Fatal Attraction

Is it just me or are girls mad? There's this girl i got mixed up with while I was on the re-bound from my ex. I really wish I hadn't met her, she has alot of mental problems and has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality dissorder. I think alot of her porblems stem back from when she was a child. She didn't have a happy childhood to say the least. I won't go into it as it wouldnt be fair. But what I will say is there is only so much you can do for someone, it's them whom need to realise there is a problem and seek help.
At the moment none of her family want to know her because they dont trust her anymore due to her dishonesty. She's lost most of her friends, her own brother can't stand to be in the room with her. Surelyall this would be a wake up call? She's been in trouble with police for various things, yet she still doesnt see a porblem. Shes constantly cutting herself and ODing.
Too cut along story short I told her a while back I could only be a friend to her as I found everything too stressful and to be honest I dont have those kinda feelings for her. Well know she's turned around and told me she's carrying my baby. Now for starters the dates she's given me dont add up. 2.She'd have huge problems conciving due to alot of operations she had as a child. 3. She claims to have told her mum and her mum has said we both need to decide what we should do. She sent me an email that shed doctored saying that her mum was gonna wreck her life and tell me its all lies, believe me it goes on. I wont bore you with the details. So i thought id do the responcible thing and talk to her mum. ITS ALL LIES. She done this with a boyfriend before. Im so fucking angry she could do this yet i feel sorry for her.But it just seems shes hell bent on wrecking everyones lives. Theres so many times that dont add up. She lied about going to the docs, i know this for a fact. So many things, poor girl needs help. Ive had to go to the lengths of speaking to the police and seeking advice about harrasment, also the pohne company to arrange her number to be barred. Dang, how did Buddy get messed up like this? Right thats me, done venting. Karma will sort things out.

Peace

Buddy

get out of there bruv.


its not worth involving yourself with sumone with problems like that i know its mean but they will drag u into more probs.

I would quite talking to her, change your phone number, and make believe that you never met her in your life. If she starts trying to say that you slept with her say that you are crazy I never slept with you. That is you and your boyfriends baby. Then life goes on... Harsh, but in a world full of gold diggers this is the only way.:stoned: Hopefully you were smart enouph for a condom. Time to get flamed by the ladies..:D

tell her you shoot blanks and see what she says.

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Originally Posted by Smpthy4TheDevil

tell her you shoot blanks and see what she says.

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Lol! Might try that, tell her Im a Jaffa!:thumbsup:

Man im staying well clear!

And may i be the first to say, Buddy you got Owned!

Peace Yall

Buddy

I thought this was gonna be about the movie. Did you know there making a fatal attraction 2? I don't see it working as well as the first considering sharon stone is like 15 years older than she was.

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Originally Posted by benagain

I thought this was gonna be about the movie. Did you know there making a fatal attraction 2? I don't see it working as well as the first considering sharon stone is like 15 years older than she was.

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Before you start talking about a womans age..get the right woman with the right movie..GLENN CLOSE was in the original Fatal Attraction..and what is Michael Douglas age now? Older Women are great! And alot of us look better than the younger ones these days ty very much.,,Its Basic Instinct with Sharon Stone and she is looking hot these days.

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Originally Posted by Shelbay

Before you start talking about a womans age..get the right woman with the right movie..GLENN CLOSE was in the original Fatal Attraction..and what is Michael Douglas age now? Older Women are great! And alot of us look better than the younger ones these days ty very much.,,Its Basic Instinct with Sharon Stone and she is looking hot these days.

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ohhh yea your're right. My bad :stoned: . It was basic instinct that they're making a sequal of. She may still be hot, but the last pics I saw of her she was starting to show age (which isn't bad at all. she's definately a milf). I just don't think she'll hold a candle to how smoking she was in the first one. That's what made the movie so good. She was damn near perfect.

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Originally Posted by benagain

ohhh yea your're right. My bad :stoned: . It was basic instinct that they're making a sequal of. She may still be hot, but the last pics I saw of her she was starting to show age (which isn't bad at all. she's definately a milf). I just don't think she'll hold a candle to how smoking she was in the first one. That's what made the movie so good. She was damn near perfect.

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Shes like wine as alot of us 40+ women are...I just noticed you still haven't commented on Michael Douglas..whats up with just analyzing the woman...take a look at Michael Douglas and lets talk again okay. Sharon is hot!:thumbsup: You "debate" civil...thank you for that.

You canâ??t be friends with this girlâ?¦..no way no dayâ?¦she simply wonâ??t allow that to happen in the traditional way normal people think of friendship. Itâ??s not your fault itâ??s just the way it is.

Be prepared for a bumpy ride I donâ??t think she is going to give up as easy as you expect her to. I understand your sympathy for her but your sympathy is going to bite you in the ass in this case. Cut all ties with herâ?¦.ALL ties. Eventually she will move on to another victim after all she moved on from her last boyfriend to you.

If she is pregnant (which sheâ??s not) than a blood test will clear that up and sooner or later she will realize that.

Let that be a valuable lesson to you. Always use a condom that YOU provide and put it on yourself.

And no you canâ??t help her she has to be the one who gets help and by the state of her life it doesnâ??t sound like she wants itâ?¦.she is having to much fun playing the victim of her own life.

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Originally Posted by likemclever

You canâ??t be friends with this girlâ?¦..no way no dayâ?¦she simply wonâ??t allow that to happen in the traditional way normal people think of friendship. Itâ??s not your fault itâ??s just the way it is.

Be prepared for a bumpy ride I donâ??t think she is going to give up as easy as you expect her to. I understand your sympathy for her but your sympathy is going to bite you in the ass in this case. Cut all ties with herâ?¦.ALL ties. Eventually she will move on to another victim after all she moved on from her last boyfriend to you.

If she is pregnant (which sheâ??s not) than a blood test will clear that up and sooner or later she will realize that.

Let that be a valuable lesson to you. Always use a condom that YOU provide and put it on yourself.

And no you canâ??t help her she has to be the one who gets help and by the state of her life it doesnâ??t sound like she wants itâ?¦.she is having to much fun playing the victim of her own life.

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Wise words, thank you! Yeh I've cut all ties, changed my mobile number, blocked her on msn. I really wish I could turn the clock back and never meet her, I just cant handle her shit anymore. Believe me I tried, but this was the last straw. Its just too much, you cant play with peoples lives like this. She needs to get help before its too late and shes sectioned.

Its quite sad when a woman has to resort to telling someone she is pregnant to get their attention.
Dont keep any contact as if she is already deluded she might convince herself that you care about her if you are keeping in touch.
Tell her calmly and politely its over and that she has not to contact you again