Prevalence of HIV

Just out of curiosity, does anybody here ever worry about whether or not your next blowjob or one-night-stand might be from/with an HIV-positive partner?

I mean, oral sex and actual sex vary in your odds of catching it, but doesn't the mere thought of having sex with an HIV-positive partner even with a condom, well.. scare you?

Pretty broad topic, but I feel it can generate a decent discussion.


(I really wish it was like 50's when everybody could just fuck anybody care-free. Bet you never would've guessed)

Well every girl iv fucked lately told me they were on the pill, so i havent bothered with condoms, so yeah it kinda scares me a little....

No one told me you could catch HIV by gettin your cock sucked :confused: wtf

It was obvious... lol

Im scared i'll get something, so i'll always use condoms untill i meet the right girl who i can trust.

Wtf.... Im confused... how can someone else's spit in their mouth give u something??? :confused: no one told me!!! God, im as pissed off as i was when i heard condoms wer'nt 100% safe. Bastards.

I think it's a pretty rare occurance for a male to catch HIV from a female giving him a blowjob. She would have to have pretty bad bleeding gums for even the virus to come in contact with your skin. From everything that's been written and said, you can't catch HIV through saliva, or if you can.. it's EXTREMELY rare. Both people would have to have open sores in their mouths and bleeding gums. But I guess the same can be said for females... I don't think it's close to possible for a female to catch HIV from a guy going down on her.

But yes, I worry about HIV all the time. I will not give blowjobs to any guys if I know they haven't been tested. And just the mere fact of thinking about having sex with an HIV positive person scares the shit out of me. That's probably why I don't do one-night stands.

I had to get an HIV test for my mums application to emigrate to Australia and although I've never slept around or had sex without condoms, it was still really worrying and I kept thinking 'what will I do it it comes back positive? Im only 21!'
Anyway, it was negative but, it does gets you thinking......
It sounds cruel but dont think I could bring myself to sleep with someone with HIV, even with a condom - I've read stories of partners who do, but I think it would be too hard tp chill and enjoy the sex.........

I am glad I dont have the need to worry about such things. All of you single people out there need to take precaution, dont get carried away & not use protection, it could be a fatal mistake...

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Originally Posted by CrAzYpOtHeAd

Wtf.... Im confused... how can someone else's spit in their mouth give u something??? :confused: no one told me!!! God, im as pissed off as i was when i heard condoms wer'nt 100% safe. Bastards.

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Please get yourself educated.Herpes you can get from kissing so you don't even need to get naked ;) :D

http://www.hpa.org.uk/infections/top...iv/general.htm

http://www.herpesdoctor.com/node/4

If you don't sleep around you don't put yourself at risk,simple really.

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Originally Posted by zephyrinne

But yes, I worry about HIV all the time. I will not give blowjobs to any guys if I know they haven't been tested. And just the mere fact of thinking about having sex with an HIV positive person scares the shit out of me. That's probably why I don't do one-night stands.

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This may be not be appropriate, but it makes me think of giving head to someone that has Herpes.

i know many a bloke who caught crabs from dirty girls but they were happy to get a fuk at the time and didnt mind the crabs and even fukd the girls again,it was 2 girls who were known for it


i wouldnt risk it for a biscuit.

your health is all u have so put on ur raincoat and stay away from dirty girls,

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Originally Posted by weezy

i know many a bloke who caught crabs from dirty girls but they were happy to get a fuk at the time and didnt mind the crabs and even fukd the girls again,it was 2 girls who were known for it


i wouldnt risk it for a biscuit.

your health is all u have so put on ur raincoat and stay away from dirty girls,

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hmmmmmm....you posted in the thread "WOMEN" that we were all going to hell anyway because we are all junkies on here..and also pertaining the use of condoms as a preventive measure against the Hiv virus are nill..which is it weezy? On this thread you say use condoms but yet post on another thread negative comments about using condoms.:confused:

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Originally Posted by Shelbay

hmmmmmm....you posted in the thread "WOMEN" that we were all going to hell anyway because we are all junkies on here..and also pertaining the use of condoms as a preventive measure against the Hiv virus are nill..which is it weezy? On this thread you say use condoms but yet post on another thread negative comments about using condoms.:confused:

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ok so the preacher wants to go there with me
are you a preacher or an old woman???i cant tell

i never said anything negative about using condoms
i was tellin you that we didnt want to be preached to on a thread which was about girls havin tattoos on their lower back.but you steam rolled your way in and hijacked the thread and started goin on about aids and death and shit.wat the fuck has that shit got to do with girls having tattoos????
absolutley nothing

put your aids input into THIS thread because thats wat this thread is for.

were does it say in my post that i use condoms??i say that i stay away from dirty girls and i tell other people to put a raincoat on.i dont need to use them with the girl im with now,weve both been checked out

it sounds like your too afraid of hiv to even kiss a girl.you go on about it as if its the end of the world

your only a big scare monger

weezy...you are a liar. And also one and the same with...just so you know..stop trying to tell me what and when to post..your diversions will not work. Now put a condom in it.:thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by Shelbay

weezy...you are a liar. And also one and the same with...just so you know..stop trying to tell me what and when to post..your diversions will not work. Now put a condom in it.:thumbsup:

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im not liar and wat are these diversions your talkin about???
i havent told u wen and were to post
i really think your not right in the head

just keep your std comments for std threads and dont be postin aids all over the place and i wont have a problem
go get yourself checked out by the doctor because i think you might have the waffel sindrom

you certainly waffel on alot about shite

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Yeah im worried about HIV alot,
If I have any penetrative sex condoms are worn!!
Although blowjobs.....I have never used a condom for a blowjob....

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Originally Posted by zooted999

Just out of curiosity, does anybody here ever worry about whether or not your next blowjob or one-night-stand might be from/with an HIV-positive partner?

I mean, oral sex and actual sex vary in your odds of catching it, but doesn't the mere thought of having sex with an HIV-positive partner even with a condom, well.. scare you?

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Unfortunately, I can speak from experience. I have been HIV+ for almost 20 years. Yes, you should be afraid of contracting the virus. It can be a very nasty thing to have. It can also be lived with.

Since I became Positive, my sexual activity has nearly come to a halt. Not because I am Positive, but because others don't understand that there is more to a satisfying sexual experience than just intercourse anal or vaginal.

There's kissing, holding, touching, licking, sucking, stroking, toys up the yingyang (or elsewhere) all of which are safe to do. Ya know, a finger used to stimulate the "G-spot" and a soft kiss on the belly can be as if not more satisfying for the receiver than using your stick to poke at a hole or two. And it certainly helps if you make a point of pleasing your partner rather than just pleasing yourself.

But if you desire to weild your wand, wrap it. But guys, here is a hint, make sure it fits you tightly, and lubricate the outside. Your partner will get better "friction" if you and the condom are sliding in and out rather than you sliding in and out of the condom. Besides, a condom that sticks on the outside has a better chance of breaking than one that has the ability to slide around.