SEX WITH OLDER GUYS

basically a question for the girls. what is/was the biggest age gap btwn you & a lover? was it a good experience? like 'em older than yourself? younger? do you feel the younger guys should slow it down & take some tips? or do you like them young, hot & very eager? i'm asking because i am now in my 40's & the youngest i've had was a 20yr difference & she basically was blown away by my attentions, patience & general attitude towards pleasing her several times prior to myself. i wasn't wanting her to fall in love or develop a fatal attraction thing, but got to wonder if it was that good or if she is totally unstable.any feedback?

When a girl is in her young adult life (say, 16 - 25) they're going to be looking at older men because of the way they act. Women mature faster and when a girl feels 20 at 17, she's going to want to date a 20 year old vs. a 17 year old boy who is probably going to act 15. Make sense?

I perfer guys that are older than me because they're more affectionate and stable, vs. a guy my age that could get bored or not want anything serious.

Maybe she's unstable but I think she's just appreciative that you treat her so well, because many younger guys don't know how to treat a women, in any way.

Biggest age gap between my lover and I: 6 years
A good experience?: The best I've ever had until the end.
Older: Yes
Younger: No
My age: It can work.
Younger guys SHOULD slow down and take some tips, that life isn't all about sex or getting what YOU want but that one day a guy is going to want to settle down and could have given up a wonderful girl because he just wanted more pussy.

jesus, this is a familliar subject with me. personally, i prefer guys in thier twenties and beyond. they are more successful, usually have thier own places, know how to treat a woman better, are generally better in bed, usually have thier own car/transportation, are more experienced and are generally more interesting and mature. i feel like men my age cant satisfy me; i ruined it for myself by having phenomenal sex with an older man early in my sex life-upping my standards. the greatest age gap was about 28 years (gah, i know) and we have been sleeping together for about two years. its soooo cliche and may sound repulsive, but this man is by far the greatest i have ever had and has a better body than any man i have ever been with.

nah girls don't mature faster, they're just naturally a lot more insecure. therefore, thinking they wanna mature and do mature faster. they lose sense of fun at a sooner age and all. most wouldn't know life is about fun rather than serious shit like relationships. if a guy dumps a girl fora nother, maybe theother is better, and the girls don't wanna admit that. competitivenesssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

No, lol TipTIP it's PROVEN that girls mature faster.

Especially, those mountain girls. :smokin:

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Originally Posted by BizzleLuvin

jesus, this is a familliar subject with me. personally, i prefer guys in thier twenties and beyond. they are more successful, usually have thier own places, know how to treat a woman better, are generally better in bed, usually have thier own car/transportation, are more experienced and are generally more interesting and mature. i feel like men my age cant satisfy me; i ruined it for myself by having phenomenal sex with an older man early in my sex life-upping my standards. the greatest age gap was about 28 years (gah, i know) and we have been sleeping together for about two years. its soooo cliche and may sound repulsive, but this man is by far the greatest i have ever had and has a better body than any man i have ever been with.

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so it's true that women care more about material things then... thx for clearing that up :thumbsup: :D

I new as soon as some women said older was better you would have the young guys living with mommy and daddy being sarcastic.

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Originally Posted by douchbag

I new as soon as some women said older was better you would have the young guys living with mommy and daddy being sarcastic.

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i'm 21 u idiot

:o To start with I am 34. female and married but in my younger years I was into all sorts. When I was 15 I had an affair with a man who was in his 30's, and even now I have very fond memories of him. Then when I was in my mid 20's I was going with a man who was only 18 and this too was also good, and apart from him all my lovers have been older than myself.;) My husband is only 6 years my senior, but to me age has never been a factor.:thumbsup:

WP What does being 21 have to do with you living with mommy and daddy

oldest? well im 17 but i was 16 when i was with the 24 yr old. hmm then there was those 2 21 yr olds oh and that hot 22 yr old oooooooooooo and those two hot firfighters from seattle i dont remember how old they were awww fuck it.now im with the guy i want to spend the rest of my life with and hes a yr younger than me. go figure.

personally when im an 'older' guy theres no way im going for girls much younger than me, ill just feel like a creep. as for right now, i dont go after much girls my age cause they are all out trying to get with older men.

I'm a pretty mature person, but in my eyes, the gap of maturity between a male and female of the same age is NOT that wide, we are just immature about different things. For instance girls are drama queens, guys make fart jokes, I stay away from most girls my age they are way too immature haha


And in a way i kinda feel that it is immature for a 17 year old girl to be thinking that she is above all guys her age and to be only dating men in their 20's. It is immature to think that the guys are interested in anything but sex, sure some might be but speaking from a guys point of view, you should hear what alot of guys say behind your back! It is immature to be looking for a 'long term meaningful relationship' at such a young age.

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Originally Posted by douchbag

WP What does being 21 have to do with you living with mommy and daddy

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and what exactly would u know about my life?, have u lived it?, have u met me?, have u even read any of my past posts?, have u ever spoken to me in the chatroom?, NO u have not, so don't flame me just cuz u didnt like my post or the way i posted it, it was not meant to be sarcasm, i was merely stating a FACT that young women today choose men because of the size of their wallet and the cost of their cars, it doesnt matter that a guy would be loyal to the point where he would rather die than make his woman unhappy, love doesnt matter in todays society, and bivvles post just proved that, not once did she mention love, and to me that is THE most important aspect of a relationship.... but as i said before, all that doesnt matter cuz it's the material things women are after.

Feel free to flame if u want douchebag, it'll just make u look more immature than my good self :D

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Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes

so it's true that women care more about material things then... thx for clearing that up :thumbsup: :D

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how is that materialistic, you ass? i dont want to deal with a dependent motherfucker that treats me like shit and lives with his folks and mooches on me for money

lol bizzle when you're arguing against someone don't make it easier on them

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Originally Posted by BizzleLuvin

how is that materialistic, you ass? i dont want to deal with a dependent motherfucker that treats me like shit and lives with his folks and mooches on me for money

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so you would rather mooch of them?

btw bizzle i wasn't takin a potshot at you, it was nothin personal, this is just what i see everyday, a nice guy doesnt necessaraly have to be a moocher as u put it, nice guys finish last as the saying goes, and this will never change.

love should be about love and nothing else. i hate material considerations, but perhaps the 'mooching' thing is a good point.

i don't think women realize how insecure they make us feel by dating older men. it's fucking horrible for some sensitive younger guys and you wouldnt even know it. im not sure how we're supposed to live up to it, and its alienating and makes us look at those women differently.

k heres my little point of view
iv NEVER startin seein a guy to get into his wallet,,i see through that an find the person inside,,theres more to life than worryin about money etc,,at the end of the day money dont bring ya happiness (helps but dont in the long run)..an as for sleepin with older guys..iv slept with one,,the rest were slightly younger ,,,i dont see that bein an issue either,,love and commitment is wat is needed for a relationship to work

I've never been in a relationship with extremely wealthy men and I've hardly let any of them buy me anything, let alone ask them for something. I personally am not a wealthy person and I don't expect a guy to feel obligated to support me. I'm a big girl now, thanks.

I like being poor in a relationship hehe if the girl stays with me then i know she genuinly likes me. I dont mooch or anything though from the girl, not anything like that

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Originally Posted by bedake

personally when im an 'older' guy theres no way im going for girls much younger than me, ill just feel like a creep. as for right now, i dont go after much girls my age cause they are all out trying to get with older men.

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Nothing wrong with being a creep!

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Originally Posted by Nutzz

Nothing wrong with being a creep!

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well you see, theres this thing called statutory rape...

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Originally Posted by bedake

I like being poor in a relationship hehe if the girl stays with me then i know she genuinly likes me. I dont mooch or anything though from the girl, not anything like that

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yeah thats what i'm talkin about, for a girl to like a guy for who he is, this is what i was getting at,

i apologize if you took offence at what i said personal Bivvle, i meant no offence to you personally, you just happened to be the one to type what you did, all i was getting at was that most girls don't care about what really matters in a relationship.

anyways peace :stoned:

I was sleeping with someone half my age (50/25). I found it stressful, wondering if i looked old. It was better when we were just friends cause i never even though or knew his age. He turned out to be selfish and not very good in bed. Not only did i not come, he didn't even ask me if i did!

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Originally Posted by gangagirl

I was sleeping with someone half my age (50/25). Not only did i not come, he didn't even ask me if i did!

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He probably knew it and would've just been embarrassed had he asked.

the oldest guy i slept with was 15 years older than me. it felt really dirty, and after wards i felt used. but thats just me...

I never slept with any guys..
I never matured..

AND ...
um...

that's it..
:)

I like older woman....But I also like any age....as long as they are in there sexual prime [ or still want to be]...

When I'm an old boy....I'll probably be some 20 year old girl's sugar daddy ..for certain....

I can see the young honeys having a thing for my mature swarve when I'm getting on a bit in years......

But for now I'll just bang whatever is available at the time.....Whether it's a 16 year old babe..or a 40 year old milf:cool:

free love man:D

i think the younger men are the best lovers... most age difference 29 yrs. younger then me...:thumbsup:

I prefer older guys wether they are rich or poor simply because of their experience of life and their knowledge.There are some pretty clued up youngsters but I still think they have alot to learn.

You learn something new every day.
......What's it like
....................to look at life
...................................through another lens?
( stoned)

Oh yeah, I say if you are going to do it, then do it. We as human beings have the choice of free will. The question you may have to ask is, "why not?"
that being said...the idea of demi moore and ashtun kutcher going out. that shit is fucked up....but it's not like I should care anyways.

Why is Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher fucked up shit?If you are both over the legal age and the love is there then I say go for it.

If I were him, I'd be getting it on with girls "half-of"-half my age, not "half-of"-twice my age.

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Originally Posted by HiddenBeauty

There are some pretty clued up youngsters but I still think they have alot to learn.

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yes and they are so hungry for more knowledge (trainable) plus have good working equipment... anyway the young for me would be older for most on this site...;)

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Originally Posted by Easy Roller

But for now I'll just bang whatever is available at the time.....Whether it's a 16 year old babe..or a 40 year old milf:cool:

free love man:D

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Appreciate the Sacred Embrace with someone you truly love. Sex was not made to be abused and to fuck anyone you want. If you can't hold out, jerk off to some porn!

I would never sleep with an older man cause I'm not gay but neither would I sleep with an older woman.

This subject may be my fate... I am having dental work done at a college of dentistry in PA... The young woman "dentist to be" treating me at first ignored me... She did not take my phone calls and scheduled me for appointments haphazardly... The 6 months going to her now has her calling me to see how I am doing... She see's me every week now,she could not see me two weeks ago,so she had me do a double appointment this week,what a change... She is putting her titties against my head when she works on me too now :) ... She is newly married and I believe I listen to her and show more compassion than her husband... I praise her a lot because I am pleased with the work she is doing,she is meticulous and spends time to get it right and I appreciate it as well as tell her so...

I may want this to happen so bad that I just think it's happening...LOLz...

Another thing that's cool,,,there is another student pulling me to the side and talking to me,she is my student dentist's friend and she is hot as hell too...

Wish me luck... I am 48 and they are 20ish :dance: :dance: :dance:

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Originally Posted by Great Spirit

Appreciate the Sacred Embrace with someone you truly love. Sex was not made to be abused and to fuck anyone you want. If you can't hold out, jerk off to some porn!

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Good point. It's like a song I was listening to earlier: Please me like you want to by Ben Harper.
I say sex is something that comes after love, don't rush things and fall for the bittersweet taste that is lust. I've been there and didn't like the way it was.