Cheating and lying

Do you ever think that your partner or ex partner has cheated on you ever behind your back, or that she tells you lies that you dont know weather their true or not, lies that you cant find out weather shes lying because she might get her friends to lie for her.

Do you trust your partner absolutely 100%, i dont think you do, every man will always have doubts in their mind thinking that their girlfriend, wife or whatever does stuff even if its not sex, like flirting or something.

Do you trust your part 100% or did you trust your ex 100%?

I thought I trusted my ex while I was with him, but after he dumped me I started wondering whether he'd been cheating on me. I think he may have, but it's been a couple of years now, and I don't care any more. I trust my current boyfriend 100% and I know that he wouldn't have sex with anyone else behind my back. Having said that, I don't count looking at other women, or flirting with them as cheating, because I do it too, with men and women, and it'd be kinda hypocritical of me to hate him doing it. Doing that kinda thing isn't serious because we live together and at the end of the day we'll be going home together, it's just a bit of fun, and frankly I'd hate being with anyone who was so paranoid they thought that looking at someone else meant I was gonna jump into bed with them.

Yes, I do because at the end of my last relationship this bitch was actin like she wasnt feelin me anymore and as SOON as we break up she gets another bf, like he was waitin for the breakup...fuckin bitch. But no, not even when this happened will I cheat on my mate, I'm a really loyal guy...it's fucked up how people who arent loyal all ways gets the loyal friends but never treat them right and the loyal people always gets fucked over.

yes, i know he did when we were first 9 years together. when we were in amsterdam i gave him :thumbsup: on going to a brothel but he would not go:confused: they had very beautiful females... it is just sex...
one thing i have noticed about the free love generation males is the free love thing only applies if they are the one getting it.. lol... or is that every generation???

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Originally Posted by orangeman

Yes, I do because at the end of my last relationship this bitch was actin like she wasnt feelin me anymore and as SOON as we break up she gets another bf, like he was waitin for the breakup...fuckin bitch. But no, not even when this happened will I cheat on my mate, I'm a really loyal guy...it's fucked up how people who arent loyal all ways gets the loyal friends but never treat them right and the loyal people always gets fucked over.

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fine as you are tha young ladies will be sniffin around soon... take a lesson baby... you got it... :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by cannabis campbell

Do you ever think that your partner or ex partner has cheated on you ever behind your back, or that she tells you lies that you dont know weather their true or not, lies that you cant find out weather shes lying because she might get her friends to lie for her.

Do you trust your partner absolutely 100%, i dont think you do, every man will always have doubts in their mind thinking that their girlfriend, wife or whatever does stuff even if its not sex, like flirting or something.

Do you trust your part 100% or did you trust your ex 100%?

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She needs to be held to the same standard she holds you to when it comes to honesty.

Lying is something a person cannot hide. When someone lies they will: Look away, swallow, look down, look away, or figet. This isnt anything you can control because the subconscious mind controls this part of the body. That is how people "know" someone is lying. Dont listen to words, watch the body.

She needs to know that you are secure about the relationship. If she can sense that you are jealous, uptight, or possessive it most likely becomes a self fullfilling profecy by your own creation.

If you have to know who she is talking to, where she is going, who she is going with or playing her prison gaurd, well it shows you are too clingy and both men and women want to feel free, not obligated or forced to care for anothers feelings.

She shouldnt cheat as long as you are doing the things she needs yet fears losing to another woman. She also shouldnt cheat if you are pushing her sexual buttons.

If your not then she will respond to another guy who does and this makes no difference whether she's married or not. She can love you very much and still not want to have sex with you.

Many men are in relationships just like this, thinking it has something to do with her sex drive. Or they come to work and complain to the guys at work that "she never wants it" Or they come across as begging for sex. No guy would ever admit doing this, but doing certain things sends that message.

If a guy approaches a woman 80-90% of the time for sex he is not a challenge in the relationship. A man can never allow himself to be precieved as someone that begs, complains or makes sex an issue. Yet this is what so many guys inadvertantly do. Once your labeled sexual begger/complainer its hard to reverse that perception.

Its a supply and demand perception and when she can get it from you when ever she wants your supply is high and your sexual value is low.

I dont like violence but dirty fucking cheats need a slap for putting their partners at risk and beat to a pulp if they infect.The reason why I am so angry is because my ex cheated on me and 8 years later an infection has ruined my chances of having children naturally,I am so lucky it wasnt HIV but unlucky it was chlamydia that was not diagnosed for years :mad:

Dont forgive the fuckers they deserve to rot in hell :smokin:

I trust my wife implicitly and without question, absolutely, 200 percent. She's never given me a reason not to. Everyone I've been with gets the same level of trust until you give me a reason to distrust you.

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Originally Posted by HiddenBeauty

I dont like violence but dirty fucking cheats need a slap for putting their partners at risk and beat to a pulp if they infect.The reason why I am so angry is because my ex cheated on me and 8 years later an infection has ruined my chances of having children naturally,I am so lucky it wasnt HIV but unlucky it was chlamydia that was not diagnosed for years :mad:

Dont forgive the fuckers they deserve to rot in hell :smokin:

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Oh man... I am so sorry, HiddenBeauty. :(

i dont waste energy worrying about what someone else is gonna do
if the girl wants to fuck around then let her shes the one thats gonna suffer
in the long run anyways.i act cool all the time so there really aint no reason
for lying.if she cheats she will feel bad eventually.i could care less

Thats a good way of thinking about it :thumbsup:

sometimes they dont feel bad though, they dont give a shit and they dont even notice they do it.

and i hate it when girls think its ok to do certain things but then get jelous at you when you do it like hugging a friend or texting or something like that.

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Originally Posted by MaryJaneintheCloset

Oh man... I am so sorry, HiddenBeauty. :(

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Thank you MaryJane,you really are a sweetheart :)

I just want people to know that cheating can cause alot more harm then a broken heart.

i know one of my x's cheated but I didn't care at all cuz I never really loved him

hell no! let me say this....every man(except my hubby{i know}) i have ever known has been a cheater and one point or another, dad, brothers, grandpa's, friends, coworkers, boyfriends. so, this i ask...how can my hubby be so special? what makes me so special
i just have to give up control, and realize ppl will cheat. i think its less a fear of being cheated on, and more about being dooped. i hate the feeling of knowing someone got over on me...

did you ever hear the song "Make an ugly girl your wife"????
well I got sick of having hot looking women that can fuck any man they want because they will when it comes down to it
my present gf is overwieght and a nice person and she wont cheat :-)

Yes, I trust my partner 100% and he trusts me. We both have no problem "flirting" with other people because we are so secure in our relationship. And when I say flirting, I don't mean disrespectfully either. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to stop looking, flirting, or accept compliments from other people. I think it's only human to look and flirt a little. As long as they know you're just playing around and you don't string anyone along into thinking that you want to get laid.

I sense a lot of insecurity here. If your partner cheats and lies, you know she/he is not worth your time and whether you're attentive and giving your partner everything they need to be faithful, it doesn't matter because it's not you. It's the cheaters and liars that have a problem so sooner or later, they would've cheated on you or anyone else for that matter.

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Originally Posted by orangeman

Yes, I do because at the end of my last relationship this bitch was actin like she wasnt feelin me anymore and as SOON as we break up she gets another bf, like he was waitin for the breakup...fuckin bitch. But no, not even when this happened will I cheat on my mate, I'm a really loyal guy...it's fucked up how people who arent loyal all ways gets the loyal friends but never treat them right and the loyal people always gets fucked over.

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Yeah I don't get it ethier why is it the loyal people get screwed up by the disloyal its actually starting to piss me off and its making me feel like not being loyal (but I couldn't do that because I have morals)its like whats the point when you don't get it back?:confused:

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Originally Posted by Cheery Cherry

Yes, I trust my partner 100% and he trusts me. We both have no problem "flirting" with other people because we are so secure in our relationship. And when I say flirting, I don't mean disrespectfully either. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to stop looking, flirting, or accept compliments from other people. I think it's only human to look and flirt a little. As long as they know you're just playing around and you don't string anyone along into thinking that you want to get laid.

I sense a lot of insecurity here. If your partner cheats and lies, you know she/he is not worth your time and whether you're attentive and giving your partner everything they need to be faithful, it doesn't matter because it's not you. It's the cheaters and liars that have a problem so sooner or later, they would've cheated on you or anyone else for that matter.

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If I couldn't flirt, I'd feel dead, lol! Flirting is more or less harmless, imo. Some people can't handle it, though, due to insecurities. I can't say I've never cheated on a girlfriend before, but I can say that it's not worth it in the end.

If you 'love' someone cheating becomes an obsolete concept, but flirting remains fun...

I like your views. :thumbsup:

I have cheated, and i still do, and if my girl wants to cheat, she can, i really don't care. I like open relationships, and i ain't ready for no commitment, and i admit that to her. I talk to other girls, get their numbers and shit, and i know she does the same with men so watever.... And when i am in a serious relationship and my girl cheats on me, i won't give a fuck, cause it's her loss, she's losin me so watever...when it happens it happens....