When I get in fights with my beau it always feels like the end of everything. I don't know how to end it, I don't know how to act or feel.
What do you do when you get in fights with someone you love?
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When I get in fights with my beau it always feels like the end of everything. I don't know how to end it, I don't know how to act or feel.
What do you do when you get in fights with someone you love?
Keep going until she gets too pissed off to argue. :smokin:
the word CUNT but if its someone i love it usually ends with them being burried under my pattio like brookside MU HA HA ....
mmm arguements with loved ones? they dont end... they fade out , they happen dont worry about them. its if they happen more and more then u worry and get ready with a sharp knife... cos ive heard stories u know.... crazy crazy stories
Abuse?Quote:
Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs
I just had this problem this morning. Unfortunately lately we both yell until one of us leaves or we can't take it anymore, followed by uncomfortable silence. However, I am working on simply ignoring my husband when he pisses me off.
Take a hit from my crack pipe.
ususally our fights are all about little stuff like where we're gonna eat and shit. I've never enjoyed fighting with the ladies. I just give in early on and after a few mins it's like nothing happened. It all depends on the kindof person you are. I get over shit real fast. My wife takes much longer to get over things, so I give her space till she's calmed down.
He knows about brookeside ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Brittoker
most arguments are over nothing anyway. nothing the next day won't fix anyway so why bother going on with it? i walk away...
I am trying to just ignore it and let him cool out, but I can't stand it when someone is mad at me. I always want to talk about it, talk until it's dead I guess.
If I leave him alone I am afraid he will just stay mad about that one stupid thing forever.
get a blunt, smoke it with himQuote:
Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush
or forget about it, i dunno i havent been in a fight with anyone in like... 5 years, the trick is evading arguments and being a happy person. but yea getting high with people is usually a good way to settle people down
the way i end it. is by packing a bowl.
PEACE
The argument ends at the point where continuing the argument would be more hassle than to acquiesce.
Smash a glass bong on his head. Then the Anti-Marijuana supporters will actually have a case to say "Weed and Weed paraphenalia are damaging our youth".
Siimply say 'Lets agree to disagree' and leave it at that.
Then sprinkle itching powder in his boxers.
With a single bullet..
A silver bullet if they are a WEREWOLF. It can happen havent you seen Dog Soldiers.
itching powder in his boxers? lols I'd like to get laid sometime this week.
I think I'll just make lunch, have that and a bowl waiting when he gets in.
Scarlett, I am uncomfortably waiting for my husband to get home after our morning fight. Unfortunately he cannot smoke due to random tests...that sucks so bad! We get along so much better when we both smoke...
This always works....
Not nearly. But I'd like to use your next quote.Quote:
Originally Posted by robert42
Those are happening, more and more. Except, we won't grab a knife. I just get less and less words in.Quote:
Originally Posted by robert42
The future looks bleak, dear sophia. Especially, for your husband. That works with me (ignoring me), but that's when what I say means the most because I wasn't cut off.Quote:
Originally Posted by sophiastarchild
world is spinning round
sun is shining bright
100% match (blink several times (please))Quote:
Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush
That's the biggest difference between my partner and I. Every single part of our personalities are the exact same way (exactly the opposite). She holds it in, I blab it out. Sooner or later, I'm gonna talk myself senseless, but, once again, she'll cut me off.:cursing:
The World is flatQuote:
Originally Posted by justinsane
JustinSane, you're not right.
scarlett i feel yeah
im a nice guy and when my lady gets in a rage i flip out.
i feel like if she is in a bad mood and wants to pick on me i just match her anger.if ive done nothing wrong and shes tripping then its on her.
if your man is just a grouch and youve done nothing to provoke him then fuck his ass.ignore him and he will come back and apologize.
when someone is angry and your not it makes them more angry.
I always ended an arguement with my past boyfriends by walking away....staying away for awhile and then they come running back. But now that i am older and much more mature than that since the last time i dated anyone i feel that was a mistake, you cant walk away from a problem, and wait it out, and what if none of them came back for me? Im sorry i can not be much help with ending arguement with your guy, but if you need help on ending an argument with a friend let me know. Best to you, scarlett! Peace! :)
When I get into a fight with some one a care for alot I just say "fuck it" and smoke a blunt lol. Usually they appologize to me then we're all cool again like it never happened.
Been married now for 6 years. Believe me we have had a few disagrements but not once had a fight. Both of us in brevios relationships did the fighting and screaming and what it get us nothing. We eventualy moved on. When the Wife and I first started to see each other I told her of the past and how did not want to go down that road again. When we have a disagrement we discuse it and in end we might not agree but at least understand. One will win this round but is not a relationship a thing of comprimises. Win some loose some. I end we show and treat each other with respect. Can not do that by screeming at each other. Mind you been a few times we had to give each other space to cool things down. lol. And it is fun after it all over.
Use a ClubHammer [5 pounder] That should sort out most problems for you.Quote:
Originally Posted by ScarlettCrush
i hate arguing! hate hate hate it. so i usually just change the subject or walk away until they get over it.
Yes Dear,Im sorry you were right...
Your face.
i love you
I was with youQuote:
Originally Posted by SensiRide
Until I scrolled down:thumbsup:
What if you've been smokeing for so long its seems like if you stop smokeing
everything would fall apart and when you do stop smokeing for a break or whateva it does: majorly shit hits the fan, because nobodys being listened to each other and you forget what the issues are behind a bowl every nite.
This is my problem right now after 4.5 years togeather Smokeing togeather today in fact we spent
NZ$180000 plus costs??? on our 1st house fuck this is some stressful shit
i never woulda gessed buyin a house was so bloody hard fuck it
Kones on. i know we agreed to stay off for a while but this shit deserves a kone.
Peace.
No man is an island entire of itself,
Every man is a piece of the continant a part of the main,
Any mans Death diminishs me beacuase i am involved in mankind,
And therefore never send to know for who the bell tolls
It tolls for thee.
John Donnes: Devotions 17
That's funny Scarlett - you're just like my fiance!
When we fight, all he wants to do is talk, and truth be told, if I'm angry, I don't want to talk because I don't want to say something without thinking.
If your hubby likes a cool off period, let him have it. Don't let the fight escalate to the point where you can't talk in a civil manner - when you sence it's going past where you want it to, just say "I don't want to fight about this, let's cool off, but would it be Ok to talk about it latter when we're both feeling less upset?"
That phrase has worked miracles for me. It gives me the cool off time that I really need, but it lets Scott know that I'm not brushing the issue under the rug and that he will get a chance to talk it out.
But hey, what works for me might not work for you... still, some food and a bowl is a great way to make up!
I try my hardest not to argue back. It seems to only lead to her/him getting more and more stressed out.
It depends really.....what the argument is about. If im right and they dont want to admit it then ill just say fuck it and leave it at that. If I realise they are right then I normally say sorry and walk away knowing a little bit more...
sorry if I missed the point.....mad hangover :(
Hope everything gets better for you soon Scarlett.
Peace out dude :)
We don't fight but when we strongly disagree (haha) he has the final say and we drop it...done. Works for us.
I wish i had that problem......
I can only argue with myself being single an all..............and i do