just got busted by parents

ok so i was sitting in my room... had some classic rock on it was flash back night all the older classics sitting at my computer there are 2 in my room hitting off my bong which is about 3 feet long so when i sit down i have to tilt it a little just finished my first bown loading the 2nd bowl exalhaded ah hard as i could then started to take the bigest bong rip ever then bangSLAM my mom slams my doos open just as i blow out the smoke and like "WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING"! and i said nothing then she said WHAT IS THAT SMELL!!!!??" by this time all the yellin has got my dad in here and he grabs my and yanks me out of my chair where in my computer tower i had my stash had the case of then its about 30 minutes of screaming and bitching me out.. but i was as stoned as fuck they took my weed (of course) my tv my radio mr computers my internet modem my remote controlled cars my money my speaker system my digicamera ad spank me like hell.....and theyh grounded me so i can oobly go out when we are going to the drug rehab.... or to town so i had to get my mini super mini laptop out of my closet ( they dont know i have it and didnt take it) which my next door neibor doesnt mine me connecting to his wifi as long as i dotn fuck anything up so i got the laptop that is about the size of a vhs tape but only half inch thin that i saved a litle money got a little here pretenede to be homeless there and got the laptop and now made this post

has anyone else ever got busterd by parents????

I got caught by my dad when I was 16, he was pissed,
he said "skippin' me eh? OK ...I'll remember that.".

sorry to hear that man , i was caught when i was younger 2, and now (only 20) i burn with my dad, funny how things work out, best of luck to ya :rasta:

Man, you got spanked? How old are you? You would think spanking is a thing of the past once your 14-15....

Anyway, that sucks all your stuff got taken away...

That's what you get for being a dumbass and smoking in your room while your parents are home. :rolleyes: You give pot heads everywhere a bad name.

My parents where the same way at first.
I eventually conditioned them, from screaming and threatening me to actually going out and looking for weed for me. You have to turn it around on them. It takes patience, dont give up.

well i am 15.5 and i have always got spanked with a leather strap plus thats the ojnly other thing they could think of at the end of that shit and he kinda fucked up the computer when he took it out of my rom i think dont know cant turn it on or ever look at it ( i have no clue where it is might be in attic i never go up there) so this micro laptop is now my computer i like it since i can hide it n my pillow caseor on top shelf of closet.....guess i wont get to blaze on 340 :-( :-no:rasta:


and they also took my dor off its hinges so i have no privacy what so ever they ever cut the coax cable tv cable in my room ( ok well thye would flip out of i had porn or ciggs or ever a gf so i guess pot really isnt for me since parents are so tight with me well gotta go so i can get this laptop hid and shit

i got caught by my dad when i was 13, he didnt freak as bad as your parents did though. he just searched my room. now 2years later he has no idea i still do it.

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Originally Posted by BigBlock

That's what you get for being a dumbass and smoking in your room while your parents are home. :rolleyes: You give pot heads everywhere a bad name.

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hey they wernt home at the time and i had this little computer type can some dryer vent tubing with the fan in tubing sticking out my window where 98.9% of smoke went out the rest just up in smoke

Yeah they took away my door too actually. Id smoke weed and theyd say all insanely angry IT SMELLS LIKE WEED IN HERE!!! Eventually I developed the brilliant comeback WELL ITS PROBABLY FROM ALL THE WEED I WAS SMOKING!! Which shut them up.
Be as open with it as possible, admit your a stoner and proud of it, and do the dishes! Haha.. it will desensitize them quickly.

They'd have a problem with you having a GIRLFRIEND? Dude, fuck your parents. Kill 'em. Or just tell 'em your gonna do whatever the fuck you want whether they like or not.

Damn dude...

damn that really suck! your just going to have to smoke somewhere else, until you get old enough to stand up to them or move out. Or maybe you should quit for a while(#2 sucks)! lol good luck man maybe youll get lucky and theyll chill out after a while!

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Originally Posted by AcidFreak

They'd have a problem with you having a GIRLFRIEND?

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If its a problem, get a boyfriend instead :p

Man I'm glad I don't have to do the whole hiding it from your parents anymore!

they took my modem







yet u found ways of posting? cant be all bad bro just get yourself somemore weed eh? lole evry corner shop sell rizzla ya sorted! lol

here's your solution

be really good.
do everything they tell you to do with a smile.
stop smoking weed.


and in a few months you will get their trust back.
When you get it back don't act like a dumb stoner. Do your school papers on legalization and the positive effects of weed and do them well so you get to show your parents the A papers you are getting. (maybe they will read a few) Don't ever smoke weed when your parents are home. When you do smoke get a bowl-tex, hello neighbor, and STILL blow it out the window. (they look like lip balms but you blow your weed smoke through them and it changes the smell)
I would say they over reacted but I am guessing they took all that stuff away from you because you are fucking up on a larger scale. They think the weed is the cause of your fuckupness, so prove it isn't stop fucking up and they will lay off you.

They spanked you?! Ha hahahahhhaaha!! You naughty boy. :p

I got caught by my folks on the front step of our house. My dad came out, and said, "what are you, toking up out here?" I was busted, so I said yes. He told me to keep it down as he could hear me coughing from their bedroom. The next morning all he told me was,"I can't give you shit for something we used to do, but if I ever catch you smoking crack, I'm going to kick your ass." That was that.

I think parents are a little more worried about their kids these days. With all the bad drugs out there, so easy to get, they just get prtective, which is normal. I'd be prtective as well if I had a 15 or 16yr old kid living in these days.

Oh yes, and try using a period. It makes things very hard to read. :)

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Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush

here's your solution

be really good.
do everything they tell you to do with a smile.
stop smoking weed.


and in a few months you will get their trust back.
When you get it back don't act like a dumb stoner. Do your school papers on legalization and the positive effects of weed and do them well so you get to show your parents the A papers you are getting. (maybe they will read a few) Don't ever smoke weed when your parents are home. When you do smoke get a bowl-tex, hello neighbor, and STILL blow it out the window. (they look like lip balms but you blow your weed smoke through them and it changes the smell)
I would say they over reacted but I am guessing they took all that stuff away from you because you are fucking up on a larger scale. They think the weed is the cause of your fuckupness, so prove it isn't stop fucking up and they will lay off you.

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ive been thinking of telling my parents for a long ass time now... i feel soooo shady and bad when they talk to me when im high... like ashamed. when i get my grades back up im gonna tell them. then go do the dishes. and that will be that. im gonna tell them like this is what i do and thats how it is. wish me luck. i finally saw how cool it was to be free about it and to smoke out in the house and shit, i was over a kids house yesterday...

damn man wtf is wrong wit u kids if u can control yourself and not be weeds bitch, get excellent grades (because you are capable of doing so), and go to school i bet your parents wouldnt care less what you do on your own time... atleast... thats how it is with my fam

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Originally Posted by hellomandude

damn man wtf is wrong wit u kids if u can control yourself and not be weeds bitch, get excellent grades (because you are capable of doing so), and go to school i bet your parents wouldnt care less what you do on your own time... atleast... thats how it is with my fam

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i am in all honors or AP classes with seniors, in one of the hardest schools in the city. you dont know my situation douchebag, as i dont know yours, so shut the fuck up. one bad day CAN fuck up some grades, at least in honors. you're probably in math foundations 0 and AP Special Education so i suggest you shut the fuck up. im going to bring my grades up. good advice though, it just isnt that easy.

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Originally Posted by chisme

they took my modem







yet u found ways of posting? cant be all bad bro just get yourself somemore weed eh? lole evry corner shop sell rizzla ya sorted! lol

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yet i said i have a mini laptop that has a wireless card.....and my next door niebor lots me use his connection if i want to ... so thats how i posted chisme

maby ill make a batch of """brownies""" and after they had a few i will ask for my door and computers and inter net back ;-) :rasta:

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Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush

here's your solution

be really good.
do everything they tell you to do with a smile.
stop smoking weed.

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if you go on that route expect complete failure. Try it and prove me right :)

Giving in to their demands only strengthens their sadistic methods of dealing with you.

Stick with my actual proven advice ive been there :cool:

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Originally Posted by da haze meister

i am in all honors or AP classes with seniors, in one of the hardest schools in the city. you dont know my situation douchebag, as i dont know yours, so shut the fuck up. one bad day CAN fuck up some grades, at least in honors. you're probably in math foundations 0 and AP Special Education so i suggest you shut the fuck up. im going to bring my grades up. good advice though, it just isnt that easy.

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that post wasnt directed to you

but the fact that you got that worked up over it definitely says something:dance:

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Originally Posted by hellomandude

that post wasnt directed to you

but the fact that you got that worked up over it definitely says something:dance:

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oh shit sorry dude...
im home sick from school today cause im soooo burnt out from a smoke yesterday... you are actually right on this occasion. im just having a bad day i guess.
again im sorry bro.

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Originally Posted by da haze meister

oh shit sorry dude...
im home sick from school today cause im soooo burnt out from a smoke yesterday... you are actually right on this occasion. im just having a bad day i guess.
again im sorry bro.

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its cool

we've all been there

That sucks man, getting caught is the worst. I was caught twice by my mom when i lived at home.

First time, we were renovating my room so i moved my stash to somewhere that i thought was safe...yeah I guess it wasn't because she found it. I was actually being interviewed for a job at the time and she calls me and is like "when you get home, we have to have a serious talk." I already knew what she was talking about so i was just like "....fuck"

So she gives me some lecture about it and blah blah blah. She didn't really punish me though so I went over to my friends house and smoked a fat blunt, hah.

A few months later, I was curious as to what she did with my pipes. I looked around on the porch which is where she likes to hide things. I found it and whatever i had in there had been smoked because when she found it, it was empty. When I found it, there was a bowls worth of ash. So I guess my mom wanted to toke up, haha.

The next time I was at college orientation and I forgot an important paper. I asked her if she knew where it was, then she started looking in my room and found my shit again!! This time she was just like whatever, dont get caught, if you do...it's your ass.

Now we're pretty cool. My parents can usually tell when I'm high since they were pretty big stoners. They always like to make little jokes about it, heh.

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Originally Posted by cygnustaxt

That sucks man, getting caught is the worst. I was caught twice by my mom when i lived at home.

First time, we were renovating my room so i moved my stash to somewhere that i thought was safe...yeah I guess it wasn't because she found it. I was actually being interviewed for a job at the time and she calls me and is like "when you get home, we have to have a serious talk." I already knew what she was talking about so i was just like "....fuck"

So she gives me some lecture about it and blah blah blah. She didn't really punish me though so I went over to my friends house and smoked a fat blunt, hah.

A few months later, I was curious as to what she did with my pipes. I looked around on the porch which is where she likes to hide things. I found it and whatever i had in there had been smoked because when she found it, it was empty. When I found it, there was a bowls worth of ash. So I guess my mom wanted to toke up, haha.

The next time I was at college orientation and I forgot an important paper. I asked her if she knew where it was, then she started looking in my room and found my shit again!! This time she was just like whatever, dont get caught, if you do...it's your ass.

Now we're pretty cool. My parents can usually tell when I'm high since they were pretty big stoners. They always like to make little jokes about it, heh.

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see, i have always dreamed about that kinda thing, like being able to just smoke and have weed without the guilt that comes along with hiding shit from my parents. jsut one question? were they ever adamantly opposed to it?
if so, how should i condition them? i should prob get my grades up of course, but what else?

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Originally Posted by hempomatic

well i am 15.5 and i have always got spanked with a leather strap plus thats the ojnly other thing they could think of at the end of that shit and he kinda fucked up the computer when he took it out of my rom i think dont know cant turn it on or ever look at it ( i have no clue where it is might be in attic i never go up there) so this micro laptop is now my computer i like it since i can hide it n my pillow caseor on top shelf of closet.....guess i wont get to blaze on 340 :-( :-no:rasta:


and they also took my dor off its hinges so i have no privacy what so ever they ever cut the coax cable tv cable in my room ( ok well thye would flip out of i had porn or ciggs or ever a gf so i guess pot really isnt for me since parents are so tight with me well gotta go so i can get this laptop hid and shit

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i think your parents are quite possibly retards...... go shag a bloke, smoke some crack and get into sado masochism and ask for a belting..... that'd do their heads in

my parents were fairly clued up about me smoking..... as long as a iwasnt being a dickhead or stealing etc etc they were fairly alright.,.... they dont knwo if i smoke and drive tho..... which of course i dont :)

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Originally Posted by da haze meister

see, i have always dreamed about that kinda thing, like being able to just smoke and have weed without the guilt that comes along with hiding shit from my parents. jsut one question? were they ever adamantly opposed to it?
if so, how should i condition them? i should prob get my grades up of course, but what else?

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Well, one thing you have to understand is that my parents are pretty open-minded. They're both musicians and were around it constantly. My dad still smokes occasionally and my mom quit but just because she was tired of smoking it (so she says). I'd definitely say keeping your grades up will help. Try explaining that it helps you be more creative and all that stuff.

i've been caught twice... not actually smoking, but with weed and stuff...

the first time my parents were looking around in my purse because they saw a pack of cigs (which they hate and always bitch at me for smoking), and lo and behold i had my pipe and weed in the cigarette box..

the second time was completely my own stupid fault... i was smoking in my room one night when everyone was in bed, and i hid my pipe in a drawer in my dresser... and forgot i put it in there... and a few days later my mom was looking for some clothes and found the pipe.

see my parents have a problem.. they are always going through my stuff... which i can't really complain too much about because they are paying for me to go to school and stuff... but still, it sucks. as soon as i get a better job, i can start paying for my stuff myself so that they have no authority over me.

they also flipped out when they found the stuff... like screaming at me and stuff like that...

it definitely sucked.

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Originally Posted by da haze meister

see, i have always dreamed about that kinda thing, like being able to just smoke and have weed without the guilt that comes along with hiding shit from my parents. jsut one question? were they ever adamantly opposed to it?
if so, how should i condition them? i should prob get my grades up of course, but what else?

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once your doing good in school....

shed light upon the many health benefits from cannabis

and tell them also that you are scared of harder drugs, usually parents fear weed so much just because it is looked upon as a "gateway" drug

and last but not least let them know you have a connect that you trust, and that your very unlikely to get into trouble with

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Originally Posted by hellomandude

once your doing good in school....

shed light upon the many health benefits from cannabis

and tell them also that you are scared of harder drugs, usually parents fear weed so much just because it is looked upon as a "gateway" drug

and last but not least let them know you have a connect that you trust, and that your very unlikely to get into trouble with

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thanks for the advice man...
i jsut need to make the money that i spent back... i think that will help.

when i had just started smoking weed, i was smoking a j by my self in my room. My step father comes home like 6 hours early from work, and busts me. He takes my shit (little less than an 1/8), then gives me the speech. "this stuff is bad"......... blah blah blah right. takes it and pretends to flush it down the toilet. two weeks later the same thing happends, exept this time he takes the joint out of my hand and hits it........ looks at me, the goes "what? did you expect me to do, if i can't beat you i might at well join ya" then he goes down stairs and gets my bag he "flushed" and hands it back to me. the whole time i was dumb founded, cause this is not like my step father at all. we've had fist fights over cookies, i thought i was dead.

ok the whole "don't give in to your parents" advice is uhm..stupid.

you have to give in to your parents when you are living with them and are a minor. Also we dont know the whole story behind your parents and their rules, you do. I've had parents, I've also lived in the real world for a whle now and I find that people are more willing to trust you, deal with you, work with you if you meet them halfway. Since you already fucked up huge, you now have to walk the line the draw for you until they trust you and are willing to work with you again.
If you are a good person with good grades, a clean room, and a bright future who gets high....they will focus more on your good qualities since they outweigh that one bad thing.

well now they made an appointment to take my to that drug rehab shit and take a drug test on friday.. i need to stay at the gym (i am home schooled) work the fuck out on the treadmill and drink a few gallons of water so i might not test poso.... is there any way to get the thc out in a week if u are desperate??

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I got caught by my folks on the front step of our house. My dad came out, and said, "what are you, toking up out here?" I was busted, so I said yes. He told me to keep it down as he could hear me coughing from their bedroom. The next morning all he told me was,"I can't give you shit for something we used to do, but if I ever catch you smoking crack, I'm going to kick your ass." That was that.

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Parents take note! Be like this. Its total bullshit for a parent who has ever toked up to give you shit for it... well its really total bullshit for anyone to give you shit for it but thats not the point.


When was the last time you smoked and how often? How much do you weigh and how much do you exercise?

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If you are a good person with good grades, a clean room, and a bright future who gets high....they will focus more on your good qualities since they outweigh that one bad thing.

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Untrue. Many aren't capable of this kind of reasoning, specially moms from what I know. They will say its illegal that thats it, nobody should ever do it because its morally wrong, etc... or at least my mom does.

i never bother lyng to my parents now (i don't tell em some things, but i hardly ever lie to them), i just can't be arsed tbh...

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If you are a good person with good grades, a clean room, and a bright future who gets high....they will focus more on your good qualities since they outweigh that one bad thing.

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Untrue. Many aren't capable of this kind of reasoning, specially moms from what I know. They will say its illegal that thats it, nobody should ever do it because its morally wrong, etc... or at least my mom does.

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this is exactly true... i graduated from HS with a 4.0 gpa, i got a full scholarship to a good private school, i have been on the dean's list since being here, i have a good job working with low-income kids... most people would say that i'm a "good" person... and it doesn't matter to my parents because they just see weed as bad. so as long as i smoke, no matter how true the other stuff is, they only focus on my smoking and not other good qualities i have.

it happens