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my girlfriend is saying she is fat and ugly but she is far from it. why is she doing this fishing for complements? cuz i tell her how beautiful she is every day. she is far from far anfd nowhere near ugly. i dont understand this, those of you who know my gf will vouch she is not ugly
i dont know what to say to her, i feel bad, i dont like to see her depressed
Um, I think she's just insecure about her looks.
Reassure her as much as possible that she is, in fact, beautiful.
tell her - does really matter what u look like as long as i'm with u....care for u....love u? (if the L word has been thrown out there already) deep down, do looks really mean anything? -damn i should be a profecional or some shit ( dont say that)
Your girl is insecure because she's never met a guy like you, she's over protective because she doesn't want to lose the best thing that's ever happened to her, she's paranoid and jealous partically due to the weed and partically due to the fact that she thinks every girl wants a piece of you (and most do). She'll explain more to you later, if you ask. Don't worry about it, she'll get over it.
Lol. No she isnt ugly or fat.
Drop me an email Jay and be patient. [email protected]
Are you the infamous Jay!?Quote:
Originally Posted by endo..jay
Babyfacedabortion said her boyfriend (Jay) is a member, but is he you!?
Sorry, I'm just curious.
Old farts opinion: Babyface is right, usually the I'm fat or i'm ugly routine is an unfortunate female response to insecurity. The issue is not always based on the security of looks or a relationship, it sometimes can be far from it, the best thing for this, and yes guys it can hurt, is to talk....talk...talk...don't expect the truth the first time. Remember it is about insecurity... break through that barrier and you'll have a life partner!!! Of course I could be a quack!!
obviously have you been lookin through these forums with your eyes closed?Quote:
Originally Posted by P.E.N.G.U.I.N.
i dont know what you are talking about *shifty eyes*Quote:
Originally Posted by P.E.N.G.U.I.N.
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Oh shit! It all makes sense!
hahaha
I only go between Sexuality and Recreational, so unless it was around there recently, I wouldn't have known.
How would I have managed over a thousand posts?Quote:
Originally Posted by 420purplehaze420
It's all over the sexuality board. -laughs-
DUR DEE DURRR
I'd tell her that if she were fat, or becomes that way, I'd be out the fucking door and belly to belly with the next babe before the sun was down, lol. That ought to shut her up from her whining. Show her the burka wearers' pictures (below) - THOSE women are ugly,lol!Quote:
Originally Posted by endo..jay
As far as "ugly", tell her that the face dosen't matter, because, "It's the body" that's most important. Tell her if she WERE ugly, you wouldn't put a bag over her head - you'd just fuck her doggie-style.
Don't let 'em think that everything's "perfect" - that's the best way to keep them occupied with pleasing you. That includes their cooking. If this sounds "harsh", take a look at countries and cultures where they bind their feet, chop off their clits, make them wear a hood, stone them to death for being unfathful, etc. Now,THAT'S fucked up! :thumbsup:
wow this sounds like me and my girlfriend
tell her if she wasnt pretty ud be nailing her sister
later
o and calling her a moron probably doesnt help the situation, thats my 2 cents tho
just have sex, and after sex say "i wouldnt be nailin ya if you were ugly"
later
The girl's beauty is not on her face but in her boyfriend's eyes :stoned:
Girls who really are fat or ugly never ask that question, tell her that.Quote:
Originally Posted by endo..jay
lolQuote:
Originally Posted by 420purplehaze420
k:thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Ganjasaurusrex
I get this all the time (well use to anyway) just tell her exactly what you think about her, trust me dont put up with her shit.
Jay and baby, did you guys make up yet? How long have you guys been together? Every one has their arguments, and If the love is there, you can talk it out..... just my humble opinion & fight nice Jay :) ie. by that i mean calling her a Moron.
buy her some St.John's Wort
Post her picture ( blue dot the face for security reasons )
then show her all the nice posts she gets
Hi Babyface shoot me a note!
that was sarcasm.....but you knew thatQuote:
Originally Posted by P.E.N.G.U.I.N.
get her off the drug
I dumped my last girlfriend because she was insecure (and completely unreasonable). I got a new and better girlfriend who is secure and quite reasonable. Talking is great.. but many people don't want to talk (even despite trying for three years). My ex did some wacky things to assure herself that I'd stay with her, but ironically it wound up scaring me away.Quote:
Originally Posted by midlifecrisis
instead of talking about your realtionship online with others interrupting your business why dont you tryhaving a real relationship and say what you gotta say to the face