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Basically, here's the problem. I'm 15 and my parents don't know I blaze. I'm thinking of telling them as it would be better coming from me than someone else. Alos, I may be allowed to smoke at home instead of potentially getting busted by police outisde. To tell- or not to tell? :confused:
Are your parent's the open minded kind of parent's?
wll i didnt tell them, they caught me and i got dun big time, i asked them if i told wud it have made it any better they didnt say anythin which meant no so either way i was screwed. Think about it carfully, do u honestly think they wud be cool about it, or do u no that they wud freak. dont think ur gona get the answer u wana hear. Think about it coz u dont wana loose ur parents trust,,,it hard to regain speakin from experience.
I didn't take up smoking until after I moved out. Lucky me :D
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Good luck with whatever choice you make.
Well I'm gonna tell my dad first probably, because he's in the film industry like all his mates have hit all kindsa shit in the past. But the thing is I wanna blaze at home! :mad:
Well if he has mate's that do/have done drug's then at least that show's that he isn't anti drug's cos if he was anti drug's then he wouldn't hang out with them. :)
thats true......maybe there is light at the end of the tunnel for u mate
Let's hope so lol, beacause I'm having a couple mates round on friday, intending to hotobx our garage conversion. It's class, comfy sofas, t.v, fridge full of beers, cd player, ahhhhhhh nice nd small enough for a good old hotbox :cool:
That is the most important question, and only you know the answer(err well, best guess any way). I did not tell mine, (in fact I got busted w/ some of my step dads stash) So life sucked for a long while. But hey that was 10 yrs ago, so now We occasionally smoke together when I vsit home. So like everyone said, think about it go with your gut, and good luck no mater what!Quote:
Originally Posted by apsinthion
Good luck and toke on!
Peace
well if yer gunna smoke at home id say yer better off tellin em now cuz yer prolly gunna get caught at sum point when yer smokin so it lookz better on u at least. if there juss gunna freak out an ground u er sum shit, dunt bother tellin em cuz yer gunna get in prolly the same amount ov shit fer tellin em az if they were ta catch u. i dunno tho, itz up 2 u an wut u think yer parentz reaction will b. they mite not b happy at all but neither wuz my mom an now shez pretty open bout it. i smoke in my room an have 2 plantz in my closet, plenty more ta b planted soon....
PeAcE
be prepared all parents send there kids to rehab and u got no choice since your under 18...But i could be wrong! I just know that in a case like yours you will have no control over what situation heads your way because of your age. I rather get caught then tell my parents I smoke dope. But i am glad my parents were smokers so i grew up around that kind. But Best of Luck ! You got some balls wanting to be open with your habits.
Tell your dad first like you said, but be subtle. Don't drop a bombshell on him all like "by the way dad, I toke like a chimney'. Just say you tried a little draw at a party/friends house the other night and is it alright with him if you do so again? If he's cool then great, if not then you'll know where you stand!
i mite tellmy dad pretty soon, hes starting to get a lil more open minded about it, i already got caught once and i just barely regained my parents trust, and they found my papers one day and i got caught skipping thde afternoon of skool and the winodws where open and i had perfume everywhere and i was blazed so that dident look great.. it sounds like a lot since im only 14 but ive pretty much clenaed up my act lol, now i just blast fire crackers and skool and things like that hehe, but yeah dude ide tell ur dad first, dads seem to be better at handling it, break it to him easy tho like buttom sid
good luck
Peace
I've decided to leave it for a while, might tell when I'm either 16, or when I feel it's right
lots of ppl wanna blaze at home but what u must remember it is disrespectful unless they let u :)!
I would never tell my parents for one my mother is not open minded about drugs as her 2 brothers have fucked up there life over them, 1 is in and out of jail, and one has completly fucked up his girl relashionship and job carer,so she is not one to understand.My father is a police officer and would prob throw my ass in jail for the night if he ever found me doing drugs.I am 16 and will prob never tell my parents the drugs i tried in my life.
p and good luck.
Easy way to tell your parents wear a shirt with a big ass pot leaf on it that says smoke weed or die. Hey that will be an eye opener. :p
For those interested, I've just told my dad 'the news' he says i aint to smoke any more cigarettes. But he isn't gonna try and force me to quit blazing because it's a ridiculous thing to try and enforce. :cool: The hard part comes when he tells my mum tonight. It all seems completely surreal if I'm honest, when I was telling him, like I wasn't actually there or something. Weird.
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is your pop gonna let u toke around the house? And how are u gonna drop this on your mom? I'd really like to hear this... cause none of my friends ever told their parents, they got ratted on or caught in the act :(
my dad told me a long time ago that it was cool if I ever did drugs, just so long as I could still support myself and my family. Hopefully your mom will think like your dad. And your parents should kick yer arse for smoking cancer sticks :p especially since your under age
rite on..id quit them ciggz anywayz man, i aint even growd up yet but ive been smokin em fer long enuff ta kno that itz a stupid decision ta make in the first place. i still smoke half pack a day but truss me, quit while ya can! az fer the pot, well if yer dadz alrite wit it then im sure thingz will end up fine wit yer momz. if yer dad honestly thot yer mom wood flip at the newz, he prolly woodnt ov told u it wuz alrite until he spoke 2 her bout it first, kno wut i mean? anywayz good luck bud, i think u made the rite chioce by commin out an bein honest cuz i tried keepin erythin a secret at first but it causez alot more shit then if u were ta tell them. now u dun gotta wrry bout bein caught smokin er even bein high fer that matter. it makez tokin at home alot more relaxin. one tip fer yah tho: dunt rub the fact that yer allowed 2 smoke in, cuz that will b the moment that u aint allowed tokin anymore. if yer parentz dunt WANT u smokin, but they realize itz yer life, that duznt mean u can walk round blazed an proud ov it, ya kno? i aint tryin ta teach u a lesson er anythin, juss a friendly tip.
PeAcE
Thanks for the advice guys! Much appreciated. Yeah i got a lot of cred for being honest :)