this is why! Let's get back to it, shall we?:smokin:
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this is why! Let's get back to it, shall we?:smokin:
lw
Hello Latewood :) ................... You know I understand what you are saying 100% ;)
I'm affraid though I have noticed very recently some of the rudeness off the main lounge creeping it's way into the growing section :( . ............ You see my problem is I just can't back down if I'm upset. I wish I could ignore certain things, but I'm a bit silly really :o
To be honest love, I'm just trying to finish off the present grow journal and then I think it will be time for a nice long break, maybe return in the future when there will be all new fresh faces .................. you know ones who havent heard my same old stuff over and over again :o
love mand xxx :)
That's really sad mand, I've enjoyed reading through every journal you've written. Hell you've given me quite the inspiration in my grows as well as a lot of other members.
Though to be honest, if you don't use the internet for anything else it would be sort of a waste to keep the connection going for just these forums.
Bleh, I'll miss you a lot though. :/
LW - You couldn't be closer to the truth. <3 <3 <3
well, best wishes to all ! .... :smokin:
Big good buds.
Good Big Buds
Buds Good Big
I totally understand mand. We have way to many kiddie's here. Even some of the older members are acting like children now.Quote:
Originally Posted by mand
This bothers me greatly but the new owners are trolling for kiddies imo so I think we will have more of the same. I was hopping they would not venture here but I was wrong.
Nuts...
Mand, Much love darlin'...Look here! I know as much as anyone, how frustrating it can get hanging in this forum day after day. You build good relationships, but you have to deal with immateurity on all levels, and at times we feed into it ourselves.Quote:
Originally Posted by mand
I have a nice quiet site you would LOVExxx, if you are interested...It is much slower than this site, but is loaded with wonderful people I think you would enjoy. Nice easy laidback and always a friendly atmosphere... No fighting, no kiddie Bullshit. You and any other mature folks are invited and welcome, if you wish to join us sometime...lw
here is a shortcut.http://www.howsitgoineh.com/forums/index.php
I havnt been on this site very long, but when I first came on as mrabrego, it was a really cool and informative experience. I know changing your name is not the thing to do when you have no reason to do so, but i felt i was too "out there". Anyways, I have noticed a significant change in the general attitude and vibe of the boards, individuals like TC, and karmaxul, and others I dont know about, certainly havnt helped. I really like growing, and helping others with my limited grow knowledge, but its becoming too needy and rude. The individuals whose forums i would read when i started on here, were the ones that really gave me an idea of what I needed to grow, and not just plants. Guys like harddon, GK, turtle, and latewood were the ones I would read over and over. with the events of the pass week and all the kiddies, its been a huge turnoff, and i'm beginning to feel "not safe". I just wanna grow and smoke my own, I'm not a dealer, will never be a dealer, I dont need to make personal friends, I just want to learn and share with people who aske the right questions. Isnt that what we came here for in the first place?:confused:
I come here because it's the only place I can talk about growing. I don't talk about it to anyone in real life. So I have to get it off my chest. Thats all.
By the way,I'm glad my help is appretiated. lol:thumbsup:
Sure there are assholes, but mand you seriously have to stop bitching and complaining about it all the time. the guy made 1 remark on how you looked like a guy, who the fuck cares, does he grow? No. So who the fuck cares. Stop flooding the cultivation forums with drama. It might just be me but this whole thing has just turned REDICULOUS
Well trivium, this started out to be a happiness thread...
Mand is a long time devoted member here and alot of us are distressed that she's so upset. Take 'your' negativity elsewhere. Whether you agree with her or not.
I have seen a lot of the crap threads you start...has anyone flamed you??? because in my opinion you have been flaming mand about her reaction all week!!! what makes you so much better...and you just got here...
thanks for ruining my happy fucking thread. And don't come back with how mand was all negative, because I wanted 'her' to respond and talk to me! I knew she would...
lw
Latewood, you're taking this the wrong way bud, what Im saying is that EVERYONE gets stabbed at sooner or later, sure she is a devoted member I didnt say she isnt. I never critisized anything of mand other then when she had decided to make a thread flaming this guy. Latewood go ahead and review my posts, if you saw I got no help and abandond my thread, I got no help because I made 1 thread earlier on how I got no help and then in my grow thread I had no posts, no feed back. Labelled an ASSHOLE, this guy was the same, labelled an asshole , I was sticking up for him, this is happening around the boards right NOW as we speak. Whos going tob e there to tell it how it is if Im not, you're treating her so much different because she's devoted, Ive been on this site everyday more than 9 times a day just that I joined not too long ago and Im I guess not a devoted member, I contribute to the best of what I can but I dont care if that makes me devoted or not.
I dont want any 'negativity' with anyone on this site, Im telling it how it is and thanks for your KIND KIND remarks latewood.
Hi Zandor,Quote:
Originally Posted by Zandor
Why do you think they are trawling for kids? And what would be the purpose?
I agree, the kiddie situation is a real problem. I just read a thread where a 13 year old wants growing advice, and everyone is trying to talk him out of it. Now, I started smoking weed when I was 12, but I certainly would know better than to grow it in my parent's home! In fact, at 12 (I am46), I wouldn't even know you COULD grow it!
Thanks for the link, Latewood. I would love to stop over from time to time, but I gotta tell ya, that green background is horrid and I don't think I could stand to stay over there for long because of it! Otherwise it looks like a good and informative site. I won't leave canna.com though, it has been a godsend to me in help for growing my first batch. I'm still not having much luck, but I know everything I need to know and I owe it to canna.com.Quote:
Originally Posted by latewood
I think the rash of stupid kiddie questions in the grow forums should not be answered with anything other than a link directing them to the FAQ section. Answering them will only encourage them to keep a dialog up asking more stupid questions.Quote:
Originally Posted by cactusman23
Sorry, not Z...I believe it is because this generation kids spend more money on the site than us old hippie's. lwQuote:
Originally Posted by asintx
trivium...peace.
you are not telling me how it is. You are stating your perceptions...I think that's what got to me...I have found that we have to choose our words carefully in such matters.
I understand where you are coming from!
trivium...peace.
There is something way out of wack here...I was trying to get to the core of it...Now; Will I get the next response I need or will it be another step down negativity lane due to your response. Do you see where I'm coming from? If the lady needs to vent...Well then, I think the majority of people around here would like her to get it off her chest.
Karma would prevail...I believe in Karma; Do you?
Life goes on. When someone visits here daily and posts, has a great refreshing attitude amongst the heaps of 'Bullshit' Well...Just like me and you. you and me. All the rest! We all need a place away, a friendly place from the shit sandwich we label: Life
Boy, I remember...the 1st day that Mand posted. the following days the whole personna of this forum changed...People got friendlier. We wouldn't tolerate the obnoxious beligerence that had befallen us in the recent past; At the time a conversation like 'ours' would've turned into a long drawn out BITCHMATCH...I think it was BB and HD that really went at it; to the point of insanity.
over some grow method ideologies...I think.
Anyway, the work of all the longstanding 'growing forum' members to 'weed out' the obnoxius, undesirables, who really just wanted to stir shit with everyone...OK Lip, your on the edge...Just Kidding.LOL
or, wanted to just use the forums for their own little Illegal enterprises...all the scammers...
esrabilimar, or whatever the turks name is. I lived in Turkey for a year once...cool Place,.
Well, you have come into the back end of all this
and Mand was one of the reasons for the changes. We felt we had a Lady present...At least it sure appeared so...I don't know, but I am sure a few folks will "chime" in on this one.
anyway, I hope you realize that I am not trying to bust your chops...I am standing up for a friend. :smokin:
I'll try again. Mand, Tell me what is really bothering you...
latewood
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Originally Posted by latewood
note to follow.
was editing note when honeydo malfunction occurred, and I missed the edit window time limit.:)
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Originally Posted by Jdog7000
exactly
Latewood I understand where your coming from. This whole ordeal with mand has created 2 threads with no intent to help growers in anyway, I see you have to vent but its internet, dont take anything seriously. What ever, you guys continue your thread here and Ill be on my way.
i am here to learn and like said above there is nobody outside of this site that i talk about growing with.... with the younger cats running around here, it gets me kinda frustrated but at the same time paranoid....
1 of these kids get cought... next thing you know "i learned it from the internet c.com to be specific"