I cant tell if she likes me or not.

Hey people of cannabis.com , you have never done me wrong so I am back to ask for some more advice. Alright so heres my situation. Ive known this girl for less than a year, I've recently been going out to partys and seeing her there and what not. She has a boyfriend but she just broke up with him tonight.

At one of the partys I was kind of drunk and was standing in the kitchen and she walked behind me and it felt like she grabbed my ass, like slid her hand right across when she walked by. I could notice later in the night she was kind of staring at me, I looked at her every now and then and she never broke concentration, I talk to this girl and flirt with her and whatnot so. The last time I was with her, the other time I went to the party it was her birthday and she was excited to see me, I barely know this girl and have only partyed with her for the first time and then she gets excited that I show up. I showed up and she was saying ohhh Im glad you showed up to my birthday party and then I gave her a hug for happy birthday and was a bit longer then one should be....This was when she was with her b/f so she couldnt really do much. Tonight any how I didnt party with her, she was at my house with one of her friends and my sister and I came into the room and she did nothin but stare at me, Im not 100% sure if she likes me or not but to you girls out there what kind of signs you give out for that? Im stumped:o

I dont want to ask her out because I dont really know if she likes me or not but she is pretty cute:o

Sounds good. You should just ask her out. She probably does not even know herself if she "likes" you as a potential boyfriend, or if you like her, so just see if she's interested. The worst that happens is she says no. Good luck.

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Ask her out. Seriously, as Breukelen said, the worst that happens is she says no, and I gurantee you, you wont be the first, nor the last person that'll happen to in the world.

Guys/Ladies you have to understand I cant ask her out yet ... I feel I cant. I want some kind of re-assurance, I dont know Im like that. I found out that her boyfriend said he loves her and isnt leaving her, but she really doesnt like him anymore she constantly bitchs about him. Any way Im not really the best with ladies but how do you think I could put a bit of charm on her at a party sometime, and see if there's anything that comes out of this. Please understand Im not at the point to just ask her out, I know its much easier said than done.:o

Yeah man, she's into you.

Find an opportunity when you two are alone and just kiss her, she's not gonna pull back.

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Guys/Ladies you have to understand I cant ask her out yet ... I feel I cant. I want some kind of re-assurance, I dont know Im like that. I found out that her boyfriend said he loves her and isnt leaving her, but she really doesnt like him anymore she constantly bitchs about him. Any way Im not really the best with ladies but how do you think I could put a bit of charm on her at a party sometime, and see if there's anything that comes out of this. Please understand Im not at the point to just ask her out, I know its much easier said than done.:o

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you don't have to outright ask her out. damn convention dude. just try to isolate yourself with her in any way you can. since she btches about her previous boyfriend, it seems apparent that she endeavors for a more chivalrous ideal. the advantage you have is that she likes you , and you can introduce her to new strains and venues of thought that she isn't accustomed to with her former douchebag boyfriends. since you're not the usual cassanova, you don't need to swoon her in the way she expects. just remember that girls are used to stupid shit that guys feed them and you can go a long way by being extraordinarily different

Girls who always bitch about their boyfriend but don't leave them, deep down really do want to stay with them. It's like she probably doesn't want him as much as she used to, but she doesn't want him fucking anyone else.

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either she's into you or you have a huge mole on your cheek or something. otherwise, why would a girl keep staring at you? come on, man. i think we both know the answer to your question.

lol, that's what I was thinking, tokinggreg.

What were you doing when she was staring at you for so long?

You must be a riot.

Give her some time, and take the advice of the wise burnable and you'll be set.

No regrets.

Hey you all are right, these reason I dont feel in place to go ask her out is because when I hang out with her its always partying, sometimes I do but its not she phones me everyday. It takes some working on first, Id like to put a bit more work into her and let you guys know.

I don't think that anybody understands what you are asking. Do you expect her to make the first move, romantically? Is a date too "old-fashioned"? Isn't she worth spending some bucks on? Are you afraid of getting turned down?

Look, I bet that if you made a date, brought flowers, and acted like a gentleman, you'd do fine.

Unfortunatly, many potheads are unwilling to do these things. I've been there, and it's humiliating - but if you want a girl, sometimes that's the best way to act, at least for a while in the beginning. Just play their game, it won't kill you.

or shes looking for someone to rebound with...or to make the ex jealous

as a woman I have rebounded before....and usually you pick someone who looks like fun...someone not into anything serious...someone to say youre pretty when your ex called you fat....dont overthink it, maybe she just wants a piece

Shes not trying to make her ex jealous, she feels very bad for him because he tried to kill him self. Its not like she obsessivly likes me but its like when Im at a party with her she tends to chill out with me and anotehr one of her g/f's. I flurt when the times appropriate but I hope you all can understand Id like to do some working on, I dont know if Im the only guy like this but Id like to be able to know shes lookn at me in a good way ya know. Like the next time she puts those long stares on me, I could look back and do what to signal something, maybe a wink? What would you ladies like or what do you guys do when a girl gives you 'the stare' lol.

go up and talk to her...maybe she wants to know if you like her

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Shes not trying to make her ex jealous, she feels very bad for him because he tried to kill him self. Its not like she obsessivly likes me but its like when Im at a party with her she tends to chill out with me and anotehr one of her g/f's. I flurt when the times appropriate but I hope you all can understand Id like to do some working on, I dont know if Im the only guy like this but Id like to be able to know shes lookn at me in a good way ya know. Like the next time she puts those long stares on me, I could look back and do what to signal something, maybe a wink? What would you ladies like or what do you guys do when a girl gives you 'the stare' lol.

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stare back

In my experience....if the stare is not followed by yelling and slapping you....she wants to swing from it....peace and good luck

if her boyfriend tried to kill himself, that's a red flag for me. People who go out with people with emotional problems usually have some of their own. I probably wouldn't go out with her unless I was really interested in her. That doesn't answer your question but it's something to think about.

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if her boyfriend tried to kill himself, that's a red flag for me. People who go out with people with emotional problems usually have some of their own.

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true...

Alright well her b/fs chilln now and leaving her alone. One of my friends asked her out the other night and she told him no, he kept on asking and she ended up screaming it at him. I wasnt there for the whole thing, I speak from what I herd but Im not 100% sure on asking her right now do you understand? I would like to hang with her more but I work all week so I have to do this thursday night or the weekend wich will probably happen.

Ah yes, the good old girl staring you down from across the room. When this happens you need to make sure to be on a talking basis with her and have a few long conversatoins with her, but you said you flirt with her so it looks like you've got that down pat.

You can either find a time when its just you and her, and just during a convo with her go in and kiss her. Or, just ask her to see a movie with you as friends, see where that takes you.

Remember, 100% of boys are rejected by girls that they never even ask. In other words, not trying is a sure fire way to get rejected.

Well dude, from what seems to be panning out, I might actually give her a little breathing room for the time being. She sounds like she might need some time to clear her head, with the whole her ex b/f trying to kill himself and all...

If she tries to hang with you more, then I would do your thing, but maybe not suffocate her too soon.

Just an idea.

Good luck ~

giver her an e pill. then she will confess if she likes you or not.

u have to get her on her own and ask her, the pressure of having others around can be.... distracting to say the least, then just ask her :)

Ask her if shes interested in anyone, say its just out of curiosity. I've used this stragedy, and it works well dude. Good luck, and the main thing is PATIENCE.

Shes definatly into you, dont ask her out just yet, you should try to get her alone to have some conversation first.

dude it has been almost 3 weeks, UPDATE!!!!!