those lower backl tattoos that you tend to recieve...you think "oh thats a tribal version for the chinese symbol for 'love'"...what men think is "ok, so you want me to pull out and aim my load there?"
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those lower backl tattoos that you tend to recieve...you think "oh thats a tribal version for the chinese symbol for 'love'"...what men think is "ok, so you want me to pull out and aim my load there?"
no condom?
You can do vaginal doggy style so it's not like it's always butt sex where more people where condoms.
condoms should be worn at ALL times...you should know that seeing as you have all the answers at your young age right....Safe sex all the time...love yourself....and anal never crossed MY mind...must be your on your mind I guess.:D
Condoms should not be worn all the time. Not all people can conceive, and many people know 100% that neither they nor their partners have any STDs in which case condoms aren't needed. Also, if a woman has been on the pill for more than a year the chances of getting pregnant are beyond reason for more protection. What do you mean by love yourself? Whackoff? Also, what if someone wants to get pregnatn? Obviously a condom shouldn't be used. What if the guy is allergic to latex? What about a man who is able to perform a "pull-out" with consistancy? Yes, some sperm can be released before orgasm, but the last I heard, that sperm isn't able to impregnate a woman. Finally, what if a man is able to orgasm without ejaculation? I don't know about others, but I can, and I don't consider myself to be physically unique.
EDIT: Who doesn't think about anal sex every ten or so seconds?
Condoms should be worn at all times unless trying to conceive of course and would hope that your husband/wife is faithful...and also ed...there are condoms for latex sensitive people. I guess your orgasm means more than the stds these days...good luck!:D Did you really need that explained to you? There is some bad stuff being passed around with unprotected sex...ahh...but when your young you think you will live forever huh? Good Luck.:D And remember ed...the AIDS virus can take years to manifest...better safe than sorry I say...I love me..learn to love yourself enough.
You don't have to taint your argument with dumb jokes and condescention. I never said orgasms were more important than safety. I never said someone who has had sex before shouldn't get checked. What's the point of bringing up my age? It shows that you're scared to lose in an argument to someone who might be younger than you than it discredits my points. Condoms don't always work. What about that?
ed...why are yu so scared of condoms? And fyi...there is no 100% guarantee of no stds unless you practice abstinence. And please stop trying to bait with your hate..remember your previous words about me so pleease just stop your psuedo intelligence,,,your just young and dumb and full of .....its your life...have unprotected sex hanging from a tree for all I care...you know nothing to know so much...and your age is a factor...learn that and you may live to understand. Stop telling misinformation about condoms...why wouldn't you rather chisel your chances by using a condom instead of coming up with negative points about them...breakage is usually caused by old,dry condoms and people that are not sure how to put them on correctly...maybe you could buy a pack and practice...might save your life and others ed.:D Ignorance and excuses are not healthy concerning stds in this day and time...didn't you learn this in sex ed?
Alright, now, go easy. He's not scared of condoms. He simply stated circumstances under which they wouldn't have to be worn. And correctly so. There ARE circumstances where they're not needed, you know? Good for you if you're active with multiple partners and you wear them. Good for him if he's monogamous and doesn't, I say. . .Quote:
Originally Posted by Shelbay
Alright now...learn not to tell me what to do girl:thumbsup: As for your insinuation of me having multiple patners...your full of crap:) And even in a monogamous relationship condoms should be worn unless attempting conception. There are NO circumstances where unprotected sex whether with one or more is safe...You obviously need some sex ed yourself...do yourself a favor and learn about stds...stop misinformation.:thumbsup: And just for fyi...it would be impossible for me to wear a condom for men considering I am a female...love yourself enough to make your partner wear a condom..but its not my life...so whatever your choice is..is exactly that...your choice...just remember...unprotected sex CAN and WILL kill people.Quote:
Originally Posted by birdgirl73
I'm not. If there's no other protection, in most cases condoms should be used.Quote:
ed...why are yu so scared of condoms?
Yes there is: Only having sex with someone you know for certain has no STDs. Even so, that is irrellevent to condom use.Quote:
And fyi...there is no 100% guarantee of no stds unless you practice abstinence.
I didn't bait or hate. I don't understand what you're talking about. I'm not pseudo-intelligent. I don't wear pseudo-intelligent glasses, and I don't misuse lesser known words to appear more intelligent. I am intelligent, and I cannot be stopped!Quote:
And please stop trying to bait with your hate..remember your previous words about me so pleease just stop your psuedo intelligence,,,
That's the problem. Just because I'm young doesn't mean I'm dumb. You're the one who feels the need to bring up my age, and if it weren't for you knowing my age, it wouldn't make a difference to you. If I lied and said I was thirty, you'd immediately have to change your argument which proves that your argument sucks. Age is irrellevent to this argument and you bring it up because you are stupid.Quote:
your just young and dumb and full of
.That actually seems like a way to spice up a relationship. I know you were just being sarcastic, but fucking on a hammock might be fun]Quote:
....its your life...have unprotected sex hanging from a tree for all I care...
This is either something that you need to explain or something you just typed to seem more insightful and whatnot. I'm betting on the latter.Quote:
you know nothing to know so much...
To you. (I don't know how old you are, but I think you're between 25 and 35 so) I've been around people twice and thrice your age who have expected simply another dumb teenager, but immediately after meeting me began to respect me just as much they would as an adult. The only difference is that adults are assumed to be mature, whereas I'm forced to prove that I can speak as a peer with adults. I don't mind.Quote:
and your age is a factor...
I understand why it matters in real life: In real life, age is immediately given away by looks. Looks lead to prejudgements. Here, that doesn't matter. If you didn't bother to click my profile, you wouldn't know my age. You still don't need to know my age.Quote:
learn that and you may live to understand.
Stop implying I was giving misinformation unless you cite your reference.Quote:
Stop telling misinformation about condoms...
I've never heard someone use chisel in that way so I cannot understand the first part of that comment, but regarding the second one, I don't think I've based my argument on the negativities of condom use. If I had, I wouldn't have forgotten to mention that condoms decrease pleasure for men.Quote:
why wouldn't you rather chisel your chances by using a condom instead of coming up with negative points about them...
Regardless, condoms are not always effective. You need to encourage proper use of condoms; not just use of condoms.Quote:
breakage is usually caused by old,dry condoms and people that are not sure how to put them on correctly...
Along with not being a complete idiot who doesn't know how to put a condom on (I might have South Park to thank for that: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Proper_Condom_Use gave me a better education on the application of a condom than my sex ed class), I have practiced.Quote:
maybe you could buy a pack and practice...might save your life and others ed.:D
I didn't learn that via sex ed; I knew that because I have common sense. Ignorance is never a good thing, even when an ignorant person is on the (supposed) right side. I.E., a person who believes condoms must be worn at all times to protect against STDs may help that person avoid STDs, but that person is still ignorant and that can lead to other problems.Quote:
Ignorance and excuses are not healthy concerning stds in this day and time...didn't you learn this in sex ed?
All I can say is you must be very stoned right now--or else very much a black-and-white thinker who can't accurately read what others have been saying. No one has been telling you what to think or insinuiating anything about you. Notice the word "if" that was used in that sentence. Please re-read these posts when you're in a clearer state of mind. I've been married and monogamous for two decades. So no, I don't use condoms. And there are circumstances where folks don't have to--like that. No more exchanges with you, please. I think you must be upset about other things and are just feeling like flaming others.
A person with multiple partners should be more in favor of condoms. You are in more favor of condoms so if she was insinuating that you're a whore, it's understandable.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shelbay
While you may be looking for a reason for why she is so pro safe-sex, I wouldn't think it's the weed. I'd say it;s either because she's mad about something else, like you said, or that she is fucking crazy! Maybe I should ask her. Shelbay, why are you so pro safe-sex? Are you fucking crazy?Quote:
All I can say is you must be very stoned right now--or else very much a black-and-white thinker who can't accurately read what others have been saying. No one has been telling you what to think or insinuiating anything about you. Notice the word "if" that was used in that sentence. Please re-read these posts when you're in a clearer state of mind. I've been married and monogamous for two decades. So no, I don't use condoms. And there are circumstances where folks don't have to--like that. No more exchanges with you, please. I think you must be upset about other things and are just feeling like flaming others.
That post above wasn't to you, Eddie, as you probably know. I was trying to explain to Shelbay that folks aren't out to get her. They're simply stating their own opinions. This whole thing exhausts me. This forums if for folks to have good exchanges. I'm signing off for the night, and I hope Shelbay will go teach the sex ed class she so desperately feels everyone needs and lay off lecturing others here who are mature enough to be responsible for themselves.
I wasn't insinuating that. I think y'all both know that. Be nice. Good night.
I will sponsor the "class" for anyone that would like to participate...especially if it means stopping the spread of stds....I am calling your bluff..any takers? I WILL pay travel expenses and lodging. And at my age I am POSITIVE there is nothing you can "explain" to me about safe sex.:D And please don't feel I am desperate ...far from it...I just see the end results of passionate,unprotected sex most days so please sweetie don't think having unprotected sex is a "mature decision"...and remember your post saying others are only stating their opinions?? Well look at it that way where I am concerned...but the std rate in the world is FACT not opinion.:thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Good night...nice exchange with no name calling or insults..thanks.:thumbsup: Be safe.:)Quote:
Originally Posted by birdgirl73
Good night to you, too, Shelbay! Thanks for taking the high road. I feel like we had a good discussion! And while I'm at it, thanks for being passionate and articulate about a topic that is indeed very important. You're quite right that STD statistics don't lie. And I know that better than you may think. I'm the daughter of a physician and the wife of another. This year, after 22 years of marriage and a long corporate career, I've just been accepted to medical school myself. I'm still debating about whether or not to turn my life upside down and go for it, and right now it's a moot point anyway because I have a sister who's very ill with cancer and who needs my nursing care at the moment. Anyway, that's a long way of saying you're actually preaching to the choir here. I think we may be closer to being on the same page than you realize. Take care, and I'll talk to you again on the boards!
Kudos to Flaming Skull Balls for this magnificent thread.
someone should stick a big condom an shelbays head
then u can go around tellin everyone they have to wear condoms all the time
your worse than a priest,throwin your advice at people like that.
its each individuals choice wat they do with there life and wether they suit up.
if im with a partner thats on the pill then i wont wear any raincoat and im sure lots of couples are the same out there.
if we catch anything then fuck it,it will b our own fault and u can say "i told u so"
A condom on my head?? Thats not where its supposed to go weezy...shame on you. Since it seems to be so nonchalant for unprotected sex maybe you and others that have flamed me for my belief should just type aids in google and you can actually educate yourself on this epedimic. Just a sample here...By 2005 more than 40 million people are infected-double from 1995...New infections among women especially young women outpace men..a stark reminder that gender and violence against women are fueling this epedimic. The 40 million broke down shows 17.5 million women and 2.3 million children under the age of 15 are infected. In 2005 alone 3.1 million people died of HIV/AIDS related causes..so ladies..please THINK!! If a man insists on unprotected sex..maybe you need to get a mental image of getting a positive test result back in the future all because you wanted to please your man at the time. Aids not only affects the individual infected it ravages families and communities..and the caring for ill family members rests mainly with women and girls that are many times ill themselves. Oh! And on unprotected sex in marriage..Some research indicates that married women are in FACT more at risk for HIV than unmarried women. So WEEZY while you insult me about a condom on my head I will still post what I can on this subject..you will not deter me okay..and your statement that if "we catch anything it will be our own fault and I can say I told you so" is NOT what I would want..that is just a stupid remark..because when you catch "something" most don't even know they have it and continue to spread it. UNPROTECTED SEX is dangerous and the spread of this disease can be halted with active participation in prevention. People lie..every day...women please please think before taking the chance on dying young..and it can be a very slow,painful death...all for a bit of "pleasure".Quote:
Originally Posted by weezy
Good morning, Shelbay!
I'm curious about what sort of work you do for a living. And are you married?
Good Morning birdgirl! Wow..thats a nice post to see..someone actually saying good morning,thank you!:) I don't work (get paid lol) anymore and yes I am married..I do volunteer work now..all over the country. You come from a family that specializes in health so I assume (uh-oh) lol, that you of all people understand traveling nurses. I had a "breakdown" and still struggle sometimes to maintain my mental health and I always feel better when I see that my actions (work) actually help make "things better" for people..Its so hard for me to see suffering..it affects me sometimes to the point I have to basically shut the world out and realize and accept that I can't make everyone well and happy....am I making sense? My main priority at home right now is Domestic Violence for illegal hispanic women..it is becoming a passion for me to translate in violent cases so that pertinent information is not lost in translating for them..I married well this time and just really like to help women in any way I can...this "thing" with me about unprotected sex is that I have worked with crack and heroin babies that are abandoned and the majority of them are also born with HIV and I hate their mothers for taking their chance at life from them..I really do..I know I shouldn't hate and I fight it but the truth is the truth..anyway..I hope this makes sense. I would post more but I have to watch what I do reveal on here so please don't think I am being vague. If you take the time to read my post history you will see that I am not a "ballbreaker" type of woman but I care for women in general and detest men that abuse us. Oh..and until 2 more years have passed and we (my husband and I) continue to receive negative results on our tests..we do to this day use condoms. Am I that over cautious about this issue to you? Seriously imo..all it takes is a few seconds to roll that condom on and cut the chances of infection..stds affect so many people! At one time in my life I was Charge Nurse on ICU..then moved to CICU...but that was many years ago..many. Whats your story?Quote:
Originally Posted by birdgirl73
come on man
if we wanted to be preached to then we would go to mass
your totally ruining my buzz with all your talk about aids and death and shit
take that shit to the aids forum or somewhere its appreciated
were all mad junkies here,its a bit late to save our souls,were all goin to hell anyways and it dont make no difference wat diseases i bring with me
weezy...I will post when and where I want until told different by the MODS...you have no control over me okay? Now...learn the ignore button..or stop reading my posts if you don't like them. I prefer to preach as you call it instead of watching innocent people die ty very much. And your word terminology...got you dude!:thumbsup: And your not God so please don't say we are all going to hell...and where do you get that "We are ALL mad JUNKIES here? Your just baiting...go try fishing okay.:thumbsup:
Bless your heart! What an interesting story--and I feel like I understand you much beter now. You sound quite reasonable, and I see where you're coming from now. And trust me, I didn't think you were a ballbreaker. You're simply passionate and articulate about something you feel strongly about.
I really admire traveling nurses. There are some who come through the hospital my husband practices in. He's a cardiologist, and some of the cardiology and neurology traveling nurses he's worked with are the smartest, best folks he and the other staffers have ever worked with. It makes them sad that they're not permanent staffers sometimes, esepcially considering how short they all are on nursing staff these days.
Glad you're working on the domestic violence issues, too. That's so important. We had a next-door neighbor who was a real creep who abused his wife, and it was truly an appalling situation. Late-night police calls. Loud, vocal fights that were clearly audible to the houses on both sides. We intervened on three occasions and called the police. After that began, I volunteered in our local women's shelter for a couple of years just because the situation piqued my interest. During that process, I sent my neighbor a card, both to her home and her work address in case he screened her mail at home, that gave her the card and contact info for the shelter. I did that anonymously but wrote a little message in there about how everyone deserves to be safe, and it apparently worked because not long after that, she moved out one day when the creep was at work and they're now divorced. That situation really opened my eyes, and it still makes me count my blessings about what a fortunate, loving situation I'm in.
Right now I'm a writer for a big company in the Dallas area. I write ads, brochures, Web copy, speeches. Lots of stuff. And I mostly get to work at home. But my first love is and always has been medicine. I was a paramedic for 6 years when I was younger and my second major in college was pre-med. So now I've been lucky enough to be accepted to med school and have to determine whether, here in middle age, I really want to turn my life upside down and go that route. But as I mentioned previously, I can't easily do anything right now or probably for the next fall school term. My older sister has stage 3 ovarian cancer and is here with us and, I'm afraid, is getting sicker. She's in a very kick-ass chemo program, but it's probably only going to slow down the spread of the disease. That's why I came online here to be able to find weed to help her. It has helped, but I wish to goodness it could really cure her. This is the one very sad, depressing thing in my life.
Wow! Sorry for such a long message. You said you work with hispanic women. Are you down here along the border like we are in Texas? Or in one of the other states that border Mexico? (Not that you'd have to be. Hispanic immigrants are in lost of other areas besides the border states). Just curious.
Talk to you again soon!
Speaking of statistics, condoms only prevent against HIV 85% of the time, so you may want to rethink including HIV shit in your pro-condom use argument, unless you think 85% is good enough. I don't think you do.
shelbay
remember when i busted my nut in your eye
has your vision returned yet
do you still think of me
my husband and i share the same std's....we just pass 'em back n forth...i hate rubbers
excuse me sir...thats is not funny! Do you know how many people lose an eye, annually, from getting nuts busted in it? by the year 2015 we will see 6 to 7 cases. there is a virtual epidemicof blah blah blah blah blah.....:cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by friendowl
You are disgusting..thought you were in mourning. I wouldn't allow you within 3 feet of me..much less to actually do the disgusting act you just made a joke about. Now the best thing you can do is leave me be with your sexual innuendos..just leave it be.Quote:
Originally Posted by friendowl
I doubt your a woman..and if you are..get treatment for your std instead of "passing it back and forth"...if an std is left untreated..you could become sterile..well..on second thought..that might be a good thing for you and yours...its a nasty person to intentionally have a std and pass it along instead of seeking treatment.Go to your local Health Dept. immediately.:thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by muncheemama
thats right listen to shelbay the doctor..Quote:
Originally Posted by Shelbay
your like a little fuckin kid lookin to get all the attention for yourself
this thread was about women having tattoos on their backs
you should go to africa and spread you sermons over there,there are many people over there with no condoms and aids,give your advice to people who could use it,your preachin to the choir here
:thumbsup:
And you speak for who? Jealous much?Quote:
Originally Posted by weezy
im speakin for myself
try having sex and maybe then you wont be so worried all the time
you cant keep living your life in a bubble
hey its the bubble boy
ROTFLMFAOCOPTER! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by friendowl
Shelbay, what's wrong with having UNPROTECTED SEX if the girls on the pill and you both have no stds? :confused:
shelbay walks around lookin like one of those government inspectors with the gas mask and 1 of those white hasmat suits on
hes never had as much as a common cold
some say he is the second coming of christ
Excuse me? What exactly is so rothlyfa funny about a disgusting post such as friendowls to you? And then you have the audacity to actually ask what is wrong with having unprotected sex? If you were serious I would post you links to actual MDs that would answer your question for you in more than one way..you could even get to see pics! Just think about it! Then you could really laugh..HIV/AIDS is not a laughing matter...not in this Country or others..it is a disease that will ravage your body and kill you..and one that is preventable. A couple of posters on this thread have no real interest in this subject and just continue to use it to post disgusting comments that are aimed as a personal insult to me..why would a person attempt to make light of this disease and the methods that can be used to curb the chances of being infected? That is not only wrong it is childish,stupid and dangerous and reminds me of the ones that know they have been diagnosed with this disease and yet continue to expose others to it..oh...which reminds me..there are laws in place that can make knowingly transmitting this disease a crime. Maybe if some that shrug this off should actually talk and take a tour of an AIDS clinic and hospitals to talk with some that thought it would never happen to them...take a good long look at the babies suffering needlessly because of their biological parents foolish choices. It would also be foolish to think that abstinence classes be taught because it is a well known fact that many will not do this..it is impractical really..but taking precautions could only enhance your enjoyment knowing you have done "something" to curb the % of being infected.Quote:
Originally Posted by Reefer Rogue
That post is pathetic. He asked you what's so wrong with sex without condoms when the woman is on the pill and there are no STDs involved, and you completely avoided his question and continued to ramble on about HIV shit. Maybe you didn't hear me the first time: condoms do not protect against HIV.
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