Anyone the only smoker in their relationship?

Ok, because of some legal troubles, my husband no longer smokes or drinks. I am fine with being alcohol-free, but I have made it clear that I cannot, will not give up the ganja.

However I am going to try to be discreet and respectful. Cut back. Not smoke around him. Vaporize or eat the weed instead of smoking to reduce the smell.

It just sucks...I wish he could enjoy with me! Even though, I'm dry right now...no smoke for at least another week or two :( but when I do get it my tolerance will be lower and the buzz will be awesome!

I used to be and it was hellish

My wife had to stop smoking for a while due to her job. I kept smoking but it was hard at first. In the begining I didn't smoke around her at all, but felt bad smoking behind her back. Eventually she was cool with it and we could hang out with me smoking and she was fine.

i just barely got my lady to smoke.
now all i hear is" you got bud "
she has no idea she is blazing 100's of dollars a week.

I've never had this happen. Most girls that don't smoke usually want to change me or ask me not to talk about it around them. I can't really do that since it's something I love to do, so I've never had a relationship with a non-smoker.

i have converted all my non smoking gf's

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Originally Posted by drinksmokesleep

I used to be and it was hellish

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I repeated this mistake a few times too until finally I realized that smoking weed was an absolute requirement. Oh the wasted years..

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Originally Posted by Euphoric

I repeated this mistake a few times too until finally I realized that smoking weed was an absolute requirement. Oh the wasted years..

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i dont care if they smoke i just want them to tolarate it

I smoke, hubby doesn't

I've never been in a relationship where neither of us smoked. A couple of them tried to quit a couple of times to get jobs, but that never worked.

My spousal unit has not indulged for many years (she got seriously catholic about 18 or 20 years ago) and takes a dim view of my hobby. Consequently, I don't do it around her and if she even found out how much money has gone to the herb it just might cause a divorce. Kinda sucks having to hide it but such is life.

Looks like I'm not the only one...maybe we need a support group.

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Originally Posted by bonsaiguy

Looks like I'm not the only one...maybe we need a support group.

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Sounds like they need a support group: "My SO smokes weed and I can't have any Anonymous"

My girlfriend never has and says never will smoke and weve been together for 2 1/2 years. shes tried to change me and it didnt work, now everytime she brings up me quitting i just tell her to fuck off.

I'm all alone in my own world, my girlfriend stopped smoking, almost, a year ago. She wasn't a regular smoker when I met her, but she was with me. We have different perspectives on things, a lot, and we used to, just, smoke Herb and have sex. We still live together now.

well i smoke but my right hand currently does not, does that help i thought not!

Hm, I've dated mostly dealers. I dated a guy who just smoked cigarettes/black+milds but pretended to smoke pot but I found out that he didn't. Now he's a TOTAL POT HEAD DUDDDE.

Not really.

But yea, I've had one relationship that my partner didn't ^^ and we broke up after two weeks. The longest two weeks of my life. I actually wasn't that big into smoking pot until my relationship before this one when he would constantly give me mj and constantly smoke me up. Then I was like, fuck yeah. Haha.

Been with the girlfriend for almost 10 years (lived together for past 18 months) and she has never smoked. Its never really been a problem though.

My drug of choice is pot and hers is alcohol and I don't criticise her and she doesn't criticise me.

Come to think of it, almost all of my friends are with non-smoking partners and they have never had a problem either - except for one, but that was more to do with his other excesses rather than just his almost permanent stoned state.

My better half didn't smoke at the beginning of the relationship but was open to other drugs. I finally got him to and he's become quite the smoker. Before he did I would feel so bad smoking it in front of him. It's nice being a stoner couple.

<3 Tasha

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Originally Posted by onemanwenttomow

Been with the girlfriend for almost 10 years (lived together for past 18 months) and she has never smoked. Its never really been a problem though.

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It's, actually, been easier on me since she quit. :smokin:

I do but my girlfriend doesnt. Weve lived together for over a year. I dont smoke around her and she is always trying to get me to quit. She thinks I have a problem because I smoke everyday. I say Ill leave if she wants because I wont give it up and never will. I love it too much. I think it shouldnt even be an issue. Is it wrong I feel this way?

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Originally Posted by sophiastarchild

Ok, because of some legal troubles, my husband no longer smokes or drinks. I am fine with being alcohol-free, but I have made it clear that I cannot, will not give up the ganja.

However I am going to try to be discreet and respectful. Cut back. Not smoke around him. Vaporize or eat the weed instead of smoking to reduce the smell.

It just sucks...I wish he could enjoy with me! Even though, I'm dry right now...no smoke for at least another week or two :( but when I do get it my tolerance will be lower and the buzz will be awesome!

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When my lil lesbo stopped, it was 2 years of slow winding death...ended up becoming too different to keep it going. Sometimes its the little things that keep you from paying attention to the BIG things :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs

I'm all alone in my own world, my girlfriend stopped smoking, almost, a year ago. She wasn't a regular smoker when I met her, but she was with me. We have different perspectives on things, a lot, and we used to, just, smoke Herb and have sex. We still live together now.

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Yeah I know the feeling, then the slow creeping death begins ^^

I think getting high will become a downer and you will smoke less... You might start feeling guilty... You might find someone to party with...

A person who gets stoned wants to be accepted and wants an equal not a strait person with them...

Skink

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Originally Posted by Skink

I think getting high will become a downer and you will smoke less... You might start feeling guilty... You might find someone to party with...

A person who gets stoned wants to be accepted and wants an equal not a strait person with them...

Skink

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Thanks, now I have something to look forward to!

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Originally Posted by goodweedindeed

I do but my girlfriend doesnt. Weve lived together for over a year. I dont smoke around her and she is always trying to get me to quit. She thinks I have a problem because I smoke everyday. I say Ill leave if she wants because I wont give it up and never will. I love it too much. I think it shouldnt even be an issue. Is it wrong I feel this way?

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thanks to a link in euphoric's sig.. my girlfriend is now more understanding:thumbsup:

my wife hardly smokes, not for her, but this little asian loves yuchy dried fish, not for me. so to her my weed is like that, plus our brains work better together when i'm ablazin':thumbsup: :smokin:

If your other half doesn't smoke and u do, don't be sneaky and if are sneaky don't expect your friends to cover for you. I lost a good friend because his wife jumped on me for him smoking with me. My man knows what I do and it made me mad to have to put up with the wifey. Never saw him again.:rasta:

My honey can't smoke due to his job, but he will take a hit or two when I have some extra good bud. He has his beer so he's fine with it.:) :dance: :stoned:

My girlfriend smokes only once in a great while, while I get lit up every day, but she thinks I am cute when I am high, so it's all good.

i know what u mean,

i broke up with my gf last night.. one reason is we dont have many things in common. she HATES dope...and doesnt smoke tabacco which pissed me off because they are things i love.