is he worth my time?

okay, so my friend jake called me yesterday........ this is what he said....


"you know im really into you"

hes been calling me for about 2 months and we've been pretty close, but he says that we should hang out and for me to meet him up somewhere (last time was during school) so we'd plan it out and i'd go there with one of my friends and i would see him walk by....... hmmmmmm, i dont know if hes shy or what but i really like him too and we talk on the phone whenever he calls me..............but he wont give me his number because his dad is "physco" about girls calling him,,, hes 2 years older than me and i like him too, but should i give him my time?

his dad is "psycho" about girls calling him? i dont know...

Well if he's said..."you know im really into you"

And you like him too,,, then Why Not?

Go for it girl. . . . Ya dont got 'owt to loose. . . .

Peace. . . . :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by notech

Well if he's said..."you know im really into you"

And you like him too,,, then Why Not?

Go for it girl. . . . Ya dont got 'owt to loose. . . .

Peace. . . . :thumbsup:

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I agree

shoot, let him treat you out to nice restraunts and fun, as long as your only doing things that you enjoy.


unless U got somewhere else you'd rather B

well how much is your time worth? Id say go for it but see what kind of health the dad is in, you dont want him around to much longer if he doesnt want his 16+(Im assuming) son hanging out with, let alone talking to girls.

well, he always has weed so he can always smoke me out<3

thats good i hate paying

hahahaha if he has weed and knows you like it and dont like to pay for it i think he might have something else in mind especially if you are as young as you look in that av pic

lol, well, im up for that suhl

Samwhoreâ?¦ NEVER trust a man/ boy that wonâ??t give you his number. There is a reason he is not giving it to you and his dad story sounds lame.

As far as a relationship goes NO. You canâ??t have a relationship with someone who controls all the communication.

Chill with him and hang out as friends if you like but donâ??t give him any. If you start giving it away than youâ??re just bartering. There are plenty of generous guys out there who like to smoke out cool chicks so donâ??t worry about that.

i totally agree clever!

yeah i wasnt saying you werent up for it, im just saying if you are that girl you look young ass hell and fucking for weed before you are old enough to drive a car may be a quick path to becoming a crack whore. im not saying its going to happen im just saying i wouldnt wanna become a statistic

and for the record i have never known a guy to smoke out a girl who wasnt matching or someone elses girl without wanting, maybe not getting but at least wanting, something in return. dont recall if they were gorgeous or not, but really none too many that i can recall

well, suhl im 15

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well, suhl im 15

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15? woh i change my answer, take it from me (17 year old guy) this wont turn out in your favour, if i had a dime for every girl ive known that has dated an older guy when there fresh into highschool, either ended up getting really hurt, infected with some nasty STI's or is taken advantage of and made a fool of.....My weed sac would be a lot fuller right now.

Im really baked and rarely am very serious on this site but now is the time for seriousness if any, im not saying you will but the chances are very high that you wont end up happy.

I remember when i was 15 all of my friends who were girls were dating seniors, all of them coincidentally came out of it heart broken or with an STI, so you make the choice, but make sure its a good one.

well, im 15 but im supposed to be in the 9th grade, he'll be a senior and ill be a sophomore in august,,,, he was a junior and i was a freshman in june,,, he should be 17 any month now

his dad is psycho about girls calling him?
he either is a rapest and his dad knows it or he is a liar.

there are easier ways to get weed for free.

Maybe Dad steals all his babes... anyway,,, I wud not give you my # cuz you can put me in jail...LOLz...

i dont know, thats why im asking you........

I'd say date him for a while. Not like a boyfriend/girlfriend thing ... just dates. And without any of your or his friends involved. Once he gets to trusting you enough to give his number to you ... then consider.

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Originally Posted by james420

his dad is "psycho" about girls calling him? i dont know...

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thank you....wtf is uop with his dad? does his dad want him to turn out funny?

I wouldn't trust some guy whose Dad apparently doesn't trust him with girls...

:smokin:

Plus, I mean you are only 15 and he is only 17...I guess what I mean is this: That boy wants one thing. If you want it too, I don't see the problem...but don't be doing it for free weed.

:thumbsup:

From what you said in the first post, I'm not sure we have enough info about this young man to be able to provide you an informed opinion. He sounds like someone to be friends with so you can get to know him better.

I was concerned about your screen name when I first saw it and wondered if you'd get grief about it here.

lol hey my post got deleted! lol, i was just playing anyways but i totally understand mods.....but i agree with birdy girl, your entitled to do what you want but i would stay clear since the dad is a psycho....

if you both like each other, how could it not be worth your time?

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Originally Posted by Binzhoubum

I wouldn't trust some guy whose Dad apparently doesn't trust him with girls...

:smokin:

Plus, I mean you are only 15 and he is only 17...I guess what I mean is this: That boy wants one thing. If you want it too, I don't see the problem...but don't be doing it for free weed.

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this guy speeks the truth, i just couldnt figure out how to say it without sounding obnoxious, nicely done.

be careful =|

It sounds to me like this boy is shy about relationships with his mom and dad. I know when I was 15 and 16, I had girlfriends, but my folks never knew about it because I know they would poke fun at me, ask me a ton of questions, etc...I was embarrassed about getting into sex and such around my folks, soooooo maybe, he doesn't want girls phoning there because he's afraid his folks may find out.

Go for it. What's the harm.

hmmmmmm, i dont know,,,,,, ill post some more next time we talk

Are you attracted to him?