anyone here been kicked out of their houe for weed by their parents?
my dad says i have to quit or im gone.
any advice what to say or anything?
thanks
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anyone here been kicked out of their houe for weed by their parents?
my dad says i have to quit or im gone.
any advice what to say or anything?
thanks
It's his house his rules.
sit down and ask his reasoning for it
and bring some good positive info on endo to the table too
i did, i borught alot of good things but he used to be a cop and he cant get around the fact its illegal.
Old school people that never fucked with it won't charge their mind. Like my grandparents for instance. They are old school. All they know is that it's illegal therefore it is bad. They think hippies and shit. I say tell him you are going to stop and just don't go home fucked up and definetly don't smoke in his house because you gotta respect his rules.
yeah thanks
how old are you
My mom caught me twice back in the day, and the last time she said if she catches it in her house again then I'm out. You either gotta be sneaky or dont do it at home...or move out...like I am SOOn.
just keep getting caught until he truthfully tells you why he doesnt like it and tlk bout it
i'm eighteen and my mom threatened to kick me out for smoking weed (getting the dog high), she was just bullshittin' though.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shredfest
it sounds like a bluff to me. they're just trying to intimidate you. Fear is obviously a good motivator for him and this is how he is going to try to manipulate you too.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shredfest
* Try not to get caught being high, getting high. Try not to let them find your weed, pipes, bongs ect. Keep in mind theyre sure to go through your shit to find it so youll need a clever hiding spot.
* Keep a positive attitude. This is simple proof that weed is good for u.
* Make plans to live on your own or with somebody else. Itll take a lot of work so be patient
:D
I was politely asked to leave and made to feel very unwelcome.. but never was I required to leave...
They just made it so it was impossible to live there anymore.
yeah, im almost 17. my friend got kicked out by his parents and hes lookinbg for an apartment with another friend now but ive been acught 4 times now, and im pretty sure its not a bluff. i cant change his mind that weed is not bad for you.
Legally they can't throw you out until you're 18 so shut up lol.
HE WAS A COP HE SHOULD KNOW THAT.
dude just don't get caught if you can't talk to him; my mom sometimes gets pissed off 'cause she doesn't want me to do anything illegal in the house (she doesn't care that I smoke weed though, I don't think). SO don't get high in your house, it's that easy.
I havent got the patience to hide it lol. I started out trying to hide it by doing it very late at night out my bedroom window then I just thought I cant be arsed so I started smoking in my room, she smelt it then found my bong and other parathenalia and just didnt mind.
It doesnt harm anyone, it doesnt effect my studies, it isnt taking over my life. SO she couldnt really do much especially when she went to Amsterdam and smoked there.
Been kicked out by both parents & a landlord.
2 girls I shared a flat with told the landlord I was 'smoking drugs' in the flat and he came round, caught me with a joint in my hand and gave me 30 mins to vacate the flat. I was only 17 and pretty scared (he said he would call the police if I didnt get out) but if it happened now, I wouldnt budge.
I left. Then I came back at like 2 that night for cereal and my parents told me to stay.
i used to get kicked out all the time for smoking weed, caused some major arguments.
in my experience its better 2 discuss it when ur not high,( coz i kept smiling at inapropriate times ) but yeah try 2 stay calm when discussing it and dont exsaserbate it by raising your voice.
Remember it is there house and by doing it infront of there face your kinda rubbing there nose in it.
I was persistant though and just kept doing it like you do. eventually after a few cold nights outside and crashing on a few sofas, i realised its probably better for me and them if i move out. So thats what i did. Now they cant say shit and they have finally accepted that i do what i do. sumtimes they come around mine and try to give me a hard time but now its my house rules, so i blaze 1 up.
yea these things happen all the time to kids these days.
just always remember to have a backup plane if they really do kick you out..
like for example if you where to get kick out, try to keep close to friends and there parents therefore you can stay there for a cuple of days,
after that more then likely your parents well take up back, even if there pisst or not. becase even in the end they can get intruble if your not 18 atm when you got kick out.
My mates mum has said that if she catches him smoking it or growing it etc then hes gonna get thrown out. Quite frankly, I wouldnt let him stay round here if it did happen - I know were like best mates, but its more or less taking over his life. Every single penny he earns goes on weed - Im not saying that going out and enjoying life isnt a bad thing, but when EVERY SINGLE penny you earn goes on Herb, well, thats just going a bit too far. When I eventually get a job, yeah Ill grow a few Lowryders so Ive got a bit of personal, but Ill also pay my parents rent, give them a bit extra for letting me grow + the cost of electricity, buy a kickass PC for my bedroom, one of those nice TFT TV's, get a big Bob Marley/MJ flag and wave it out my window lol, and the thing I want most...
A huge waterfall that takes over the whole of my wall, with changing colours behind it. Thatd be groovy.
yea i should have made a clearer point,
get close to friends that do the same things as you do,
and if they includes spending every penny on weed, then there you go. you got somone that may take you in for a few days
My mom used to fuck with me when I got high more often (yeah, more often lol) and would just lounge around the house and shit, she'd come down and start slapping my cheeks and shit "Manda, you high? you high? you high? huh? huh? huh? ya hungry? huh? huh? you wanna eat? huh? what you doing? huh? huh?" It'd trip me out lol.
Yeah I hate parents when I'm stoned. Anyones parents.......
Lol Babyfaced, my dad does stuff like that. Well, not exactly like that. Mainly he'll come over and fart in my face when Im high.
Buzzkill or what.
lol, thats funnyQuote:
Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion
some parents are different towards their views on their kids smoking. like my mom doesnt want me to, but she cant control me.
haha, ownedQuote:
Mainly he'll come over and fart in my face when Im high.
Buzzkill or what.
I've never encountered this problem. I've always defended my smoking to my parents. I thought my father would flip..but he just kind of ignores it. Both my parents used to smoke.
I would tell you to be strong and clear with what you think is right and wrong, when speaking to your father. Remember that it's his house. He has the final say on what goes on inside it. Respect that as you talk.
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