i got a sitchiation. please help.

ok so the deal is this chick in my botony class and i have been hitting it off

since day 1. she is the hottest, best looking girl i have ever seen. so here

and i have been hanging out all the time and the way she acts gives me the

hit she likes me. she hugs me everytime we say good bye. but she has a

boyfriend and i dont want to mess with that. now last week i met the other

chick at a party and she had just broken up with her b/f earlyier that nite.

later when we were both wasted she asked for my number and i gave it to

her not thinking to much of it. well i went to the same place last nite b/c

they were throwing a keger for my b-day. well i met her as soon as i got

there and the first thing she did was give me her num and made sure she had

mine (she forgot). within the first 30 mins of the party she was all over me

sitting on my lap getting me drinks. then one of her friends show up and she

says " tom this is my boyfriend johnny c., john this is tom." and i was like

what the hell when did i become your boyfriend? well we kept drinking and

smoking and she kept telling everyone that i was her b/f. and at the time i

was drunk and high so i went with it. so from there she took me to the back

room and we kissed for a while and then we were on our way to the screw

room up stairs and the fucking pigs busted in stopped the party and let

everyone go. then to day the chick calls me and is talking to me like a

girlfriend would. so now my delema is i want to be in a relationship with the

botony girl but shes got a man. and now im taken, i guess. so should i stick

with the one from the party and wait for the other or dont stay and wait

while single? sorry for the long post and thanks in advance.

-JC

hmmm, well first off you shoulda said something to the other girl (not the botony girl) at the party. That's done with though. My advice would be to follow your heart...as cheesy as it sounds. At the same time, you have to take into account that the botony chick is taken, so maybe she's just more attractive now b/c she's taken?

On the other hand, you could try and use that other girl to make the botony one jelous, but that's just not my style at all. Your call man.

Sit down and decide who means more to you, or if you don't know either of them very well, then choose one to get to know better. Who do you click with? Who do you feel the most comfortable with and could tell anything to? Whatever you do make sure that other chicks knows your not with her..You know this kinda stuff I'm sure, just my 2 cents.


..the screw room?? LOL

go with the girl you like the most (botany girl)

just cuz she's got a boyfriend doesnt mean shes deeply in love with him and going to marry him.

you could probably win her over if you really tried

sry double post

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..the screw room?? LOL

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thats what they call it. it got 3 beds and two leather love seats. its painted a dark burgundy with black lights and pics of 2 pac. well the botony girl and i get along real well were almost the same. we watch the same stuff have the same type of dog. went to rival high schools. and i got pushed into going to the later botony class and ended with me meeting her. but she doesnt smoke pot but she use to till her curent man made her stop. and she is gorgeous. now the party girl is good looking to but nothing compaired to the other one. and the only time iv hanged with her we were drunk. and im not the type of guy to date 2 chicks at the same time and im defenatly anti-cheating either way guy or girl. but it would be nice to have a girlfriend. its been a couple months since the last one. thanks for the quick reply

Well I need to have a room like that, shit.
Seems to me you have most of it figured out.
Honestly, you gotta tell the botony girl how you're feeling.
Otherwise you're going to be wasting your time, waiting for her to be single.
Don't settle man, go get her.
Then you gotta remind her why giving up weed for that scumbag b/f was a baddd idea.
Good luck man.

screw room... do people ever just go in and watch? because some people might find that kinda odd...

dont ever wait for someone, if the party girl is hot then i would just go with her

be honest.
tell the girl u dont wanna be with that you dont wanna be with her and she misunderstood u.
tell the girl you like that you like her.

Yeah man, i think you should stick with the girl you got now, if you like her, that is. haha. But if the other girls got a b/f then i don't think theres any point of breakin up with tht other girl until the bottom girl breaks up with her b/f at least. Just roll with it. lol.

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Yeah man, i think you should stick with the girl you got now, if you like her, that is. haha. But if the other girls got a b/f then i don't think theres any point of breakin up with tht other girl until the bottom girl breaks up with her b/f at least. Just roll with it. lol.

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i thought about it for a while and smoked many bowls on this subject and i think im just gonna go with it. not to sound lonley, but its nice to have a girlfriend and i dont mean for the sex. its nice to have someone else to do something with. like smoke a bowl or watch tv, see a movie. i mean yea its fun sometimes to do that with guy friends but it gets old. the same thing all the time. and plus the botony girl does still have a guy so theres no reason to wait. and im not gonna anounce to her that i have a girl just in case anything does happen btw her and him. but im not going to deny having one if it happens to come up. thanks for all the advice.

Make it clear to the girl who is being your girlfriend now that you have feelings for her and shit, you know? don't just accept the boyfriend role..embrace it.

Botony girl seems like a good FRIEND, but the boyfriend will be there for a while (most likely) so while it sucks maybe you scored a really nice girl.

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Make it clear to the girl who is being your girlfriend now that you have feelings for her and shit, you know? don't just accept the boyfriend role..embrace it.

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without a doubt. we have actually gone out a couple times already. she actually loves hanging out and smoking and talking to and with me. shes always calling to see if she can see me for a little while between classes. its nice, i like it. and she laughs at everything that i say. which is kind of odd for people out side of my close friends. so either A) shes faking it. 2. shes likes it. or D) i dont know. (just gotta have 3 answers).

id like an invite to your next party mate

and i want a random chick to sit on my lap and call me her boyfriend or her daddy or watever

a gift has practically fallen into your lap,why are you even thinkin wether to be wit her or not??you dont want to upset the gods by turning down their beautiful bounty of pussy

if u dont really like the girl then at least just stay with her and bang her while you work your game on the other chick with the boyfriend....

everyone knows that chicks like blokes that are already in a relationship,no chick wants a guy that no other chick wants...

listen to me man,id never steer you in the wrong direction

Hmm, wait for a taken girl while single or with a girlfriend? What a toughie =/

LOL, high school drama, gotta hate it!


Use this girl that is hangin on yer nutsack to your advantage to get the girl you want. If you cant figure out how to do that then you dont deserve it!

Alright man, you obviously like the botony girl more than other one. So, here's ya do. 1. Don't announce to the botony chick that you're taken. 2. Work on your game with her, and when you think you got it, get her number and take her out. 3. Go ahead and roll along with the other one until things get going with the botony chick.
And ya, just cuz she has a boyfriend does not mean that she is out of reach. It's not too tough to get a girl away from her boyfriend provided she doesn't love him. All you have to do is be better than her boyfriend. If she is in fact attracted to you (and it sounds like she is going off of what you provided) you shouldn't have too much trouble. Assuming you know what you're doing...
Good luck man.:thumbsup: