Im finally going down, but not without a FIGHT!

ive been smoking for a couple years now...quite regulalry, and my mom never really thought it was that big of a deal, and ive had some close calls where ive had to take a break and lay low and shit, but now my mom for some reason wont let me do anything until im clean, i have been grounded for a while (got caught smoking by apt. manager) and i have quit, but she still isnt letting me do anything??? and she says for 5 more wks??!! ok heres my prob, she never cared that much be4, her bf is a drugdealer (im guessing more than just weed 4sure) i know shes got to be occasionally doing somek kind of drug herself right?(shes always sneaking out at night and shit but i nver really cared u ntil she took my privalages away) now im thinking that 5 more weeks is pretty harsh just for getting caught smoking, and i really have agreed toquit, i never really lied to her anyway i told her i did it and shit and she still let me go places and stuff, but yes i must say my smoking life is over atleast for a few months so-im s orry but ill still post my wisdom and advise, but im out, and u guys should really give me advise on how to get out of trouble, cuz this really isnt fair, she likes drugs too(but she wouldnt admit it) HELP! :(

If my mom was goin out with a drug dealer, and most likely doing drugs, and told me to stop smoking and you're grounded for 5 weeks, I would be like fuck this, then i'd ball up a fat blunt, and burn it to my head right in front of her, but my mom doesn't do that, so i don't.....I just burn up on the regular out of the house...

idk about what to do. but i sort of have to deal with shit like that(mom sneaking off to do drugs) my step mom and dad are both huge fucking pot heads. but my step mom hates when i smoke pot. and then theres another thing, my moms ex BF is a huge fucvking pot head. and she hated me smoking weed all the way up until they broke up.

wholey shit 5 more weeks? how long have you been grounded already?? thats incredibly unreasonable, ask her why shes such a hypocrit, when i first got caught smoking by my parents i think i was grounded for 2 weeks, but i only stayed in the house for 2 days because i was caught on a tuesday and that was the weekend of the fair so i just walked out on them(my mom tokes and my dad has a puff off the occasional hash joint so i wasnt going to put up with there hypocritical shit)

my mom smokes like a fiend, and when i got caught i was grounded for tomonths!!!wat bull shit!

ya u guys kinda know what its like, but ive been grounded for a week already so it was 6 total, but yes this is most def hippocritical, but i odnt know what to do

Maybe since she's a fucking loser she doesn't want her son to be one?
wah wah wah

you know what i'd do? (considering i won't take authority from anyone...i wouldn't even take it from police but yea they can call a bunch of cops and hog tie me so resisting is useless) i'd tell her that if she wants you to quit she has to leave her bf or make him stop as well...double standarding is a bitch...and tell her if he refuses to quit then so do you. imo you can't tell someone not to do something unless they themselves are clean from the involvment of the said act...that includes dating someone that does it as well....tell her he sets a bad example for you....and if all else fails i'd roll the fatest ass sweet i could, walk up to her smoking it and blow the smoke in her face....as a sign of you're not going to quit...but that's just me and unless you got the balls to do it full throtle and ready to face consequnces i wouldn't reccomend it for you. my grandma screwed up with me a loooooooong time ago...when i was bout 7 she told me "no one can make you do anything you don't want to do" and i realized that...no one can physically make you do anything....sure if you resist the cops can take you to jail and use extreme force to get you there...but they can't make you comply...

i think tyler kane also has a point, but ur not without urs slipknot, the only prob is thatif i rebel as most would, my mom wont get the point, in her mind shes right no matter what happens or what the cost, ive already brought up all of this and as for her i cant prove she does it its just very odvious, for her bf she says that she never see's him doing it so it doesnt matter, but that is a straight up lie, and for anything else i bring up shell just be a stupid whore and not listen and start bitching again, this really sucks maybe i should just move to my dad's house in new mexico

man i don't know what to tell you, except probably 95% of parents are on so me type of power trip and think what they say goes and nothing their child says matters...i hate that shit....when my son gets older i'm actually going to listen to him...i'm going to care what he thinks, he may not always get what he wants (cuz this some shit that kids do that's just stupid/wreckless/pointless/harmful/whatever else......but i will give him a chance to present his "case" to me and i'll make decisions based on that...only thing i can tell you, is that....sometimes you have to rebel to be heard...talking doesn't always solve everything..sometimes you have to make a stand and make yourself be heard instead of expecting people to listen.

^^ hell yeah ( we think alike slipknotpsycho)

well, she tried picking a fight with me tonight, i wouldnt arguew tih her and she still wouldnt shut up, so i told her how she was unfair and need to shut and she started punching me in the face, so then i said fuck u several times, and walked out, ofcourse she had to act like it didnt matter but then she appologised to me, but that most def wasnt gonna make it better, she def is an immature hippocrit, so i say fuck her,ill do what im already punished for, for the next 6 wks and what ever else i want, and if she doesnt like it,she can get me the fuck out of this house!<sound like a reasonable outcome? :mad:

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Originally Posted by 420purplehaze420

wholey shit 5 more weeks? how long have you been grounded already?? thats incredibly unreasonable, ask her why shes such a hypocrit, when i first got caught smoking by my parents i think i was grounded for 2 weeks, but i only stayed in the house for 2 days because i was caught on a tuesday and that was the weekend of the fair so i just walked out on them(my mom tokes and my dad has a puff off the occasional hash joint so i wasnt going to put up with there hypocritical shit)

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Lol when I was caught smoking I wasn't grounded at all. They actually let me stay home the next day from school lol! It was pretty sweet. Yeah man, if I were you I would try to meet her at the door when she goes on one of those leaving in the middle of the night things that you mentioned she does, and then just question her and say how she does all this shit and how seeing her do that shit reflects back onto you. You know stuff that will push her on the edge.

rollinKansas(got caught smoking by apt. manager) have you thought that maybe mom is pissed because she had her ass chewed by the manager. just a thought

^ i understood that, its the fact she still must argue and fight with me everyday for everylittle thing i do, and the one thing she'll never bringup is how i got caught, its how im a fucking waste of life to her pretty much.

obtw, havnt smoked once today, for the first day in....2-3years

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Originally Posted by rollinKansas

^ i understood that, its the fact she still must argue and fight with me everyday for everylittle thing i do, and the one thing she'll never bringup is how i got caught, its how im a fucking waste of life to her pretty much.

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is it that time of the month for her?i dont know what to tell you.that suck's. i know give her some E :thumbsup: let's fix her right up :thumbsup:

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Originally Posted by rollinKansas

obtw, havnt smoked once today, for the first day in....2-3years

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i quit for a month every now and then. but i choose too! it's good for you to quit for a few weeks clean out your system. just do some E till you can smoke :thumbsup:

well you know what i would have done (and i highly dont' suggest doing this because it WILL result in you being taken through alot of legal shit and her walking away basicly) i would of punched her back...i don't give a fuck who they are...no one is going to hit me and get away with it....that's about the only time i set karma aside and take matters into my own hands...once abuse starts and it goes un-fought against it just continues and continues....fortunately, no one that i've been close to has ever hit me (other than my brother but who hasn't fought with their brother/sis from time to time?) i have a really laid back attitude and can take alot of shit, but when you put your hands on me it's fuckin over all hell is going to break loose and i'm not going to stop til one of us is laying on the ground profusely bleeding. only thing is i don't pick fights and try to avoid them at all costs....because i'm either gonna be in the hospital, or it's going to be the other person in there.

my dad hit me cuz of some shit i started with mah sis and i was so stunned i didnt know what to do.

i havent been caught smoking yet, but i have been grounded on and off for the past 5 years....... so i know what grounding is like. if you just go with it you'll find loop-holes and chances to do stuff every once and a while. as long as my parents provide for me im not gunna rebel but i do voice myself alot. and dont forget shes female so it wont go away until you do something dramatic to please her. (or she feels sorry for you)

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Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho

well you know what i would have done (and i highly dont' suggest doing this because it WILL result in you being taken through alot of legal shit and her walking away basicly) i would of punched her back...i don't give a fuck who they are...no one is going to hit me and get away with it....that's about the only time i set karma aside and take matters into my own hands...once abuse starts and it goes un-fought against it just continues and continues....fortunately, no one that i've been close to has ever hit me (other than my brother but who hasn't fought with their brother/sis from time to time?) i have a really laid back attitude and can take alot of shit, but when you put your hands on me it's fuckin over all hell is going to break loose and i'm not going to stop til one of us is laying on the ground profusely bleeding. only thing is i don't pick fights and try to avoid them at all costs....because i'm either gonna be in the hospital, or it's going to be the other person in there.

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Fuck yeah that waht I'm talking about but the only thing is I used to be like that all the time. Only prob was I got my ass kicked alot cause i wasnt very strong . For ex my dad used to "wrestle" me meaning he basicly beat me up and laughed and i laughed and blah. But every now and then we'd have REAL fights and of course i'd always lose. But last year I finally won. I'd been in weight lifting class for 2 years in a row and he starts yelling and pushing me around and shit because i dyed my hair blue without asking him (he woulda said no) and so he flips out and so i just grabed him and pushed him up against a wall and held him there and then he gave up and i left for a few weeks and lived with some other people. it sucked because i love and respect my father but sometimes he pisses me off.
he did drugs alot more than me back when he was 17 and now he doesnt want me to have anything to do with drugs even though i know what they do now and i see why he didnt want me to see what drugs are like.