Scared Shitless: I Might be a Father!

So I got really stoned with this girl at a music festival on Saturday night. Im 16 and she's 15- yikes- and we went off into the woods. I was so stoned that I lost all judgement and ended up having sex with her, well, sort of. This might be too graphic for some people, but anyways, I never could quite get hard enough to completely penetrate her (perhaps because I was stoned) and i ended up having sex with the tip of my penis for a like 5 minutes... UNPROTECTED. I never ejaculated however, but I have been incredibly scared since it happened. She also wasn't on any kind of birth control. Is my life ruined?

bro chill...........

have you talked to her?

then why are you freaking out.

if you want to know have her get a day after pill or go get a test at the proper time.

it will not help if you sit there and worry........

use it as a learning experince, and dont do it again,,, use protection.

dont blame it on the weed either.........

I'm definitely not blaming the weed entirely- obviously it was a lousy decision I made. But will the morning after pill really work now? It's already been a day and a half since it happened?

And how could I possibly not worry- this could potentially ruin my entire future. I'd be a fucking dad at age 17. And having to explain everything to everyone- I'd almost rather just run away from it all like a big fucking pussy.

dude. umm. go talk to the pharmacy people. im serious. walk into rite aid and go to the back with the pharmacy people and explain your situation.

As long as you can contact this girl your ok. Have her go get a morning after pill and go with her to ensure that not only she goes but to comfort her. It can be scary ( Ive been in this situation). It works best within 24 hours but is still effective and can be taken after 72 hours, so get it on a.s.a.p!! I had to go to a local clinic first and be checked out by the doctor and then they will perscribe the pill.

The pharmacy cant do anything you must have a perscription from a doctor first.

Ok, so tommorow I will go to a pharmacy at lunch and try to have them help me. As long as my parents don't find out this seems like a good idea.

man I feel for ya, lol, especially at a festival. Most of the time at festivals I am far from sober, and it was just a spur-of-the-moment-feels-right type a thing, and now that it's over, you wake up and realize what you did. Had plenty of those. Good luck and try and get in contact with this lady friend of yours.

So what do you think the chances are that she is pregnant?

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Originally Posted by FindingTim

I never ejaculated

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last time I checked the opposite of that needs to happen in order to make babies.

I would be more worried about STD's at this point. Still, no harm in playing it safe.

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Originally Posted by FindingTim

So what do you think the chances are that she is pregnant?

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Probably very small .... but I'm glad that you're panicking about the consequences .... maybe the experience will make you act smarter next time.

Good Luck

This experience made me not want to have sex until I am married. Also, this was my first time. It's so stressful, but you guys are making me a little more relaxed. I don't think it is likely that she will be pregnant, it's just that if she does, there are so many reasons that my life will be ruined. Any more opinions would be greatly appreciated!

Not sure is this site really works but u can give it a try since you do need a perscription.http://www.getthepill.com/

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Originally Posted by FindingTim

This experience made me not want to have sex until I am married. Also, this was my first time. It's so stressful, but you guys are making me a little more relaxed. I don't think it is likely that she will be pregnant, it's just that if she does, there are so many reasons that my life will be ruined. Any more opinions would be greatly appreciated!

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Not only you, but all the other adolescents out there need to hear, understand and live to the following:

DON'T FUCK WOMEN UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED!
CAN'T WAIT? THEN USE CONTRACEPTION!

Don't have contraception and not willing to get any? Hope you like being a father, dumbass.

Fucking a bitch will result in her getting pregnant eventually, even if one or both of you use a rubber. Nothing is 100% effective, except for abstinence.

The worst part about knocking up some bitch is not what will happen to YOU, but what you will put the CHILD through.

Illegitamate children are more likely to:
-not graduate high school
-not attend or graduate college
-have mental problems
-have criminal records
-abuse drugs and alcohol
-be abusive parents
-be depressed
-die younger than those born into a real family
-make less money and have lower standards of living than those who aren't bastard children
-sire bastard children themselves, thereby perpetuating the cycle of illegitimate children and the poverty it places on others.

The moral of the story is this: Don't fuck bitches until you're married. Gotta fuck anyway? Use a rubber, IUD, or The Pill *properly*.

If you get her pregnant, then I believe the following: You, the bitch you impregnated, both your parents and the bastard child you created should all be murdered...

Stupidity breeds stupidity, which is a drain on those who aren't as stupid as you.

Go get counseling and learn how to jack off so you don't feel compelled to fuck every hot bitch that walks in front of you. I mean, Jesus...haven't you heard of just being satisfied with holding hands? At the most what's wrong with settling with a blowjob from her and waiting until you are married to fuck her?

Be a man and exhibit some self control. THAT is what being a man is.

Good luck!

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Ok, this is yesterday's news. Did you find out if you're a Daddy, yet?

I've been scared shitless, like this, before. Fifteen years later, I'm still kid-less.

Holy Cow, I wonder if I do have a kid?

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.

The reason humans get scared is it's a defensive mechanism, like pain.

We are *supposed* to learn that when we feel fear, we will not engage in the activity which causes such fear.

It's much like placing your hand onto a hot stove without a protective glove.

Yet, people disregard fear and are not willing to learn from the lessons it teaches us.

Too dumb to use a rubber? You get scared.

Bitch misses her period and gets morning sickness? You get scared.

Turns out she's just late and she's not pregnant? You *should* have just learned a valuable lesson and *should* make a point never to be in that situation again.

Unfortunately, us humans take such close calls for granted and do not learn that way. Instead, we forget and continue to blow our wad in them.

Then, you get her pregnant and you become incredulous.

Unbelievable...

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Originally Posted by krustythfreakinclown

Not only you, but all the other adolescents out there need to hear, understand and live to the following:

DON'T FUCK WOMEN UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED!
CAN'T WAIT? THEN USE CONTRACEPTION!

Don't have contraception and not willing to get any? Hope you like being a father, dumbass.

Fucking a bitch will result in her getting pregnant eventually, even if one or both of you use a rubber. Nothing is 100% effective, except for abstinence.

The worst part about knocking up some bitch is not what will happen to YOU, but what you will put the CHILD through.

Illegitamate children are more likely to:
-not graduate high school
-not attend or graduate college
-have mental problems
-have criminal records
-abuse drugs and alcohol
-be abusive parents
-be depressed
-die younger than those born into a real family
-make less money and have lower standards of living than those who aren't bastard children
-sire bastard children themselves, thereby perpetuating the cycle of illegitimate children and the poverty it places on others.

The moral of the story is this: Don't fuck bitches until you're married. Gotta fuck anyway? Use a rubber, IUD, or The Pill *properly*.

If you get her pregnant, then I believe the following: You, the bitch you impregnated, both your parents and the bastard child you created should all be murdered...

Stupidity breeds stupidity, which is a drain on those who aren't as stupid as you.

Go get counseling and learn how to jack off so you don't feel compelled to fuck every hot bitch that walks in front of you. I mean, Jesus...haven't you heard of just being satisfied with holding hands? At the most what's wrong with settling with a blowjob from her and waiting until you are married to fuck her?

Be a man and exhibit some self control. THAT is what being a man is.

Good luck!

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Why are you always throwing such a fit?

thats what happened to me and my gf.... but she was 20 and i was 21. Now she is 21 and i am 22, we both parents now and we live together with our 9 month year old daughter. Its the greatest thing in the world but at the same time its not. Good luck and next time use a rubber boys and girls.
Oh and btw minnesota man.... Me and my wife love our daughter to death... and she is a happy girl!. Just chill man i understand where ur coming from, but it doesnt always turn out that way...

If you did'nt bust a nut then how could she be pregnant? I would'nt worry. The worst that could happen is that you have some sort of really bad STD. Mybe aid's? So yeah, don't worry, she won't be pregnant.

*alway's look on the bright side of life*

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Originally Posted by CrAzYpOtHeAd

If you did'nt bust a nut then how could she be pregnant? I would'nt worry. The worst that could happen is that you have some sort of really bad STD. Mybe aid's? So yeah, don't worry, she won't be pregnant.

*alway's look on the bright side of life*

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Girls can get pregnant off of pre-cum.

Yeah but who said he produced precum? lmao, iv had precum from just thinking about a fit girl so yeah... Mybe he is fucked.... haha.

Have fun being a 16 year old father :thumbsup: :D

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Originally Posted by CrAzYpOtHeAd

Yeah but who said he produced precum? lmao, iv had precum from just thinking about a fit girl so yeah... Mybe he is fucked.... haha.

Have fun being a 16 year old father :thumbsup: :D

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Just like my science teacher told us " Be careful using the pull-out method. You always dribble before you shoot."

I would be willing to try and help by answering this question. I have been around and believe I could give an answer that would make since and help you on your way. But I'm not. Everytime you little shits get your asses in a jam, the first thing you try to say is "The weed made me do it!".
The weed didn't make you do shit. Weed didn't turn you into a little retard that can't get a boner. Want advice. Don't smoke it, so you can't blame it, and stop being a little retard.

Actually I think that Tim is a pretty smart guy ... he actually understands the risks .... but we all know that in the heat of passion .... it's not easy to keep our heads (there may be a pun there) !!!

Being young is full of risks .... some life altering and some life ending. Everyone makes mistakes .... and we deal with the consequences the best that we can.

I guess. If it makes him feel better for being a dumbass. Still doesn't change the fact that he's blaming weed for his stupid mistakes. I can't say I never made dumbass mistakes. I'm the king of 'em, but the weed doesn't make anyone do nothing. I can understand a drunk blaming the booze, but this kids full of shit.

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Originally Posted by halo

Just like my science teacher told us " Be careful using the pull-out method. You always dribble before you shoot."

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My wife and i did PULL AND PREY FOR 4 YEARS... no kids. I am master of my stuff..........lol

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Originally Posted by FindingTim

I never ejaculated however, but I have been incredibly scared since it happened.

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haha dude no offence but that's your answer right there.

So here is what happened today- It's kind of a long ramble and after writing it I realized that I change tenses a lot, so bear with me:

I went in to the health department at lunch by myself and the lady working there at the time absolutely refused to give me the pills without having the female present. So after explaining my situation and begging her with everything I had, I left and headed off for fifth period, very saddened by her denial.

I looked everywhere for the girl I had sex with, but couldn't find out what class she had. During fifth period, I asked a friend of mine if she would mind ditching 6th period and helping me get the pills. She refused because she needed to attend english class. I explained to her that she could potentially clean up my enormous mess by helping me out, but she still refused. Soon after class I saw her run by me bawling. I figured that I had put so much pressure on her to help me with my problem that she felt horribly confused and upset. I called her name to make an apology but she kept on running.

Anyways, a friend of mine appeared in my view just seconds later, and agreed to help me out, so we walked to the health department. I thought all she would have to do would be fill out paperwork, but she ended up having to pee in a cup, get a 20 minute lecture about sex, and fill out about 5 pages of paperwork as well. At one point, the nurse asked her what she had eaten today and she replied that she had eaten nothing. The doctor reccomended that she take the pills sometime later after eating. I'm so thankful my friend didn't eat today, or she would have been forced to eat the pills right on the spot and the entire attempt would be a failure.

So after about 1/2 an hour in the health department, my friend and I get outside of the health department and both take huge sighs of relief. I then look her in the eyes and say, "that was the nicest thing anybody has ever done for me."

So after ditching 6th period to get the pills, I approach my bus where I am positive I will find the girl I had sex with, and I do. She takes the pills as recommended, and about 20 minutes into the bus ride she starts looking nauseous. This was one of the common side effects listed on the package, So I figure the medicine is atleast trying to do its job.

So although I am not certain she will not become pregnant, the chances are now very unlikely. The health department even gave me four free condoms... which I will not be using until I am married.

haha those rubbers will be bad by then....they only last three years....at the most

So you gave her poison. Good job, dumbass. I hope you are proud of your friend's advice, you dip-shit.

Dude you should'nt be having sex, your to much of a dumbass, you exspect to use those condoms on ur wedding day? If you had any sense you would of had a condom on the day u stuck ur god damn dick up her!

Okay dude relax.

1. You did not cum, so there will only be about a 10% chance of her getting pregnant, from your 'other juices'.
2. You didn't penetrate very deeply, so her getting pregnant would have been very difficult.
3. You weren't erect properly, decreases the risk of ejaculation.

I'd say you're pretty safe. Just talk to her about it, make sure she don't get scared and cry rape.

It's really nice of all of you guys to call me a dumbass, dumbfuck etc. when it has been quite obvious to me since it happened that I made the biggest, and stupidest mistake of my life. I think one of your posts actually wished that I would die... So thanks for all your help and support when I am going through what is easily the most stressful thing I have ever experienced.

lol. Then you obvoiusly hav'nt experienced alot.

Give me an example of something that you've experienced that has been more stressful, I'm curious?

Well dude talk to her, fact is most quickies or shit sex ends up a bun in the oven, How pissed or stoned you are always wear a hat mate!

Good luck

Peace

o yea.....she is definately pregnant.....sure was some easy pussy....probably going to see the doctor when your dick starts falling off....yep, sucks for you, DUMBASS!

yes........she IS pregnant, yes.......she has VD(your not the first guy she ho'ed with) and yes, you are a DUMBASS and should have thought about these things!

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Originally Posted by FindingTim

Give me an example of something that you've experienced that has been more stressful, I'm curious?

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Child abuse. Trust me, its pretty stressful rememing only being a little child and having a pervert whos a MEMEBER OF YOUR OWN FAIMLY who did shit to you and thinks you can't even remember it. But trust me, i remember it.

You did'nt even cum and you think thats the most STRESSFULL thing you've ever experienced? trust me, alot worse things have happened to people. If you think what you've gone threw now is bad then i don't think your gonna like your future because worse shit will proberly happen to you.

Tim,

Your first mistake was going to this board for serious help. After all the panic is over, you'll be able to sort everything out and know how to better handle things next time. If you've ever got a friend in the same position, help him out personally, so he doesn't have to get help from strangers on the internet.