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Its like this me and my girl have been together for some months now..and we have been arguing these past couple of weeks because she doesnt like me smoking good ole mary jane..THE Ganja!.. And it has been getting on my damn nerves wit this shit, and i already told her i aint never gonna stop smoking, im not gonna change for no girl..thats just me..Im hood like that...but i dont want this to be a reason that we break up...What yall think i should do??:confused: :confused:
compromise. Dont smoke around her/be high around her.
Thats a pretty fair deal, at least i think so.
i know that wont solve the "i dont want you to smoke weed"
I say learn the weed science inside out and challenge her to a debate. Tell her if she won't even use some critical thinking and actually consider all sides of a debate, then her argument holds no water.
If you actually say the words "im not gonna change for no girl", out loud .... you should expect alot of short relationships.
Being in a relationship always means compromise and change. If you start with a girl that likes weed, she won't bug you about that, but it will be something else.
kick her to the curb and get a bigger uglier girl whos goin to be happy to take wat she gets and wont complain about anyting
Stick to your guns homie, if she breaks up with you coz of that bullshit then there's plently more pussy out there. I'd rather be with a fine ganja smoking girl anyway.
Yeah mate you may be doomed my girl is exactly the same she went nuts over one joint while she was sleeping on the setee. We are still together but I dont get high while Im with her cos she hates it and she wont change her views and niether will I,
:stoned:
i was with a chick who didnt like me fuckin her while she was asleep
she would be like "wat the fuck are you doin?im sleepin here,take your cock out of my ass"
to make a long story short shes now in a coma and she never complains when i fuck her
everybodys a winner
my advice is hang in there mate and things will work themselves out
Just give her all the real facts. Hopefully she'll realise that what she thinks she knows is government brainwashing bullshit!
THanks yall...That government brainwashing bullshit is so true tho...But she partys alot so i told her if you stop partying i wont smoke AS MUCH..and now she tryna say that her going out and me smokin is the same thing..i told her i dont smoke wit anybody but my homeboys when you at the club you shake ur ass with another nigga..but imma take all yalls advice...she just thinks i act different when i smoke and who doesnt...Ganja 4 life
Be like ill do what I want with my life and you do what u want with yours. Be respectfull about it though. Don't do it around her.
but im the type of dude that smokes anywhere and does not give a fuck i mean public places..i dont care...but maybe you right, but i dont do it around her that much she just knows when im high and that pisses her off...but preciate it tho.
That's fucked up.Quote:
Originally Posted by weezy
Oh, and to Swisha- good luck with that... I think that as long as you don't do it around her, then she should be cool with it. If you guys care enough about the relationship, then you're both going to have to compromise a little. And I agree, don't be proclaiming the "I won't change for any girl" shit to people, because that's a major turnoff for chicks. Just my 2 cents. :)
if she cant accept you for who you are and how you are then is she the right girl for you?
Keep the real G/F MARYJANE. Forget any party chick that wants to go out and bump bump on others, and then says you can't smoke. FUCK THAT
Everyone says that relationship is about compromise.
BULLSHIT!!!!
If you really love someone - why change them? I mean logically if you love someone the way they are and you change them then they won't be the one you fell in love with in the first place - its just fucking stupid.
Dude, IMHO, you should let it go. You COULD be respectful and not smoke around her as some folks here are saying - but THINK ABOUT IT. What did you gain out of that 'compromise' JACK MOTHERFUCKING SHIT!!!!!
Break up, dude. Find someone who'll love you (all of you) for who you are.
(Thank you folks, Dr. Phil-my-bong is here till Tuesday)
Hell yeah Willie, I just smoked some Willie Nelson and read your post :stoned:
yeah bro, its all about the comprimise. She can't make you stop shit..and she should accept you for being you. but I agree with everyone who said just dont do it so much around her.
It might not be just because she doesn't like weed.. She might not want to be in a relationship with an inmate.. There are legal consequences if you DO get busted.. I'm just saying, that's all..
And your wrong willystyle, relationships ARE alot of compromise. People are just to different. It might not be big things, but more like food and tv shows.. There is NO ONE out there that is just like you.. Can't be..:p
Yea thats true cus she already had to deal with me being locked up before and it was hard on her...but ima do me..Just like the other day we went out to eat, I told her to go get the table and ill be in there in bout 10 min. so i can smoke this blunt (cus i love going to nice resturaunts while im high and pig out)...so she did but she had a lil attitude, so after i was done i went into the resturaunt and the waiter knew i was high and she was cool as hell about cracking jokes n shit..so n e ways my girl asked her if she liked it if her B/F smoked all the time and the waiter said "I Think that is sexxy"..and from then on my girl has not said nothing about it and she even wanted me to show her how to roll a blunt. so i dont know what happen there? And yea i got the waiters number ha ha..na but thats weird tho...Im confused but its coo.
hahah go hit up the waitress, nah but my girls the same way she knows i smoke but has no clue i smoke every day. I always try to get her to baze wit me but she never does anbd gets mad when i smoke. I dont really care tho cuz she would never break up wit me unless i cheated on her or somethin so i deal with the occasional bitching, maybe evenutally i can get her to smoke wit me
dawg just stop it for a while, bone her, then get back w/ mj.Quote:
Originally Posted by SwishaBlunt24
Depends, if she a fine piece of tail...If it was me, I'd say smoke the ganga, or smoke my bone biatch!!!
hahaha, yah man.Quote:
Originally Posted by SiCkDiAbLo
i kno this kid that sold weed and got high all the time and his girlfriend of like a year had no idea, what a stupid bitch....i would ditch her, or at least try to explain to her that it's not as bad as we are taught to believe and that it's fucked up that it is illegal
My husband doesn't smoke or do any other drugs. When we met he knew I smoked and well, I still do. I need to for medical reasons but that wasn't the reason in the beginning.Quote:
Originally Posted by willystylle
He still loved me and accepted what I did as part of me.....the me he loves.
I say, if someone doesn't accept you the way you are, it's time to move on unless you WANT to change to stay with that person.
Lot's of good choices, you just have to pick one and decide what you can live with.
I got very lucky.
bust on yall
my girl was like that man tell her its harmless and if she dont listen then say that if u dont like it find a non pot head fool cuz this is just how god made me and use ur pimp hand. dont ever let her make you stop cuz mary was there before her and she will be there after:stoned:
tell her u alredy have a mom u dont need 2
Check it:
tell her you'll stop smoking if she stops partying (which you've already said) but really get into that.
Usually they don't wanna stop partying and realize your weed habit is equal to their partying habits and therefore end up just comparing partying and weed as the same.
In the end it will end up as a don't ask don't tell thing.
It's the same with my gf. Yeah it sucks.. you're better off with a smoking gf.
Fuckin' tiring to smoke behind my gf's back.
I've always wanted a gf to be my smoking buddy.