I give up on my friends...

Remember my post about my friend back from rehab? Well we have really been talking and he's opened my eyes to some shit.Although I'm not quitting weed I'm sick of my social life as of now.The only friends I really have, have nothing on there agenda except smoking weed.They never want to have intelligent conversations, they just wanna smoke and have me make them laugh.

Its getting quite boring actually.None of them have common interests as me, I've only hung out with them sober once and when were at school.So the only thing keeping our "friendship" togeather in marijuana.So fuck IT, and fuck them.

yeah homie i with you on this one.you need to kick it with a new crowd.good luck

Hah, if only it were that easy.To be honest I'm entirely sick of all my peers and there decisions, trends, and drama.I think I'm better off solo, I have more important shit to worry about then who got smashed and licked a donky's dick saturday night.

damn,,keep the old freinds make new ones,, yopu dont have to get rid of your freinds , just invest in more freinds,you can never have enuf freinds and im fucked up now on zicam and a fat bowl,, good luck making new freinds

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by hipEstoner

damn,,keep the old freinds make new ones,, yopu dont have to get rid of your freinds , just invest in more freinds,you can never have enuf freinds and im fucked up now on zicam and a fat bowl,, good luck making new freinds

---

hahaha..I get the feeling you know all about having to make new friends.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Remember my post about my friend back from rehab? Well we have really been talking and he's opened my eyes to some shit.Although I'm not quitting weed I'm sick of my social life as of now.The only friends I really have, have nothing on there agenda except smoking weed.They never want to have intelligent conversations, they just wanna smoke and have me make them laugh.

Its getting quite boring actually.None of them have common interests as me, I've only hung out with them sober once and when were at school.So the only thing keeping our "friendship" togeather in marijuana.So fuck IT, and fuck them.

---

Hon, you can still smoke and not hang out with a bunch of stoners. There are a lot of kids that have conductive lives and still enjoy a smoke now and then. Join some clubs at school, church or temple and meet some new friends. :)

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Hah, if only it were that easy.To be honest I'm entirely sick of all my peers and there decisions, trends, and drama.I think I'm better off solo, I have more important shit to worry about then who got smashed and licked a donky's dick saturday night.

---

fair enough dude it's your decision to make,but remember one thing before u decide to go solo, friends and family are all u really have in the end, just find a good bunch of guys/gals who r into the same shit as you.

peace

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by tootsie roll

Hon, you can still smoke and not hang out with a bunch of stoners. There are a lot of kids that have conductive lives and still enjoy a smoke now and then. Join some clubs at school, church or temple and meet some new friends. :)

---

Thanks for the input, I really respected you reply.Probably cause you called me hon :o .

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

cause you called me hon :o .

---

whores arent we all

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Thanks for the input, I really respected you reply.Probably cause you called me hon :o .

---

Aww.
But for real, if you are bored the way things are now, it's really not gonna get better with the group you're hanging with. I remember how it was and yes, I do have some regrets.
Get out of the rut, find something you like to do, something that makes you happy and new friends will follow. You may be real surprised when you get out there and see that there is a whole other crowd out there that likes to relax with the herb. They just don't make it their first priority. It's your life, make it good, make it something you'll be happy with down the line. :dance:

Well the fact being I live in a small community and everyone knows everyone who smokes weed.And being my town is so god damn boring theres nothing left for teenagers to do except fuck,smoke, and drink.Well then there are the ones invlovled in school activities, no one who smokes weed though.But I am approaching the exit of the rut, because I have had my mind on several things latley, and have not smoke with the group in awhile.Don't plan on it either.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Well the fact being I live in a small community and everyone knows everyone who smokes weed.And being my town is so god damn boring theres nothing left for teenagers to do except fuck,smoke, and drink.Well then there are the ones invlovled in school activities, no one who smokes weed though.But I am approaching the exit of the rut, because I have had my mind on several things latley, and have not smoke with the group in awhile.Don't plan on it either.

---

Wow, sounds exactly like something I would write. Small towns do suck, and I have some friends that are all about getting high and nothing else as well...Only now some of them have turned to that snot to get their kicks. I usually smoke alone a lot of the time, then every now and then I'll smoke with some of the guys, and that's fine really. I don't really dislike them or look down on them b/c all they want to do is smoke. That's their decision, and I'm just happy going to college and moving on with my own life. But hey, I feel yah. Just don't get down b/c good times are never that far away, just dont lose hope.

later man. :pimp:

trainhop your way out of town and meet some nice hobos.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Well the fact being I live in a small community and everyone knows everyone who smokes weed.And being my town is so god damn boring theres nothing left for teenagers to do except fuck,smoke, and drink.Well then there are the ones invlovled in school activities, no one who smokes weed though.But I am approaching the exit of the rut, because I have had my mind on several things latley, and have not smoke with the group in awhile.Don't plan on it either.

---

I live in a town now where if the Senior Class exceeds 60 it's a crowd. lol
I can appreciate your boredom. Keep digging til you find what you're looking for!

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Remember my post about my friend back from rehab? Well we have really been talking and he's opened my eyes to some shit.Although I'm not quitting weed I'm sick of my social life as of now.The only friends I really have, have nothing on there agenda except smoking weed.They never want to have intelligent conversations, they just wanna smoke and have me make them laugh.

Its getting quite boring actually.None of them have common interests as me, I've only hung out with them sober once and when were at school.So the only thing keeping our "friendship" togeather in marijuana.So fuck IT, and fuck them.

---

hey,

I thought I was getting sick of my friends too. Not really sick of them persay, just tired. I was looking forward to entering college and meeting new people that I perhaps could mesh better with.

Once college rolled around, and i hadn't seen my friends for a while (they all go to a different school) I realized how much I had taken them for granted and how much I actually did care for them.

I don't know if you are in the same situation as me, or if your "friends" are just genuinley idiotic but, that's just my personal experince.

Just, before you do anything, make sure you are certain of it.

Oh I am, and thats all these guys are is practically acuaintences.They've never been around my hard times.I used to hang out with some kids then they pissed me off so I said fuck them..those kids were the closest thing I had to GOOD friends.Then I was just pretty much anti-social most of the school year.THen I just started hanging out with these guys since December.THere a good group of guys but they don't have there shit straight.They don't think, they just get high and play video games or play with there myspace's.Its not like we have mutual feelings from the past or anything, alls we did was get high 24/7.Now I have shit that must get done.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Oh I am, and thats all these guys are is practically acuaintences.They've never been around my hard times.I used to hang out with some kids then they pissed me off so I said fuck them..those kids were the closest thing I had to GOOD friends.Then I was just pretty much anti-social most of the school year.THen I just started hanging out with these guys since December.THere a good group of guys but they don't have there shit straight.They don't think, they just get high and play video games or play with there myspace's.Its not like we have mutual feelings from the past or anything, alls we did was get high 24/7.Now I have shit that must get done.

---

yeah, sounds like my college friends, they are essentially smoke buddies. I had three college friends, but seeing as how one dropped out and the other failed out (they honestly blazed WAY to much) i'm only left with one, haha.

Time to make new friends I think. But yeah go fly solo for a bit then. It will help you find yourself and get your shit straight..

i went through that before. i say ditch em. if thats all you have in common with them then they aint your friends.

yea man FUCK THEM!

I had the same problem a few months ago before I moved. My friends and I were getting sick of doing the same shit, and getting kind of sick of eadch other. I find that the best idea is to have abreak from your friends, you may find that after a few months of not hanging out with em you will not mind seeing them so much.

Alsdo, quit weed for like a week and go solo for like a month... quit weed for a month if you can... then aftre a month of no weed and friends, smoke up a big fat fuckin gagger by yourself, and think.... things will become VERY clear.

typos, I know...

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by FeastonThisSHITT

I had the same problem a few months ago before I moved. My friends and I were getting sick of doing the same shit, and getting kind of sick of eadch other. I find that the best idea is to have abreak from your friends, you may find that after a few months of not hanging out with em you will not mind seeing them so much.

Alsdo, quit weed for like a week and go solo for like a month... quit weed for a month if you can... then aftre a month of no weed and friends, smoke up a big fat fuckin gagger by yourself, and think.... things will become VERY clear.

---

this is true. one time my mom went to a physic and she asked about me and my brothers. the physic told her i had a lot of fake friends around me. so she told me that and it just stuck with me. so when i would chill with these people, i would observe a lot. guess what, turns out the physic dude was right. 200% FAKE.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by king kong bong

this is true. one time my mom went to a physic and she asked about me and my brothers. the physic told her i had a lot of fake friends around me. so she told me that and it just stuck with me. so when i would chill with these people, i would observe a lot. guess what, turns out the physic dude was right. 200% FAKE.

---

Yeah thats always an interesting thing to do.Make judgements about these people your considering becomming close with and just observe.After awhile things start to become clear about your peers....I think this is something many people don't try.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Yeah thats always an interesting thing to do.Make judgements about these people your considering becomming close with and just observe.After awhile things start to become clear about your peers....I think this is something many people don't try.

---

yea you would be amazed about what kinda shit goes down. try to listen to everything that is said. if you do this a lot, your ability to read people goes off the charts.