Titty bars?

Women, do you care if your boyfriends/husbands go to the strip clubs? Or would want to go with them?

I'm just curious because I never cared in past relationships, but I do now. My boyfriend can of course go, but I don't like it. I don't know if that makes me insecure or him immature, or both. I went through a phase during which I thought it was fun to go, but I'm over it. Now, for the most part, I think they're pretty gross. At least the ones around here are nasty. I would go to a more upscale titty bar I guess.
What do y'all think?

I have accompanied my hubby to a few, but I think I did it so he could still go, but I could still watch him, also to see what the big deal is...if he ever went to one without me, I would make sure his bags were packed when he got home so he could stay with his mommy..or one of the whores shakin her ass for money

I used to go to titty bars. Then, when I started seeing this girl, I only went a few times at the beginning of the relationship. This was because I didn't mind having strange girls flashing their bodies in front of my face. And these strange girls, mostly, had better bodies than my girlfriend. The younger ones, anyways. Now, I just think it's a waste of a few extra dollars, even if I don't tip the dancer, one drink and out.

I'd be worried, if I were you. Just make him feel guilty as hell and he'll get over that scene.

Any woman that doesn't want her boyfriend to go a strip club is insecure or immature. Muncheemama you got the whip out on that relationship, huh? Poor guy.....

I agree with Bong, life is too short to restrict yourself to doing fun things because someone else feels they need utter and complete control over you otherwise you're not to be trusted.

That's like locking the dog up outside at night to make sure he doesn't piss on the carpet.

Girls shouldn't care. Those dancers are just doing their job.

Maybe you'll get lucky and he will bring a hottie home and you can have a threesome with an extremely hot chic.......you gotta look at the bright side!:rasta:

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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs

Girls shouldn't care. Those dancers are just doing their job.

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Maybe someone's girlfriend/wife would care if she knew that the guy was buying 5 song lap-dances instead of taking her out to dinner ....

Anyway, I've been there and done that .....

I apologize for posting to this gal-survey.

Titty bars around here are sleazy as hell, I went with my ex once and she didnt find it fun at all lmao

Whenever i go to portland,or I go to the titty bars there. They arent as sleazy and you can order hella food and shit.

Lets reverse the question, if you females were to go to a male strip club, would your boyfriend/husband find it offensive??

I know I wouldnt, its just entertainment....

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Originally Posted by DonnieDarko

Maybe someone's girlfriend/wife would care if she knew that the guy was buying 5 song lap-dances instead of taking her out to dinner ....

Anyway, I've been there and done that .....

I apologize for posting to this gal-survey.

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Oh, this is a gal's survey?

Sorry, I apologize, too.

Fortunately, my husband doesn't want to go now, though he used to go before he met me. He thinks it's expensive and a waste of money, and if he wants some tits in his face, he can have mine. :)

Sounds like me. I mean...

Iâ??ve been in an out of a few strip clubs. I used to go sometimes when I was in the military with the guys from my unit. It was alright and free for me but it was a little irritating when my guys got drunk and kept trying to buy me lap dances. Once when we went my boyfriend came with us. It was OK I think it made him more uneasy than it made me. I didnâ??t care if he went to a strip club with his friends he was an honest and faithful man to me.

Yes, itâ??s a waste of money.

And if it were a frequent activity than I would just find another man. Itâ??s easier to find another man than it is to stop one from doing something like that. Plus, once you start telling each other what the other can or canâ??t do then things usually start to fall apart.

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Originally Posted by MaryJaneintheCloset

Fortunately, my husband doesn't want to go now, though he used to go before he met me. He thinks it's expensive and a waste of money, and if he wants some tits in his face, he can have mine. :)

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:).

Ive never been to one, and probally never will. IMO its a waste of money and id rather go get a sack and get blazed.

Ive only been to a strip club twice in my life.

I was actually turned off by the whole scene.

The guy I went with walked over to the ATM inside the place pulled out 200 bucks and it was gone in less than a half hour.

To me it seems pretty dumb to watch all these guys look at women like hungry dogs.

These guys have no sexual value and the women that work there know it.

im not a girl but i dont see why its such a big deal to let ur husband go to a titty bar... its jus another way to have fun and relieve stress in my opinion.

Save the money... buy a fat sack.

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Originally Posted by BongSmokityDuo

Any woman that doesn't want her boyfriend to go a strip club is insecure or immature. Muncheemama you got the whip out on that relationship, huh? Poor guy.....

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hey, a good man needs a good woman to keep him honest..and a good woman needs a good man to keep her happy...a happy woman needs a chair and an AC/DC tape to do anything those girls can do, he knows hes not missing out... he loves me:D

Being in a committed relationship means having trust. You're not supposed to like him going to strip-clubs, but letting him is a sign of trust, and a healthy relationship on your part. Does he let you go to dodgy places? A good relationship has trust all around.

When you just don't have enough trust and you start stopping him from going places, then compromise kicks in. If you he can compromise with you and vice-versa, then everything is all good.

Trust+Compromise are the ying+yang of relationships.

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Originally Posted by Peach.Optimo.Bluntz

Save the money... buy a fat sack.

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EGGzachly.

Just a few comments :

Waste of $$$$ ???? An overpriced drink and a few dollar bills to see a dozen near naked girls when you're looking at the same woman every night (even though she is hot). Variety and fantasy is the spice of life !!!

Hubby doesn't go anymore: Yeah I stopped going when I was old enough to be the dancer's father. These girls are just trying to make a buck, they shouldn't have to be grossed out by dancing for a guy 25 years older. Most of them aren't whores, as much as they're values-challenged, without alot of options in life.

In most cases, a strip club is just a place that guy's can can go to be immature, which is our preferred state.

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Originally Posted by DonnieDarko

Just a few comments :

Waste of $$$$ ???? An overpriced drink and a few dollar bills to see a dozen near naked girls when you're looking at the same woman every night (even though she is hot). Variety and fantasy is the spice of life !!!

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Internet-porn is free.

The Nudie Bar

From Rites of Passage (616):
Where the music stinks, and they water the drinks, the nudie bar.
Where the girlies dance in their underpants, the nudie bar.
Where you see their butt, and their trap stays shut, at the nudie bar.
Where you can't touch a breast, but you can cave in a chest, at the nudie bar.
Where you look at a thigh, and blacken an eye, at the nudie bar.
Where the beer gives you gas, but the Bundys kick ass, at the nudie bar.

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Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud

The Nudie Bar

From Rites of Passage (616):
Where the music stinks, and they water the drinks, the nudie bar.
Where the girlies dance in their underpants, the nudie bar.
Where you see their butt, and their trap stays shut, at the nudie bar.
Where you can't touch a breast, but you can cave in a chest, at the nudie bar.
Where you look at a thigh, and blacken an eye, at the nudie bar.
Where the beer gives you gas, but the Bundys kick ass, at the nudie bar.

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That avatar had me busting up!

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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs

Internet-porn is free.

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lol preech on brotha

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Originally Posted by Psycho4Bud

The Nudie Bar

From Rites of Passage (616):
Where the music stinks, and they water the drinks, the nudie bar.
Where the girlies dance in their underpants, the nudie bar.
Where you see their butt, and their trap stays shut, at the nudie bar.
Where you can't touch a breast, but you can cave in a chest, at the nudie bar.
Where you look at a thigh, and blacken an eye, at the nudie bar.
Where the beer gives you gas, but the Bundys kick ass, at the nudie bar.

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I used to go to this one club, and they had Hendrix's Greatest Hits as one of their CD's, in the jukebox.

It's kind of funny, because I can, probably, dance better to Hendrix than them because I know every note.

hmmmm there seems to be a few missing posts...????umm wtf?

this is a problem I dont have because my bf's sister is a stripper so he in general doesn't like them.

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Originally Posted by muncheemama

hmmmm there seems to be a few missing posts...????umm wtf?

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You're right there are.. because they consisted of totally off-top personal attacks... as instigated as they were.. they were un-needed. So i removed them.

We try to keep the personal attacks to a minimum.

Bob.

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Originally Posted by BobBong

You're right there are.. because they consisted of totally off-top personal attacks... as instigated as they were.. they were un-needed. So i removed them.

We try to keep the personal attacks to a minimum.

Bob.

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understandable...the "C" word was tossed around a bit more than I usually like to see...myself, guilty as well...way to be on that Bob:thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by poorprincess

this is a problem I dont have because my bf's sister is a stripper so he in general doesn't like them.

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i can see that....imagine sitting down with your buddies for some brew and boobies, and out walks little sis in pasties and a leopard print thong....lapdance anyone???

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Originally Posted by BobBong

You're right there are.. because they consisted of totally off-top personal attacks... as instigated as they were.. they were un-needed. So i removed them.

We try to keep the personal attacks to a minimum.

Bob.

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I'm coming after you, buddy! :smokin:

I really appreciate everyone's input.

I didn't mind the clubs that much until I was the DD for my boyfriend, his friends, and my older brother one night. They all got drunk while I was stone cold sober and they decided they wanted to go to the titty bar. The thought of going and sitting between my boyfriend and my brother simply disgusted me. Now, I can't imagine going at all, ever.

I understand why some men, even those in relationships, want to go.
I understand why some women don't want their men to go.

The thing I don't understand is why I can't think of a compromise that would make both me and my boyfrind happy. Is there one?

Just let him go by himself. He won't have as much fun, alone, and he'll feel guilty for hitting on the dancers. You can try that.

You know, Jerry Falwell got rid of all the "titty" bars in the surrounding Lynchburg area. Move there, then your "man" will have nowhere to go, except "Applebee's".

Yeah, I know it's a girls survey, but I'm going to answer anyway....I don't go to tittty bars and my wife doesn't have a problem if I decided to go to one. I've been to one...it was actually a 'locked door' party and there was a little more than shaking going on. Anyway, there was nothing attractive about out of shape women with bullet holes shaking their shit in my face.

wtf, bullet holes??? sounds like they got some, uhh, high class ladies to look at...

if I was married i wouldnt go unless she okayed that

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Originally Posted by DonnieDarko

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Most of them aren't whores, as much as they're values-challenged, without alot of options in life.

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or just women who enjoy making 700 or more dollars a night.

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Originally Posted by muncheemama

i can see that....imagine sitting down with your buddies for some brew and boobies, and out walks little sis in pasties and a leopard print thong....lapdance anyone???

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yeah thats why I dont have this problem. Neat huh?