help me

hey i really love this guy(partyguy) and ive moved into his house and given up like almost my whole life for him. weve been dating for 4 mnts and now he says he doent know if he loves me anymore. ive been crying my eyes out for him and i dont know what to do. on top of all that, hes been hangin out with this chick all by himself, shes 13 hes 16, but he says they are just friends. well he hangs out with her all day than comes home talks to me for bout 30 secs, than calls her and talks for 2 and a half hours. i cant lose him, ive been through this too many times. please help. deb loves billy.

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Originally Posted by kizazz83

hey i really love this guy(partyguy) and ive moved into his house and given up like almost my whole life for him. weve been dating for 4 mnts and now he says he doent know if he loves me anymore. ive been crying my eyes out for him and i dont know what to do. on top of all that, hes been hangin out with this chick all by himself, shes 13 hes 16, but he says they are just friends. well he hangs out with her all day than comes home talks to me for bout 30 secs, than calls her and talks for 2 and a half hours. i cant lose him, ive been through this too many times. please help. deb loves billy.

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oh and also we havnt had sex for 2 days. not normal behavior.

Sorry kizazz83,but it looks like it is over... I know it is easy to say,but trust me,, the sooner you wake up the better off you will be... Try turning your love for him into hate... By all means do NOT have sex with him!!!

Good Luck...

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Originally Posted by kizazz83

hey i really love this guy(partyguy) and ive moved into his house and given up like almost my whole life for him. weve been dating for 4 mnts and now he says he doent know if he loves me anymore. ive been crying my eyes out for him and i dont know what to do. on top of all that, hes been hangin out with this chick all by himself, shes 13 hes 16, but he says they are just friends. well he hangs out with her all day than comes home talks to me for bout 30 secs, than calls her and talks for 2 and a half hours. i cant lose him, ive been through this too many times. please help. deb loves billy.

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just thought id point out a few things about this situation, that would support the fact that neither of you are ready for... well.... anything..

"dating for 4 months" - thats long enough to become friends, not roommates

"given up whole life for him" - for someone youve known 4 months? you havent been together long enough to decide whether or not hes the "one"

"hes 16" - hes 16, and lives by himself? - well anyway, DEFINITLY too young to handle any sort of mature relationship, especially if he's robbin' the cradle for someone who hasnt even had their first period yet..

- bottom line is this -

both of you are way too young to tackle such a commitment, i thought i was ready, i was 19, but i couldnt have been more incorrect..

have fun! your young, dont be tied down this early, youll have plenty of time later on in life for someone to say "BITCH DO THEM DISHES!" or to cheat on you with an infant...

enjoy

Hey break up with that fool,. and come have angry revenge dont call me tommarow sex for 8 hours with me,. sounds good too me

You can not keep him if he really wants to go. Let him go! Look for a new one.

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Originally Posted by Skink

Sorry kizazz83,but it looks like it is over... I know it is easy to say,but trust me,, the sooner you wake up the better off you will be... Try turning your love for him into hate... By all means do NOT have sex with him!!!

Good Luck...

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dont have sex with him? oops.

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Originally Posted by SweetDreams420

Hey break up with that fool,. and come have angry revenge dont call me tommarow sex for 8 hours with me,. sounds good too me

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sure sounds fun. lol.

anyways could i maybe get a positive reply?

ok, first off.... i dont live by my self to who ever said that, second of all... she is older then me.... and fuck who ever said to come have angry revenge sex with them....

but serusly to get to the point, im sorry for hurting you so badly....

P.S. dont listen to those guys who said not to have sex with me, i think they are on some sort of drugs, like meth.... well. just playing about the meth and being on drugs.

or wait, u mean the 13 year old is robbing the cradel, you would be correct on that one, and thats why i will atualy listen to my mom and not do anything sexual with her.

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Originally Posted by kizazz83

sure sounds fun. lol.

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ill take you up on that offer dont think i wont come to your house and seduce you,. and fuck you party guy.

It's important to learn love without obsessive clinging. If you want to keep someone, let them go. if they go, they aren't worth clinging to. It is ultimately clinging to that which we create a need for, and craving that which we don't have, which leads to suffering.

kizazz83 drop this guy, he sounds like the biggest fuckin loser ever.
rofl, a 16 year old trying to date a 13 year old!?!??!?! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahaha hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahh
partyguy you must be retarded

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Originally Posted by justinsane

have fun! your young, dont be tied down this early, youll have plenty of time later on in life

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he spits hot fire. Word on that my man. Everyone always asks me why I never have a girlfriend and look at me like I AM the crazy one. Serious, why ruin a good thing.

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Originally Posted by d00d989

kizazz83 drop this guy, he sounds like the biggest fuckin loser ever.
rofl, a 16 year old trying to date a 13 year old!?!??!?! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahaha hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahh
partyguy you must be retarded

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and who the fuck said i was trying to date a 13 year old. first off.... the 13YO asked me out and we went out for a fucking day... so fuck you guys.

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Originally Posted by kizazz83

and who the fuck said i was trying to date a 13 year old. first off.... the 13YO asked me out and we went out for a fucking day... so fuck you guys.

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kizazz83, didn't you just say your bf was talking to this 13 year old, not you? or is this her bf?

there's no need for a "fuck you guys", some of us genuinly wanted to help. But if you're only asking for help to get an answer you want to hear, seek it elsewhere.

Maybe kizazz and partyguy are the same person. You think?!?!

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Originally Posted by thebathroom

Maybe kizazz and partyguy are the same person. You think?!?!

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Thats what i suspected the whole time. Lol

yeah I think so too

her sig says partyguy1252 but the guy posting is partyguy420

something is not adding up here

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Originally Posted by d00d989

kizazz83 drop this guy, he sounds like the biggest fuckin loser ever.
rofl, a 16 year old trying to date a 13 year old!?!??!?! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahaha hahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahh
partyguy you must be retarded

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Lmao :thumbsup:

He/she is an online schizo.

fuck that guy.

i think its pretty obvious here that this is partyguy420 trying to make himself look like hes getting pussy to people on the internet ha ha everyone point and laugh

Btw how old are u then im confused on that ???

hey THIS is kizazz83. partyguy got on cannabis and i was still logged in you fuckin morons. except for sweet dreams 420. and the people earlier in the post. no im not a psycho. im still living at his house so we share a cmp. his sis is my best friend. so anyways im not obsessive. its just hard cuz i really did care about him and i thought he did too. but you guys are probably right. im just setting myself up to get hurt worse. later.

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Originally Posted by Kryzco

yeah I think so too

her sig says partyguy1252 but the guy posting is partyguy420

something is not adding up here

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oops. ya i was probably stoned when i made my sig.

if ur b/f is only 16 how old r u
go and enjoy life stop trying to grow up so quick im guessing ur 16 too if so get over this guy hes usin u and go out and have some fun
go and do what normal 16 yr olds do

Yeah it soundsl like it's over but I would just ask him again and if he saids the same thing then it's up to you really where you go from here.Do you wait around and see if he does love you?Or do you try to move on with your life and you might find mr right.But good luck with it all.:eek: :)

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Originally Posted by mrdevious

kizazz83, didn't you just say your bf was talking to this 13 year old, not you? or is this her bf?

there's no need for a "fuck you guys", some of us genuinly wanted to help. But if you're only asking for help to get an answer you want to hear, seek it elsewhere.

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kizazz was on my coumputer to get on to cannabis.com, and i went and got on my cmp, and i figured i would post some crap, and didnt relize it was on kizazz until after i had posted my messsage, so the one you quoted, was me not deb

and if i was realy trying to fuck that 13 year old, i would have already done it. but since i didnt realy want to fuck her, i havent tried.

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Originally Posted by partyguy420

kizazz was on my coumputer to get on to cannabis.com, and i went and got on my cmp, and i figured i would post some crap, and didnt relize it was on kizazz until after i had posted my messsage, so the one you quoted, was me not deb

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Doesn't it bother you that you are both airing your dirty laundry in public?I would ask advice about my relationship on here to a certain extent but not if my partner was also a member.

I hope you both work things out and don't do each other too much mental harm :)

So partyguy's parents let his girlfriend move in at 16? Aycarumba.

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Originally Posted by DirkZooDiggler

So partyguy's parents let his girlfriend move in at 16? Aycarumba.

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yes, my mom alowed her to because of things that were happening at home, but the fucked up thing is the fact the my mom let my 13 year old sisters 17 year old boyfriend move in, and that was for no reason

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Originally Posted by partyguy420

yes, my mom alowed her to because of things that were happening at home, but the fucked up thing is the fact the my mom let my 13 year old sisters 17 year old boyfriend move in, and that was for no reason

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ok, that is fucked up..

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Originally Posted by partyguy420

yes, my mom alowed her to because of things that were happening at home, but the fucked up thing is the fact the my mom let my 13 year old sisters 17 year old boyfriend move in, and that was for no reason

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Your life is like something out of a british soap :D

ya no kidding. im sorry if this post was too much information for all you its just i really love him and its breaking my heart. yes im 17 and in most of your eyes a little girl. but you have to understand that it doesnt matter how old you are, or whats going on in your life, when you fall in love and you know you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, and all of a sudden their feelings for you are gone for someone else whos prettier, it hurts. i posted this bcause i wanted to find some hope. but apprently thats not happening. i guess this british soap is over huh. peace

ive seen you partyguy, you never had pussy before. stop trying to create imaginary pussy. you fail

what the fuck are you talking about.... if u realy wanted me to, me and kizazz will go to the damn library and post compltly different things at the same time, or within a few seconds.

hey sry bout him being a smart ass. anyways me and partyguy are going back out!!!!!!!!!!!!!! un very happy so thanx to all your thoughts and to the rest of you, if you find something special, dont let anyone else tell you anything different. and to whoever the fuck said were the same person, go to the cannibis lounge and you can check out a pic of me in one of the forums or whatever. peaca.
p.s. very very very happy.