my friend doesnt get "horney"

and i guess it really bothers her. she's 16 years old, and she says sometimes she'll start to feel horney for like a minute or two.. but then no matter what shes doing, the feeling just goes away. i'm her best friend (besides her boyfriend) and she talks to me alot about this. I've told her that she probly will begin to get horney, and that part of her maybe just hasnt fully developed yet. Her boyfriend has told her that it doesnt matter to him, but it just really frustrates her. Does anyone hknow what might explain this? is what i've told her probly right?

she needs to practice masturbating alot. it will get her in tune w/her body. r

it doesnt make her horney to masturbate

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Originally Posted by NightProwler

and i guess it really bothers her. she's 16 years old, and she says sometimes she'll start to feel horney for like a minute or two.. but then no matter what shes doing, the feeling just goes away. i'm her best friend (besides her boyfriend) and she talks to me alot about this. I've told her that she probly will begin to get horney, and that part of her maybe just hasnt fully developed yet. Her boyfriend has told her that it doesnt matter to him, but it just really frustrates her. Does anyone hknow what might explain this? is what i've told her probly right?

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Yes, you're right. Having a low sex drive at 16 years old is not something that she should be worried about. This is perfectly normal. She's too young - and she may feel insecure because of the extreme amount of sex in advertising and the media. Until the 20th century, many girls in the U.S. didn't have sex at all until marriage, which was usually over the age of 18, with a high percentage being over 20.

According to the medical literature that I've read, most women do not reach their sexual peak until 35 years old - which almost 20 years from now for her, so tell her she's got plenty of time.

I think she should look at some porn, and see what shes into, maybe shes just not into anything shes done yet.

she could be asexual, but doubtful

For cripe's sake, she's only sixteen years old! Not everybody develops their sexuality that young. :dance:

The average girl has not lost her virginity for a at year after 16. Guys are even older for this.

Breukelen advocaat, your really helpful. thanks :)

Most likely because she is not fully developed.

so stimulating her clit doesnt even get her horny??

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Breukelen advocaat, your really helpful. thanks :)

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ya :D


but anyway i dunno that seems a little suprising.... altho now taht i think abt it there are the types of ppl who arent horny.....

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Most likely because she is not fully developed.

so stimulating her clit doesnt even get her horny??

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it does.. she'll get horny for like a minute or two, and then she doesnt want it any more. at all.

I know it's kinda off the topic but my exwife NEVER got horny after our kid was born. We went for about a year and a half only bumpin about once a month that's why shes my ex now though...peace

if shes not horny, she can borrow some of my horniness cause im sooo dam horny i sleep-wank

later

I agree, maybe she hasn't fully developed yet. She may have boobs and stuff, but I mean internally, she hasn't developed.

There were girls at my age like that too.

I would suggest porn or something to get her in the modd, but she's only 16! That's young man, and there's no need to start fucking the first thing she shes because her friends are doing it. A lot of teenagers have sex only because of peer pressure. Only have sex if YOU want to.

Maybe she's a lesbian? I mean, if guys don't do it for her, maybe girls will. Who knows. Give it a few more years.

Women actually don't reach their sexual peak until their early 30's.

Guys on the other, sexual peak is 18 or 19 I believe.

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I agree, maybe she hasn't fully developed yet. She may have boobs and stuff, but I mean internally, she hasn't developed.

There were girls at my age like that too.

I would suggest porn or something to get her in the modd, but she's only 16! That's young man, and there's no need to start fucking the first thing she shes because her friends are doing it. A lot of teenagers have sex only because of peer pressure. Only have sex if YOU want to.

Maybe she's a lesbian? I mean, if guys don't do it for her, maybe girls will. Who knows. Give it a few more years.

Women actually don't reach their sexual peak until their early 30's.

Guys on the other, sexual peak is 18 or 19 I believe.

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more or less what i was going to say :)

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Originally Posted by Not Enough Herb

if shes not horny, she can borrow some of my horniness cause im sooo dam horny i sleep-wank

later

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Loll nice

Dude, everybody's body is unique. Don't stress about it.

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

I agree, maybe she hasn't fully developed yet. She may have boobs and stuff, but I mean internally, she hasn't developed.

There were girls at my age like that too.

I would suggest porn or something to get her in the modd, but she's only 16! That's young man, and there's no need to start fucking the first thing she shes because her friends are doing it. A lot of teenagers have sex only because of peer pressure. Only have sex if YOU want to.

Maybe she's a lesbian? I mean, if guys don't do it for her, maybe girls will. Who knows. Give it a few more years.

Women actually don't reach their sexual peak until their early 30's.

Guys on the other, sexual peak is 18 or 19 I believe.

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nail - on - head.

if shes that worried about it tell her to go to a doctor. A lot of people who have been sexually abused can have issues getting "in the mood" but if that was her problem I think she would already know that.

shes sixteen, the girls i know that are 16 dont get horny except for one or two that i know of.

um...i know alot of women that have kids by the age of 16...not good..but it is a fact...i think that she needs to open her horizons...yes she may be a born lesbian...maybe she is one of those women that likes to be hurt during sex...maybe she likes other things like handcuffs...you know the kinky shit...tell her to give it a try...from the sounds of it ....she is already not a virgin...so....tell her to explore.....

give her a few drinks then try it again

hopefully her boyfriend is not trying to fuck her / fucking her cause that would be not very fun!! Obviously for her I mean. She either needs to physically mature a little more or find the right guy that turns her on. The latter part of course occuring when she is even of age to know what she wants sexually. Until then, tell her to keep her panties on and watch some porn

Maybe her main problem is neither sexual nor biological insofar as stress can induce random effects. She should get professional advice.

I remember back when I was 16, this 15 year old was damn ready for any kind of nasty ass sex you can think of.
But of course, the rest of the girls even the dumb ones whom you would think would be easy going didn't want to have sex till later.
Depends on the girl but chances are 16 is too young for them.

i know lots of 15/16 yrolds that masturbate. it really is a biological thing. hints why my friend did get body hair till he was 16.

we just thought he shaved.
haha

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Guys on the other, sexual peak is 18 or 19 I believe.

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My sexual peak is right now lol.

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Originally Posted by NightProwler

it does.. she'll get horny for like a minute or two, and then she doesnt want it any more. at all.

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maybe she is a lesbian?

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Originally Posted by shilling

maybe she is a lesbian?

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truez, truez..