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hey...i got a question...say ur having sex wit a guy...and hes gonna bust a nut...would u consider it normal if the dude pulled out...and went down on you...and then when he thinks he regained his stamina, he starts again??...would that be awkward???
no it isn't weird, doing something to try to make the sex last longer is always appreciated by me at least (and i'm sure most females). If you are going down on the girl right after pulling out, that is still keeping her pleasure going and probably making it better for her anyway (more of a tease, change of sensation and great stimulation). :thumbsup:
Exactly what i was gonna say...its not like u gonna quit u are still going and turnin her on more so its all good. Just makes her have a better orgasim and u too.. :dance:Quote:
Originally Posted by WeedFaerie420
wouldn't bother meQuote:
Originally Posted by game
my bf tried it before and its makes it better
definatly not awkward, do it.
you know what feels really good? climaxing at the same time as your partner. DAAAAYYUUMMMMMM you wanna talk about one HELL of a fucking orgasm
That sounds like a great idea, considerate of the guy if he's not stimulating her clitoris, and more variety than the ol' push and shove ;)
I'd say surprise her!
i have a question for the ladies. why aren't you more ambitious when looking for men? you all seem too timid. you should make the first move sometimes, lest a man fails to realize you're interested in him.
also a second question. what do you do to show a guy you're interested in him? i know many guys mistake a woman's friendlyness as being sexually interested in him.
In my experience, and I'm an admitted old lady now compared to you, Ian, one ever read me or my girlfriends as timid. When we found someone we were interested in, we'd let him know. But that's something that'd be more likely to be in private in how we'd respond on a date than something others would pick up on. Typically you play it cool the first few dates till you make sure you like him and he's interested in you, and then if you like him, you respond to his advances and keep going out with him and/or, in time, initiating plans to do further dating/together.
I know y'all don't do quite as much dating and do a lot more straight-to-the-hookup thing nowadays. If you could do more courting of the girls and they wouldn't put out so easily, I think the relationships would benefit.
We show guys we're interested in how we respond to their kiss and their touch. In how we flirt. In whether or not we say yes to dates and other things. In what we say in emails and IMs. At least if we're not game-players that's how we show 'em--the direct way. But smart girls won't be blatant about showing it real early in the acquaintance.
very good points you have made here. however, the key word is "SMART GIRLS" :) i haven't found many "smart girls" in my time. in fact, i'd say most people in my generation are just plain dumb ass brainless morons--girls included. not that im arrogant, it's just that... well. take a good look around you.Quote:
Originally Posted by birdgirl73
when you said "smart girls wont be blatant...", could you elaborate more? are smart girls not as blatant because they feel they might ruin any potential future with their dream man by being blatant?
also, in response to what you said about courting ladies... i'm not even sure how to court a lady. in my experience, women are big dumb sluts. sorry if that sounds harsh-- it's just that, well, it's what i see most often. I'd like to clarify that I'm not some sexist, calling all women sluts. indeed there are many , many fine women out there--both in personality and in looks. just not around me, and none my age. I find that as the years go on, girls become even sluttier and sluttier (is sluttier even a word?) at younger ages. for example, i know of girls losing their virginity at 13 years old. while that might not be big news to anybody who'se been around for a while, i'm sure we can all agree on some level that girls are becoming more promiscuous (sp?) and are being exposed to sex at a much younger age. perhaps that's the reason why they're more "sluttier".
okay well anyways, that would be another topic all together. any feelings on the subject?
o yeah man^^ all the girls i know put out to there first high school bf when they were 13/14, its getting pretty ridiculous...
ive gotta agree with this... most of the girls in my grade annoy me and i cannot see haveing any relationship with them which is wat i rlly wantQuote:
Originally Posted by IanCurtisWishlist
Well, in regards to smart, desirable girls, I simply mean that they tend not to be real obvious in how they feel, whether they're interested, etc., till they get to know you. So they wouldn't be blatantly aggressive or flirtatious right away, and they wouldn't dream of getting sexual nearly as quickly as some of the less desirables do. They'd be smart in that they'd take their time and have the self-esteem to know they deserve someone who'll treat them well and wouldn't just have sex right away without any type of emotional-intellectual-friendship connection. Perhaps an even better word would be "selective" than smart. I think their behavior truly has more to do with self-esteem than intellect.Quote:
Originally Posted by IanCurtisWishlist
Sorry your experience of women has been so negative. I can't remember if I've read your precise age, but I'm guessing somewhere around 16 or 17. I saw your creative writing exercise on the other thread and could tell you had some stuff to vent. The girls will likely get better and smarter as you get further in school and up into college. They'll also get less silly and cliquish and giggly and knuckleheaded as they mature more. Sometimes guys' attitudes toward girls are colored heavily by their relationships with the grown women in their lives, so if you don't have a good relationship with your mom/stepmom/grandmom/sister(s), it would follow that you'd have some negative opinions of girls. Also, if, as I gather, you've just been through a breakup or rejection of some kind, that could affect your attitudes.
If you want me to tell you what I think on the subject of "courting" from a female perspective, I will. I'm just going to go get a Diet Coke for a moment. If you prefer that I quit writing, I can do that, too.