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what do u think u have to do ot be a man? because i really need help, i have no one to love, and i feel useless, if i had a g/f i wud have someone to love, but i literilly have no one, but wot dod u consdier to be a man? i think i shvae some seroius growin up to do but seroiusly, my life i sgettin so on top of me, and i jusy wish i had a girl with me who cud understand my problems and i wish i cud hug them and comfort them, i feel like im pointless without someone needing me, but noone needs me, if i was to die no one wud be affected, and thjt hurts, i need to be needed, but its so hard to find someone to care like th tnanad ummmmmmmmm christ, im gona hate myself ommmotw for wirite all this . . . . . .

I think a man is someone who can stand on his own and be trusted to do the right thing under any circumstances, even when he thinks no one else is looking. Someone who's responsible, who's a true grownup and who can support himself and do right by his family and friends and relationships. Maybe you have some more growing up to do? A mark of a man isn't necessarily whether or not you have a girlfriend or someone to care about. It's whether you're a grownup and whether you yourself have the ability to care for others. I figure when you've reached that point, the girls will come running!

Most of the time being a man is doin things you dont wanna do

In other words, don't go around getting anyone pregnant, yet!!!

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Originally Posted by birdgirl73

I think a man is someone who can stand on his own and be trusted to do the right thing under any circumstances, even when he thinks no one else is looking.

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integrity...yes

and in the words of Rupaul..."if you dont love yourself, how the hell you gonna love anyone else!?"......fuck im old

"A man must be a gentleman, or he is no man." - Cassanova
"A lady is someone who helps a man become a gentleman." - Humphrey Bogart

Take tips from the greatest men that ever lived dude.

"Chivalry is NOT dead."

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!


thats pretty much all of it

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Originally Posted by friendowl

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!


thats pretty much all of it

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That's a far cry from "just whip out your cock and shove her head on it"! :smokin:

im versatile
what can i say

Crazy,

You've got to break out of that shyness around women, I think that is what is holding you back from what you want is yourself, not that someone doesnt want you. Put yourself out there in social situations where women are.

Your looking for the girl to make you complete. If your complete within yourself that is the first step in being independent which is an attractive quality. She will be attracted to you because you are a glass that is full and not one that is half empty.

If you feel "useless" or "need" you project that to women you meet. That is a heavy emotion and will push girls away.

There are two beings you can share your "problems" with, your male friends or your dog. The dog is the most trusting. Keep the positive side open for the woman. Sharing negatives is counter productive to intimacy.

So if you ever heard that phrase "lighten up" this is what it means.

Hey crazy,

one more thing.

I just logged off adultfriendfinder.com in the U.K. and found that there are 57,000 women looking for men in multiple providences. Theres a girl out there for you.

Okay, you must use that word, differently.

How many people have you asked to go out with you stu?

what it is to be a man??

integrity, honour, respect for those around you.. wether they respect you or not, to defend those who can't defend themselves.. does all that make u a man?

NO... it makes you human... and that is by far more respectable to me than someone who considers themselves a "man" cause they have big muscles or have been with lots of women

a boy can have all those things i stated above and still not be considered a man.. that, my friends, is whats wrong with society..

to someone who has all those things, it matters not that they are called a Boy or a Man.

hey yo friendowl, i got a question for u, let me kno if u get this message.

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Okay, you must use that word, differently.

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Crazypothead-crazy
Beach guy in thongs- beach, beachguy
Ganjasaurusrex-ganja
friendowl-owl
bizzleluvin-bizzle
etc.
etc.
etc.


I can go on. We abbrieviate on here all the time. Stu knows Im not disrespecting him. Thats his screename.

Later

was up tokno

I was watching this documentary last night...more British women own a vibrator than a washing machine...Weird?

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Originally Posted by Ganjasaurusrex

Crazypothead-crazy
Beach guy in thongs- beach, beachguy
Ganjasaurusrex-ganja
friendowl-owl
bizzleluvin-bizzle
etc.
etc.
etc.


I can go on. We abbrieviate on here all the time. Stu knows Im not disrespecting him. Thats his screename.

Later

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Providence. :smokin:

yeah. Would you mind emailing me at
[email protected]?