Am I Sexually Latent?

First off - I'm a 23 year-old straight male who is still a virgin. Being a virgin isn't the part that worries me though. It's the fact that I have no interest in sex. This next statement is the God's honest truth - I have never consciously masturbated. Sure I've had and continue to have occasional wet dreams but I've never been able to jack off. I don't care about porn at all - it bores me to tell the truth. I have had 3 girlfriends while I was in college but the longest relationship only lasted 2 months and I only got to 2nd base.

Is this aversion normal? What, if anything, can I do to change it? My uncle was a virgin at my age and he hired a hooker to break the ice. I'm getting really tempted to do the same, even though I know it's a bad idea. I feel desperate here.

well heres a true stat for you, 1 in every 100 people are A-Sexual - meaning they have no interest in sex, or anything sex related. to be normal, (these days) would mean to have sex, which looks like your goal here. if you ask me, just wait for that someone who "flips your switch" - but not too long.... im sure youve seen the 40 year old virgin by now..

Thanks. I know deep down that I need to wait til I find that special lady, but I did see the movie and it scares me big time. I hate how virgin has almost become a dirty word in today's society

i do believe u could just go find some skank?

Lol theres nothign wrong with that at all, just go to bars and pick up some ladies, not for sex but for a pertential girlfriend. I would rather lose my virginity to the woman i love at 25 then to some slut at 16. (Bit late for that now tho :p)

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Originally Posted by Terpalum

Thanks. I know deep down that I need to wait til I find that special lady, but I did see the movie and it scares me big time. I hate how virgin has almost become a dirty word in today's society

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lol

dude your COOL..
but I got some stuff to tell you...

there is no special lady.. there is no special anything.. or you could say they are all special...

You should definitley not worry.. caus eif you worry.. then you are
1. not getting laid.
2. and being worried about it..

"not getting laid is enough".. don't add "worried"

Have you thought about getting some blood work and checking out your testosterone levels?


YOU are COOL

: )

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Originally Posted by Terpalum

First off - I'm a 23 year-old straight male who is still a virgin. Being a virgin isn't the part that worries me though. It's the fact that I have no interest in sex. This next statement is the God's honest truth - I have never consciously masturbated. Sure I've had and continue to have occasional wet dreams but I've never been able to jack off. I don't care about porn at all - it bores me to tell the truth. I have had 3 girlfriends while I was in college but the longest relationship only lasted 2 months and I only got to 2nd base.

Is this aversion normal? What, if anything, can I do to change it? My uncle was a virgin at my age and he hired a hooker to break the ice. I'm getting really tempted to do the same, even though I know it's a bad idea. I feel desperate here.

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No there isn't wrong with being a virgin.Just be yourself and i'm sure that special someone will be in come into your life. :) :smokin:

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Originally Posted by rollinKansas

i do believe u could just go find some skank?

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Shhh... Grownups are talking. :dance:

My friend,

Go rent the movie "The Tao of Steve"... watch it, study it, learn it, live it.

You'll have a better understanding then... :)

BTW: Nothing wrong with being a 23 yo virgin... Show's you're sure about what you want.

i say just get drunk.

i hate being a virgin, not because i so badly "need" to get laid, but because i find most happiness in pleasing people in what few ways i can...



i need to experiance sex and find out how bad i am lol!



but seriousely, i just want to make someone happy ;) im no good at making people happy by doing work like cleaning the house, or doing dishes, it really brings me down... and the resulting happiness of the others really doesnt outweigh it :( i've been called selfish because of this... :( i dont like people much...


but then people seem to ignore the happyness i do bring them in small things like conversation and ideas... they dont appreciate it, but i get that happyness from their expressions and thoughts...


but lately... people seem to jsut want to trash me :(

what kind of medications are you on? antidepressants are libido killers. have you ever considered the same sex? you might also be lacking testosterone hormone