Need a lil help itz a lil lengthy!

All right so I hooked up with this guy a couple of weekends ago and started messing around but we were both to fucked up so we gave up!!! He ended up leaving a hickey which i tought was a bite mark on me (pizzed me off cuz then I aint got no plausible deniablity since he marked me) (later cam to find out he did it on purpose cuz I don't condon leaving marks) I am very personal about who and what I am doing not even my closest friends know! I cant help it itz the only thing I got to myself! Anywayz I caught enuf shit from everyone thinking we fucked cuz of the mark so I figured everyone already thinks it so I am gonna know!

He gots a g/f from outta town and he shares a 3 bed room house with another guy and girl and him and the chick he lives with are messing round it don't bother me (she aint my friend) so newayz here my dilemma!

I am pretty sure he wants to have another go with me cuz he woke up the next day and kept asking me when i am gonna be back in town and what not but

1. What should I do if the chick he lives with is there when I want to go and have at it?

2. I want to give him head but I want to be causual about it and surprise him and the only way i could think of doing this would be to just take control once I get him alone and push him down on the bed and unzip his pants!
What do you think NEone else got ne scenarios??
Also any tips about giving great head would be appreciated?
(like fav thing a gurls does for you)

3. Do you think he would mind if i kissed him after giving him head?
(i do plan on swallowing)

4. this one is the hardest I would like to get it done in his bedroom but if that gurl is home do you think I should? I know my friends will be there and they will most likely be trying to peek in I dunno if i want to take the risk and get caught in action or not?

The whole problem is that I keep everything I do one the DL me gettin marked is my one and only mistake. Also my friends have many a time wanted to catch me doing nething I have never even kissed any one in front of them
so its kinda became a game not to get caught and i would like to keep it that way! And I cant ask them this cuz theylll know sumtin is up then! Any help will be greatly appreciated!

PS We will probably be greatly intoxicated,high, or rollin from x, any combination of theses is a likely scenario!

1. just act like ur a friend from work, but if she looks weak, then u can kick her ass. jp, just book it

2. thats exactly what u do. he'll love it.

3. personally, i dont mind kissing a chick after she gives me head, but he might, idk

4. idk, make sure theres a lock on the doors, or go to someones car

Brush your teeth after you give him head

LOL it pissed you off that he left a hickey because then you dont have "plausible deniabilty"? What, were you planning to frame the guy for rape?

No but having plasible deniablity is good to have that way if need be It could all be denied but you cant deny it if you got marks!
GOOD REASONS TO DENY:
one guys will always say well I heard about you and so and so so y not me?
some bitch always get pizzed off and wants to try to throw an ass whippin!
and lets face it when i drink just about all guys look good to me!
most time we both got other ppl on the side it just helps to deny that way conflict don't arise!

Ive never heard of this theory. I would never sleep with someone that I would be ashamed to admit sleeping with.

Definitely take control of the situation. If you want to just throw him on the bed and have at it, forgetting all the foreplay, he certainly won't mind. My rec? Make sure the other girl's not home, and make out with him. Lock the door, and take your time with teh whole thing. Anticipation just heightens the experience.

definitly just get a b/f and stop cheating his g/f

and whats the prob with that mark thing. i agree with powair, i would sleep with sum1 that would be ashamed to admit she slept with me..

whipcreamgoddess... I'm sorry, I'm laughing so hard to myself as I read this thread. I'm just so glad that my social circles don't resemble yours. You sound like such a skank. Realise I got nothing but love for you as a human being, but holy shit...

I apologize, I just had to say it.

hes obvioulsy getting with a bunch of gils your gonna get the germ!!

he thinks he gots a bunch but hes only slept with two! As far as my social I did the whole b/f thing. Hes in Iraq fighting we decided to be friends! I just want to have sum fun notting serious. It aint bout shame my friends just give me shit about it cuz they are alwayz like you can do better y himm and all that!!! they way if I say it didn't happen then I won't catch the bullshit! Plus i think i shouldn't have gave them so much BS cuz paybacks a B^%$H!!!!!!
Were all goin camping so it outta be fun!!!!!