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I am drinkin alone tonight, tryin to drink away my woes...this girl i've liked for a long time keeps going back to this jerk of a guy who everyone knows is playin her cuz he does the same thing to another girl and he's playin both of them and they are both friends of mine but cannot see through his lies...it hurts cuz i know i could be better for this girl than anyone but she keeps runnin to this fool...it sux so i'm gonna drink away my problems tonight...:(
Am I the only one who expected a Billy Joel thread? :confused:
lol yeah dude i keep listenin to that song and i figured that'd be a good one to name the thread...man do i suck at life or what...
It's not that you suck at life. Just remember, life's a bitch and then you die; fuck it let's get high.Quote:
Originally Posted by tschmidty32
dude true that...if only i had some bud...but since i don't, i'm just gonna drink this booze that i got...plenty of fish in the sea right...guess this one fish is just is just one worth tossin back in the lake...
Life's a bitch and then you die, thats why we puff lye, cause you never know when u gonna go.Quote:
Originally Posted by His Dudeness
that's good stuff man...lets keep the phrases rollin...i'll put one down my bro once said.....Bitches will be bitches, because they are bitches, and that's why they are bitches--ryan schmidt...my bro...yeah that's one of my fav quotes.
dude bein friends with a girl u like is a baaaaad idea, trust me, i've been in that same situation myself and it really really hurts, reminds me of somethin i heard...Quote:
Originally Posted by tschmidty32
Bein friends with a girl is like goin for a job interview that u will not get, u have to sit there listenin to them talk about their dickass b/f's bein assholes even tho they will go back to them, it's like, sry sir u are perfect for the job, u have all the qualifications needed for the post, loving, committed, loyal, romantic, but we think we will give the job to the asshole with the leather jacket and motorbike cuz he's a badass, it's just not fair :(
Women are all the same, they say they want the romantic committed guy when deep down they will go for the badass rebel who treats them the worst every time, so girls plz, if u have a straight guy friend, do him a favour and don't talk about ur asshole boyfriends to them, we guys have feelings too ;)
omg dude that is the exact situation i am in man...u just described everything correct..except no with the motorcylcle but rather the popular dude of the schoool and the start of the bball team...yeah man bitches will be bitches.
Experience comes with time, and im only 21 :p and yeah women will be women, i try not to get plutonically involved with females now as i have been through that a couple times myself and don't really need to go through it again, nevertheless i still have many female friends but tend not to get to involved with their love lives anymore.Quote:
Originally Posted by tschmidty32
Only thing i can recommend is that u tell her how u feel, if she doesnt see the love u have to offer her then u r better off without her, i know that sounds harsh but if u continue the way u r going, in silence, it will only hurt more.
thanx man...you are totally right...cuz i've been hurt and hurt and hurt in the past cuz she keeps runnin back to this ass...if that's what she wants than that's what she wants...i'll find a different chick who likes me for me.
thats my man :thumbsup: , wise man once said, "Love is the most sought after treasure, but is hardest to find", but never give up hope, i havent :thumbsup: :rasta: :rasta: :rasta:Quote:
Originally Posted by tschmidty32
Peace and Love, instead of War and Hate :thumbsup: :rasta:
I think a guy can be a gentle-MAN and still copy the badboy antics without risk of going to prison.
You dont play her game number one.
Its a fact women will sleep with guys that outgame them. Give them what they say they want and they loose interest, (her game and her tests).
Being committment minded is not emotionally challenging, being an emotional challenge is what women want.
Too many guys pour it on thick in the beggining by sharing their feelings a.k.a "spilling their guts", "laying the cards on the table", "wearing your heart on the sleave" and it all has the same result.........It turns women off.
Always keep them wondering where they stand with you.
This all has to do with your most important value, your SEXUAL VALUE.
Your lack of availability, being an emotional challenge, being confident, respect of yourself, unpredictable, nonchaulant. These are important traits to have to attract women and keep them attracted to you.
Listen guys.
When it comes to sex this is very important.
The wrong path to sex> You initiate 70-100% of the time. You just lowered your sexual value by assuming the belief that women give men sex. This throws things out of balance.
The right path to sex>
You transform yourself internally>
you eliminate anti-seduction behavior>
you increase your sexual value>
you build sexual tension>
you challenge her by holding back to the point where she initiates sex, and I mean when she is kissing your neck and grabbing your crotch, in other words she has to complete the process.
Teasing, Challenging and holding back is important. Tension is something that has to happen with women and it has to build first.
Many times women create an argument subconsciously to build this tension. It has no logical purpose and the has nothing really to do with whats being argued about. This tension builds and at one point it will balance itself. In this case make up sex. There are many forms of sexual tension.
Basic law:
Men are turned on by what they see.
Women are turned on by how you make them FEEL and how they see you, (your sexual value).
Not so well known by men nor do they understand how to do these things.
More later.
When you approach women with a thought in your mind that you want sex, her radar picks up on this and this is why men get turned down for sex.
im curious as to why u keep talking about sex, i never mentioned sex, nor did tschmidty32, we were talkin about love and feelings, its not all about sex you know, and what ur describing basically sounds like " i like her but i'll pretend not to", this is the kind of thing ppl do in primary school (juniour high for all u non-uk peeps), i would like some females opinions on this plz!!
and to tschmidty, if this guy is playin both of your female friends, then u should tell them what he's upto, as a friend, if they dont believe u then they dont deserve to have u as a friend let alone a b/f.
I dont agree Wes
Well i have loads of female freinds and yeah sometime it is a bit rough when they go on about there b/f's and such........but they are there for you as well and they are always a little better at talking bout emotions than most blokes.........even with those that weren't interested i me/or iwwas interested in were succesful friendships. I fact i would go so far as to say most of my closest freinds have been women.......
Once you realise that when it comes down to it there is not much of a diff and start treating women as the human beings they are then you will able to be freinds. Maybe even more
But if you cant handle how you feel towards stay away from her and your not headstrong/mature enough to deal with it......you'll just hurt yourself.
And GS thats just BS everybody is different
Women usualy(so they have told me)like to be talked just as human beings not just potential love/lust objects
i hear ya on this drink man, i totally get your point, but having experienced this myself as well, i agree with u on most points except one, if u spend a lot of time around someone u may start to develop "more than friendship" feelings, this (i know) cannot be helped, and u can either choose to tell her how u feel and know for sure if anything will ever happen, or u can suffer in silence, im not saying u should be friends with a girl first just so u can try it on l8er, quite the opposite infact, but sometimes u can't help how you feel towards someone, love can grow with time, and seeing her everyday knowing that she wont return those feelings can hurt.Quote:
Originally Posted by drinksmokesleep
Peace:thumbsup:
Drinking, alone, will not help you. If anything, it will make you more depressed.Quote:
Originally Posted by tschmidty32
My advice, get over this girl and find someone who will love you and only you. Then show her you don't need her stanky ass anymore. Make her feel about an 1inch tall, like she did you, and laugh in her face about it. Show her that you've moved on in life because there is one thing women love, and that's being in control. They LOVE it when they have 2 guys wrapped around their fingers. It gives them a sense of power. So I say, don't keep giving her that power because she'll just keep burning you.
Good luck.
yo,, whos that song by??,,, yo i got the same problem man, ive liked this girl but she cant get over her ex and he cheats on her but she doesnt wanna believe it,, and all of my freinds said they know i would treat her better but i donnno,, yo i got to know who dioes that song,, i hadv it on my comp, a also hav 6000 other songs and dont wanna listen to everysingle one of themQuote:
Originally Posted by Pete Rock
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Originally Posted by Ganjasaurusrex
You guys need to listen to my man right here. This is how it is. I used to be a very nice guy when it came to females, thinking that compliments and constant praising and never questioning them would work when all it does is put you in the friend zone permanently. Its all about being cocky. You gotta know your the shit, and put them in their place. Make fun of and tease them, and only be "nice" occasionally. This will always keep them guessing and they'll never be able to take their mind off you. Don't ever try to make a girl like you by being nice to them.
yeah ok so all that fake bullshit works if u want sex, but read the rest of the posts dude, were not talkin about sex, were talkin about love and how it feels to be around someone that u cant be with (and i dont mean sexually), theres more to life (and relationships) than sex,... its crap like that that give us decent blokes a bad name, some of us aint just out to sleep with as many women as possible, i'd rather make love than have sex, but maybe thats just me, and if thats not good enough for anyone reading this then, i don't really give a shit.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pete Rock
Peace :rasta:
Suppose mate...........as i said everybody is different........Anyway wot about being freinds with a woman you arnt interested in at all, surely no feelings develop.............Quote:
Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes
Peace/ i can see where your comin from though
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Originally Posted by Wesley Pipes
Amen to that wes.........Totaly agree......100 pc
Right? Sex is never as satisfying if it is with someone you don't know and love. There is a mental connecting to sex that you don't get if it is with someone you don't know. I mean, once yer an old man, you won't give a damn about how women you've slept with. You'll care if there is someone next to you who you've known and loved for 50+ years. Not to mention, its not like there are any friggen guidelines that are going to work for ALL women. Different women look for different things. You just have to find the woman who wants what you are offering.
Tsch, do you consider this person as a friend or something more? I'm talking from only YOUR perspective, not both of you. If you see her as something more than a friend, and she only sees you as a friend, the best thing you can do for her is be there for her. She will (eventually) dump that guy. The best way to get to someone who is currently in a relationship is to be their friend. I suppose you could see this as getting your foot inside the door. If you try to stop their relationship, she will get angry at you.
However, if, after she is single again, she seems to have no interest in you as being more than a friend, yer fucked. This is only if you know she is still interested in a relationship. She will probably be hurt/pissed off at guys in general, so you might have you wait a little longer there too.
It comes down to whether or not you want to wait for her. you could remain friends with her and begin to look for others. If you find someone else you'd want to be with more than her, then go for that person. Otherwise, you'll have to wait.
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Weeden
yeah man no probs there, i got loads of female friends that are just friends to me, wether they feel something more for me, i cant tell, but thats why i dont talk about my lovelife to much of my female friends, or even most of my male friends (but mostly cuz they just take the piss about bein soppy lol), im just not the kinda guy to load my probs onto someone else, im a listener not a talker lol, but my probs are my probs, i dont like bothering ppl with my burdens, but as u said, everyones different :D :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by drinksmokesleep
peace:stoned:
Id rather talk bout my love life with my female freinds rather than my male ones any day............Inside info eh?
GOPUTTAFUCKINCAPINHISHEAD............
I know I know this is not my style but I just wanted a little hit and run...
getting drunk cures all pain
good choice.
drink fast and hard .
pain will melt away
thats why i stopped drinking
i love pain
I hate pain...........thats why i cant stop drinking.........Quote:
Originally Posted by friendowl
i dont wanna get too personal but i would say that guys can have female m8s an vice versa,,i would consider personally iv got about 2 male friends that i sit an ramble my shit to an they dont judge me.....as for fancin me etc i dunno about that,,but on the whole for a guy to be m8s with a girl dont matter as long as the guy doesnt see the girl as ' a one time fuk ' ,,as girls think differently to the sex side of a relationship(well sum girls do) ill correct that bit..an as the past posts iv read yea sex isnt the only thing about a relationship to make it work,,for a guy that wants more from his female friend ,,then u have to tell her how u feel as just holdin on to the hope that one day shell notice u ,,wont work especially if one day she finds sumone else an u feel rejected again...u need to get feelings out in the open an move on from them
ya'll it's a new day and i say screw that girl...i'm done with her...cuz for real all she ever told me was bullshit...she can have that dude and i don't want her...i really don't give a fuck what she does to be honest...so yeah for all you that shared this drink called lonlyness with me, well it's better than drinkin alone--billy joel.
Now im not sure........I think i was wrongQuote:
Originally Posted by drinksmokesleep
I think balls grow in at about 20 years old.:dance:
Ganjasaurusrex - This all has to do with your most important value, your SEXUAL VALUE.
....thats not true....sex isnt the main factor in what chicks base guys on. (((unless ur talkin 1 night stands :p ))) i mean sure its important but ur personality and vibe matters WAY more