mooching roommate, argh

i dont know what to do about my mooching roommate. every time i get some bud she wants me to smoke her out, and i usually do -- but it's gotten to where she expects me to smoke her out at least twice a week, and she has never reciprocated. i wouldnt mind if she wanted to go in with me on a bag, or match me some bowls, but i cant keep smoking her out. the amount of money i spend on my own pot makes my bank account cry, i dont have the cash to be buying her pot too. i dont want to be a bitch, but how do i let my roomie know that i am not made out of green?

heh, I have the exact same situation with my little brother. he's always in my room and EVERY time I take some weed he keeps begging and begging like I owe it to him, I swear the kid smokes at the very least 1/3 of my stash.

anyway, I just tell him I can't afford to use so much, seems to work best. I mean seriously, if she thinks you're a bitch for not allowing her to smoke all your stuff and never share with you, she's pretty damned self centred.

I agree, be a grown up and tell her how it is. I don't have a problem with telling people to piss off, espically if they are not putting anything in, I'm a man, not the salvation army for pot smokers.

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just tell her its drainin your funds and ask if she could put some in.

i've told her things along the lines of "this is expensive, i cant do this every day, i'm broke,"

mrdevious, that sounds a lot like my roomie. she just keeps begging, even if i've already said no, like i owe it to her. and i always feel bad if i say no.

i'd ask her to kick some in, but she doesnt have a connection of her own. she doesnt buy weed, she just smokes it. she usually knows when i'm going out to buy bud, so she has plenty of opportunity to say "here's $20, do you mind getting me some" or whatever. but she never does.

it's very frustrating.

i'd tell her that she has to start throwing in money or no more weed smoking, plain and simple.

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Originally Posted by Smpthy4TheDevil

i've told her things along the lines of "this is expensive, i cant do this every day, i'm broke,"

mrdevious, that sounds a lot like my roomie. she just keeps begging, even if i've already said no, like i owe it to her. and i always feel bad if i say no.

i'd ask her to kick some in, but she doesnt have a connection of her own. she doesnt buy weed, she just smokes it. she usually knows when i'm going out to buy bud, so she has plenty of opportunity to say "here's $20, do you mind getting me some" or whatever. but she never does.

it's very frustrating.

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GROW SUM FUCKING BALLS ..........i dont care if you are male of female GROW SUM FUCKING BALLz and take care of business

i can't beleive people make threads like this, it's the same as making a thread asking " whats 2+2???"

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Originally Posted by Smpthy4TheDevil

i dont know what to do about my mooching roommate. every time i get some bud she wants me to smoke her out, and i usually do -- but it's gotten to where she expects me to smoke her out at least twice a week, and she has never reciprocated. i wouldnt mind if she wanted to go in with me on a bag, or match me some bowls, but i cant keep smoking her out. the amount of money i spend on my own pot makes my bank account cry, i dont have the cash to be buying her pot too. i dont want to be a bitch, but how do i let my roomie know that i am not made out of green?

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Is she good looking? Maybe, I'll smoke her out once a week.

lol beachguy you always amuse with your post like the one about you being a baseball star was awesome then you were a famous actor your a fucking ladies man dude and chicks dig pussy cats your the mann

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Originally Posted by pabloescobar209

i can't beleive people make threads like this, it's the same as making a thread asking " whats 2+2???"

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It's 4 right?! ;)

Ya, I agree, some of these threads can be worked out in your own head.

Now, I use to have a bumming roomate as well, use to, thank goodness! Anyways, whenever I didn't have enough or it was getting to the point where you are. I told him to stop one day. Be serious about it, put some growl in your voice. I told him I can't afford to smoke him out whenever I light up. This is my weed, from my hard earned money, and if you want some, the least you can do is get some of your own and pitch in. I'm not made of money and I work hard for my green. So if you're going to mooch from me, the least you can do is pitch some in.

Then of course, he said he had no connect. I told him I have plenty of them! Give me some money and I'll get you some.

So simple, and not too harsh.

If all this discussion doesn't work, just smoke it your room without her.

Peace

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Originally Posted by Smpthy4TheDevil

i dont know what to do about my mooching roommate. every time i get some bud she wants me to smoke her out, and i usually do -- but it's gotten to where she expects me to smoke her out at least twice a week, and she has never reciprocated. i wouldnt mind if she wanted to go in with me on a bag, or match me some bowls, but i cant keep smoking her out. the amount of money i spend on my own pot makes my bank account cry, i dont have the cash to be buying her pot too. i dont want to be a bitch, but how do i let my roomie know that i am not made out of green?

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kick this bitch to the curb!!! cmon man stand up for yourself tell her to fuck off and buy her own whats she gonna do about it? unless your growing ..i dont think u arem because of your money probs (we all got em)

cmon man this bitch is bassicly saying in a non direct way u buy weed i smoke it tell her to sucjk cock and fuck off fuckign god damnit shit fuck holy shit hell fuck .....monkey :thumbsup:



no on a seriouse note yeah she is taking the piss outta ya just dont smoke when she is arround or go for a little walk round the block when u wanna smoke u know just do wotever it takes not to give her any when she says like ''you gonna pass that joint or what'' say ''nope''

if she startes any kind of argument back simply inform her if she wants to smoke she needs to buy sumthing to smoke .

youve bought your weed for you to smoke . she is bullying you dont let it happen stand up for your self mate . your be better off after :thumbsup:

Tell her she has to give you a blow job every time you smoke her out.Then beg her for one like she owes you something.

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Originally Posted by Nochowderforyou

It's 4 right?! ;)

Ya, I agree, some of these threads can be worked out in your own head.

Now, I use to have a bumming roomate as well, use to, thank goodness! Anyways, whenever I didn't have enough or it was getting to the point where you are. I told him to stop one day. Be serious about it, put some growl in your voice. I told him I can't afford to smoke him out whenever I light up. This is my weed, from my hard earned money, and if you want some, the least you can do is get some of your own and pitch in. I'm not made of money and I work hard for my green. So if you're going to mooch from me, the least you can do is pitch some in.

Then of course, he said he had no connect. I told him I have plenty of them! Give me some money and I'll get you some.

So simple, and not too harsh.

If all this discussion doesn't work, just smoke it your room without her.

Peace

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yeah what he said :thumbsup: especialy with the put sum growl in your voice i had to tell my own manager at work to fuck off and buy hes own weed.

get this he was buying a 8th from me then the next day at work asking me to skin up lol finaly the old lady at work put it in plain terms for me and i blew up at him preety much saying wot no chowder said to hes mate . i did go a bit far thou i threw a chicken sandwich at him.

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Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Tell her she has to give you a blow job every time you smoke her out.Then beg her for one like she owes you something.

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now thats a win win situation mofo lol nice one :D

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Originally Posted by Smpthy4TheDevil

i've told her things along the lines of "this is expensive, i cant do this every day, i'm broke,"

mrdevious, that sounds a lot like my roomie. she just keeps begging, even if i've already said no, like i owe it to her. and i always feel bad if i say no.

i'd ask her to kick some in, but she doesnt have a connection of her own. she doesnt buy weed, she just smokes it. she usually knows when i'm going out to buy bud, so she has plenty of opportunity to say "here's $20, do you mind getting me some" or whatever. but she never does.

it's very frustrating.

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so when u say u cant afford it she come back begging still ? serious its slap time tell her to fuck off and stop begging like a fucking tramp and if she needs it that bad go suck sumone off the stupid bitch she is taking you for a ride.

when she begs say why do i ahve to tell you twice are you stupid '' no weed for you bitch''

LOL, gratefuldead...

I was a baseball star and Geraldo Rivera did want me to appear on his show. He wanted me to put on a hat and run halfway around the stage. Then two interns and I went back out and the audience had to identify me.

The best part about it was that when I stayed with my sister, I'd smoke the best weed, first thing in the morning.

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Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn

Tell her she has to give you a blow job every time you smoke her out.Then beg her for one like she owes you something.

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too bad shes a girl

point her here

www.smokingwithstyle.com

and if she doesn't go, then print out this page
http://www.smokingwithstyle.com/personaletiquette.htm
hand it to her with the appropriate part highlighted.
I think many folks mooch because they don't realize it is very bad form. If you are smoking but not buying that means you have to wait until it is offered to you. Girly is just new and doesn't even know. Tell her to kick you 20$ next time you go out the door to pick up your stash, if she asks what for, just answer. "you wanted to smoke some right?" Either she gives you $20 (which you can use to get her very own sak) and she gets to smoke out, or she doesn't, and she doesn't. lol

It sucks to be nice sometimes, people run over you.

oh yeah, and fella's...

you need to tone down, she is obviously a nice and generous person so why don't you save the hostility for her roommate, G.W. Bush, people who cut in line and other folks who genuinely deserve it.

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Originally Posted by 187

too bad shes a girl

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What's this about bad girls?

:rasta: :rasta: very sweetly say , "donate $2. two dollars and i can smoke u out. that way she kicks in without spending food $. usually, i can spare 1/2 $dollars. and i'd be happy to.........

lynn

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Originally Posted by Smpthy4TheDevil

i've told her things along the lines of "this is expensive, i cant do this every day, i'm broke,"

mrdevious, that sounds a lot like my roomie. she just keeps begging, even if i've already said no, like i owe it to her. and i always feel bad if i say no.

i'd ask her to kick some in, but she doesnt have a connection of her own. she doesnt buy weed, she just smokes it. she usually knows when i'm going out to buy bud, so she has plenty of opportunity to say "here's $20, do you mind getting me some" or whatever. but she never does.

it's very frustrating.

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Originally Posted by crystal clear pepsi

i dont care if you are male of female GROW SUM FUCKING BALL

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yea erm.....im ...just going to have to disagree right there

nicely "hey if u pitch in 2. dollars i can share this bong with u and smoke u out. if u can't spare the 2 dollars right now call me later and ill hook u up. u don't mind if i toke out now do u?". hopefully she'll get the idean to donate, next time u go get some say to her " can u spare that 2 dollars right now, im going.?"
then again ; what kind of weed does a blonde smoke? dope! good luck, lynn

she's what you call a true scavenger.

Just remind her that she owes ya'.

Kick her in the face. Not too hard to leave any marks, but just enough to let her know whatsup.

If she calls the cops, deny deny deny.

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Originally Posted by Aristotle

Kick her in the face. Not too hard to leave any marks, but just enough to let her know whatsup.

If she calls the cops, deny deny deny.

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Now that's my kinda plan.

next time she says wanna smoke some weed or somthin just be like sure....are you buying this bag? or somthin like that and then see what she says i know how moockin girls can be and its alright every once in awhile but when its happening multiple times a week it starts to get a wee bit ridiculous

Mooching chicks need a wake-up call.

Just tell her this:
"Dear chick, thou art mmmmmoooooching! Thou needst to quit it!" :dance:

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Originally Posted by Lynndog

nicely "hey if u pitch in 2. dollars i can share this bong with u and smoke u out. if u can't spare the 2 dollars right now call me later and ill hook u up. u don't mind if i toke out now do u?". hopefully she'll get the idean to donate, next time u go get some say to her " can u spare that 2 dollars right now, im going.?"
then again ; what kind of weed does a blonde smoke? dope! good luck, lynn

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hmm, this seems to be one of the best suggestions so far -- in addition to the smoker's ettiquette page, thanks for the link ScarlettCrush. i dont know that the website will help much, as my roommate is not new to pot smoking at all, i think she's just perfected her mooching technique.. heh. but "if you pitch in a few bucks i can smoke you out" seems like a good way to go about this without being rude. all this "tell her to give you a blowjob" and "kick her in the face" stuff doesnt exactly mesh well with trying to coexist with someone peacefully.

crystal clear pepsi, i think i'm gonna have to pass on the balls. they just wouldnt look right hangin' off a cooter.

So, you're not taking mine?

I told you I'd get her high, once a week, but, oh well.