What the hell do i do?!?!??!?

Ok ok, my mom keeps asking me if i smoke pot and is telling me to be honest. I really want to tell her the truth but im afraid ill get punished badly. She said if she ever catches me smoking it she'll send me off to some prep school. I dont know what to do. I kind of want to tell her i smoke it because i trust her and stuff and im pretty sure she smoke when she was in high school. I dont know what to do. I dont want to quit and i think she already knows. I hate being dishonest and lying to her. I love her and i think she deserves the truth. I need input. Please please please!!! I need advice. Has anyone else here been in a situation like this??

Help me!!!

its hard telling the truth. what I did was just smoke untill i got caught. and when i did i felt like all the pressure was gone. They realized they cant stop me. my parents tlerate it but dont want to cath me. my only problem is getting caught high, but i just blame my woerd acting on alcohol

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Originally Posted by halo

Ok ok, my mom keeps asking me if i smoke pot and is telling me to be honest. I really want to tell her the truth but im afraid ill get punished badly. She said if she ever catches me smoking it she'll send me off to some prep school. I dont know what to do. I kind of want to tell her i smoke it because i trust her and stuff and im pretty sure she smoke when she was in high school. I dont know what to do. I dont want to quit and i think she already knows. I hate being dishonest and lying to her. I love her and i think she deserves the truth. I need input. Please please please!!! I need advice. Has anyone else here been in a situation like this??

Help me!!!

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chances are, your mom knows, shes just waiting to hear the truth from you. my parents played the same game. its better just to say yes. and try to tell them how its not bad for you and such

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Originally Posted by justinsane

chances are, your mom knows, shes just waiting to hear the truth from you. my parents played the same game. its better just to say yes. and try to tell them how its not bad for you and such

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Thats exactly what i want to do. And its not effecting me negatively at all. I get good grades (As and Bs). I don't think she would be terribly mad or anything, although my father would. I think ill tell her when im ready. Maybe in a month when we are camping.

I think thats exactly when you DON'T want to tell 'em. I mean, if they don't know, and they flip out, would you really want to have to hang around with them for the rest of your camping trip? I think you should just tell them. I mean, its like you said, they already think that you do it, and that you're lying to them. It would be better for you to tell them than for them to find out on themselves.

Although, if you think they really were serious about the prep school bit, then maybe not...

Point out your mom's hypocrisy to her, and see what happens. It goes like this:

Mom: Do you smoke? Be honest.

You: What happens if I say yes?

Mom: I send you to a prep school and you never see your friends again.

You: Mom, what the hell do you expect me to say? Even if I did smoke (and I'm not saying I do) would you really expect me to be honest with you if you threaten such a harsh punishment?

Mom: Uh....

You: That's right. Now shut your mouth and get back in the kitchen!


Well, maybe you should leave out that last part.

Parents will shock you sometimes. Everyone handles their own set differently, so I dunno... I'd have a conversation with her, ask her what her opinion is on drugs and such...feel her out.

<3 Tasha

Be honest with your parents...it just sounds like you described them as pretty cool and probably just want honesty.:thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by halo

Ok ok, my mom keeps asking me if i smoke pot and is telling me to be honest. I really want to tell her the truth but im afraid ill get punished badly. She said if she ever catches me smoking it she'll send me off to some prep school. I dont know what to do. I kind of want to tell her i smoke it because i trust her and stuff and im pretty sure she smoke when she was in high school. I dont know what to do. I dont want to quit and i think she already knows. I hate being dishonest and lying to her. I love her and i think she deserves the truth. I need input. Please please please!!! I need advice. Has anyone else here been in a situation like this??

Help me!!!

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Get back on halo.

lmao reefer

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Originally Posted by robert42

lmao reefer

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Nah, seriously, tell your mom the truth. She probably already knows. I think she's bluffing about that prep school.

My dad's ok with me toking. Next week we've got a 3 hour car journey and im gonna be smokin a few joints and listenin to some pink floyd :cool:

Shame your mum dos'nt like you toking, :rasta:

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Originally Posted by halo

Thats exactly what i want to do. And its not effecting me negatively at all. I get good grades (As and Bs). I don't think she would be terribly mad or anything, although my father would. I think ill tell her when im ready. Maybe in a month when we are camping.

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This is similar to my plans of ''confession'' man. When 18 rolls over the horizon I will consider how I will go about telling her.

Although, I am not expecting her to be surprised. We got into a...uh uncomfortable conversation about weed somehow, and she claims that she's had suspicions more than a couple of times. But I'm am not one to try and hide the smell or my eyes anyway. Good luck with your situation...hope it turns out the best for you both in the end.

i wouldnt think of trying to hide it just tell her whats the point she obviously knows ur doing it if shes asking u anyway so what good does lying do u just look like a nob

i respect my parents a lot and pretty much do everything my parents tell me to do. BUT i do draw the line at disclosing certain information.

i wouldnt want my parents to know that im a pothead, that i went to a stripclub before, that im not a virgin, etc. theres just certain things you should be able to keep to yourself without getting in trouble.

like tasha says feel her out.
ask her what she thinks about bud.
maybe shoiw her a nice lil nug and let her see how pretty it is and how good it smells and the wonderful taste.
if not then just shut up and dont say shit cuz she might be sneaky and just want to be nice to get info

We have actually had conversations about weed and stuff before. She never admits to smoking it but she never says she didnt. So im almost positive she did. We actually agree on a lot of things when it comes to pot. Its just the conversation always ends with my mom saying something liek "I dont ever want you to smoke pot." The thing is i obviously dont want her to like catch me in the act or anything its just im nervous about telling her because its like i dont want to upset her. I plan on telling her definetly. I just want the time to be right. I honestly dont think she would have a problem with it but its just on the off chance that she did. And another reason i dont want to tell her is because me and my bestfriend hang out all the time. So its like if i smoke my friend does. Kinda like guilt by association. And his mom is fucking crazy. His dad doesnt want him smoking it but his mom threatened to send him to rehab... Oh and i dont think she would send me off to like a prep school or anything. She said she would though if she found out that i did smoke it and i wasnt being honest with her. And again thank you guys so much for your suggestions. They are really helpful.

peace out

have some balls and tell her even if she does flip out she will respect you for being honest

just tell her. she will appreciate your honesty, and chances are she's just bluffing about the prep school thing. and after a few days she'll be fine.

My mom knows that I smoke and she isn't really thrilled about it but she tolerates it. Every now and then she will try to corner me about it and call it addicting. I take these opportunity to educate her about the positive benefits of cannabis and how it has directly impacted me. I've also educated her on the government's war on pot and their lies. She, like many others, was taken aback by the fact that doctors can legally prescribe Cocaine and yet not pot. I find facts like these that totally blow the lid off of the situation are useful to have under ones belt.

Coming out as a pot user will probably take some slow chipping away at the layers of propaganda your parents have absorbed. Don't give up and never get hostile. Come prepared with information, pamphlets, etc... This will make it less likely for them to think of you as a junkie which is an understandable reaction given the lies told for so many years.

Don't be afraid to be honest. My relationship with my mom is a lot better because she knows.

I told her. She said she doesn't want me making a habit of it and only to use it on special occasions, but i think weekends only will be fine;) . She said she won't tell a soul and i trust her. I told her today cause my dad is out of town and i am so glad i told her. I don't have to be freaked out that she will find out. One wierd thing she told me is that when she was in high school that her friend who smoked a lot of pot actually burned her vocal cords. I think it was temporary but i think its interesting. Has anyone else heard of this?

Anyways thank you guys for encouraging me to tell her. It's such a load off my back now. You guys rock and i now declare cannabis.com forums my favorite internet website and online forum.

Happy Toking :pimp:

"Prep School"? You'd probably find more weed there than the school you're in now.

In my day, some parents sent their kids off to MILITARY school if they caught them using drugs. This is what happened to a classmate of mine, in my freshman year of H.S., who smoked. When his younger brother got caught, his parents blamed him. Even though he told me that he wasn't responsible, his parents didn't believe him and off he went. I never saw him again.

Anyway, there is new research that's coming out about pot, and young people.

http://www.brightsurf.com/news/headl...rticleID=22934
From the above article: â??The brain of an 18-year-old college freshman is still far from resembling the brain of someone in their mid-twenties,â?� says Bennett. â??When do we reach adulthood? It might be much later than we traditionally think.â?�
The study was funded by a grant from the National Institute of Child Health and Development.Dartmouth College

You'd probably be better off to wait a few years.

Haha!

Prep School my ass. That's a nice way of saying "Residential Behavior Modification Program".

Look up the Aspen Group or WASSP, and find out what I'm talking about.