I know ive been an idiot but help
hey i have a girlfriend and we just got back to gather from being broken up and over the period of time we werent togather like we got with other people and shit and im suspecting that she never really broke up with him and has been lieing to me and shit idk what to do her x talks a lot of shit for an emo faggot but thats not the point help please:confused: :(
I know ive been an idiot but help
oh and weve been sexually active wich should account for somthing but i just dont understand arghhh
I know ive been an idiot but help
Uh, either trust the girl or don't ... if you have suspicions, then dump her and work on yourself. If you trust her, don't pry. Aight?
... and it's "together."
I know ive been an idiot but help
I know ive been an idiot but help
Dont judge one self the way they dress. Find out if she cheating on you or not. Why would she be with you if she didnt like you?
I know ive been an idiot but help
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Originally Posted by Fan o KmK
whats the question?
he thinks that his ex who he got back togther with is still going out with some one that she was with after they broke up :pimp:
I know ive been an idiot but help
yea u about summed it up lol
I know ive been an idiot but help
Don't let it affect you, even if it does just dont care about whats happening. Being all suspisious all the time isnt the best thing in the world. Just show her a great time all the time that she shares with you. If she is in fact cheating then break up with that stupid bitch. She wont be ready for that and start begging to stay with you, dont be fooled by this false emotion. Usally if she breaks up with you once shes gonna do it again. Best advice ever from some wise old guy in a diner - "trust no women".
I know ive been an idiot but help
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Originally Posted by Marijuanaehh09
hey i have a girlfriend and we just got back to gather from being broken up and over the period of time we werent togather like we got with other people and shit and im suspecting that she never really broke up with him and has been lieing to me and shit idk what to do her x talks a lot of shit for an emo faggot but thats not the point help please:confused: :(
For god sakes man run! Trust your feelings, because they are most likely true.
I know ive been an idiot but help
Why the would she get back together with you if she was still doing that other guy? Sounds to me like someone can??t get over the fact that she wasn??t exact waiting by the phone when you broke up.
Just come out and ask her. If you still think she is lying than break up FOR GOOD. But whatever you do don??t drive her nuts with this. If you can??t trust her than you don??t need to be together.
My motto??.NEVER, NEVER, NEVER go back. There is a reason you broke up in the first place.
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Always bottom line her actions toward you. What she says to you must equal what she does when your not around.
Dont be blind to warning signs.
A woman in love wont confuse you. Only her actions truly reflect her feelings and attitude toward you. Its called the reality factor.
Im saying this in general. The man's ego doesnt particularly like the bottom line factor because he has trouble facing reality. The key is to get past the ego and your interest level and bottom line her actions all of the time.
When it comes to love, the man's ego:
1. Overlooks miss wrongs bad attitude.
2. Overlooks ominous signs in the relationship.
3. Always overrates her interest level.
4. Rationalizes her putdowns.
5. Blinds him to reality.
If your the Macho-tough guy type, triple all of the above.
Ask yourself honestly how important you are to her, how good she treats you
and how she reacts when she doesnt always get what she wants.
Remember a guy in prison and a guy in a bad marriage have a lot in common:
All they do is dream about freedom and wonder how they got themselves into their predicament.
I would not call her or talk on her answering machine. You will look desperate if you do.
Have the guts to walk and start meeting new women.
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6. Always blows shit out of proportion.
7. Can never handle it when another man has been in ??his womans? hole.
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Originally Posted by likemclever
6. Always blows shit out of proportion.
7. Can never handle it when another man has been in ??his womans? hole.
lol.
I know ive been an idiot but help
yeah..sounds like someones insecure...if she wanted the other guy, why would she get back with you? you were already broken up...you both fucked around, but maybe it wasn't what you thought it would be like..its harder when it actually happens then when you just talk about it..."i think we should see(fuck) other people...." for you, it was cool that she wanted to SEE other people while it was ok for you to fuck...shit or get off the pot...accept it or walk away...dont have one of those relationships that thrive on drama....i hate people like that, on again off again....every two weeks...
I know ive been an idiot but help
what she is supposed to be with me ive known this girl since we were little and weve been sexualy acitvieeeee and i was banging her while she was with that guy
I know ive been an idiot but help
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Originally Posted by Marijuanaehh09
what she is supposed to be with me ive known this girl since we were little and weve been sexualy acitvieeeee and i was banging her while she was with that guy
???? nevermind.
I know ive been an idiot but help
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Originally Posted by Marijuanaehh09
what she is supposed to be with me ive known this girl since we were little and weve been sexualy acitvieeeee and i was banging her while she was with that guy
so what...you screwed her...do you think I stay in thouch with people i..knew....you over there, birdgirl, do you hang out with sex buddy #1? slipknot, what about #74....and beach guy, what about those guys from the orgy...?? you bone people then you say goodbye...its nature...its about finding the best match for your genes to combine with... again i say, it's nature, you can't fight it... dont try to...
I know ive been an idiot but help
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Originally Posted by Marijuanaehh09
hey i have a girlfriend and we just got back to gather from being broken up and over the period of time we werent togather like we got with other people and shit and im suspecting that she never really broke up with him and has been lieing to me and shit idk what to do her x talks a lot of shit for an emo faggot but thats not the point help please:confused: :(
Well find out whether she has been cheating on you and if she has then sort it out hope she ain't good luck and let us know how it goes.:stoned:
I know ive been an idiot but help
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