Having a very rough time right now

hey everyone... so here's my deal and Id really appreciate more then just my opinion. alright so lately me n my sister been in a huge fight right, my moms on her holidays the 1 month out of 12. Me and my sister got into a fight wich had NOTHING with me to start in the first place. Now my mom keeps wanting me to go apologize for something I didnt even do, I did not privoke anything. I know you are all thinking Im some punk ass kid but believe me, Im 16 with the mind of a 32 year old.

4 days later.


Now this girl I like and have been partying with these past few days has been ratting me out to my sister this whole time. I went out to a party and my sister gets brought up, I say shes a stupid fuckn bitch and thats that. The next day this certain girl phones up , talks to my sis n I left for 45 minutes. I left and came back and my sister was freaking, my mom asked me if I called her a stupid fucking bitch last night, I said no cuz I didnt and she said not to her face but infront of a bunch of people.

People this is like hte 3rd time this bitch has done this to me, I try not to party with her but she hangs out with all my friends like what teh fuck can I do... Shes burning bridges between me and my sister that are never going to be put up again. This whole situation almost has me in tears, I recently asked this girl out last night in an email, we used to date, and I said it would probably work out since we're older and no response. Stupid fucking life I lead here.

My mom is also getting pissed at me because IM ruining her holidays .... Guys I cannot stress this more I am not a fucking little punk kid, I always help my mom and to hear I am ruining her holidays is not music to my ears, its sorrow. Please help, Its my call to be saved.

fuck that bitch, shes fucking your shit up, get rid of her and if your friends are your friends they'd kick that girl out of your group of friends, go talk to your sister and just talk to her, i mean shit shes your sister whatever happened will get resolved in the future anyway, and thats that, then just go to your mom and say everythings taken care of, that way you dont apoligize for shit you just talk to her, things will go muhc better

Man it cant work that way, my sister holds grudges, Ive been in this situation before Ive tried to make it all happen and she tells me to fuck off. The chick thats doing this is burning bridges between me and her that arent going to be put back up, we were tight but it will never be the same anymore. I just dont know what to do .... I serously need to get out of this fucking town\.

Well it's kind of obvious you need to stay away from this girl that's ratting you out. If you say that can't work because you're all in the same group of friends then maybe you should not say or do anything that could "incriminate" you...or maybe you should take off and find some new friends.

Actually man tell that girl to fuck off, if your other friends take her side then they weren't very good friends to begin with given the circumstances.

Can't really grasp your situation though, it seems really pointless this girl is telling your sister everything you're up to for no apparent reason. Fortunately for you, there are good people on this site who will more than likely give you better advice than I can.

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Originally Posted by Ae...

Well it's kind of obvious you need to stay away from this girl that's ratting you out. If you say that can't work because you're all in the same group of friends then maybe you should not say or do anything that could "incriminate" you...or maybe you should take off and find some new friends.

Actually man tell that girl to fuck off, if your other friends take her side then they weren't very good friends to begin with given the circumstances.

Can't really grasp your situation though, it seems really pointless this girl is telling your sister everything you're up to for no apparent reason. Fortunately for you, there are good people on this site who will more than likely give you better advice than I can.

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I think that's about the best advice I could give anyways...

sounds like the stupid bitch cant keep her mouth shut...

go blow up her parents car, she will be too preoccupied thinking about how her parents are going to get killed to talk about you partying.

no need to thank me.

lol mojoke.

Alright guys well I used to be really tight with this chick and I dont know why the fuck shes doing this to me, its hell...I think its in my only intrest to find some new friends.

dumb bitch

here's an email ?I sent to her. Tell me if Im being unjustly.

look this is what i need to know because its making my life a FUCKING hell. serously man who the fuck keeps spilling this shit to my sister, my sister keeps getting pissed at me. and in an end result my mom gets pissed off at me... FOR ONCE Im hearing my mom say IM ruining her holidays , this is not fucking music to my ears man ive always bee ntehre for my mom and to hear im ruining her holidays is fucking terrible man .... to tell you the truth this is the fucking worste ive felt in my life and its not good....i aint in a good mood at all man im so fucking unhappy is unbelievable, i need to fucking know wether its you or who ever the fuck it is for the soul fact i can stop fucking chilling with them. if someones gonna go behind my back n say every little fucking thing i say about someone to them they aint my fucking friend. They doing nothing but fucking with my life and making this situation worse......you know this is life and its my family , if you know who it is, tell them its not liek they're fucking wtih my friends, they can go ahead and start shit between me and my friends, id rather have my fuckin family over my friends n you know what its doing nothing but ripping me and my sis apart , we used to be tight but it's never going to be the same again.

just plz tell me who it is and give them one huge fucking pat on the back.

my dad died and my moms job got outsourced to india while our insurance company is refusing to pay and our bank account is shut off.

I'm still laughing at the "mind of a 32 year old" bit on the first post, especially after skimming through his problems and the way you act like any 16 year old.

You shouldn't be relying on randoms on a message board to solve your problems, THat is immaturity, I know an outsiders perspective is helpfull but then thats why I smoke pot, Just think, reflect and learn to see through other peoples eyes and understand things from their point of view.

From there you will find compromise and solution.

I really sound like a hippy/new age weirdo sometimes, But I'm sure it's just a phase...I'm a sarcastic cynic generally

Jonny ... I have nothing to say to you other than THANKS for the insult. Maybe you did put in a bit of input , but I rarely smoke pot and I turned to these boards because who else can I turn too?

My friends who hang out with her? Ive talked with them and they dont seem much to care, I turned to these boards because they didnt care and I thought more peopleo n here would have a better opinion then yours jonny.

Yes I act like a 16 year old because Im upset and unhappy, 16 year old and a 30 year old handle things way different because as 30 year old you've been threw more shit then this. This is where my life gets hard going .... Thanks for your fucking input jonny.

you sound like a ten year old. let me get this straight, you were talking shit about your sister behind her back, she found out about it and got mad, and it is not your fault. if you hate her and she is such a bitch like you say she is then i dont see the problem with her finding out you dont like her. if you like her, dont talk shit. pick one or at least shut up