how i told my mom off...

hey whats up everyone well what im gonna write happened thursday but i felt like posting ti so ya , anyways well currently im lviing with my grandma because all of last year i was severly depressed and tried to commit suicede i felt it was because of my mom and they stress i got from here was the reason so i threatned to either be able to stay iwth my grandma or kill myself( ya pussy thing i know)so i got to move in with my grandma at the begining of summer. now its septemeber im off my anti-depressants and happier then ever :D, anyways back to the point my mom wanted to sign the things for school because she felt my grandma couldnt so she came over.After being upstiars for awhile she came down stairs and said so what do you think about me not changing the address(from hers to my grandmas)? i said i dont know, she said the only reason im not going to change it is because i want to know if ur skipping school cuz i tihnk you grandma wont tell me. i then said thats retarded she would tell you! and then i also said dont you know about the beca bill? she said no whats that? i said its a bill saying if i dont show up for 2 days of school in a row without a excuse the cops can come to my house and search for me and make me go? she replied after standing there for a minute with a no. i said exactly and also why would you ask for my opionon iif you knew it didnt matter? *silence* i continue, i mean if i would have said would you plz change it would you even reconsider at all? she said no. i said ok then next time you wanna ask for my fucking oponion make sure its matters first. she said alright and walked away, she went upstiars and supposedly tried to find my backpack so she could search through it.(she didnt get a hold of it but of course theres notihng bad in there im not dumb enough to keep weed in there*yeah anyways i felt good about myself all night cuz i felt like i gave a good arguement. tell me your thoughts sorry if it was a bit long

I don't understand why you would firght with your mom like that. I have a sister who was otta control when she was a teenager and would call my mom a fuckin bitch and leave at 2 o'clock in the morning, and do tons of other hurtfull things to my mom (she has since grown outta that). You should seriously try to make peace with your mother because you only get 1, and there is enough violence and hate in this world I don't see why you would invite that into your own family.

yea man you might not like her now but someday you will whenever you reach adulthood i was the same way when i was a teenager and i know things havnt changed that much with teenagers theese days because im now 23 years old so just chill and grant your mothers wishes man peace

not true at all, ok you say you were like that towards ur mom but you got over it, but... did your mom do this to you? ok when i was 10 my mom had got my second step dad, we moved onto another military base.all they did was have sex everyday leaving me to take care of ym 5 year old lil brother and i remebre trying to get friends over but theyd come over and id try and be louder then my mom so i didnt have friends over that often. then one night my stepdad was trying to drag my mom to her room when she didnt want to go and she was screaming let go, and help so i jumped on his back and hit him in the head he threw me off against the whole and hit me, then he left, after that my mom comes into my room where im sitting there crying she yells at me and says its all your fault!!he left and its all ur fault!! she then sent me to counsleing for a year for my out of control behavior(stepadad came back the next day) more incidents of this happened but i jsut stayed out of it and i tried to commit suicede more then once when i was 11. eventually after another year of living there my mom realized what an ass he was and divorced him she still has never apoligized for everything and doesnt intend to, so dont tell me how to treat my mom when you dont know even half the story

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Originally Posted by iliketosmoke

yea man you might not like her now but someday you will whenever you reach adulthood i was the same way when i was a teenager and i know things havnt changed that much with teenagers theese days because im now 23 years old so just chill and grant your mothers wishes man peace

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Yes!!! ur mother just sounds like she is a concerned. so u should just chill alil and let ur mother be the mother :D:D

OKay, I wasn't aware of all that. I hope that some day you and her will get along.

Penguin, i know how you feel. Sometimesa mother doesnt act like a proper mother and you just dont have the relationship you would have with a normal loving mother. My mother never cared about me, all she cared about was her heroin. We had some rough times, but i livewith my grandmother (let me tell you your grams is way cooler) and my mom is sober.

Just hang in there, and remind yourself there will be a day when you are on your own and there will be no more family drama.

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Originally Posted by YES

Penguin, i know how you feel. Sometimesa mother doesnt act like a proper mother and you just dont have the relationship you would have with a normal loving mother. My mother never cared about me, all she cared about was her heroin. We had some rough times, but i livewith my grandmother (let me tell you your grams is way cooler) and my mom is sober.

Just hang in there, and remind yourself there will be a day when you are on your own and there will be no more family drama.

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thanks man, thats the only reason i keep on living...well that and weed and pussy

i'd set her straight
and show her whats up
*flex*
just my 2 cents
oh snap

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Originally Posted by sToNeDpEnGuIn420

well that and weed and pussy

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:eek: :eek: :eek: !!!

my dad hit me once when i brought home a bad report card it was last year he hit meonce and i whent down and drew the nife i always keep on mt(5 inch switch blade) he didnt see me draw it so he stratled me and tried to hit me again so i cut all the way down his arm he needed 168 stitches...since then he hasnt touched me hes all peachy maybe because he sees me practice my knife throwing and weilding along with boxing he never apologized either but i didnt expect him to after collage i dont plan on ever seein him again but he'll remember me he has a nice scar that goes from shoulder to thumb

Instead of telling your mom off and trying to be the big man that way, why dont you BE the big man and try to resolve things with her. Remind her of what she used to do, how she made you feel. If she cares that you go to school, then she cares about how you feel. And dont yell at her about it, just tell her.

its impossible to resolve things with her when ever im with her for any period of time i just get pissed off and depressed

again i think its just alot of teenage angst really im not impressed with your story about how i dont know how it was and what not.everybody thinks that they had it worse than the next guy my mom has 4 kids with 4 different dads,but im not going to tell a sob story so people will feel sorry for me.because really i could care less,so like i said eventually you will get along with your mother maybe if you could bear it and not be so negative with your mother you might be able to get along with her peace

my mum was watchin tv so i walked in and said "hey" and she said "hey" and i said "whats up" and she said "im just bout to go out, wot u doin" and i said "just chillin tonight" and she said "ok" then got up and got ready so i sat down and watched tv then she said "bye" and i said "bye" and she left and went out and came back and went to sleep and then i watched tv and went to sleep

What were u wanting by writing this? sympathy? eh?

grow up dick face

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Originally Posted by GHoSToKeR

my mum was watchin tv so i walked in and said "hey" and she said "hey" and i said "whats up" and she said "im just bout to go out, wot u doin" and i said "just chillin tonight" and she said "ok" then got up and got ready so i sat down and watched tv then she said "bye" and i said "bye" and she left and went out and came back and went to sleep and then i watched tv and went to sleep

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See above - it's not that difficult to get along
Show her a little respect
One day soon you'll be friends again
And you'll regret alot of this
I know - I speak from experience :rolleyes:

wow so wtf? im just suppose to act like what she did was nothing? wow ok well w/e man i hate this world ,|,,(>.<),,|, and it wasnt a sob story renobs i was explaining why i felt the way i do towards her so fuck you these forums piss me off every more every day
gah :mad:

my dad has kicked me in the face before
but i think he regrets it
ill always still love em because..he is my dad of course

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Originally Posted by Lulu

See above - it's not that difficult to get along
Show her a little respect
One day soon you'll be friends again
And you'll regret alot of this
I know - I speak from experience :rolleyes:

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lolololol Lulu thanks for the reply hun, but it was a joke... :( my kinda humour is wasted on people sometimes, people dont get it :( lol i was just bein sarcastic

its the total opposite for me, me and my mum get on really well now that im older and more mature.. shes even lettin me grow a few plants in my closet... the only thing is, im movin out in a few weeks if i can get a job.. i dunno if i should move out or stay coz if i move out i wont be able to grow any, and i dunno whats best lol

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Originally Posted by sToNeDpEnGuIn420

wow so wtf? im just suppose to act like what she did was nothing? wow ok well w/e man i hate this world ,|,,(>.<),,|, and it wasnt a sob story renobs i was explaining why i felt the way i do towards her so fuck you these forums piss me off every more every day
gah :mad:

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You know something -
I know very little about your background

but I do know parenting isn't easy
Good Parenting, I mean
even in the best of circumstances
Maybe she's doing the best she can :(

But at some stage you gotta heal and move on.
May as well be sooner :)

Please don't take offense - you post on the boards you leave yourself open for people's opinions
Even the ones you don't like :rolleyes:

Edit: Though it is good that you talk - get stuff out there

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Originally Posted by Lulu

You know something -
I know very little about your background

but I do know parenting isn't easy
Good Parenting, I mean
even in the best of circumstances
Maybe she's doing the best she can :(

But at some stage you gotta heal and move on.
May as well be sooner :)

Please don't take offense - you post on the boards you leave yourself open for people's opinions
Even the ones you don't like :rolleyes:

Edit: Though it is good that you talk - get stuff out there

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she had me when she was 17 and i was an accident she told me to my face i was....too much stuff to heal from to move on, i dont think i will ever be friends with my mom again, but at the same time i dont want to either

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Originally Posted by sToNeDpEnGuIn420

she had me when she was 17 and i was an accident she told me to my face i was....too much stuff to heal from to move on, i dont think i will ever be friends with my mom again, but at the same time i dont want to either

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Well that's a terrible thing for her to have said
Sounds like you're both hurting though :(
I hope wotever happens
That you find a way to be happy with yourself ;)
Take care xx

Penguin, I understand your pain, but Cannabis.com isnt a place where you can post every shitty thing about your life. I could be wrong, but i thought it was to obtain imformation and to meet fellow stoners.

Its understandable to come on here and post if your having a bad day, but every thread i read from you is about how horrible your life is and how the world sucks. As true as this may be, i do notwant every thread i click to be about your family drama.

I wish you the best and i hope that your family situation resolves peacefully.

So next time your having a super shitty day and feel that you must absolutly tell the people at cannabis.com, please go ahead. But please dont flood this board with your family drama.

Then again, you have the freedom to post whatever you want. I was just requesting.

Take Care.