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I heard a lot of girls saying they almost never had an orgasm or only few.
and that question came to my head: why?
my ex told me she never had an orgasm before meeting me and i think i only made her come 1 or 2 times. and it happened very often that i was fuckin her for more than 30-45mn.
so whats the secret to make you girls come?
thx!
Lots of clit and gspot action, to be honest. I mean a lot of guys I've been with before my current boyfriend (who is like my fucking sex god) have NEVER gotten me off before because they didn't pay enough attention to my clit...circular motion is usually quickest (vs. up and down or side to side or what ever the fuck some guys come up with) and they would just ram their fingers in and out of me. It's not that easy..."come hither" motion is most popular and will usually atleast tickle the gspot, which is better then nothing! Girls are difficult because we can't just go in and out and in and out yanno? lol
I hope that made sense lol I'm a bit tipsy.
foreplay is the key.[stay away from girls who have been molested ]
way too many issues regarding sex
Because some girl's clits aren't near enough their kitty! The further away it is from there, the harder it is to orgasm. I can't cum through penetration, it just doesn't happen, I think it's like that for a lot of girls.
Aww shit that must suck (no pun intended :rolleyes: ) I just wanted to ask if it wasn't possible for all girls to have multiple orgasms. Guess not. Is it really the majority that can't come easily by penetration? Thought i read somewhere it was a minority. Every girl i've been with did have more then one at some point. (i'm not naïve, nor boasting :s)Quote:
Originally Posted by SensiRide
There is a position in the Sutra that allows the clit to have as much fun as the kitty though not sure what.. Look it up mybe.
Nah it doesn't really bother me to be honest. It would be nice to cum when having sex, but that's what fingers and toys are for :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Harvesthetic
No, its def a majority of woman, I've read that many a time, I think its 60% or something, most girls probably fake it because they feel bad about it and don't want to hurt their partners feelings but whats the point in that.
If you tell a guy you cant cum through penetration he will probably try 10 times harder with you and that's not a bad thing :)
Haha yea but maybe then you've got one of them Duracell bunnys on top of you :) So it is a majority then, guess us dudes 'll have to kick it up a knotch. :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by SensiRide
Here it is :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Musician
It's all in the head. She's gotta wanna cum.
I think if a guy knows how to stimulate a woman Emotionally, Phycologically and Instictevly he can increase sexual tension. Well what happens when she is tense?
Sexual tension is so important. It something that needs to happen again and again for her. It affects everything from frequency of sex to quality of sex.
i have never had a problem making a girl cum in bed..they say practice makes perfect and well i have had alot of practice
Right, guys spend LOTS of time here. Learn this, study this, become an expert at this part of a girl. It's the key.Quote:
Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion
My girl is so sensitive, after paying attention to this area.....I can just blow on it and BINGO, You girls are so lucky......multible orgasm's, what a concept.
I have always wondered, how do you girls EVER get anything done in life with your very own tits to play with? Shit I'd be touchin them ALL the time if I hadem....LOL
lol.....I have no problem getting multiple orgasms.....but not with intercourse....rarely does my man make me cum' with that..I usually resort to my fingers or a toy....but it doesn't bother me......great when I do cum thru' intercourse, but it's rare......my man gets upset, but I don't care......can always take care of myself, if I feel the urge....lol
THATS A TOUGH QUESTION TO ANSWER. MOSTLY CAUSE
A. THE G-SPOT IS DIFFICULT TO REACH
B. THE DUDES CUMS TOO QUICKLY, WE TAKE TIME
C. ITS A COMBO OF G-SPOT, CLITORAL, EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL STIMULATION
D. WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL/SENSORYSEX PERTNERS AND MEN ARE VISUAL/PHYSICAL PARTNERS
E.THE CLITORIS DOESNT ALWAYS GET STIMULATED DURING PENETRATION
F.WE GOTTA BE IN THE MOOD
SOME WOMEN WILL NEVER HAVE ORGASMS, IT DEPENDS MOSTLY ON THE WOMAN. BUT PLEASE KNOW THAT JUST BECAUSE WE DONT ORGASM, DOESNT MEAN WE ARENT ENJOYING IT.. THO, I AM THE TYPE OF PERSON THAT IS CAPABLE OF BIG, MULTIPLE ORGASMS., I GUESS I AM LUCKY.
no need to put caps on
but thx everyone for the answers
but finding the clit isnt the easiest thing damn!
I think she was just orgasming, Musician.
Clits are pretty damn easy to find lol. I mean, while there is a clitoral hood covering it after being slightly stimulated it'll pop out. Silly little clit.
Google "clit" and I'm sure you'll get something :P
Or spread your women's legs and tell her you want to play doctor.
That's kind of kinky/hot anyway.
you just have to remember that all clits arent the same size and not all women are real sensitive in that area...good way to check this is have ur girl put her vibrator on her upper lip the ilttle indent thing under ur nose and if it feels good then her clit is 99% super sensitive so lick away
I wanna vibrator.
You're right Sensi, most women cannot orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone and need to have clitoral stimulation as well. According to Dr Drew, most women don't even experience orgasm until their mid or late 20's. That could be related to the fact that most guys don't care until they are in their mid or late 20's or don't have a clue as to how to go about it. They just hump, dump and run. And most women are not multi orgasmic although it's a bit confusing there because the female orgasm is so much different (biologically speaking) than the male orgasm. It really is a combination of physical, emotional and psychological stimulation. And for gods sake don't be afraid to tell men what you do and do not like.Quote:
Originally Posted by SensiRide
You girls are so complicated.
Lots of good comments here, but this is the best. I can say the same. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by endo..jay
Guys, take your time and get to know your girl. Remember the stove analogy? Girls are electric stoves (takes a while to glow red hot) and men are propane stoves (instant on). Guys, tell your girl not to make you orgasm until after she has had hers ( 3 or 4). Trust me, by the time you have given your girl 3 or 4 earth shattering orgasms, the one she finally gives you is gonna be awesome.
My girl enjoys both clitoral and vaginal orgasms. I love to see her enjoying both and no toys involved. :thumbsup:
yea all women are different. my girlfriend likes to be rubbed but says she is sensitive there, and also says she can only get off on me penetrating her with my fingers.
Multiple orgasims would be fuckin sweet. I cum once and im rdy to hit the old dusty trail and call it a day.
later
Get down there and work through the alphabet with your tongue. Work in capitals, then if you notice your lady friend trembling when you cross a 'T' you have a vague idea where you should be concentrating!!
Find out which letters work best (A is good, and M) then alliterate!
i find "writing" in script works the best lot more loops and curves drives them crazy...mmmmm i must eat pussy now!!!!
BABY WHERE ARE YOU??? i need to lick!
if i was a girl i will never leev my bed room all i nead is my finger and my mini cus u lot dong stop the orgey so u dnt have to stop u dnt no how lucky u are :confused:
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Originally Posted by buchan20
I'd add 'dictionairy' into that list, you know, so the fun was at least ledgible.
Understand and ask your lady what she likes - communicate, don't just assume what worked for an ex (who might have been faking anyways) will work for everyone else you ever meet or sleep with ....
Make sex fun - its not just an act (although sometimes it is, and there can be massively intensive quick-f*cks), blokes have a tendancy to get paranoid about their performance - and pissed off if they don't acheive what is in their minds .... your mind should be used to understand your partner not focus on yer ego...
Bring other stuff to the game - there is always a place for toys, lotions and potions ... but again, don't just bring yer girl home and launch on her with a 14" vibrator (or even a clit-bullet) until you have a level of trust, or are too pissed to care - orgasm requires relaxation....
Anticipation - build some up. I started sending my missus naughty texts this morning, and I KNOW I am having fun tonight - and so does she - the anticipation can be as much part of foreplay as physical contact.....
OH - and remember a womans orgasm can go on for a looooooong time - don't stop at the first sign of chest blushing and vaginal clamping.... change the stimulation ... elongate the experience .... maybe you will find the key to multiple orgasms ....
I sure do they are extremely strong & multiple,,,like ((Inspiration)) said they can go lonnnggg time depends on the female :thumbsup:
I, usually, say, "You can go wherever you want, just don't stick your tongue in my urethra."
lol try and guess who the virgin isQuote:
Originally Posted by Musician
it may not be the EASIEST thing to do but its certainly not hard if your interested google has some neat diagrams but i find first hand experience is best
this is what I think, if a girl has had sex enough so that she cant remember how many times (more than 40 times) and she has never, or she has only cum a few times then it could be a number of things:
1.she hasent yet discovered what really gets her off.
2.she's never really let go of her inhibitions during intercourse.
3.she has a physical problem and should see a doctor.
90% of the time I'd say it's likely to be one of the first two.
i want uQuote:
Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion
ill fight him..if you wish 6 - 1Quote:
Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion
A while back I asked a female friend of mine why alot of girls always complained about never having multiple or even single orgasms for that matter. I found it strange because every girl I had been with I had been able to last longer than her and give her atleast 2 orgasms a night without any problems. I think the main problem with people is they don't pay enough attention to the girl and how she reacts to certain things. I made it kind of a game to find out what the girl likes and if I did something and she responded with a moan or something I would just do it again and then after I found out enough about what she liked just put it all together for a night of fun.
One girl I was with stayed with me for a week one time (I was 15 at the time) and we fucked every night and one night she actually made me stop because she was so exhausted from it that night which really made me feel good about myself but then we just stayed up till like 8a.m. and waited for my dad to leave for work before doing it all over again.
Just my insight into the whole thing.
There are many reasons so if any guys start feeling that maybe it is them then they should read this
http://www.healthyplace.com/Communit...difficulty.asp
I wanna vibrator too:( preferably a pink 1 with the little bunny clit stimulator;) anywho, I don't think its physically possible to make a girl cum from just ramming. There HAS to be clit stimulation involved. I can rarely cum off of just straight sex. But when I do I can mostly cum from "riding" because I'm in control and I can grind how I wanna;) and when weQuote:
Originally Posted by BabyFacedAbortion
I have one almost every day. :)
I think their relationship is through.Quote:
Originally Posted by PureEvil760
These replies are so sweet! :thumbsup:
Oh, and I wanted to add, it's all about the clitoral pattern. ;)
Guys, guys, guys,... hi girls,
I am a little older, maybe a little more experienced, It depends, some times a quickie is good, my wife even asks for them every now and then, BUT
If you have the time, the trick is, to make her cum first. If you get hard, and start humping away you are wasting it. If you start slow by seducing her maybe a little teasing, but you make her cum first. Then you start penetration. You will learn what multiple orgasm is, and so will she (be careful with this one, you will never get rid of her after this so make sure you love herâ?¦ lol). If youâ??re lucky ill teach you how to do a HAT TRICK.
Some one said that she has to WANT TO CUM. I think that is true. We were driving back from Las Vegas, it was dark and my wife and I were listening to the FAINT, and the vibrations from the car, and we were talking about sin city. She was HOT. (She is anyway), but she grabbed her vibrator from her suit case, and she came in less than 1 minute. It was all the talking, music, vibration from the road��in one word the atmosphere.
My 2cents