Should i Fight This guy? (Long read)

All i am looking for Options on should i go right ahead and knock this kid out (Named Nate btw),

Okay ill start with the story/Evidence against him.

It was a normal Friday(Last weekend 4/29) i decided that i would go over to a close friend of mine Name Steven that i haven't seen in a while. and well shortly after i got to his house Steven and I decided that we would go out looking for yet another College party like we do almost every Friday when i go to his house. after talking about what we where gonna bring to the party another friend called saying he was coming over,(Now i must say i have only be around him maybe 4 or 7 times, so i don't know much about him and this kid's name is Nate(Yes the one i am deciding if i should kick his ass)) Anyway not even 20 Min's go by and he shows up right when Steven And I, where just leaving the house to go pick up a ounce for the party. So we hang out smoke a couple of joints and sooner then you know it, it's 11:30PM and time to find a party. well once we walk around we pick up a 24 pack of some nasty cheap beer, just to get a prebuz before the party. well once we got to the party we chilled and hang out and where having a good time(talk, smoke (you know the usually)). well yet again sooner then you know it was time to go home around 4AM(Remember this) well when we where at the party we left with Me, Steven, and another kid named Sam who was drunk and falling every where. and Nate stayed back for about a good 30min's, becase he wanted to score some "E"(remember this). well when i got back to Steven's House, i wasn't buzzed enough to where i couldn't tell what was going on, well anyway once we got back to the house Steven and Sam where passing out right after we step inside and passed out up stairs in a room. Not even a train wreak was gonna wake them up. but anyway once i got settled in i got up and put my "$70 MP3 Player" on top of the Refrigerator and then went to the couch Togo to sleep, well before i went to sleep Nate came in mest up and decided to Sniff his "E" pill he got at the party, and passed out on the other couch beside me.

Ill say about 2 hours go by , Nate decides to wakes up becase the Ecstasy pill and is walking around wakening everyone up like 20 times, (And this is about 6 or 7 AM) well no one got up so he decided to take a shower while being high to wash the drinking smell off him. well not even 30mins go by he gets out, and decided to makes egg's for everyone in the kitchen where the refrigerator is.

Well once i wake up start to gather my things and sit back and smoke a small joint of what was left from the bag i got. while i was smoking Steven's Mom gets up and starts yell (Like usually(Nothing new there :rolleyes: )) saying how we left the door open when we left and here friend came in the told here that it was open , and she was saying around 2Am here friend came by to tell here that the door was open and just wounded to make sure she was okay (A caring friend :) )

Shortly after this is all been said, everyone who was asleep wakes up and comes down stairs and once the clock hit around 2PM, we decided that we would part and go home, well to shorten this up i could not find my MP3 player that i differently remember setting on top of the refrigerator.
Well i was looking and surely Nate said that maybe it was the guy who came in around 2AM while we where at the party drinking and smoking took it. well i wasn't thinking at the time and just some what agree with him slightly, becase i was looking everywhere in the whole house. well ends up i don't have the MP3 player and now that i look back i am thinking it's more then sure that he has it and am debating if i should just go up beat his ass for lying to me and stealing from me. or should i just confront him and hope to the best he well remit that he has it and give it back..... (More then likely this kid isn't gonna say right away he gots it, because that would make him look bad)

use scare tactics, if you beat em up, wont change fit.. first try to scare it out of him by saying some bullshit like you having them do investigating people at the party, or there was a video cam somewhere catching him do it, main thing is for him to admit it, if not beat his ass and take something from him.

hmm interesting.
all signs clearly point to nate dogg.
but when he said that the mysterious person musta taken it, how did he say it?
was he nervous and kinda shouted it out quickly or was it a normal speaking voice.
If you haven't asked him about it, do so right away.
first be like "yo are you SURE you don't know about my mp3 player?"
give him one last chance to confess.
then go ahead and beat his ass man if he doesnt confess.
but make sure you looked everywhere, i mean everywhere.
and that you didn't misplace it and its not on the couch or behind the fridge if it fell off.

anyway hope that helps.

man i have look everywhere, even place's there was no way in hell it could have gotten to.

i just know this is gonna cause problems with my whole groupe of friends i hang out with becase everyone i hang with know's him as well.

i just know this coming firday if i find he doesn't have it when we meet up agien, he's gonna be going home with some teeth missing. i fucking don't got 75$ to spend on a nother one.

yah I would say that's a good idea.
but you GOTTA make sure he's the one without a doubt
if you make a mistake and he didn't do it
you're going to look like a total dick and mess things up even more with your crew.
but after you KO his ass, make sure to let us know ha.

Yes i know i gotta but pretty much 100% clear that he really did take it, thats way i am debateing on should i just KO him.

rob him......

nothin to rob...

vandalize....

nothin to vandalize...

jam toothpicks in his keyhole on the worst possible day or night of the week

if he has a car.......put egg yolk in that grill just in front of his wiper blades.....

his car will smell like shit from the inside :dance: :mad: once those eggs dry/rott

great the only thing i would need to do, is find where he live now heha..

this is just one I found while typing "free people finder" at the internet search engine:thumbsup:

http://people.yahoo.com/

What do you get by fighting him?

my pride and letting more people know not to steal from me

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Originally Posted by easyMONEY

this is just one I found while typing "free people finder" at the internet search engine:thumbsup:

http://people.yahoo.com/

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only if i knew how to spell his last name :rolleyes:

wait untill u see him with it hear about him with it . when u have even slightly somehting linking that guy to your mp3 player such as someone sayign to you "yeah i saw that guy nate wiv a mp3 player liek your" thats definate evidence in my opinon! then u go round there asnd fight ....also seeing as its a coke head (sniffing E cos he cant get real coke) hes more or likly gonna have a weapon so the day b4 or a couple of hours b4 u plan to fight him go near to where its gonna happen and plant your self a weapon in a non bate place so if u need to run a couple of steps to grab it its there. if not place his mouth open on the kerb stamp on the back of his head while shouting "NOW SAY GOODNIGHT!"

Fighting him will only make things worse and difficault within your group of friends??

Peace

lmao i say kill him and burn the body

u dont know he took it

and its only $70 but still talk 2 him if he says he took it then beat him if not give him the benefit of the doubt

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Originally Posted by Fabolous

man i have look everywhere, even place's there was no way in hell it could have gotten to.

i just know this is gonna cause problems with my whole groupe of friends i hang out with becase everyone i hang with know's him as well.

i just know this coming firday if i find he doesn't have it when we meet up agien, he's gonna be going home with some teeth missing. i fucking don't got 75$ to spend on a nother one.

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Beating this kid up isnt a good idea. You might hit him and he might fall and hit his head and go into a coma, lead to death, etc etc. You go to jail.
The best way to get back at someone who has wronged you is to keep living your life being happy and successful. Thats the best pay-back.
Knocking his teeth out will leave you with huge dentist bills to pay. Buy your self another mp3 and choose your friends more wisely.
Being a man isnt always having the biggest punch. Sometimes it is being smarter than those who have did you wrong. Nate will get his. He has to go through life being him. That must really suck.

dai*ma:stoned:

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Originally Posted by daima

You might hit him and he might fall and hit his head and go into a coma, lead to death, etc etc. You go to jail.:stoned:

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:eek:

Ya never know.......

yeah theres also a 50% chance the guy will get the first hit and him you into a coma

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Originally Posted by dog420

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Ya never know.......

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Thats a fact. Ya never know.
Nate has to go through life being Nate. That sounds like punishment to me.
I hope that this dude that got ripped off realises that he is bigger than Nate will ever be. Nate will get his in many ways. I wouldnt allow this Nate guy to take up one more second of my life.

420 Peace,
dai*ma
Happy May day:stoned:

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Originally Posted by daima

Beating this kid up isnt a good idea. You might hit him and he might fall and hit his head and go into a coma, lead to death, etc etc. You go to jail.
The best way to get back at someone who has wronged you is to keep living your life being happy and successful. Thats the best pay-back.
Knocking his teeth out will leave you with huge dentist bills to pay. Buy your self another mp3 and choose your friends more wisely.
Being a man isnt always having the biggest punch. Sometimes it is being smarter than those who have did you wrong. Nate will get his. He has to go through life being him. That must really suck.

dai*ma:stoned:

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Amen

I tend to leave things be and let karma rule...

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Originally Posted by Dog420

Fighting him will only make things worse and difficault within your group of friends??

Peace

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Not Really, maybe where i fight him at well cause problems, i have had problems with people that i hang out with, with this whole stealing shit, but by the end of the day after searching all day they would give it back, but this kid is just different...

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Originally Posted by Robert42

lmao i say kill him and burn the body

u dont know he took it

and its only $70 but still talk 2 him if he says he took it then beat him if not give him the benefit of the doubt

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And Yet i don't have 70 for another one, then a extra $14 for the headphones

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Originally Posted by daima

Beating this kid up isnt a good idea. You might hit him and he might fall and hit his head and go into a coma, lead to death, etc etc. You go to jail.
The best way to get back at someone who has wronged you is to keep living your life being happy and successful. Thats the best pay-back.
Knocking his teeth out will leave you with huge dentist bills to pay. Buy your self another mp3 and choose your friends more wisely.
Being a man isnt always having the biggest punch. Sometimes it is being smarter than those who have did you wrong. Nate will get his. He has to go through life being him. That must really suck.

dai*ma

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Well it goes like this, he's on probation. if he tells on me, after i beat his ass. i simply tell that he was doing "E", then stealing my property.

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Originally Posted by Skink

I tend to leave things be and let karma rule...

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And yet does anything get done with you?

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Originally Posted by Skink

I tend to leave things be and let karma rule...

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Originally Posted by Fab

And yet does anything get done with you?

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Yes,,,Life has a way of balancing out... You may understand that more when you get to be my age...

You don't have to fight him to get your mp3 player back, fighting will just escalate the problem. We aren't cavemen anymore, we can settle things peacefully. Just go up to him and be like "hey, have you seen my mp3 player? I left it on the fridge." if he says no (which he probably will) just say "damn, well I was going to report it to the police as stolen, are you sure you haven't seen it? You could get suspended for stealing yknow?" It could be utter BS, just tell him subtly that you know he took it, and he will most likely give it up.

So I have an MP3 player too. I go to a shitty ghetto alternative school and I swear I put it on the desk before I went to the bathroom. I'm looking everywhere before class ends tryin' to find it..swearin' this girl stole it from me because at the time, it just made sense.
Turns out it was in the bathroom.

Point of story, make SURE he has it and don't accuse..confront.

the facts just point right to him though, he's a shady guy. i remember the frist time i was with him he was stealing like $20 worth of munchies Food at a gas station heh... none of this surprises me at all.

he sounds like the kinda guy who'll eventually get sniped by one of those .25 caliber pellet guns for sale :mad: on the internet

Usually, it's better to confront people as a man than a pussy.

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Originally Posted by Fabolous

Not Really, maybe where i fight him at well cause problems, i have had problems with people that i hang out with, with this whole stealing shit, but by the end of the day after searching all day they would give it back, but this kid is just different...


And Yet i don't have 70 for another one, then a extra $14 for the headphones


Well it goes like this, he's on probation. if he tells on me, after i beat his ass. i simply tell that he was doing "E", then stealing my property.


And yet does anything get done with you?

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His being on probation should be a red flag. Be a bigger person and walk away. Only fight when there is no alternative.
You punch Nate and you just might be sharing his P.O. with him, and you dont want that.
As for him stealing from you? call the cops, they arrest him and contact his PO. You really dont need to prove anything to be a man. Being a man is much much more than fighting those who have wronged you.
Good luck with whatever you decide.

dai*ma:stoned:

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Originally Posted by newbie1232

You don't have to fight him to get your mp3 player back, fighting will just escalate the problem. We aren't cavemen anymore, we can settle things peacefully. Just go up to him and be like "hey, have you seen my mp3 player? I left it on the fridge." if he says no (which he probably will) just say "damn, well I was going to report it to the police as stolen, are you sure you haven't seen it? You could get suspended for stealing yknow?" It could be utter BS, just tell him subtly that you know he took it, and he will most likely give it up.

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Ug,,,,urgh..ug ug ug urg ug

dai*ma:stoned:

well i am hoping to run into later on today, not sure if i can today but i am considering the sudden nice weather coming in that he maybe at another friends house later on today... and if he is well we will see what i do from there.

And I am not gonna guarantee that i am not going to Throw the frist punch.

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Originally Posted by Fabolous

well i am hoping to run into later on today, not sure if i can today but i am considering the sudden nice weather coming in that he maybe at another friends house later on today... and if he is well we will see what i do from there.

And I am not gonna guarantee that i am not going to Throw the frist punch.

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He might be at another friends house? learning the hard way, eh?
Just remember this...
Life is hard but life is hardest when you're dumb.

dai*ma:stoned:

Yo, the mere fact that ur asking 4 advice as 2 whether u shud fight someone tells me you not ready...

"To Know And To Act Are One In The Same"

Speaking from vast experience, violence resolves nothing...it only perpetuates a cycle of more violence...in other words, make sure your ready 4 tha payback if you do this...

also, remember, combat is full of uncertainty, is it really worth the consequences? There's plenty of ways to inflict more damage to someone than squarin' off...

-- Way Of The Ninja

Violence solves nothing. I feel you, I would be pissed if my mp3 player got stolen. I would want to kick some ass.

But in the end, is it really worth it? Not at all. What pride do you have when everyone thinks your some violent dude? Having people fear you isn't a sign of respect, people just don't want to be around you.

I agree with Ninjaman in terms of this: if you are asking, you aren't ready. I don't even know for sure if you could kick the dudes ass. What if he beats you down?

Questions you should ask yourself.

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Originally Posted by NinjaMan

Yo, the mere fact that ur asking 4 advice as 2 whether u shud fight someone tells me you not ready...

"To Know And To Act Are One In The Same"

Speaking from vast experience, violence resolves nothing...it only perpetuates a cycle of more violence...in other words, make sure your ready 4 tha payback if you do this...

also, remember, combat is full of uncertainty, is it really worth the consequences? There's plenty of ways to inflict more damage to someone than squarin' off...

-- Way Of The Ninja

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in what way was i asking Advice? i was looking for Option's on the whole case.

oh BTW sadly i never meet up with him :( o well just gotta wait tell friday, if it's true another friend told me he is gonna be going to his house there after school..

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Originally Posted by thcbongman

Violence solves nothing. I feel you, I would be pissed if my mp3 player got stolen. I would want to kick some ass.

But in the end, is it really worth it? Not at all. What pride do you have when everyone thinks your some violent dude? Having people fear you isn't a sign of respect, people just don't want to be around you.

I agree with Ninjaman in terms of this: if you are asking, you aren't ready. I don't even know for sure if you could kick the dudes ass. What if he beats you down?

Questions you should ask yourself.

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Man you don't live in my area. and most of all you people that say "Violante's don't Solve things" yea it does here.. here it shows respect and makes people think twice before taking any of my shit again.

And just becase someone gets into a fight everyone once in a while doesn't make him a Violent person.

And for those who say Violence doesn't solve anything, that really makes me think i can steal your car and you wont do shit about it expect cry.

just walk up to him like a man and be like did u take my shit? and if he says no then knock the fuck outta him

Ok, here is the way I see it. You think nate took your MP3 player, but you don't know 100% if he is the person who really took it.My advice is, if you dont have proof then you might want to hold off on kicking this kid's ass. Now, I know you don't want to look like a punk or anything, and you don't want to just let whoever took your shit get off hook so easily. But, if you kick this kid's ass, and then find out in the future that it was somebody else who took it, you are going to look real shady for stomping a mud hole in some guy's face who did not even take it in the first place. So just confront him him about it first,look him in the eye, and be firm about asking. Don't be too agressive, and the reason why I say this is because if you approach with an attitude that is too agressive, you might start a fight before you can even figure out the truth. And if he is real afraid of you because he thinks you will whip his ass, then he may lie in order to avoid an ass beating, so either way, an agressive approach will only make matters worse. And besides, beating him up might make you feel better, but it still wont replace the MP3 player. So just ask him in a firm manner as to if he knows anything about your missing MP3 player. If you look in his eyes you will know if he is telling the truth. The first thing someone does when they are lying is say "what" as if they did not hear you. Or some other type of question or phrase to buy time to think of a good answer. Example......."hey homie, I had an MP3 player on the fridge the other night, and now its gone, do you know what happened to it??....."An MP3 player??"...." yeah an MP3 player"....."umm nope I have not seen it"........If the convo goes like that, then he is lying, cause he did ask a question and he was not all to helpful either and most people are or atleast try to be somewhat helpful......here is another example....."Hey homie, I had an MP3 player on the fridge the other night and now its gone, you know what happened to it??"........"an MP3 player?" ..."yeah an MP3 player"......."Nope man I have not seen it"....."are you sure you left it on the fridge?"....."yeah ,I'm sure"....."what color was it?"......"it was blue"....."hmmm... "not that I know of, why don't you ask steven's mom if she seen it"...."aight man thanks".......Now, you see how the person asked more detail, took an interest and even made suggestion? That is a little bit more sincere. My point is, you can usually tell when someone is lying, but even then you still don't know the truth 100%. So to give my final answer.....don't kick his ass, because as I said before, it wont bring back the MP3 player and you run the risk of fighting the wrong guy if you dont know for sure. Take it as a lost, and move on. There are more things in life worth fighting for, than over some bullshit like 'you think this certain person took a less than $100 MP3 player'. If you went around fighting everyone because you think they stabbed you in the back, you will be fighting alot of people in life, and eventually you will run the risk of either getting a real good ass beating or worse...getting shot...remember, some people carry guns, and those people don't fight they shoot... I am not trying to talk shit to you, I am trying to give you the best advice possible......take better care and keep better watch over your shit in the future my friend. Oh and another thing, don't leave your shit sitting around a house where people you don't know all that well walk around. I don't care if steven has an uncle living with him, if you don't know the uncle all that well, then you best to keep a close eye on anything that belongs to you:cool:

look the final and bottom lne here is if you are a big guy then kick his ass, even if he didn't do it you will still set the example and prevent further thefts from you.

I take it all back man....jus handle yaself...im out