WHICH ONE???

OK please read this and help me out,

Girl Number 1- I have been goin out with this girl for over 14 months and I love her to bits, BUT she doesn't like me smoking weed, even though she gets high with me sometimes.

Girl Number 2- I've known her for about 6 months and we are really flirty, shes told me she wants to go out with me, and I want to go out with her to, but then again I want to go out with Girl Number 1 aswell:(

Hard Part- Girl Number 1 kissed another guy, no tounge...just a kiss but it kinda was a shock and I was kinda hurt by that:mad: :o , Ive done everything with Girl Number 1 and I think we are amazing together, but what she did was wrong, we've been on a break since she kissed him and Ive been all over Girl Number 2 and its been great. Girl Number 1 asks to meet me to talk and starts begging me to go back out with her she starts doin the whole I love you Im sorry shit. And I want to go out with her so I did cause she was crying so much and I can forgive her but then I feel sorry for Girl Number 2. And whatever 1 I pick there will be tears for the other one (not being cocky there allready has been:cool: )

So who should I pick, please be sensible, its not just about weed:D

Stick with number 1 dude. . . .

If it was merley just a peck that

she gave someone else,, then ya

dont really have 'owt to worry about. . . .

And bear in mind that if ya do go for

number 2,, it may not last

or be as good as what ya already have. . . .

Peace. . . . :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by notech

Stick with number 1 dude. . . .

If it was merley just a peck that

she gave someone else,, then ya

dont really have 'owt to worry about. . . .

And bear in mind that if ya do go for

number 2,, it may not last

or be as good as what ya already have. . . .

Peace. . . . :thumbsup:

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those where my exact words to my best mate, cause what I have with Number 1 is sooooooooooo amazing, but I think it COULD be with number 2. Thanks a lot m8 much appreciated, anyone got other views?

Does girl number 2 smoke weed?

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Originally Posted by Sig

Does girl number 2 smoke weed?

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she doesnt mind me doing it and Ive got high with her a few times to

girl number 2
once they cheat, turn your back forever
make them learn theyre lesson
no1 messes that way

ya i say number 1, i doubt she even cares if u smoke, if she smokes wit u too, and u guys alrdy went out and love eachother and stuff, and i doubt she'll cheat on u again

Looking back at my high school dating, and having the experience I have now at 23, I would go with choice number 2 because number one fucked up, and if you let her get away with it, she's likely to do it again, and also because i won't date people who aren't cool with what I do.

Oh and what is that thing in your avatar.. it weirds me out.

Simple. Have them fight until one of them dies. Winner= girlfriend .

Just kidding of course.

I dunno. I wanna say 2 for some reason.

Looks to me like you already made your decision when you told girl #1 that you would get back together with herâ?¦(mistake IMO) she already had her chance. I donâ??t care how much she cried. You should have told her that you started seeing someone else.

I have a feeling girl #2 is gonna get shit on here.

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Originally Posted by Sig

Looking back at my high school dating, and having the experience I have now at 23, I would go with choice number 2 because number one fucked up, and if you let her get away with it, she's likely to do it again, and also because i won't date people who aren't cool with what I do.

Oh and what is that thing in your avatar.. it weirds me out.

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thats the meaning of it, it weirds me out to, WTF are the perfect leters to go in it:D

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Originally Posted by likemclever

Looks to me like you already made your decision when you told girl #1 that you would get back together with herâ?¦(mistake IMO) she already had her chance. I donâ??t care how much she cried. You should have told her that you started seeing someone else.

I have a feeling girl #2 is gonna get shit on here.

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it was a mistake to say yes again, if I didn't I wouldn't be in this situation, I'm seeing girl number 1 at 4pm today, its 6:30 for me just now. I really cant imagin my life without her but I'm gonna finish with her, I heard the night she kissed him they where allways together and flirting and she kissed him when she had to go, even her friends told me.... I love her so much but if she was worth it she wouldn't have done that. Thanks guys I'll let yous know what happens

Who cares if she doesn't smoke weed, she accepted you as a smoker and you need to accept her as a non-smoker. Respect her choices man. You can't just chuck 14 months of commitment out the window because you met some floosey 6 months ago who's into you. And you can't use her being "flirty" with some other guy when you where doing the exact same thing for 6 months while contemplating a break up. If you really "love her to bits" you never would have posted this thread to begin with. In any case, think about what really is going to yeild positive results here, and base your decision on that.

relationships r shitty, after my last one i plan on not getting into a seirous one untill im like 22ish and its time to start looking for wife material.

I suggest you dont go out with either seriously...just leave it as a completly open relationship on both sides....for now...until you are 100% sure you want to see either

That way you can meet up with both....get to know them ( nothing sexual really has to happen) and then you can choose but not hurt anyone (if you make sure they know that the relationship is open....not completly obviously...lik "IM SEEING ANOTHER GIRL BY THE WAY!!!!")

But just so no one gets hurt at the end of the day

Thats assuming they don't know each other.....and you are honest with them.

Just my thoughts :)


Also has girl one asked that you stop smoking for her?

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Originally Posted by Az.

I suggest you dont go out with either seriously...just leave it as a completly open relationship on both sides....for now...until you are 100% sure you want to see either

That way you can meet up with both....get to know them ( nothing sexual really has to happen) and then you can choose but not hurt anyone (if you make sure they know that the relationship is open....not completly obviously...lik "IM SEEING ANOTHER GIRL BY THE WAY!!!!")

But just so no one gets hurt at the end of the day

Thats assuming they don't know each other.....and you are honest with them.

Just my thoughts :)


Also has girl one asked that you stop smoking for her?

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sadly they do both know each other and despise each other, number 1 was convinced I was cheating on her with number 2 for a while, and yeah she kinda asked me but she knew I wouldnt and now just accepts it and sometimes does it with me

So how did things shake out?

Don't put this shit off...it just gets worse.

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Originally Posted by likemclever

So how did things shake out?

Don't put this shit off...it just gets worse.

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well I did it.....but when I did she started crying like fuck, then she stopped and asked if we could still be friends cause she doesn't want to have me out her life alltogether, I said sure and then she kissed me on the cheek, thats when it hit in I would never be able to do anything more with her, or lie down with her or even hold her hand. So I bailed, she walked into the room after getting a drink, I went up to her and hugged her, slided down to my knees and ate her out, we're still together. I can't do it, I'm just gonna have to face the music when Number 2 gets back from holiday in 7 days.

Thanks a lot you guys

Girl # 2 may not last long, but it will be an experience you'll learn from, all girl # 1 will turn into is disaster, except for the fact she'll go head over heels to do anything for you

hey man once a cheater, always a cheater go wit girl number 2

you know whats a bitch.... the face girl number 2 is on holiday just now pulling some spanish guy:( but it doesn't matter, iv learnt from this...... sure I should have stayed with number 1 but now I can move on and be single and pull random people at clubs:cool:

theres only one girl in my life............MARY-JAAAAAAAAAAANE:rasta: