...hey im a guy by the way....help me people...are htere any techniques to help me last longer besides meds...or syuff to make her cum quicker so i dont look so bad lol....help:confused:
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...hey im a guy by the way....help me people...are htere any techniques to help me last longer besides meds...or syuff to make her cum quicker so i dont look so bad lol....help:confused:
Play with her clit for a long time. If you don't know where that is, it's above the hole.
If you jerk off, until you're about to cum, that's a way to build your stamina.
she dosent like the whole eating out concept...just dick and pussy...hat do i do???!!!...its gunna be her first time and i want it to be her best....heal?!?!?!
No, with your hand, play with the clit. Don't just stick your fingers in.
Wow, her first time. Wish I was there.
You can use your dick to play with her clit also. That makes them feel good.
Don't be so nervous, you'll ruin it for the both of you.
Make sure to get her really turned on before you do anything even close to sex. Kiss her, suck on her nipples, pull on her hair a little bit.
Feel her through her thong/panties, if she's wet - go for it, but tease her a little bit. Make sure you're building her anticipation, but don't torture her too much.
Since it's her first time, I would get her worked up with a finger to where she's midway there, then go ahead and strap in!
There are two kinds of guys.
Guys who can control their orgasms.
Guys who can't control their orgasms.
This is where you have to get in there psychologically -
Right now, sign a pact to yourself mentally that you'll never cum before the girl does. Never. Put her orgasm first in your mind before anything.
If you for some reason start thinking negatively about yourself blowing, you will. If you DO start to get close, pull it out - make out with her and finger her for a few minutes and concentrate on clearing your mind and know that you, just like everyone else, can control their orgasms. After you've relaxed your PC muscle (that muscle between your ass and your balls) put it back in.
It's all in your head.
Oh yeah, and if you don't jack off at least once a day, I recommend you go ahead and masturbate before going to see her to at least "release the easy one".
Anything else?
Good luck!
ok thanks grim reefer...you must be a sex god...
:D lol jk
Don't masturbate and run your well dry. I think that you're young enough to let your body (penis) build it's stamina on it's own. Just have sex about 200 times by the time you're twenty, and that should do it.
Lol, 199 more to go, right?
lol yep
:confused: If its her first time how does she know that she doesn't like oral sex?
Buddy i hate to inform you of this but...first times never work out exactly the way you envisioned it.
If it's any reassurance, yes you will be the best lover she's ever had...by default. If anything i encourage you to have lots of practice with her (practice safe though!)
Learn to be the lover she wants, that ensures you will be the best she's had AND you'll have a consistent sex life.
Fuck her in the ass unexpectedly..that always works.
It's "awkward" for me to read this thread .... << sigh >>
Devin,
I gonna give you the benefit of the doubt that you're a good guy who's just trying to make it through his teens .... As stated above ... It's not gonna be great, it's probably something that both of you will look back on and say "Why the f*ck did I do that ??"
Forget about orgasms, forget about cumming too soon, forget about making it the best she'll ever have. Lower the expectations. I'm not sure WHY you guys wanna have sex (no need to put it in this thread), but be aware that sex alone will not support a relationship very long. Work longer on building your relationship together, through communication, kindness and intimacy. Hold hands, make out, cop a feel, get a handjob !!! (I am WAY too old to be posting this LOL ??)
You should be at the stage in life when getting to third base is still a thrill. Take things slower. If you're gonna have sex, do it only on very special occasions, and of course, use multiple forms of birth control.
This isn't a lecture, as I believe that this is info that you will figure out in a few years.
Good Luck my friend ...
thanks you all..you really helped me out...specially darko...thanks guyz
Where were your a few years back?Quote:
Originally Posted by DonnieDarko
Yeah dude, listen to him. Usually not worth it.
picutre this in your head: there's fat bastard (from austin powers) sitting on your bed with you while your fucking whoever, but what's that he's doing? omg! he's shitting on your fuck... yea concentrate on that and you shouldn't have any problem saving it for the right momment... tho you might have a bit of a problem keeping it up. :thumbsup:
~Slipknotpsycho~ (cuz i'm lazy and don't feel like signing out of my wife's account)~
dude wear a condom
it will reduce sensation for you
wear two if ya gotta
give her plenty of foreplay also
give her oral also she will like it once she feels the tongue trust me
if she still doesnt let you she is prolly a lame fuck anyway
if so, bend her over and smack that ass hard while your fuckin her :-)