tANtRiC sEx

Tantra is an ancient way of looking at the world. In the Tantric view, all life and every aspect of creation including sexuality is celebrated and held as sacred.

The Tantric traditions of ancient India and other cultures viewed sexual energy as the source of life itself and as one of the most powerful forces available to us as human beings. Sexual ecstasy was seen as a taste of the divine. In these sex positive cultures, sophisticated lovemaking skills were developed and taught as a science and as an art. Since we have repressed sexual energy for so long in the West, we are only now beginning to rediscover this precise and highly developed science.

By extending and expanding the peak of sexual ecstasy, erotic explorers of the past found that the act of love could become a natural vehicle for exploring altered states as well as for deepening intimacy between two loving partners.

Many of us have been fortunate enough to experience moments in love where all boundaries dissolve and we become one with our beloved and all of existence. Unfortunately these experiences are usually very short lived. Sex in Tantra aims to heighten and prolong the magical connection that develops between a man and a woman when they are lost in the ecstasy of love. We have not been trained in the skills required to expand that fleeting moment into a sustainable state. As we are now finding out, there are specific techniques that have been developed for achieving and controlling these states. After being suppressed for nearly a thousand years these methods are now being rediscovered and made available in the form of books, videos and workshops.

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The greatest source of energy in the universe is sexual, and places high value on ritualised intercourse. Sexual orgasm is seen as a cosmic and divine experience."

So how do you do it?
Firstly, as a disciple of Tantra, you're required to put aside a certain amount of time every day to 'reconnect' with your partner. You may use this time to lie in bed facing your lover, sharing breathing exercises, or you may prefer simply to touch your lover or run him/her a bath or offer him/her a long, sensual massage. Or the two of you might even partake in a spot of sex. Whichever way you choose to spend this quality time, the point of the exercise is to generate sexual energy. It's a ritual that's supposed to be particularly helpful to women who struggle to find satisfaction from regular, non-Tantric sex because their minds tend to wander to other unrelated matters. These sessions are said to train a gal to be ready and eager for sex at a moment's notice, and to remain focused. And there's something in these daily episodes for her lover, too - it improves his stamina, so he can pump away for a whole lot longer. But there's a rub... a fella must never ejaculate during these reconnection sessions, as the aim is to heighten sexual energy, not to expend it.

Practice makes perfect...
Needless to say, it takes practice for a bloke to come over and over. In the first instance, he needs to learn to control his pubococcygeus (PC) muscle, which roots his penis to his body. Once he has learnt how to contract this muscle at will, he will be capable of taking himself to the brink of orgasm, squeezing hard, then climaxing without spilling his seed. So there it is, Tantric sex in a nutshell. To summarise, it's all about learning to slow down. Once you've learnt the Tantric ropes, sex stops being an act that you're simply doing - something that perhaps you feel a little detached from, like you're observing yourself from a distance - and you become more absorbed in the act of making love, fully 'in the moment'. As a result, sex becomes a more serene, spiritual experience.


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women who struggle to find satisfaction from regular, non-Tantric sex because their minds tend to wander to other unrelated matters.

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too true. haha

good shit.

i bet it would be nice i just dont have the patiance to learn it so....

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Originally Posted by Euphoric

Practice makes perfect... it's all about learning to slow down.

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come again?

I'd love to try sumthing like that but i am pretty sure my boyfriend wouldn't. HE'S kindda to pre occupied with weed or other girls... from school.

Thrusting patterns are the subject of much discussion in the ancient texts. Men tend to think that deeper is better because they see her shiver and moan when they thrust hard. But it's not that simple. As in art so in life. Variety is the spice. In practice, it is enough to keep in mind three things: Tease her clitoris with your lingam before you enter. When you enter, stay just inside, just the head of the lingam or a little more. The nature-oriented Taoists likened this strategy to a turtle that sticks his head just a little out of his shell -Turtle Resting. Once you begin to move, don't just vary by going side to side or in circles. Try three or six or nine shallow, followed by one deep. When you do go all the way, thrusting "to the North Star" as the Taoists would say, tighten the anal muscles. It will make the head of your lingam swell. However you do it, this pattern will set up a tough and tender rhythm of shallow, shallow, shallow deep., shallow , shallow, shallow deep
She will be looking forward to your deep move and may greet you with a vigorous thrust from her own pelvis.

From the Ancient Secrets of Sexual Ecstasy Video:
http://tantra.com/tantra2/10-110.html

that is so FUCKING sexy.

Good posts man

I've always been intrigued by the idea

But now I wanna try it out

Anyone who has ever tried it says its the best sex in the world

Now I have been inspired

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the only time my mind wanders is when the sex is really bad....

I once heard:

"sex is a race. Whoever comes first wins!":D

I guess my lingam's my dick? Sounds like a fun thing to do. Pretzels....yeah........munch,munch.....slurp,slur p.......munch,munch.....and.....what were we talking about?.....oh yeah, my dick.....slurp

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Some thoughts about orgasming together. This is written from the stand point as a guide for men.

Possibly the best sex is in the evening after the man has had a nap and feels well rested and ready to please.

Starting in the spoon position (I PUT A PIC OF THE SPOON) with the man behind and the woman held into his chest facing away with as much of the body in contact as comfortable. And now just breath into the woman's ear. The man will tune into what the woman is feeling. As he feels that she is riding the wave of sensation. He will feel a strong desire to start gently touching her ear with his tongue. Do follow the woman's energy and feel the needs in her this is creating. Let go of the male energy of wanting to hurry to completion. Have no thoughts other than just what is happening at the moment. Let the waves of joinment guide the next tiny step. Savor each tiny step, be ready at any second, for the energy to desire a rest. Use these times to connect with the lover. Feel love, breath in light, God and feel the heart center feel warm and full, exhale this to surround and nourish your partner. Feel that everything all around is benefiting from this process.

Continue feeling where the joined waves move you, or if the waves of connection, desire connection and sharing love with each other. Move on to other areas of the female body as directed by the joined connection.

Essentially the intention of the encounter is to totally connect, share love and see God in your self, partner and surroundings. As the waves of sexuality peak through this intention. Let her energy guide your movements.

Eventually you will be guided to move on to feeling the sensations of her whole body, try to stay away from the sexually charged areas like breasts and bottom and between the legs until last. This could easily last over an hour with out touching these sexual areas.

Often she will instinctual move so as to maximize contact with areas she needs touched. Just play with these areas with out any thought of anything else. Forget about any idea of completing your time with even this area. Allow eternity to last as long as you are internally guided to caress her energy here. Rather than thinking of touching her body imagine your energy coming from your body and joining with the energy in her body. Feel and internally see the movement and Will of this energy. Think of floating naked in the ocean. You are part of the ocean like a drop of water in the ocean, moved by the Will of the Ocean. Allow the Ocean of energy to move you and tease your joined sexual desires and connection.

Eventual the Ocean will bring you to the vagina area.

By this time she could not stand not having your groin area near her groin area. Think of an inward spiral with the center of the spiral being her clitoris. The Waves in the Ocean will start you at the outer edge of this spiral and eventually you will end in the center. Allow your self to be reluctant to move to the center. Maximize your enjoyment of slowing the decent of the spiral to her clitoris. When the awareness in finally only on the two groins in close proximity, a nice position is the woman laying on her back with her legs as far open and her knees raised in the direction of her ears as much as comfortable, heals resting on his low back area. The mans arms will go under her shoulders and his palms will hold the back of her head. thus creating a kind of open pocket with the upside down V legs of the clitoral nerves that run from the clitoris along the inner labia and into the vagina. The penis will slide from her opening almost to her clitoris slowly and very connected.

Keep the point of contact between the penis and stimulated area on the woman well lubricated. By dipping the penis occasionally into the vagina. The goal is for there to be no friction between the penis and contact with the woman's area now.

Looking into each others eyes and seeing God or infinity in the other persons eyes, helps now. Gradually the movement of the penis will become faster, as this happens the woman will take over being active and the man will become passive, eventually the man stopping his movement completely. As the speed increases the mans movement will come to a stop and what will take over is an instinctual tiny jerking of the woman's hips. As she is instinctual moved to tiny jerks of her hips her intention is for the penis to not come into contact with the clitoris, starting each tiny stroke near the opening and ending each stroke below the clitoris. She may now take over completely and do what feels best. Just stay away having the penis touch the clitoris until the woman can not put off orgasm any longer. Now that she feels she must orgasm she may allow the penis to contact her clitoris. And allow the orgasm to explode her awareness into the cosmos, joining her completely with her partner and God.

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