Need advice, parents!

My parents are soooooo strict! I can go out but they have to know exactly where I am, which is a bit hard when your 16 and trying to get into a club. They aren't the worst parents I could have or anything, its just really frustrating! Last week they found a couple bottles of vodka on me and my friends and totally freaked!!! Now if Im sleeping out they have to ring the persons parents and meet them and they want to know exactly what I'm buying. They have never done weed or anything for that matter so I know that if they found out that I smoke weed they would go crazy. I feel so guilty and am contemplating giving up because of them, its really hard to find a good hiding place, and to think of reasons for random £20's going missing. Any advice on not getting caught or what I should do?

Opression man..sneak out.

aw man, im the same way, but not as strict. what i do, is say mom, im riding my bike downtown for lunch wiht sio and so, pick up my herb, coem home, leave it in an airtight bottle in teh bushes when i can sneak out and get it in the middle of the night and hide it in my room. that way, you sucessfully have an excuse for the money, and a temporary hiding place. as for otehr hiding places, if you have trouble finding one, put ur sac in a ziploc back, wrapped in lke 5 dryer sheets, then tape the whole thing under ur dresser or hide it in ur matress or soemthing...thats what i do, wish i could be of more help, parents are tough sometimes. peace

If you're 16, you should easily be able to get a job. Spend your money, not your parents and if they wonder where it goes tell them to fuck off because its your money. Also, if you arn't going to do that but still are thinking about the job, just say you spend it on food when you go out, drinks, you loaned a friend money, movie theater, lunch at work, lunch at school, etc etc.

Try to get a locked drawer or cabinet in your room and keep your stuff in there. Keep visine on you, too.

Just remember this, you're your own person and even though they are your parents, they're not your master. If you enjoy smoking weed don't let their incompetence and ignorance overrule your fun. Smoking weed, or rather having fun is perfectly normal. Obviously they're doing that to protect you from the harsh world, they worry about you, blah blah blah... but if they really care then they'll let you have a little fun. Just don't be a retard and spend all your money, or go and get arrested. Be smart about it.

May as well tell them, they're gonna find out sooner or later.

you know ur parents better than us...

just get together with your buddies and build a shack near someones house but not to close and so when yo go to there house you can go to the shack and smoke. and for the money thing, i went thru the same thing but if they dont see you take it then you never did it and they cant say shit to you and if they do raise hell and say someone at work could have took it or something.

For your hiding issue: one word, ALTOIDS

ya.. i just got busted. my parents were just like :dont do it again, you wont get into college". i still smoke, but now i cant spend the night at people's houses so i have to be more careful. never come home to stoned(dont take 10 2-foot bong rips if you have to go home in a couple of hours.. hehe) and always have visene. hide it in the back of your ps2 and put it in the closet. and, if you want money, tell your parents that lunch costs 2.25 or sumthin. usually my parents just give me a 5.

^ HA!

"Don't do it again, you won't get into college."

That's fucking hilarious.

Show them you can be responsible with your partying, that is only if they find out (dont tell them :p).

I have parents like that and I've been smoking for like 2 years.
Some tips:

1: If they ask about money the best excuse is to say you spent it on food/paying friends back because you wont have to produce hard evidence if you lie and say you got a new cd ect also getting a job is good too.

2: Your parents asking where you are isn't that big of a deal, you have a few choices
1: lie and say you went somewhere you really didn't
2: Just tell them the truth; often I'll go somewhere to smoke like the park and Ill tell my parents I'm going to the park with my friends, after all its not like they are going to follow me.
3: you can also tell a half-truth of some kind (be creative).

The best thing you can do after getting high before coming home is to just not come home until your sober, otherwise if u absolutely have to be home while your high bring clear eyes, Axe and pray to god.

Often I sneak out to smoke after my parents are in bed I find it works great and you have the whole house to yourself, here are just some tips:
1:Make sure your parents are asleep obviously
2: If your parents are gay and make a habit of randomly getting up at one in the morning to check on you then sneaking out is a bad idea.
3:dont go too far away from your house
4:dont be loud

Hiding my weed has never been that hard because I'm into Legos so I have boxes upon boxes of legos that my parents know better then to touch so I just hide it among my legos.

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Originally Posted by lizka4200

you know ur parents better than us...

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well said... i agree, you know your parents better than anyone else so only you can figure out the rite thing to do...

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Originally Posted by jfoster

you want money, tell your parents that lunch costs 2.25 or sumthin. usually my parents just give me a 5.

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Haha, thats funny because i told my parents lunch was 3.50 and they beleived it
$1 soda
$1 fries
$1.50 burger
and i always steal my food from lunch :-P
been doing that for two years, only got busted twice so it works.

tell them that if weed isnt alowed in there house then u arent alowed in there house. but get a job, and if they ask how much monie u get on your pay checks, tell them its none of there bussiness. cuz its not... and to the ppls that said there parents said " u cant go to colledge if u smoke weed, thats a crock of shit, look at how many ppls in colledge and high school smoke weed, and they do just fine, i mean ive got a friend that smokes crack and weed almost everyday, and shes like 13 in the 9th grade, and is doing 11th and 12th grade work, shit like calculis,

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Originally Posted by partyguy420

tell them that if weed isnt alowed in there house then u arent alowed in there house. but get a job, and if they ask how much monie u get on your pay checks, tell them its none of there bussiness. cuz its not... and to the ppls that said there parents said " u cant go to colledge if u smoke weed, thats a crock of shit, look at how many ppls in colledge and high school smoke weed, and they do just fine, i mean ive got a friend that smokes crack and weed almost everyday, and shes like 13 in the 9th grade, and is doing 11th and 12th grade work, shit like calculis,

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1. my parents told me weed wasn't allowed in their house and that's why i have to move out of it in a month or two. bad idea causing unneccessary problems.
2. everyone knows the college thing is a crock of shit, no one actually agreed with them.