my sister is smoking

i found out today that my sister is smoking cigarettes. ugh. everyone tells me im a complete hypocrite since i smoke weed.. but, i have no idea why.. i just cant stand cigarettes.. weed doesnt bother me at all. i just find cigarettes to be worse for some reason (in my mind).. and its not even that. i may be a hypocrite, but shes my little 14 year old sister - and shes not even really 14 in my mind.. in my mind shes still 10 and she still needs me to protect her and shes still so innocent and perfect in my eyes. i dont know, maybe im making a big deal out of nothing? but it really bothered me.

well, ive been smokin ciggies for a few years.. i kept it secret from my whole family, even my brothers and sisters coz theyre all way older than me.. but a year or two ago, my nephew started smoking ciggies.. he was 12 or 13 at the time, but i knew if i told him to stop then hed tell everyone i smoked lol, now he smokes weed and drinks and theres nothin i can do.. i dont actually mind him smokin weed, but i flipped when i found out (i know everyone round the area he hangs, it used to be my old spot, so they tell me everythin about everythin) that hes been doing ecstacy! dude hes only like 14 lol im gona ick his ass when i see him, but i digress

as for ur sister, maybe u should sit her down and talk to her.. explain to her how sucky cigarettes are, and maybe if she wont quit, at least tell her that if she has to smoke anythin then it should be weed.. i know it sounds stupid, but get her fucked on a couple of bongs until she whities and shell never do it again lol or make her smoke a whole 20 pack in one go til she never wants to smoke again.. meh, i dunno, im not good with 'kids' lol

Dont ever tell you i didnt tell you so ;) You should talk to her and tell her to be carefull and smoke some weed with her you will bond soo much better just think about what you were doing when you are 14 and u should relise that shes just being a kid as you were when u were that age.You can be a hipacrite(sp?) all you want about the things she does but she will still do them no matter what you tell her.Its just the way things are so u might as well make the best of the situation.Good luck :)

thanks for the advice you guys ;] i will probably end up talking to her.. but she hates weed.. my grandparents have her brainwashed, thinking that weed is so much worse than cigarettes. bah!

ahh society.. my neighbor is in 7th grade and he's dipping and i see him always doing that thing with his hand packing the tin and he's like 5 feet tall lol

my moms brainwashed like dat, my dad isent tho, neway, im her age and i can honestly say from experience, ciggarettes fuck u over and it done take long, i smoked for a year and i had to quit because i couldent do ne of my sports ne more, i stick to smoking the pot, but i must say, theres nothing like a ciggarette at lunch time..ahh...
and ciggarettes stunt ur growth, im 14 and 6"2 so im not to worried about it but lol, sit her down have a talk wit her, and if she keep smoking than theres nothing u can do but she'll come to her senses wen shes being a kid and trying to play soccer or something and she falls over

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Originally Posted by GHoSToKeR

make her smoke a whole 20 pack in one go til she never wants to smoke again..

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lmfao toker sweety, u just sounded like my mom:p. She did that to me and all it did was make me sick for a min and i still kept smokin :rolleyes: .

Im a little older then your sister and i used to be a heavy smoker. I stopped when i got out of breath from walking up the stairs.

Talk to your sister, but if she doesnt listen let her keep smoking. She will soon see the effect they have on you and she might want to quit. Ciggarettes...they steal your youth.

I never carry my own ciggs because then ill smoke to much, but all my friends smoke ciggs and i always just get ciggs off them. It sucks because i dont want to smoke anyway.

But like kyle said, there is nothing like a cigg after a meal. Its so relaxing.

if she wants to smoke no one can make her stop, when i found out my sister smoked weed i got her so stoned she was pukin all night now she just has a few tokes which dont bother me aslong as she dont get wasted around ppl she dont know never know what can happen thts why i got my sis so wrecked to show her wat state she can get in

i just found out today that my supposed friend had known she was smoking and didnt tell me. when i confronted her about it she laughed (she didnt think i was upset) and said, "she asked me not to tell." then i got really really pissed and it was obvious, and she backed off and apologized and told me that she thought i had known.. woah woah.. let me see.. why the fuck would my sister ask her not to tell me if i had known? so not only did she keep something important from me, but she also tried to lie to me about it. oi. some people. :rolleyes:

She probly asked her not to tell cuz she thought you would flip. Which you kind of have
You're not gonna make her stop smoking by goin mad at her, that'll just make her feel bad and in the future she won't EVER come to you when she needs help. You got to accept that she's growing up and over the next 4/5 years will no doubt experiment with copious amounts of substances, and sex, just like every1 has done, but instead of critisizing(sp?) her just keep in mind shes the same person, smoking, drinking, having sex don't really change the person you are, but it will make ppl look at you differently, either with respect or remorse. I bet the last thing she wants is her big sister flying off the wall and treating her differently jus cause she likes to smoke the occassional fag. Just educate her on the facts of drugs and sex and let her make her own decision, cuz children and ppl her age aint as stupid as every1 makes out, they're just ignorant (not in the bad way) and need to learn. You learn through reflecting on mistakes, which the majority of the time involves you getting in to some kind of pain and I understand that as some1 who loves her u don't wanna see her get fucked up/hurt.
I would chill with her and see if she would like to read up about sum of the shit baccy does to u, and if you would in the future like to smoke weed with her, wash out that shite that her grandparents put in to her skull.
Hope u can figure this one out, seeing as its a delicate situation.

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Originally Posted by Jimmicrackedcorn

She probly asked her not to tell cuz she thought you would flip. Which you kind of have
You're not gonna make her stop smoking by goin mad at her, that'll just make her feel bad and in the future she won't EVER come to you when she needs help. You got to accept that she's growing up and over the next 4/5 years will no doubt experiment with copious amounts of substances, and sex, just like every1 has done, but instead of critisizing(sp?) her just keep in mind shes the same person, smoking, drinking, having sex don't really change the person you are, but it will make ppl look at you differently, either with respect or remorse. I bet the last thing she wants is her big sister flying off the wall and treating her differently jus cause she likes to smoke the occassional fag. Just educate her on the facts of drugs and sex and let her make her own decision, cuz children and ppl her age aint as stupid as every1 makes out, they're just ignorant (not in the bad way) and need to learn. You learn through reflecting on mistakes, which the majority of the time involves you getting in to some kind of pain and I understand that as some1 who loves her u don't wanna see her get fucked up/hurt.
I would chill with her and see if she would like to read up about sum of the shit baccy does to u, and if you would in the future like to smoke weed with her, wash out that shite that her grandparents put in to her skull.
Hope u can figure this one out, seeing as its a delicate situation.

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Couldn't of said it better myself.

Fourteen is a rebellious age the more you tell her off the more she'll do it.

therez no dout ciggz r worse fer yah then pot. if shez started smokin already, she aint gunna quit fer a while cuz rite when u start u like it so much ud gladly smoke a pack a day. then it startz catchin up wit yah after a yr er 2. id wait till she realizez that smokin fer the rest ov her life aint a smart decision, when shez mature enuff ta think smart instead ov wutz the coo thing ta do. apsinthion iz rite on wit the rebellious ageness.lol
PeAcE

yea it is pretty bad when your bro/sis start smokin and there younger then you cause you never know what there up to.If there smokin pot but u don't know how let them find out them selfs cause they think they know everything at a certain age you gotta just let em' do it and let them learn from there mistakes cause if you keep drillin' in to them about it they will just do it more if that made any sence. Yo killa i think i gotta picture of your avatar on my p.c but theres a black guy with the same joint and your in the background check it out! im out anywayz :cool: Smokey :cool:

hahahah rite on...my avatar aint a pic ov me tho...an i dunt think itz even the same guy..lookz like him a lil but i dunno..maybe im juss blazed?lol
PeAcE

well if only i had enough rizla and weed to do that .... well sayin that i wouldn't be sat here now i would of be moulded into the sofa lol
:p Smokey :p