i posted this in the SEXUALITY boards but no one responded so just read this

ok well i was at my girlfriends house and we were about to fuck but i couldnt get it up. she started suckin my dick and she got it up but i couldnt keep it up. its embarrassing as hell i know half u guys r gonna rag on me about this but maybe ill get some help. and shes coming back over tonight. im worried this is gonna happen again. any help from anyone?

If your stressed about it your fucked, so to speak. Blaze one and see what happens, or imagine she is someone else.

id rather not picture someone else becasue she is THE hottest girl i know. lol

Stop jerking off, if you do.

Thats cool, just relax and good luck, dont get stressed about it tho

i wasnt stressed i was just relly nervous...

It's happened to me as well. But when it happened to me I was drunk as fuck so that was the reason. Maybe your bored with her!! Try bangin a new chick, that will get you up again!:D

well im a virgin so thats not the problem. it was my first attempt

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Originally Posted by johnfcthree

well im a virgin so thats not the problem. it was my first attempt

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That's called "stage fright." Have a few drinks to calm your nerves. :D

maybe your the opposite of the other guy. Get wasted you shouldn't have much trouble then.

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well im a virgin so thats not the problem. it was my first attempt

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well that was probably it. Or you could have just been too tired. If you have time to plan ahead, take a nap, pop some vitamins, drink a bunch of water and have fun :D

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Originally Posted by johnfcthree

ok well i was at my girlfriends house and we were about to fuck but i couldnt get it up. she started suckin my dick and she got it up but i couldnt keep it up. its embarrassing as hell i know half u guys r gonna rag on me about this but maybe ill get some help. and shes coming back over tonight. im worried this is gonna happen again. any help from anyone?

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Its all nerves just relax and don't think of it, just go with the flow. The more ya think about it, the more likely you will go limp, just view it as the most naturual thing possible.

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Originally Posted by activedenial

It's happened to me as well. But when it happened to me I was drunk as fuck so that was the reason. Maybe your bored with her!! Try bangin a new chick, that will get you up again!:D

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Beer dick is the worst :D

You're just nervous man, I bet I'm correct in saying you two haven't been together for very long? Plus the fact that she's the hottest girl you know can't help the nervousness much...don't worry, it probably won't even happen again, but if it does, it's just a matter of time...you just need to get comfortable around her :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by johnfcthree

ok well i was at my girlfriends house and we were about to fuck but i couldnt get it up. she started suckin my dick and she got it up but i couldnt keep it up. its embarrassing as hell i know half u guys r gonna rag on me about this but maybe ill get some help. and shes coming back over tonight. im worried this is gonna happen again. any help from anyone?

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Relax. This happened to me, too. It was the third fuck of the night and I was just dead in the pants. Anyway, it happened the next time too, and the only way to stop it is to forget it. That's the only solution that works.

Appreciate it while its there. Dont worry about anything. Just think "wow, this girl who wants to fuck me" and you'll be fine.

Man, I vaguely remember my first time, and it literally took soooo long to get it up it almost didn't happen. It's just one of those things that you build up in your mind and when it happens it's so surreal that it takes time for your body and mind to sync up. I say mess around with your girl until you're about ready to pop, then take it to the bedroom. But yeah, you're not alone, and once that first time is passed, you'll be a sex machine.

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ok well i was at my girlfriends house and we were about to fuck but i couldnt get it up. she started suckin my dick and she got it up but i couldnt keep it up. its embarrassing as hell i know half u guys r gonna rag on me about this but maybe ill get some help. and shes coming back over tonight. im worried this is gonna happen again. any help from anyone?

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nah don't worry about it, i have that same shit happens sometimes... it can be for any number of reason tho... stress, alcohol/weed/other drugs, not into it, not attracted to her... and the list goes on and oooooooooooon...

more direct to the point...
do you like the chick?
do you find her attractive?
are you new to the sex scene? doesn't nessicarily mean you're a complete virgin.
were you stressed at the time?
were you nervous? (if so was it becasue you didn't want to be embarrased or some other reason.)
were you on any mind-altering substances? (anything from alcohol to hardcore drugs)

wait i missed the post were you said you were a virgin and tha'ts it... cuz it' happened to me when i lost my virginity too... i really liked the girl, thought she was hot as hell... then we were sitting on my bed and she just lunges forward and starts making out with me and one thing leads to another, next th ing i know i can't keep it up, she starts sucking like hell doing EVERYTHING but once it was gone, it was just plain gone.

its all mental

ok guys well she came over tonight i just got back from walkin her home. i just fucked her in my bed. lol i feel so much better now. we were goin for a long time for that bein my first time tho id say about 30-45 minutes

damn dude congratulations!!!!! i bet you have a smile on your face all night and all day tomorrow! glad to hear it went so well, but shit now i want to go laid by the hottest chick i know! but i dont think that will happen!

Good job!!!! I'm proud.

oh yeah and thanks everyone you were all a big help. and yes acid freak you are correct. we have been together for about a week. but she wanted to fuck me and i wanted to fuck her, so we fucked :) :) :) .... so im thinkin of just askin her if maybe we shouldnt consider ourselves dating and just be fuck buddies or sumthin. this a good idea?

no that's a bad idea...

Bad idea! It aint broke, don't go fixin it. ;)

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oh yeah and thanks everyone you were all a big help. and yes acid freak you are correct. we have been together for about a week. but she wanted to fuck me and i wanted to fuck her, so we fucked :) :) :) .... so im thinkin of just askin her if maybe we shouldnt consider ourselves dating and just be fuck buddies or sumthin. this a good idea?

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never ask a girl to be 'fuck buddies' baddd idea

if she wants to just be fuck buddies she will tell you but dont ask

Its cause you were at your girl friend's house and you felt funny?
Maybe you could go to another place and it will stay up???????:confused:

Good job, bro.

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oh yeah and thanks everyone you were all a big help. and yes acid freak you are correct. we have been together for about a week. but she wanted to fuck me and i wanted to fuck her, so we fucked :) :) :) .... so im thinkin of just askin her if maybe we shouldnt consider ourselves dating and just be fuck buddies or sumthin. this a good idea?

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That's a bad idea. Sounds like you got some and now want to explore. Young girls don't usually want to be "fuck buddies".

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well im a virgin so thats not the problem. it was my first attempt

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happend to me the first time i had sex..just dont like think ur gonna have sex..dont plan it or anything, just let it happen.

I had the results of a study on male sexual endurance, but I can't find the proof, right now, give me time, but it said, "Men who go limp on their first sexual experience are 96% more likely to be impotent and sexually inactive by the time they're 32."

well the thing with me was i was hard as shit and wanted to fuck her but she wanted to do it on a night that we planned..i think the fact it was planned fucked me up..if i go impotent by 32 ima shoot myself.

thanks guys. your a big help. when i went to her house it wasnt planned. but when i actually fucked her it was planned. so its like the opposite. hopefully this means i wont go "impotent" by the time im 32 lol. thank you all

simple answer. STOP JACKING OFF!!! Let your man juice build up and the next time she sucks your cock you'll be hard in no time, ready to fuck her brains out. On a more serious note, don't worry about getting hard. Concentrate more on your girlfriend, and make it a goal to please her. Your problem won't matter if you can make her cum.
Peace

yeah if you think about your dick you wont get hard when i new i was getting laid for the first time i was like shaking with excitment and nervousness because the girl wasnt a virgin and i didnt no if i was going to perform well or not

but i was a little drunk so as soon as i started getting into it i eventually forgot about it and i sure didnt last an hour it was probably 10 minutes of sold screwing but i was going slow and trying to do math in my head but i just couldnt believe it was happening

Yah your right i am gonna rag on u well not much but how can u not get a fat boner witht eh hottest chick in the word suckign your dick? do u wank it liek 10 times a day or what jeez