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man, my gf broke up with me because she figured out that i smoke weed, and then told fucking everyone! now i have to go around tellin everyone i quit/ i never did it in the first place so everyone will get off my dick! fuck, man. she was the best thing that happened to me, too. fuck!
that sounds fucked up,sorry to hear that man
you make me very sad. if you're going to go around and lie to everyone then you don't deserve weed in the first place.
take some pride in what you do, FUCK telling everyone that you don't do it. if your friends can't accept you for who you are then are they even really your friends in the first place?
i got a group of friends who are literally straightedge and haven't even had a drink in their lives, they know that i do a lot of pot and sometimes a bit of adderall with a few trips mixed in there. they don't care and they still respect me as a person.
if that's not a friend then i don't know what is
i never said they were my friends. i just said that the bitch was goin around tellin everyone which means they'll probly fucking tell their parents who are all just a bunch of ignorant assholes who will more than likely call the cops on my ass, and i dont care if i deserve to smoke weed. i am NOT fuckin goin to jail for anyone. fuck that shit!
UM ya ur not gunna goto jail just because someones parents call the cops saying you smoke weed.
You could een tell a cop you smoke weed every day and as long as your not stoned or havve anything on you they cant do shit. Be proud and be like yea fuck you i do smoke and you dont know what your missing so go fuck yourself. Easy as that!
The only prob would be possibly your parents like if theyre dicks and find out.
you can't go to jail for saying you smoke pot. there is no proof at all. u can't even go to jail for failing a drug test.Quote:
Originally Posted by slpntrx5
stupid 5 minute edit shit. here is my full message to you:
you can't go to jail for saying you smoke pot. there is no proof at all. u can't even go to jail for failing a drug test. hell, you can't even go to jail for posting pictures on the internet of your pot or even of you smoking. it could be oregano they can't prove it's pot, and you could be blowing out tobacco smoke or something.
just the idea of someone who uses pot often and enjoys it going around saying "no no i dont do that" just so he can keep a "good" reputation among his peers is fucking sickening.
all im saying is that if u smoke pot and enjoy it very much, like most stoners, u should stand up for what you do and be proud. obviously lying to your parents is nothing because then it's pretty dumb to openly admit it, you're asking for them to search you and take all ur shit and punish u. that's a completely different story. if it's just your peers and shit then just say "yeah i smoke marijuana. i enjoy it too. does that make me less of a person?" and if they say yes then walk away and never talk to that person again.
besides who else would this girl tell besides your or her friends? is she going to walk around school going "hey look everyone! that kid over there smokes pot! how gay is he?!"
anyways stay strong my friend and never disrespect good old mary jane. she won't disrespect you either.
P.S. what grade are you in? just wondering
Fuck that Bitch cause it sounds like she aint shit,and for telling people tht makes her even more of a bitch wtf is her deal set her straight talk to her if you still really like her and shit thats what id do and make everything al smooth !!
if she really cared about you and everything then she wouldn't have never told your buisness in the first place, so in my opinion your better off without her, and your not going to jail for someone saying you smoke. I agree with the guy above me, talk to her
Definately a bitch ! I agree with the last two posts but dont bother wasting your time on her she can't be trusted.
still a fucked up situation though... good luck man
man that suck! well she fucked with you by telling people something that wasnt her business so maybe you should do the same! tell people one of her secrets like the noises she makes in bed or somthing about her that she doesnt like. paybacks a bitch! or you could make something up! say she has HERPES:D or her poonanny stinks!
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Originally Posted by pixel
Dude, dont be a homophobe.:mad:
Choice of living a lie or just being honest with yourself and others, I can handle anyones BS as long as I know I'm being true to myself.Quote:
Originally Posted by slpntrx5
Walk away and don't bother with petty payback that way at least you can hold your head high,learn to be honest or learn to hide it better the choice is yours.
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Be who you are and say what you feel,
because those who mind don't matter
and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
relationships are about give and take, compromise and so on. each side is goign to have to give a little. there are two factors that could totally mess up anything i'm saying so if the answer to "have she quit anything drastic for you" or there are other things she'd rather me quit, but the argument always seems to come back to me and my weed" then this does not apply to youQuote:
Originally Posted by slpntrx5
relationships are based on give and take as already stated. therefore, no one in any relationship should be able to make a decision about what the other is going to do..
some scenarios
she doesn't want you smoking it, cuz it's a "drug" well, so are the pills that pharmautical buisnesses hand out, there's no real diffrence there.
she doesn't you smoking it cuz it can cause cancer/illnesses, technically you have way more ways to die then smoking weed... i'd be willing to bet you'd get hit bya drunk and die before you'd die over anything weed related. then there's alway sif you just do it to much for her, don't do it so much, if you she wants you to quit just cuz she don't like it, reason with her, make her give up (or lower the intake) of something you dislike she does, and in turn you cut down some of your smoking habbits... no relationship ever will 100% agree with the other person, that's why we need compromises
Yeh but the kid goes to school man, who gives a fuck if he's proud about it or not? like ONE adolescent is gonna change the outlook of the world on marijuana consumption. Fact is ppl (kids no less, and av u spoke to the majority of em....fuuuuuuuck me, like talkin to a brick wall) will be raggin on him all the time, and yeh u can walk away, but u got to go to lessons with these ppl aswell, so the walking away thing doesn't really work, cuz sooner or later you will have to deal with them, and if u hav the attitude toward them of 'Fuck ya, I'll do what I want' they could (unlikely, but still), not only tell the school u smoke, but tell em u deal, since ure mates seem to look down on drugs anyway, uve been lowered to the rank of 'Junkie trainee'......a girl I was friends with at school got thrown the fuck out becuz sum bitch went runnin to the teachers on her (and she was jus smoking, not dealin), so yeh u won't go to jail, but a lot of hassle could be caused, and maybe he just wants to keep his head down and get thru school with as little trouble as possible, I kno I did, what a bag of shit those yrs were.
And yeh ure right man, she sounds like an AAAAAAAAACE girlfriend, sure were lucky to cross paths with her :thumbsup:
um the whole point is that SHE was sayin that, not me!!! :rasta:Quote:
Originally Posted by ethsfreshman
you're missing the point... it's not to change the outlook on marijuana, i just think that when you use marijuana and you enjoy it, it seems cowardly to start lying about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jimmicrackedcorn
the attitude is not at ALL "fuck you i do what i want" the attitude is "i smoke marijuana, but that doesn't make me less of a person. if you think it does, and you have some prejudice against it, then this friendship, relationship, whatever it is, can't continue." if you go to these people with a bad attitude, it'll give them a bad attitude towards you. be positive, when someone sees you being open and honest about yourself while still being kind, i bet you that you'll strike a pleasant chord in them and they'll see you not as just a marijuana smoker but as a pretty good guy too.
i know that you're in school, maybe even surrounded by brainwashed drug war victims, but a wise man once said "You must be the change you wish to see in the world."
I kno what ure saying man, it is cowardly to lie about it, but for you to be bothered by this, you must give in to the weakness that makes you a coward in the first place, the opinions of others. Whether you shout it from the rooftops, or keep it in secret, the action speaks louder than the words ever could.
And the attitude of "i smoke marijuana, but that doesn't make me less of a person. if you think it does, and you have some prejudice against it, then this friendship, relationship, whatever it is, can't continue." is a long way of saying 'Fuck ya, I'll do what I want' You smoke weed, which is what you want to do, and if others don't like it, you can't be around them, in a harsher sense, but the same general message fuck ya!
As for Ghandi, I think it was amazing what he did, he had as much balls as a fucking barbarian, but even tho his principles were firmly built on non-violent methods, his oppressors weren't, and in the 20 or so years it took for him to gain the independence of India, hundreds of thousands of protestors were either shot/imprisoned/beaten, including himself many times. Plus when the independence was finally gained, it was just after the first world war, when britain was economically butt fucked, but that still didn't stop them from tryin to split India up in to smaller states, with the 1946 cabinet mission to India, which in a way they succeeded in doing, political unrest was invoked in the indian parliament between the different religious groups, ending in turmoil, but on his last fast to death for peace between Hindu, Sikh and Muslim groups, they agreed they would advocate peace............little over a year later Ghandi was assasinated by a Hindu extremist, with the group Mahasabha, who blamed Gandi for weakenin india by paying Pakistan to avoid war, and these religious groups and many more are still having a pissing contest with one another.
So you can hav as positive attitude as you want, but ppl will ALWAYS try and fuck you over and call you a prick for what you do, the best thing is to do what Gandi did once a day every week, and be silent, unless you want to really go balls out on it, and in this case I don't think its worth it to slpntrx5, cuz he'll eventually leave school, and never see 80-95% of those pricks again.
dont let some chick crack the whip on you like that,. if she dont like you smoking find someone else
I feel you, I tried to stop smoking some time 2 weeks ago or something and my gf (well...ex) was the best thing that ever happened to me too but she got caught cheatin and shit so I really was stressed out and started smoking and shit again. But in my situation it wouldnt matter if she went around tellin people because that would mean more money for me lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by slpntrx5
yeah; she gives you shit, you give her the back of your hand and compromise her face.Quote:
Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
ok you have fun doing that.. i'll do it the right way.Quote:
Originally Posted by Adolf Smittler
If you did that to me I would smother you in your sleep :mad:Quote:
Originally Posted by Adolf Smittler
smother me with kisses?Quote:
Originally Posted by HiddenBeauty
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Originally Posted by Adolf Smittler
Kiss of death maybe.
What a fucking bitch. You honestly think she's the best thing that happened to you?
yeah sorry that sucks dude, but my philosophy is that i change for nobody
You were dishonest with her from the start. Girls don't like that.Quote:
Originally Posted by slpntrx5
I never thought about that
reefer u got a damn good point there
I'm torn. On one hand, it is true that you lied to her from the beginning, and had you been more open, like the others had mentioned, then you wouldn't be in this situation. On the other hand, you could compromise her face, which is, by the way, the funniest thing I've seen or read in a while. I don't know what to choose.
grow some balls perhaps...the fact that you smoke weed is NOTHING to be embarassed about