Friends to get high with...

To be honost I find it really gay to have friends over and shit, because they wanna get high but they don't lay down their money or bud. It wouldn't be so bad if every now and then they through something my way, but I find I'm getting ripped off just because I have an easy source. I mean I sold a gram, give or take 0.8 or 1.2. They're supposed to be my friend, but they never payed me back. Yet they sitll buy more herb and more drink...

So; how do you smoke? Are you the person who 'needs' it every day to help them sleep or aid in back problems and shit. Or are you the person who just wants to "get high" every second. It's annoying as shit if I have a bag, then every second of the day my friends are like "Let's get high, let's keep getting high, let's smoke more..." and it goes on! I mean sure a buzz helps me enjoy myself yes, but smoking yourself retarded, or even to the point were my herb is only crushing my lungs and not getting my 'high' is just plain silly in my eyes.

I dunno what to say/do to my friends. I can't charge my woman because she's poor and she just can't get a job where she is. But I'm thinking that I get a scale together and weigh out a few grams, and charge my friends 10$ to ge thigh with me if they don't have the herb. BEcause for the past few months they never have herb, and they smoke my weed tight out. For fuck sakes last time they were down they cleaned out my shot glass...polished off the weed I had choped. They take hits without permmission! I mean I say "What the fuck man, don't do that!" and they giggle and laugh like some retard man...it's gay. So Suggestions, pointers and what not? I like the person, I don't like the way I'm being treated.

dude, just be a dick about it and dont let them in ur place if u have weed unless they pay and when they piss u off just slap the shit out of them. its ur weed, ur rules...thats wat id do, but i dont have much experience...

Charging was my initial plane, I want took up someone whos broke, it's just the way I think I'm going to roll that joint.

shit that sucks uhhhhh id just tell them get some weed and well talk

trhe same thing is happenin to me, but im 14 so idk, my friends like call me and like invite themselves over theyll be like, hey, we should smoke out and im like alrite, so they comeover, and they like fuckin waste weed so bad, ill know theyre fucking ripped, and theyll just keep going and going, finally i have to end up snatching it outa their damn hands, now to come over they all have to pay 10 bucks, hee hee. make quite a profit actually.

I'm positive now that's what I'll do. I don't wanna lose a great smoking partner, they are a cool person. They just seem to smoke when they don't need to.

My one friend is like that but in no way that extreme... he has no job (but he's too lazy to get one which makes me more mad) he always wants to invite me over when he knows I have a bag. What pisses me off even more is that he always wants to buy like 2 dollars worth of weed from me, and it's so scummy of him because i don't know what 2 dollars of weed is and he always says "I don't know man, that's a bit weak." I just say he can take it or leave it for 2 dollars and he always takes it. It's just annoying to hear that phone ring when I know it's him and he wants to smoke.

^That's a hit from an iron lung around here, or a bowl from a bong.

*sigh* These kinds of stoners are the ones that D.A.R.E. advertise(d?)s against.

^lol

i have a roomate that has it in his head that i'm obligated to bum him cigarettes day after day after day. but with weed we always match so it's fair.

My girlfriend smokes to my most dreaded-dismay. She never minds buming someaway to people who do it for her. Sometimes to people she don't know; becaus eshe knows what it's like to be without it. I say fuck it, their lungs could use the break, but I'm just a narrow minded asshole.

I always have bud, and most of the time some of my friends try and hit me up. I'll give in as long as they hit me back. Some don't, so Im not nice to them anymore as far as smoking em up. People really take shit for granted, and it really pisses me off.

thats why i smoke alone so much. because I know I wouldnt skip town to avoid payin me a couple bucks.

i hate that shit...

ive always thought it to be arrogant and rude when people only call me when they know ive got a bag

i was a jobless bum at one time, but i never was really a freeloader(except from my 'rents...). i would always ask my parents for soda money and save it up to buy bud. then id go smoke up all the people who smoke me up.

sorry to the thread starter but i have real cool friends to get high with only problem is they live out of town only like ten minutes though. we always match bowls with each other and who ever is loading the bowl gets the first hit maybe if you teach your friends about different strands they will learn to appreciate it if they wont match you just hit em up with shwag and shit but me and my friend always got weed because we know the two biggest dealers around mines my cousin and his is his friend just teach them about smoking manners like cornering the bowl or do what we call smatching where we both load half a bowl if all else fails just chill with more experienced tokers

i think all my friends would have a lot of weed too, if they had money. Some of them don't even have jobs, so thats why they are always spending their money on either blow/doses/rolls/weed/beer.

Then when they run out of one of those, its most likely time to hit me up for a smoke up.

Make some rules for your friends.

My friends and I will give each other weed without charge because we don't mind giving it out when we have it and each of us gives each other weed. What's mine is theirs and what's theirs is mine... if it's available. If not then we don't bug each other about it... as we don't really NEED weed like some people do.

Tell your friends that if they want to smoke your weed, they gotta tone it down. How much they are smoking and how often, if they want more then they pay and don't expect them to pay you later, because obviously your friends think it's free. Tell 'em it's not. If they don't tone it down then tell them that it costs fucking money to be smoking all the time and that if you wanna smoke you gotta pay, either that or pay even MORE getting their own weed.

I don't know what else to say... your friends don't sound very cool.

haha well at this point everyone knows and should know that I dont like to be hit up all the time for a smoke up. I dont think rules would do anything besides give them something to make fun of me, which is funny.

My friends are actually cool, it just seems that of late none of them have bud, causing their coolness to droppp. okay, sarcastic, but still.

In your case, I don't think your friends hitting you up for a session or whatever, is bad at all. But if it did get to the point where you'd need to make rules, how is it funny? If they laughed, I'd be pissed. Free-loading bastards. You can't supply them with weed all the time, they'll turn into animalistic weed fiends, bumping your leg everytime they want to smoke up.

I can feel for a lot of you. In about a 2 week time period I had bought over an ounce of bud, and smoked it mainly with my one friend almost all in blunts. Of the six blunts or so that we had, he pitched probably 2-3 grams (each blunt was at least 3.5)He doesn't have a job, but always manages to buy some weed, yet he never wants to throw in on anything. It just kinda sucks because after smoking him out pretty good for a while with him not really throwing in shit, he still won't smoke me out ever, or roll a blunt with just his weed like I did a few times.

Oh well, it just goes to show that some people aren't as generous as others. There's one less person I should be hook up more often, lol.

Also, I'm with you Cas, the same guy who likes to smoke all my weed is also always bumming cigarettes off of me. It doesn't bother me that much because I buy cartons anyways, but its the fact of the matter.

stoners over here seem to follow a set of unspoken rules. i know with my friends, if they dont hav any to smoke, i dont mind sponsoring them for a day or 2 until they get their own bag.

the worst is when someone u dont kno will just come join the smoking circle at partys and stuff, just kinda expecting a hit.
but i cant complain, most ppl who wanna smoke around here hav got tons of their own shit, as its piss easy to get hold of, and dirt cheap.

just get high before your friends come over and stash away all ur alcohol and weed. when they get there just hang out with them, from the sound of it im sure one of your friends is going to ask to smoke and when they happends just say "I'm good" and just lay back and relax:)

T3chyo's idea is what I like to do, toke before the moocher comes and say i'm good, then there's nothing they can do without sounding like an ass. It sucks but good friends can mutate into moochers and forget what a generosity youre giving them all the time.

dude you just gotta be more direct about it, i have people talking to me alot, trying to find reasons to come to my house, they make stuff up like they want to do something else but i know that if they are here theyll make sure to get to it somehow. i dont even smoke with other people, i prefer to be high alone or high with only one person at a time and i only do that about 2 different people i know, plus i dont have people over to my own house to smoke either just because of the smell, i know someones bound to get caught, plus i dont like dumbasses either. if anything ill have a few friends over if i get a nice pouch of coke and we watch movies and talk forawhile but they always will pay me out for what they did usually a little more actually. but i kinda like hosting some people over and just doing shit for them free occasionally but we all do that for each other, but with my girlfriend i dont care she comes over alot she doesnt smoke but well do some coke here and there but i dont care because its her. just be direct to the people if they constantly bum off you, as they taught me in elementary school "Just Say No"

dude, dont be a dick. the ganj is meant to be shared with friends. if you dont want to lose money, smoke alone and shut up your windows. otherwise chill the fuck out and load up the bong. it's not gonna hurt you to smoke up your friends more often than they smoke you up. thats what stoners do. it's in the job description.

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Originally Posted by heatherhatesyou

dude, dont be a dick. the ganj is meant to be shared with friends. if you dont want to lose money, smoke alone and shut up your windows. otherwise chill the fuck out and load up the bong. it's not gonna hurt you to smoke up your friends more often than they smoke you up. thats what stoners do. it's in the job description.

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theres a diffrence between sharing a bit more than your getting and have you friends come over and say LETS SEE HOW MANY BOWLS WE CAN SMOKING IN ! MINUTE LETS THROW IT UP IN THE AIR AND DANCE IN IT LETS SMOKE 3 GRAMS OF SOMEONE ELSES STASH EVERY WEEK! theres a rather bold line

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Originally Posted by heatherhatesyou

dude, dont be a dick. the ganj is meant to be shared with friends. if you dont want to lose money, smoke alone and shut up your windows. otherwise chill the fuck out and load up the bong. it's not gonna hurt you to smoke up your friends more often than they smoke you up. thats what stoners do. it's in the job description.

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dude.....u dont know what ur talking about, i have alot of friends like that, they always expect me to smoke them out, and i do,cuz im nice, but like they neer smoke me out, and its strting to piss me off, i have to say something to them