I want to do it in a couple weeks, right before I leave on vacation.
Do you think it would be wrong to continue to have sex with her, knowing that I want to break up with her?
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I want to do it in a couple weeks, right before I leave on vacation.
Do you think it would be wrong to continue to have sex with her, knowing that I want to break up with her?
No.
She's your girlfriend, and you're entitled to all that means.
why are you breaking up with her?
I want to be single when college starts in August
??? whyQuote:
Originally Posted by Empire
there is another girl, one who will be starting college with me in August
Dude, just ask yourself this, Does your current girl friend please you? Does she make you happy and are you happy to be around her? Does she give good sex and like to make you happy? Are you happy with her right now?
All i'm sayin is that if you are happy with your current girl friend then don't dump her just because you want some other hot shot girl that is goin to be going to school with you. If you really like your current gf then you will re-think this situation. Personally, in my experience, if you go for another girl when you are pleased with the gf you currently have, then only bad stuff will happen. Usually when you go for another girl after dumping your previous gf for that girl, then you will either get dumped, or things won't work out the same as the last relationship. Anyways, do whatever you wish. Just keep it in mind.
I said yes, mainly because if you're not man enough to tell her right now and you've made up your mind to go for another girl, then why does it matter to you if you use this girl?
couldn't agree with you moreQuote:
Originally Posted by Mr. TBAGU 420
Nope :).Quote:
Originally Posted by Empire
Nope :)...wait your gonna be havin sex with her while she doesnt know you wanna break up with her? I thought you meant is it cool for you two to have sexual relations after you already broke up..eh, well if it's like that then yes, I think it would be wrong :p.Quote:
Originally Posted by Empire
think of it this way: if she knew you were going to brake up with her would she still have sex with you?Quote:
Originally Posted by Empire
not a cool thing to do....would you like to be used???
Quoted For Truth.Quote:
Originally Posted by insanity
no do it
It's basically fucked up to keep having sex if you have no intention of being with her. It's called being played, being used. Unless you would like it to happen to you, I wouldn't do it. Now I know most guys wouldn't mind being used for sex, but consider her feelings for a moment. What goes around, definately does come around to kick the shit out of you when you least expect it, FYI.
Indeed man. What you do to her will come back around some other day when you least expect it and it will make you think of how you treated her and how wrong it was for you to just use her for sex when you were going to break up with her for certain reasons. If you are happy with her i don't know why you would want to break up with her.Quote:
Originally Posted by IanCurtisWishlist
How do you even know this other girl is single? How do you know she isnt a schizo?
How do you she isnt gunna bite your cock off while giving you a blowjob?
Then you'll be saying "my last girlfriend never bit me"
dont have sex with her, and dont play her, cos you know thats fucked.
Did somebody vote for me? I don't remember voting.
Of course, it's wrong to have sex with her, still. Unless she wants it and knows you're breaking up.
Hey! Good Idea!Quote:
Originally Posted by poorprincess
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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs
This is from a guy who got a hummer from his ex-, yesterday. :smokin:
I think it's wrong... but not morally repugnant either.
Happens all the time, and if you both are that young to where you're going off to college, then she might as well get used to the idea that guys will use her for sex if she lets them...
It's a hard lesson, but someone's gotta teach her.
I honestly think u should consider her feeling and not only think about urself. Sure being single to go to colleage has its benifits but as one guy above said if she pleases u and ur happy with her stay with her, Honestly if u wanna be single going to colleage do u really think this other girl will even look at u when she arrives at colleage. Theres probally plenty more guys there that are better lookin or applealing to her eyes and she might end up dumping u or using you. Who even says she likes u. Like for me if my bf was going to dump me i would want to know not wait until the last min. Think about it this way if u were a girl and ur bf had sex with u still then all a sudden he says i don't want to be with u. U'd be like wth why not we "made" love or in ur terms sex. U'd be crushed...Unless ur a heartless bastard and don't give a shit about others feelings. In conlusion do what u think is right, What ur heart tells u to do or what u feel is the best thing for u. Just don't fuck with her feelings.
I have an update for anybody that cares.
I haven't broken up with her yet . . . but I haven't spoken to her in four days.
I did have sex with her once more, after she came back from California. i didn't have the heart to break up after she came back from vacation.
shes not even going to know that he planned to break up with her. so how is she going to think that she was used?
Touche 187!
You win a cookie
Even if she not going to know your going to brake up with her. Yes it is still fucked up by all means. If you honestly love her you would still want to be with her and not thinking of brakeing up with her for some other girl. What if things dont work out in the end. Always rember what you lost. Some one that will be there for you. You will regret it. Not everyone is going to wait on you. If you move on so will she. So just ask your self this. "When I get to college. What if things don't work out"
i think that if you oviousley dont take your relationship seriousley with her, just end it now. dont go using her to have sex
I agree, just because she won't know that your planning on breaking up with her doesn't change the fact that you would be using her.Quote:
Originally Posted by NightProwler
same as last two