problems with parents

my mom has found out that i smoked a few times now, and this time she has had it. she has taken my truck, my internet is off (so she thinks, i have another wireless adapter :D ), and worst of all she is totally not letting me get in contact with my best friend ever again because she knows he does it. she has threatened to even tell the school if i dont miraculously change my views on weed and stop doing it. i told her that i would not be changing my mind and i would rather be open with her about it than just tell her what she wants to hear but she will not accept anything but DRUG FREE! so im very pissed and i dont want to have to wait 1.5 years untill im 18 to start seeing my friends again and all, so do you guys have any advice? she thinks pot is the devil and my friend is the spawn of satan for doing it with me and not telling me about how terrible it is. :(

thanks a lot!

Lie.

Ethically it's very wrong, however, I don't see any other way out of it, unless you want to be indepedent. Get a job, and buy your car, insurance, and then you can go out and see your friends.

Tell her that you'll stop, for now, because marijuana's not addictive, like beer and cigarettes.

Tell her to read this http://www.drugpolicy.org/marijuana/factsmyths/

Other then that my mom was the same way. I just proved to her that I was better when I smoked. I told her that If I smoked I could get better grades. My report card came today, and what do you know all A's and B's

don't tell her and don't get caught, I mean really is it that important that she needs to know? or wouldn't it be easier for you to just lie, and not get caught. Its a bitch sneaking around, I know, but you got to look it from the viewpoint that you told her now and took the leap, it backfired, and ure mom is just from that wave of thought, over time she might change her mind, but at the moment she believes in the government propoganda, that is enstilled in her mind since when she was young, change her mind by supplying her with the facts behind all the myths, but thats gonna take a lot of time on ure part to research, and in the end, som1 will only ever believe something in the end if they really want too, and your mom sounds like one of those people who don't want to. The morally right thing to do is stand your ground, cuz weed is just a plant, you can't fuckin believe ppl are so moronic to threaten you for it, then turn around and say its good for you because at the end of the day you're 'harming' ureself, irreparably, even if you can't see it. But in reality, no matter what you know you gotta look at whats really gonna happen, she gonna call the school, which is gonna bring a hole load of shit in to ure life both at home, and then school (can u imagine if ure school calls police?), and then that goes on for the next 1.5 years, and ure gonna be frequently drug tested for which you defineatly can't smoke weed, every fucking slip in ure academic lifestyle will be attributed to that, and yes you are morally right, but what good does it come to?

asta la vista baby...

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Originally Posted by Ep180

Tell her to read this http://www.drugpolicy.org/marijuana/factsmyths/

Other then that my mom was the same way. I just proved to her that I was better when I smoked. I told her that If I smoked I could get better grades. My report card came today, and what do you know all A's and B's

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i printed that off the other day to show to my parents....well i left it lying around so they would read it because then they won't think its just me trying to convince them....its just some info i got...

what would the school do if they found out?
So you cant see your friend at all? no matter what ?

Print off the FAQ from here and just give it to her one day and walk away, leaving her to read it while you get on with whatever the fuck you want to be doing! :D

Make sure you get some fake pee in case she wants you to get a UA.

No joke. The stuff really works.

Just kill her and eat her organs. That will show her! ;)

Nah, I'm kidding man :cool:

I've never been in this situation myself as pot has always been accepted in our family, but there are a few options.

You could lie. That would be unethical, but if you want to do that, you can. Just tell her you don't smoke anymore ;), hide your stash really good, keep one pipe, or pack of papers, and hide them well! Hide your smoking well.

I would say become indepandant and move out, but you sound awfully young and not too many people are going to rent space to a 16yr old. Teenagers have bad reps.. Maybe move in with an older friend who has his own place? I did that when I was 17.

Other than that, maybe try and find some documents online about how virtually harmless MJ is, when it comes to long term effects and damage.

Good luck! :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by terminator

my mom has found out that i smoked a few times now, and this time she has had it. she has taken my truck, my internet is off (so she thinks, i have another wireless adapter :D ), and worst of all she is totally not letting me get in contact with my best friend ever again because she knows he does it. she has threatened to even tell the school if i dont miraculously change my views on weed and stop doing it. i told her that i would not be changing my mind and i would rather be open with her about it than just tell her what she wants to hear but she will not accept anything but DRUG FREE! so im very pissed and i dont want to have to wait 1.5 years untill im 18 to start seeing my friends again and all, so do you guys have any advice? she thinks pot is the devil and my friend is the spawn of satan for doing it with me and not telling me about how terrible it is. :(

thanks a lot!

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Mom pays the bills, mom makes the rules...you lose. If you don't like it move.

punch them in the cock, that ought to do the trick.

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punch them in the cock, that ought to do the trick.

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i offically disagree with this strategy of tackling parent problems.

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punch them in the cock, that ought to do the trick.

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I officialy agree with this statement, put their cocks on a table and headbutt them to a pulp :D

My mum and sister just found I spoke but not much
they can really do I'm 26 and live alone so they have no say .
But as for u hun tell your mum you will stop that way u get to see your mates
then after a few weeks when shes over it start again but dont tell her

Seeya

MissBlinky

my mom knows i smoke, she just doenst like me doin it in the house, i have to go outside everytime i wanna spark one up, usually i take a little cruise or something.

my mom caught me twice last year. She's cool with it now though. She doesn't care about me smoking weed so much. She just doesn't like me doing illegal things or whatever. We had a nice long talk one day when we evacuated from hurricane katrina. She's was telling me about growing up in the 60's and 70's. She even use to grow and then was like "well I guess it's just going to come natural to you since i use to smoke and I don't even know if your father ever quit" (parents are divorced so she wouldn't really know)

Now I live in an apartment while I'm going to college so she can't really do anything anyway, hah.

My parents definitely have their suspicions. My dog was clawing at my jacket last week abd my mom reached in and pulled out my blue bong. She screamed about it for a little while and then shattered it :( . I told her I was holding it for one of my friends and I guess she bought it because it hasn't been brought up since. Needless to say my parents aren't to open minded about the issue. My advice to anyone is to just lie about it, it's not worth making an issue out of.

i'm in the same hole man but i'm only 6 months to college i'm just bakin up when i'm at friends house...and once college hits its gonna be coool runnings with my vaporizer

well i guess i'll just lie to her. i wanted to just get her to live with it and be ok with the fact that i have pretty much made up my mind on what i think about smoking but she will NEVER change her mind. i supppose it will have to wait untill im 18 and out of her house. :(

CANT WAIT FOR COLLEGE! lol if i go to the one i want with my friend we will be partying it up :rasta:

my mom smokes so i cant really say much,but try to do the right things till your 21.

Lie.

You want to get ahead in life? Lie kid... lie.

im 17... almost 18! but i just move out and bought a house in toronto.. its worked out really well :) i just rent out each of the rooms to my friends, and my morgage is almost paid off and iv got an advance on my car insurace :P... i reccomend this to anyone who can afford it.

whats canada like? i live in the US.

i can only offer a little bit of advice as i am tripping bawls on something. i duno. it was in cough syrrrppp or something. ok tell her to educate. go to "www.erowid. com" and shwo her that its not laced with embalming fluid and that its didnt come from the same pocket of a coke dealer. so. um yea. send her to erowid or the other site that makes people smart about drugs.

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Originally Posted by terminator

my mom has found out that i smoked a few times now, and this time she has had it. she has taken my truck, my internet is off (so she thinks, i have another wireless adapter :D ), and worst of all she is totally not letting me get in contact with my best friend ever again because she knows he does it. she has threatened to even tell the school if i dont miraculously change my views on weed and stop doing it. i told her that i would not be changing my mind and i would rather be open with her about it than just tell her what she wants to hear but she will not accept anything but DRUG FREE! so im very pissed and i dont want to have to wait 1.5 years untill im 18 to start seeing my friends again and all, so do you guys have any advice? she thinks pot is the devil and my friend is the spawn of satan for doing it with me and not telling me about how terrible it is. :(

thanks a lot!

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the best advice i can give you is to always follow your gut instinct, but you must remember to think, too.

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she thinks pot is the devil and my friend is the spawn of satan for doing it with me and not telling me about how terrible it is. :(
thanks a lot!

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Lol, thats like my dads opinion on pot. I never stopped even when he threatened to kick me out, and ect. you gotta show them by your actions your not going to stop smoking weed. I have been toking up in my room for like 3 years, and i can keep the smell to a minimum constantly. My rents dont know when i toke.

You gotta get good at toking secretley get a doob tube, and some febreeze.