a simple question 4 females, whats the first thing u look in 4 a guy?
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a simple question 4 females, whats the first thing u look in 4 a guy?
Will you take advice from bisexual guys?
*sighs*
Why even ask that? I know I've mentioned bringing up sexuality before, but come on. Do you really need to draw attention to yourself? Is your new site in that bad of shape, already?
And to answer your question, no.
...ouch man... You weren't even the one who started this thread. Although I kind of agree with you, simply becuase of my own beleifs on bisexuality, it wasn't really your place to answer that question...Quote:
Originally Posted by Its a Plant
oh god man I take this back.Quote:
Originally Posted by Inferius
All I see around here are people arguing and so much dramatic bs
i'm a coward who doesn't like confrontation
just pretend i never posted this.. :(
Lol, done and done.
We're all friends here. ~
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Originally Posted by Its a Plant
yes
happy times ect~
sooooooo what was this topic about again?
0 women responding to a question directed at them.
Haha, so nowhere yet. Give her time. ~
at the first we don't look a nice ass, tight pussy, good boobs in for a guy lolQuote:
Originally Posted by budsmoker
Women are very easy, they believe everything.If you know "how to play the game"...you always win, but if not... you always masturbate in da house lol
I would have to say personaility and hygein are a big factor. U got a nice personality ur good in ne womens books and u must be clean...stinky guys are nasty and dirty guys, makes u not wanna touch emm or get to know emm.
P.E.N.G.U.I.N although i respect u and your sexual prefrences, no im not gay im proud 2 say im straightQuote:
Originally Posted by P.E.N.G.U.I.N.
I probably first notice the external factors, like good looks, good body, good grooming, intelligent, kind eyes. That's just surface stuff, but since these are the first things people see, they're what I notice. Poor hygiene and bad breath are big turnoffs, which may sound superficial, but it's true for me.
After the first visual impression comes conversation and interaction, which is where I'd consciously look for the make-or-break factors. I look for intelligence and humor, which matter far more to me than the surface stuff. If the guy's humorless or is a fool, that'll become quickly apparent after talking to him.
The best thing in the world is to find someone who has the mix of both a pretty exterior and a funny, compelling, deep interior. When I found one like that, I married him!
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Originally Posted by budsmoker
Women love bastards man, the last thing you want to do is be a foot stall to some bitch. Men think that if they treat the girl nicely and try to be something their not, they will impress, No. If your talking about chatting to girls, they like you to be confident and keep asking open questions, listen to what they have to say and shit, you really don't have to listen to what they say just ask the questions.
ok, how about this for the ladies,
Say u get stranded on the freeway, run out of gas. A guy stops to help u, offers you a ride to go get some gas, he is dressed in construction work clothes and a hard hat (obviously just got out of work), you accept. You are around the same age. Does your acceptance most likely indicate you find him attractive, since you opted not to use his cell phone to call AAA and rather go with him to the gas station?
*At first, you used his phone to call AAA, but the call got lost and he then offered you the gas station idea
lol......gatz
like :
WHY DID THE CHICKEN CROSS THE ROAD?
My answer should be the same; Because that's the only kind of trip the Establishment would let it take.:D
have a good one:thumbsup:
Mory
Well, someone else said, why would a female take a ride from a stranger when she could have just used his phone?
and the female told you the intersection near where she lived
and where she worked
question, is :the chicken came to a fork in the road, and it went left as opposed to right, why left?
Mory, im interested as to what your thoughts on that are, seriously.
You're clearly wanting to find someone who'll say, yes, absolutely, he's made this kind offer of either a ride to the gas station or the use of his phone, is attractive and so, yes, I'll go for it and take this ride and see if it leads to a different kind of "ride" later on. But that's looking at it from the perspective of a guy who sees the motivations of women through the she-wants-me filter.Quote:
Originally Posted by GatzBurst
Accepting a ride to indicate interest isn't generally the way a woman in a stranded-car situation would react. Not one who reads the news, at least. Unless you happened upon a realy naive, clueless female, nost of the girls I know would only accept the ride if they really had no other safer option available. And they'd be on guard during the ride to the gas station wondering if you were an attractive and friendly serial killer or rapist like Ted Bundy
Thank you, thats exactly what i was thinking, and wanted to prove my co-worker wrong, for that same reason.
It happened to him, not me, and i told him kinda what Mory said, which is why i wanted more of her input. I'm married, so i dont have to worry about that kind of stuff anymore, but he tends to think that all girls want him, and im not gay or anything, but he is pretty, a pretty ugly muthafucker!
I would not have wanted my daughter to take a ride from a stranger like she did, but sometimes you gotta do what u gotta do.
I see. Thanks for explaining the history of the story.
Yep, you can ask any woman who's put up with advances from guys in her lifetime. Inevitably the guys who have the she-wants-me attitude the worst are the ugliest and most insecure losers trying to go for the attractive women who are the most out of their reach. Which is why they have to tell themselves "she wants me" so much to help boost their unfortunate self-esteem. Because chances are they've been rejected. A LOT.
Attractive men with normal confidence levels don't have to lie to themselves to feel better. They tend to recognize that if she wants them, she'll eventually let them know. But they know how to play it cool at first and are experienced enough to recognize that if she initially wants them, she'll probably start acting right away like she's not interested at all and playing hard to get.
Youre wrong man. You dont ask open ended embarassing questions. Any real ladies man knows you can be polite but persistent at the same time. You dont have to act like a dick, ladies dont like that kind of shit.Quote:
Originally Posted by MegaOctane12
good nose [no big jew bs], good teeth[no crackhead bs], much taller than me, facial hair is allwwaaays a plus, nice waist, big hands, good sense of humor. and yeah, im not going to lie. i like it when a guy is in complete and utter control over me. he knows he's boss..mmmm me likey
You've got that right. You do sometimes have to do what you've gotta do, even when it's risky. When I was eight and a half months pregnant with my son, I had a tire blow out on LBJ freeway, a huge Dallas 6-lane freeway, one night after dark on my way home. That was 20 years ago, long before cell phones were routine. I was too pregnant to change the tire myself, and traffic was still so heavy that to even attempt it would have been dangerous anyway. I looked for a police car but none of them passed. Fairly quickly, a guy in a truck pulled over and offered to give me a ride to a service station, where I called my husband and waited for him to come get me. My husband didn't like that I'd accepted a ride from a stranger, but there really wasn't any other alternative in that situation. Luckily, the guy who stopped wasn't a criminal. He was just a very nice sort of fatherly type.Quote:
Originally Posted by GatzBurst
i always think these threads are going to be real helpful but in the end their not and u cant just say like o u just do this and this and this and next thing u no ur in bed with them or w/e it is u want
generally the only think that comes usefull is to be able to read body language and to be confidant... wen im talkint to a girl im always looking at her eyes or face to see how she reacts to diferent things..... but u cant be over confidant and say somthing stupid.... each situation is difernt and u need to be able to read it to figure it out
body language is everything. one time this guy was trying to hook up with me and hew as saying the nicest things but at the same time he had a very dominating feeling about him (he was really big) and he just gave off this really strange vibe with the way he was acting toward me so i told him i didnt want to see him any more and like 2 months later i found out he killed a woman. true story- his name was john gaumer.
so to answer the question- i think body langauge is what i notice first about a guy
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Originally Posted by Pipe Dreams
Do you even know what an open ended question is ? Obviously not. You really don't have the slightest clue.
correction, Little Girls love bastards.Quote:
Originally Posted by MegaOctane12
I would MUCH rather go for the calm, laid-back kind of guy with the Family Guy t-shirt and funny jokes, is more on the nerdy side, maybe even a bit overweight than the polo-shirted boring one-dimensional guy with a buzzcut who cares only about his car. A lot of guys are so uninteresting these days; same with girls, a lot of them are the typical blond straightened hair Hollister shoppers who get drunk all the time.
PLEASE HAVE A PERSONALITY and don't be bland! But that doesn't mean be cocky either. And be honest!
looks...im not a girl but i know there just as shallow as guys
in my experience the females find it hard to resist a guy with a guitar
works for me...but strangely enough i dont like meaningless sex(i know strange eh?) i need to know the girl mentally before we enjoy ourselves physically, or it feels weird, but still good, so y not?
When John Gaumer was in high school, another student tried to pick a fight with him. Gaumer, a 6??6? and 225 lb football player, could have wiped the floor with the other student. Nevertheless, no matter what his antagonist said, he refused to take the bait.
But late last Tuesday night, Gaumer, enrolled at UMBC until last week, confessed to police that just four days after Christmas, he beat 27-year-old Baltimore resident Josie Phyllis Brown to death with a blunt object on the side of an I-95 off-ramp and left her body in the woods.
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Originally Posted by poorprincess
correction again, straight woman who know their place love bastards. dykes are the ones who like pussiez:D
Intelligence, Drive/Ambition, Personality, Confidence