im stuck this year on gifts.
its been 5 years and ive gone thru the normal stuff.
i need some suggestions on a unique gift.
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im stuck this year on gifts.
its been 5 years and ive gone thru the normal stuff.
i need some suggestions on a unique gift.
I dunno. You could allways surpise her by taking her to an expensive resturant on the water or something. You could allways do what I do and just ask her what she wants. Tell it will be her day to name what she wants to do. You never know it might be a day at the spa or something and you can chill at the house playing games and she'd love you for it.
I no longer have that problem cos my lass left em for drug related reasons. Treat her to a romantic weekend, always works for me.
been there done that.
www.mortons.com
great place to eat.
did the its your day thing
shes got all the usual shit.
maybe i should buy her some sex toys.
shes never got down with stuff like that and me either.some nurse here said thats what she would like.and a babysitter so they cant hear mommie scream
i dont believe in valentines day, never have never will and refuse to acknowledge the day while in relationships, if the girl wants me to sorry but im not gonna, if its a problem you arnt my type of girl
damn bedake you a like sour grapes
everything that comes out of your mouth
is depressing.you got a lil black raincloud over your head
I've already given my Valentine's gift, because I had to set it up. It was a vanity set, you know, table w/drawer, stool, and three mirrors. That cost $130.
That's pretty lame dude, I mean sure the holiday is kinda lame, but its a chance to show someone you love that you still care.Quote:
Originally Posted by bedake
As for what to get her, I recomend a custom inscribed jewlery box with a nice pair of earrings or something. There is a website that lets you transpose a poem on to the box.
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Originally Posted by friendowl
im not always depressing am i?
hehe my views on valentines day reflect my views on society as a whole, read the book affluenza and branded, both very true about society in america especially. but in actuallity i am a really happy go lucky guy, its just valentines day to me is just a holiday made up by corporations to rake in millions from people who buy into it. think about it, how sweet is the notion of buying flowers for your girlfriend when society expects it of you and it is a social norm. Not sweet at all, its only done because its required practically.
I am a sweet caring boyfriend all the time, my girlfriend doesnt need some special holiday for me to buy her flowers, that to me i think is a more more caring action, being sweet all the time that is
As for the girl not being my type, I like girls to have similar political, and sociological views as myself, i cant stand dating superficial girls that buy into whatever is on tv nothing in common, its like dating a cheer leader. i dont mean to be depressive im sorry and i know valentines day is for saint valentine but .001% of the day really is
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Originally Posted by insanity
refer to my post above, i show my girl i care every day, i dont need some phony corporate greed holiday to make me feel obligated to do so.
i agree with that but dont buy your girl nothing on valentines day and im sure shed get sort of hurt.i just go with the flow.so i can get my hearton
PEARL NECKLACE FOR MY LASS
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Alright, you take shit too seriously bedake. I'm probably getting my girl candy, flowers, and sex. All of the staples of V-day. Why? Because I want to. Otherwise it's like a birthday without cake. And I don't even like cake. Of course I'll stick a huge bud in the flowers, and it'll be super-kinky rough sex, and possibly something weird with the candy. But still ... candy, flowers, and sex. That's just how it is.
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Originally Posted by friendowl
nah she views it the same as me, she doesnt like my views on birthdays tho but ill give in for that, those views arnt very strong
haha so what you were born how does that make you special, so were billions of other people in history, your parents should be the ones celebrating the fact they are able to conceive kids... same with highschool graduation parties wtf man! any dumbass can graduate from highschool come on! in fact you graduated with hundreds of them, unless you are valedictorian you dont deserve a party. if you dropped out you are a moron, unless you had a good reason
its time we started celebrating real achievements, and real heroes. Overcoming heroin addiction, deserves a party, being born does not
not rightquite its not taking things too serious, my views on this are much like your probable views on pot legalization or something, some people oppose abortion, i oppose valentines day just a matter views thats all
what can i say i see things how they really are
A Valentine's Card is good enough.
You could book her a day at a luxury spa, I'd be well impressed if someone bought me that, book her treatments like a facial, massage etc, its thoughtful, not many guys think of things like that.
No flowers, chocolates or teddies yuk, too unoriginal and the easy option out. And sexy underwear is really a gift for both of you.
You could book a hotel away in the countryside which has a swimming pool & sauna and chill there overnight, bring her a champagne breakfast in bed :)
Yeah, I gotta agree with bedake on this one. I get my wife a card on Valentines Day and we treat ourselves to a nice dinner out (without the kid) but that's about it. On the other hand, I do randomly go out and buy her flowers and such for no reason at all other than to let her know I'm thinking of her.Quote:
Originally Posted by bedake
As far as the big picture is concerned "I got you these flowers because it's Tuesday and I was thinking of you" will score you a whole lot more points with your loved one than "I ordered these flowers off the internet because it's Valentines Day and I had to do something"
I thought I'd bought them for myself, but now I know I can include them in my generosity, I guess. Thanks.Quote:
Originally Posted by SensiRide
my heart <3
...but then i kinda figured i need that :p my partner can suck my ballz for valintines.
home made chocolates, flowers, and a chick flick.
the best damn threesome of his life
I surprised her by doing something simple...and spilling my heart to her in a card. Not some little piece of shit card with my name signed, I wrote a nice long thing telling her how much I love her and then I gave her a poem I made for her!
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Originally Posted by STDzRus
I hear girls like it more when you make em a card yourself like that, i made an ex once a card i think it was on her birthday but that doesnt matter, i made her a card of a bunch of stick figures at a rave complete with lazer light show, candy kids, glow sticks and a DJ, you see we both went to our first rave together and were automatically in love with the scene. then on inside i drew a bunch of pictures of things weve experienced togethder she loved it haha then i wrote some stuff in it, dont really remember
A weekend in the Ardennes.. two days of pure bliss & clean forest air, take a break from the city for a while. plus that way we can meet her uncle who doesn't live far away :) commercial crap or not, valentine's a good excuse for a great time.
Nothing. :( I just found out a girl i've liked for a while (who I have become friends with) already has a boyfriend...Oh well, I have an old GF (kinda) from a different state coming to visit in May :)
You gotta really figure out the personality of the person, I mean 5 years...you could even know if it would be "cuter" if you played stupid and forgot and just made a fun day out of it or something. Just dont be stupid, poor, or unprepared I geuss.
I geuss you just have to use your noggin!
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Originally Posted by insanity
The holiday itself is really lame, downright stupid really (I'm not calling participants stupid, just the day).
1. I absoulately HATE this commercial propoganda that tells us "this is your chance to show someone how much you care". it's rediculous to depend on a corporate holiday for your "chance" to show them. if you love somebody, show them you love them, waiting for an artificial date is just silly.
and
2. Valentines day is just a corporate holiday. it's a means of brainwashing society into actually believing that you have to spend tons of money on chocolates and cards and restaraunts and all that crap. that's the only meaning there is to the day, for companies to make money, and I for one am not being sucked in.
fuck that american bullshit.
i'm gonna get my special something a fleshlight.
thank you so much, this is sure to save plenty of my relationships and i like the panties idea alot! well then again at a countryside hotel alot of very good things can happen;)Quote:
Originally Posted by SensiRide
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Originally Posted by mrdevious
w007 another member in the anti valentines day army, that makes 3 in this thread alone
Hey,
I've been too the belgian ardennes several times , very nice woods.
By the way have you got any friends in Ireland ? Ever been to Ireland ?
You ete misschien ein KUL etudiant ? Tres interesting ge bent viel op le internet. si vous wil ikke mit dir mailen , serieux , ben un peu paranoid , capiche ? If you want , you seem to be an interesting person , want to ask some questions about Belgium , travelling , ....
Haha it's not just Americans dear.Quote:
Originally Posted by StOneD.aS.FuK
WHAT IN THE FUCK...ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!Quote:
Originally Posted by widowwhite
:( :confused:Quote:
Originally Posted by Ganj
excuse me for the confusion. what i meant was, WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING TO?Quote:
Originally Posted by STDzRus
LOL...I still think mine is the greatest on the list! *ego*
Halo Harvesthetic,
I've been to the ardennes several times , very nice up ther , the hills and the big woods.U etes ein very bezig little bee op le intranet. I'm new here too , You've been on this site for almost three months and I see you everywhere, very interesting. Ge bent maybe ein KUL student ? Have you Ever been on holiday in Ireland , looks a little bit like the ardennes , well it's the opposite I guess , but Ireland is a bit more beautiful , well that's what I think about the nature in the country...Ich wil gerne parler , mail mit dir , you weet ni op le net , 1 few vraagjes uber Belgien , holidays, vacances . If you want, aub , svp , bitte...ken du James...Sorry , alles ein bisschen schrik , sorry pour la confusion...keep the craic , hope van u quelque chose u horen...get back later this day to see if
'I've got a reply" By the way how come I want to send a private message to the moderator and am not able too ? Looking For Irish friends , I travel many times to Ireland , usually get Ryanair... Bye for now,Hope to hear from you.ikke ben ni zot
yes its sad how other countries try copy america, turn a random day into "valentines" day and expect people to buy fuckin chocolates and flowers jus to show how much you love someone...fuck that.Quote:
Originally Posted by STDzRus
will you be my valentine? LOL ...thats gay.
To me it is just another day, but it's not what I think, it's what society has played into the minds of women.Quote:
Originally Posted by StOneD.aS.FuK
I treat every day like a "valentines" day..I'm a true gentlemen romantic and I treat my lady like a queen, because that's how she deserves to be treated.
But on this day, I treat her even more special, just to let her know I'm thinking about her, on this day.