can you be friends with the opposite sex

without any sexual feelings.
every girl i have ever befriended i have ended up sleeping with.
i dont think guys want to be friends with chicks just to talk and i dont think
that girls make friends with guys unless they are cute or have something that other girls want and they can show off.

sometimes just for the hell of it i will drive in my ugly lil work car and try and talk to girls.if i dont make em laugh quick they give me no play.even in the ugly ride you can pick up if you can make em laugh.
then when i see em again i roll up in the avalanche and the attitude changes.
then when they see my pad its over.gold-diggers get dug out and sent home.

Yeah I have female friends, but most of them I'd sleep with given the opportunity.

i have male friends i kick-it with... also most of my sons friends... only one hit on me but i was not down 4 it... 2 close 2 home... mama got weed:smokin:

gramzilla if you dont mind me asking how old are you
cuz ive met some gramzilla that are hot

i've got lotsa friends who are girls, and yes, i do have some friends who i would like to do stuff with, but ive got a gf of almost a year, so thats out;)

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Originally Posted by friendowl

without any sexual feelings.
every girl i have ever befriended i have ended up sleeping with.

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perhaps your just a slut? :p

Really though, i think it depends on the type of guy you are. If your the stereotypical "manly man" who spends every moment of thier waking day trying to prove to his buddies that he's tougher than them, etc, then you probably cant have a legitimate female friend, no. This is of course a very general stereotype I'm making, but it usually holds true as this stereotype usually consist of the type who objectifies girls.

If, on the other hand, your someone who just simlply enjoys interacting with other people and having reliable, good friends, then it is indeed perfectly possible.

maybe your right

its just that it always turns out that we'll be kickin it
and then it comes out like this

girl; " owl, i wish my man was like you"
"i can just talk and you listen so well"
" what do you think of me"
" if i was your hyna would you do that to me"

me; " girl let me tell you i aint mr.right"
" im mr.right now"
[leans in for a kiss and puts hand under shirt in same motion]

you can be friends with unattractive women, and I mean ones that dont look good even after a jug of 151. I would never be ok with my hubby having female friends, unless she outhwieghs me by at least 75 lbs...and has red hair

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Originally Posted by duckfool

perhaps your just a slut? :p

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LOL, this from the guy with a Ron Jeremy av

I've had a lot of female friends. Some have been pretty good looking and, sure, I often had the "urge" around them but never acted on it. Except for one chick back when I was like 19 or 20. We were really good friends and hung out a lot. We had absolutely no romantic feelings for each other, however. One day we were talking about how it was better to be unattached except for the lack of sex. The conversation eventually progressed to "we can get high together, do this and that together, so why can't we have sex too?" You can imagine where it went from there. Although we definitely couldn't be considered a couple we did end up fucking each other pretty reguarly. We eventually both got into relationships with other people and stopped having sex but we did continue to be friends. Pretty weird.

im gonna say no your always going to want more and it will seem clear to you especially if you and the girl your friends with are really really close it makes you feel like your such good friends you would be such a great couple and the truth is your probably would make a good couple but the woman has to see that first to take you out of the friend zone

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Originally Posted by friendowl

maybe your right

its just that it always turns out that we'll be kickin it
and then it comes out like this

girl; " owl, i wish my man was like you"
"i can just talk and you listen so well"
" what do you think of me"
" if i was your hyna would you do that to me"

me; " girl let me tell you i aint mr.right"
" im mr.right now"
[leans in for a kiss and puts hand under shirt in same motion]

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haha, i hate when that happens.

O ya i got friends who are chicks, but its not like im in the friend spot, cuz i still hit on em and cop a feel whenever i can just to show Im not JUST a friend.

I think you can be friends with a member of the opposite sex but you cannot be best friends. If you are best friends with someone of the opposite sex one of you will end up falling for the other. And may get hurt.

lol.... 'grats on the feel copping

Have you heard Chris Rocks explanation on this..
IT is brilliant....

I have lots of friends that are woman, and don't even feel the least bit attracted to them. Friends are friends man no matter what sex they are.

Although, I hate feeling like a big brother to some of them./shrug

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Originally Posted by duckfool

perhaps your just a slut? :p

Really though, i think it depends on the type of guy you are. If your the stereotypical "manly man" who spends every moment of thier waking day trying to prove to his buddies that he's tougher than them, etc, then you probably cant have a legitimate female friend, no. This is of course a very general stereotype I'm making, but it usually holds true as this stereotype usually consist of the type who objectifies girls.

If, on the other hand, your someone who just simlply enjoys interacting with other people and having reliable, good friends, then it is indeed perfectly possible.

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Totally.

Ive slept with most of my female friends. Nothing changes, in most cases we just both feel like gettin laid.... I dont mind it one bit

most of the peeps in my circle are girls.

I find it hard to make friends with females so most of my friends are males and that's as far as it will ever go.I don't fancy them and I also know it would ruin a good friendship.

I have a lot of female friends. Not by choice.

i have trouser thoughts about all the nice lookers i know.:pimp:

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Originally Posted by Fengzi

LOL, this from the guy with a Ron Jeremy av

I've had a lot of female friends. Some have been pretty good looking and, sure, I often had the "urge" around them but never acted on it. Except for one chick back when I was like 19 or 20. We were really good friends and hung out a lot. We had absolutely no romantic feelings for each other, however. One day we were talking about how it was better to be unattached except for the lack of sex. The conversation eventually progressed to "we can get high together, do this and that together, so why can't we have sex too?" You can imagine where it went from there. Although we definitely couldn't be considered a couple we did end up fucking each other pretty reguarly. We eventually both got into relationships with other people and stopped having sex but we did continue to be friends. Pretty weird.

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i want to be you.

it fucking hard with some girls jusr wanna fuck he shit out of them or something damn haha

I used to think it was possible to have a guy as a friend, but most of them are the same, just want into your pants. I had a 3 year friendship with a guy then he stopped talkng to me when I got a boyfriend :(

Its safer to stick with gay guys as friends, or guys that already have girlfriends in my experience

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Originally Posted by SensiRide

I used to think it was possible to have a guy as a friend, but most of them are the same, just want into your pants. I had a 3 year friendship with a guy then he stopped talkng to me when I got a boyfriend :(

Its safer to stick with gay guys as friends, or guys that already have girlfriends in my experience

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Maybe he realized he liked your boyfriend.;)

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Originally Posted by SensiRide

I used to think it was possible to have a guy as a friend, but most of them are the same, just want into your pants. I had a 3 year friendship with a guy then he stopped talkng to me when I got a boyfriend :(

Its safer to stick with gay guys as friends, or guys that already have girlfriends in my experience

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he must have had a crush on you and when he found out you just wanted to be friends he did what all guys that get the lets just be friends talk do he walked away hoping it would make him seem more interesting to you and you would give chase

I'm a female and I find it hard to make friends with other girls for some reason, and now that I have a boyfriend I find that I cant have any friends or he will be jealous(even if he says nothing), so I have gay male friends. I just made good friends with a guy who my boyfriend is friends with to and no more than ten minutes after I tell my bf that I am good friends with another guy he asks me questions like, "if I died would you fuck him?"

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Originally Posted by poorprincess

I tell my bf that I am good friends with another guy he asks me questions like, "if I died would you fuck him?"

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why don't you just respond with, "what difference would it make, you'd be dead."

thats what I should have said.

Perhaps jealosy is his fear base.

I could be friends with the opposite sex, but the want to fuck them is always there.

I hate this topic, it just makes me realize how badly I want all of my female friends, even though I try to deny it to myself that that's true.:mad: :mad:
The friendships can still be good of course, it's just that for me there has always been that frustration and that hidden desire underneath all the genuinely good times.

My best friend is a guy.. he's been my best friend for about 6 years now. In high school, we kinda fooled around with one another, but that stuff hasn't happened for 4 years now.. and we're still best friends.

I don't think of him like 'that'. And I'm sure he doesn't think of me like that either, although I know he'd bone me if he got the chance. We're just buds. But his mom does want me to have her grandkids and his dad swears up and down we'll get married someday.

Most of my good friends are guys and there has never been any hookups or awkwardness. I get along with guys much better than girls, although my other best friend is a girl. I find a lot of girls to be whiny, bitchy, drama queens, and overall just not fun to hang around sometimes.

I used to have female friends that I had no sexual feelings for them but it just doesnt work like that anymore :p.

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Originally Posted by poorprincess

I'm a female and I find it hard to make friends with other girls for some reason, and now that I have a boyfriend I find that I cant have any friends or he will be jealous(even if he says nothing), so I have gay male friends. I just made good friends with a guy who my boyfriend is friends with to and no more than ten minutes after I tell my bf that I am good friends with another guy he asks me questions like, "if I died would you fuck him?"

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your b/f sounds insecure... goin 2 b high maintenance... hopefully not an emotional bottomless pit... good luck

oh hes not any of those things, just very confused paying him a visit just proved my power CANNABIS YEAH HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHA lol

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Originally Posted by poorprincess

thats what I should have said.

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baby girl... i say.. "Hell Yeah! In my fuckin dreams." lov gram

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dont listen to gram he knows not anything