FUCKED UP FRIEND

Ok so i am extremely pissed right now and i need to vent so im gonna tell you all about how fucked up last nite was.
So im at my friends house and his dad is gone (comming home tomorrow) but his mom is cool w partying. So he has me and 3 other friends over and we got some ganj and some beer (good night, right?). well, he has a shitload of tennis balls in his dads pottery sudio so we get really fucked up and start chuckin them at each other.

tHIS shit goes on for a while, and we start to get really into, i mean like hurling these balls at each other, completely out of control.. So at around 2 a.m. the studio is fucked up and these kids decide to go throw all the tennis balls at his neighbors house. Seeing a possible disaster, i opt out. Well they come running back inside around 10 minutes later all freaked out. I guess the guy came out.

WEll we all crash and think that we'llhave time to get everything sorted out in the morning. After returning from breakfast, we come back to his house to find the man there completely furious nad knowing it was us.. (his dad is the fucking tennis coach). so we leave his house and hope for the best. I call him at around 7 and get his dad picks up the phone (he is back and found out about everyrthing). He says that me and the othe kids are no longer welcome at his house and he might call my parents... i am already in trouble.. so id b fucked.

Now what pisses me off is that my friend had all day to clean up bt he completely ratted on us to his dad and didnt take any responsibility for his actions..he was throwing half the fucking balls. Now i might be really fucked cuz of this fucker..

well sorry to take up a huge amount of space but im really pissed and scared:confused:

fuck him he doesnt sound like a friend

yea hes a fucking dick and hes always been a fucking dick when it comes to owning up to ones actions

I think you need to talk to your friend and his father to see exactely what was said. You could be unwelcome because of the smoking and messing up his studio...which you admitted to already. But, if his dad thinks you were involved in the tennis-balls-at-the-neighbor incident, then you need to straighten that out if you truly played no part in it.

But before you write him off, I'd find out exactely what was said. Something coul d have been lost in the translation.

meh...nothing REALLY bad will happen, right? It'll all be good in the end.

no normally it would.. but not now. see i was caught having a rather large party at my house at the end of the year and ive been on (probation) w my parents all summer, so if he called them id be fucked.
Also what pisses me off is that this kid knows i didn't throw the tennis balls but he wont cover my ass.. although i did break a file or somethin with one of the balls

cowardly friends can't be a good friend.
they'll blame their actions on something or someone else.
they wont admit to their faults.
i say fuck it, he's not worth your time.

you could have been a cool friend and helped him clean it up...

thats what i would have done.

Suck for ya buddy. I hate it for you, but this shit tends to happen when your young. Just learn from your mistakes and move along.

You don't really have anything to worry about as long as you didn't damage anything.

"Throwing a mass amount of tennis balls onto another's property"
can't be more than a misdemeanor/infraction
Like littering

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Originally Posted by BloodAngel

You don't really have anything to worry about as long as you didn't damage anything.

"Throwing a mass amount of tennis balls onto another's property"
can't be more than a misdemeanor/infraction
Like littering

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I agree. I wouldn't worry bout the weed thing either. I'm assuming you don't have anything still around to get busted with. If so, ditch it for a while and take whatever punishment comes your way.

If it makes you feel better I like pina coladas.

Not a freind I'd keep. What happens if he gets busted by the cops....?
He'll rat you out twice as fast as he ratted you out to his ol man.
Anyways shit happens, aint the end of the world

wow your friend is bad at life

Be a man and go to this so called friends house and ask the father for a metting, You, the kid and the dad. See what the dad thinks happened and correct what needs be. That way it's out in the open and you get to defend yourself.
While doing that, it'll be a good time to apologize to the dad for messing up his studio.

What made you guys think throwing tennis balls in a pottery studio was a good idea?
Well, at least you opted out of bouncing balls off the neighbors house.:thumbsup:

In the large scheme of life, this isn't high on the scale of badness.;) It's just a Life Lesson.

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Originally Posted by UncleChunky

Not a freind I'd keep. What happens if he gets busted by the cops....?
He'll rat you out twice as fast as he ratted you out to his ol man.
Anyways shit happens, aint the end of the world

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Absolutely. Once you know you can't trust someone, it's time to leave them behind.
Better he learns this by tennis balls then what you mentioned.
Good post UncleChunky!

go round the house and speak to his dad,

hes throwing the blame off his won trail by blaming his "friends" how arnt there at the time to back themselves up ....go round there tell his dad that you was the only one NOT throwing the balls....your respect his decision and you wont be bothering him anymore but your not taking the blame for something you did not do.

yea thanks everyone.. im not too concerned about the cops being involved, but more what my parents would say. I had 1/4 and we smoked like an 8th that night..so i still got shit around
I dont know about the meeting because quite honestly this kids dad scares me. Also what makes me extremely mad is that this kid had SO MUCH TIME (like 4 hours) to clean all the shit up. Im not concerned about the neighbor incident due to the fact that i wasnt involved

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Originally Posted by Ifyoulikepinacoladas

Also what makes me extremely mad is that this kid had SO MUCH TIME (like 4 hours) to clean all the shit up. Im not concerned about the neighbor incident due to the fact that i wasnt involved

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What would make me really madw is if my buddies came over and made a huge mess and left it all for me to clean it up.

Maybe he was just returning the favour of you guys putting all of the responsibility and shit on his ass. How would you like it if your buddies tore apart a room in your place and left it for you to clean up? See what I'm saying.

You all should have helped clean the place up. Not leave it all for him to clean up.

Yes, it was a dickhead thing for him to do and pussy out, but it was also not cool for the rest of you to leave him hanging to explain for hmiself.

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Originally Posted by TheFatKid

wow your friend is bad at life

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AgreeD! :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by napolitana869

fuck him he doesnt sound like a friend

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agreed, me and my friends have a plan, either no one takes blame or we all do

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

What would make me really madw is if my buddies came over and made a huge mess and left it all for me to clean it up.

Maybe he was just returning the favour of you guys putting all of the responsibility and shit on his ass. How would you like it if your buddies tore apart a room in your place and left it for you to clean up? See what I'm saying.

You all should have helped clean the place up. Not leave it all for him to clean up.

Yes, it was a dickhead thing for him to do and pussy out, but it was also not cool for the rest of you to leave him hanging to explain for hmiself.

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I agree, that was a dick move not helpin him clean up.

eh...wrecking the studio of a house that was good enough to let u party there, then wrecking the neighbours house, and then fucking off? u people are idiots...

yeah if you cant do the time dont do the crime!