you were my dad :p.

My dad will smoke with me, he just said "when you're 18 i dont care what you do, or we do"

wow, you guys are lucky...when i was in high school, my parents were so strict(white collar all the way). It always seems to be the moms who really push hard against any considered "drugs." If only she knew that I smoked almost everyday (i cut down alot to forcus on college). Times are definatly changing. When, or if i have kids, I will definatly let them smoke once i think theyre pretty much done with puberty. Many parents complain that there teenagers don't want to be with them anymore and that theres no family time like there used to be; well my family time is going to be started off by smoking a great joint followed by great food and a good movie that we can all enjoy(hopefully my own- Digital Media Production). There is a time and a place for marijuana, and other drugs. When or if I do have children, I will let them know the truth about every drug I have experienced. If they feel like trying it - Il do it with them. Drugs have a purpose - and its not for everyday (marijuana is not a drug) and are used for the learning of life. I have learned some valuble lessons of life while rolling - that is true love. If you never go to church and beleive in God, He only asks one thing of you - that is to love. Rolling helps you see how you've not loved, or it did me. If I was a fluent writer and not a visual person, I could write my ass off in philosphies.

ANyways, im wine drunk and rambling....you have it good, but only you can make it better. Learn and teach. - Love all who love back