Transition to Threeway

Caution, no real explicit content in this post...from me anyway I cant account for the replies.

Ok so last night me and my boyfriend decided that we wanted a third person to either be with or fuck. Both even. We made up some rules:
-we both have to really like the person, no convincing anyone into anything(anyone) they dont wanna do.

-if it's purely sex
--we both have to be present.
--no kissing (least not the first few times)
--have to get papers that show we're all clean

-if it's a chick and purely sex
--I require equal attention
--he has to nutt with me
--condom a must
--no seeing her alone

-if its a guy and purely sex
--the boys wont be fuckin eachother
--condoms a must
--I cant see the third guy alone and have sex with him

-if it's not just sex and it's a situation where we care about the third person and want to date that person
--We both have to care about the person that way(if not it's not happening)
--we are both dating that person
--at first we will both have to be present for sex with the third person
--once its a regular thing and we're comfortable with it either one of us can have sex with the third person alone but not more often than with a person from the original couple.

-my preferences
--I want a man because well thats what I want.
---also I have never been attracted to a girl, any time I ever thaught a girl was hot I was jealous, which brings to mind the question of if the girl would have to be uglier than me for me to be comfortable with it and then the other question of would I even wanna do it with a girl who was uglier than me if I was going to do it at all.
-i dont mind relationships OR one ocassional partners(long as they can prove their clean). I dont frown on promiscuity as long as people do it responsibly. I think we were put her to do what feels good to us.
-And I feel like I have the capacity to love more than one person.

-my boyfriends preferences
--he would of course rather have a girl.
--he doesn't rule out a man cuz he knows I want that and I'm not ruling out girls for the same reason.
--also he enjoys seeing girls get gang banged it's his favorite kind of porn.
--he wont be doing sexual things to a guy.

-we both believe love can cross the gender boundries.
-we both think it'd be fun to take a third person to one of our family functions and rock their worlds.
-we both want to have sex with a third person.
-we agree on all the terms.

-also we recognize that the love we have for eachother is unique and probably wont be found anywhere else because neither one of us has ever loved anyone the way we love eachother. We are as close as it gets to soul mates.

-we think we might be better eased into it with pot and beer.

-I suggested we try extacy together just him and me to see if we can handle it and we like it. The E might even be usefull in breaching the uncomforable phaze in the beginning.

Anyone have any advice or thaughts about it?

thats hot...nuf said..:D

that is hot...but it might be kinda hard to pull all that off.

Good luck with that... lots of complications may arise! I hope it works out for you guys though. :)

i dont think id be able to watch a girl i loved get fucked.
if i didnt have feelings it would be no problem but jealousy
and loss of trust are your x-factors.be careful and have fun

I'd probs kill the other bloke... i cuddnt watch someone i loved get fucked by someone else.

it's the fact that we have unique love for eachother that allows us to do this. We'd love eachother even if we broke up.

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Originally Posted by LIP

I'd probs kill the other bloke... i cuddnt watch someone i loved get fucked by someone else.

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what if it was a girl?

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Originally Posted by poorprincess

what if it was a girl?

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That's smoking...

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Originally Posted by calve

thats hot...

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Originally Posted by ilovebecky

that is hot...

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awwwwwwwwwwwwww :D

thats all i can say

Carefull 3 ways can become heartbraking!

I kown this as a couple of close friends of mine did this once, it ended up in a big fight, and the 6 yr relastionship ended!

Some fantasies are ment to be just "fantasies"

Peace

yeah, uhhh, good luck with that,
wait thats old, have you done it yet???let us know an update

shit wont work

Sounds like ya thought things out
E is a good idea if it's the two of you.
Sex is sex, love is love. Some people can't distinguish between the two of them.
Lotsa luck. AND HAVE FUN!! :)

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Originally Posted by FUMO HIERBA

shit wont work

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Anything can happen at any time...Except for the defying of the laws of physics, which don't come in to play here.

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Originally Posted by P.E.N.G.U.I.N.

Anything can happen at any time...Except for the defying of the laws of physics, which don't come in to play here.

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hey i agree with you !

everything is posible in an open realtionship
this is also my fantasy

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Originally Posted by poorprincess

Caution, no real explicit content in this post...from me anyway I cant account for the replies.

Ok so last night me and my boyfriend decided that we wanted a third person to either be with or fuck. Both even. We made up some rules:
-we both have to really like the person, no convincing anyone into anything(anyone) they dont wanna do.

-if it's purely sex
--we both have to be present.
--no kissing (least not the first few times)
--have to get papers that show we're all clean

-if it's a chick and purely sex
--I require equal attention
--he has to nutt with me
--condom a must
--no seeing her alone

-if its a guy and purely sex
--the boys wont be fuckin eachother
--condoms a must
--I cant see the third guy alone and have sex with him

-if it's not just sex and it's a situation where we care about the third person and want to date that person
--We both have to care about the person that way(if not it's not happening)
--we are both dating that person
--at first we will both have to be present for sex with the third person
--once its a regular thing and we're comfortable with it either one of us can have sex with the third person alone but not more often than with a person from the original couple.

-my preferences
--I want a man because well thats what I want.
---also I have never been attracted to a girl, any time I ever thaught a girl was hot I was jealous, which brings to mind the question of if the girl would have to be uglier than me for me to be comfortable with it and then the other question of would I even wanna do it with a girl who was uglier than me if I was going to do it at all.
-i dont mind relationships OR one ocassional partners(long as they can prove their clean). I dont frown on promiscuity as long as people do it responsibly. I think we were put her to do what feels good to us.
-And I feel like I have the capacity to love more than one person.

-my boyfriends preferences
--he would of course rather have a girl.
--he doesn't rule out a man cuz he knows I want that and I'm not ruling out girls for the same reason.
--also he enjoys seeing girls get gang banged it's his favorite kind of porn.
--he wont be doing sexual things to a guy.

-we both believe love can cross the gender boundries.
-we both think it'd be fun to take a third person to one of our family functions and rock their worlds.
-we both want to have sex with a third person.
-we agree on all the terms.

-also we recognize that the love we have for eachother is unique and probably wont be found anywhere else because neither one of us has ever loved anyone the way we love eachother. We are as close as it gets to soul mates.

-we think we might be better eased into it with pot and beer.

-I suggested we try extacy together just him and me to see if we can handle it and we like it. The E might even be usefull in breaching the uncomforable phaze in the beginning.

Anyone have any advice or thaughts about it?

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this topic turn me on